School Of Attraction Podcast
Episodes
The Misunderstood Art of Finding The Right Long Term Partner
15 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the School of Attraction, Damien Deaker sits down with international best-selling author and relationship coach Michelle Hoffman to...
Healing Sexual Shame and Becoming A Better Lover
02 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the School of Attraction, Damien Deaker sits down with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers—a licensed psychotherapist, researcher, and best...
When Science Meets Ideology: A Geochemist Dismantles Feminist Critiques of Evolutionary Psychology
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a volcanologist and geochemist applies rigorous scientific standards to feminist theory and evolutionary psychology? You get one of ...
Deconstructing the Red Pill: A Nuanced Take on Hypergamy, Dating Markets, and Modern Masculinity
22 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Tim Wienecke returns to the School of Attraction podcast for a fascinating deep-dive into red pill philosophy and manosphere ideas. Rather than dismis...
Dating in Thailand, Apps vs. Cold Approaching, and the Future of Modern Relationships
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the School of Attraction podcast, Damien reconnects with Chris Manak, a long-time dating coach and friend, to explore the evolving ...
Inside the Sugar Dating World: Myths, Money & Modern Relationships
22 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with Marcus, host of Secrets of a Sugar Daddy, for a candid deep dive into the s...
Modern Masculinity: Healthy Strength vs. Toxic Myths With Tim Wienecke
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does it really mean to be masculine in today’s world? In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien is joined by returning guest ...
Dating in the Digital Age: Why Modern Men Are Struggling (and How to Break Free)
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the School of Attraction Podcast, Damien sits down with head coach Denny Jones to unpack how the dating landscape has radically cha...
How Modern Victim Mentality Is Destroy Men's Sucess In Dating - Ryan Dixon
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dating coach Ryan Dixon has noticed a drastic change in the mindsets of men over his 13 year coaching career. And this mindset is making it ever h...
The Curse Of Social Media On Modern Dating - Hayley Quinn
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is social media doing to modern dating trends? How is it hurting women just as badly as it hurts men? Where do we go as a society moving forward...
Developing Healthy Masculinity And Recovering From Dating Trauma - Timothy Wienecke
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Men's councillor discusses the path to self-confidence and a strong sense of masculine identity. Why are men suffering so much in the current c...
The Best Dating Coach You Haven’t Used (Yet) | ChatGPT vs Human Coach
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Could a chatbot actually help you get better with women? As a professional dating coach, I was skeptical too… so I put ChatGPT to the test.In this ...
Complete Roadmap To Attracting Women - From Start To Finish
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get a top - down view of the complete attraction process from approaching a woman to getting her number, to asking her home. What are all the points ...
Flip Her Attraction Switch: The Underrated Power of Rapport
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I’m going to reveal a little-known but powerful method to activate a woman’s “attraction switch” that most guys completely ignore. Forget the ...
From 1 Date A Year To 4 Dates A Week (With No Cold Approaching)
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How can a completely average man learn to go from going on 1 date a year to going on 4 or more dates a week? This funnel plus multipliers strategy ca...
How To Level Up With Women Fast - Starting Today
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Want to level up with women FAST? If I lost all my social skills today, these are the EXACT steps I’d take to dominate dating—no sleaze, no BS. ...
Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial in...
The Toxic Side Of Feminism - Ruining It For Everyone
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I explored feminist reddit groups to try and work out why so many men are feeling negative about the movement. I was shocked to find so much negativ...
Why Do Women Cheat? Here Are The Biggest Red Flags
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Being cheated on by a woman is one of the most painful experiences we can go through in a relationship. I'm going to give you a list of the mos...
Iron John & the Wild Man Within: What Modern Men Are Missing
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful and misunderstood books ever written about masculinity — Iron John by Robert Bly.Whether you&...
A Female Dating Coach's Perspective - How To Approach Women?
27 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful and no-fluff episode, Damien sits down with world-renowned relationship expert Susan Winter to dismantle the outdated myths holding m...
How To Approach A Woman In A Bar - All Scenarios Covered
20 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how to approach women at night in a bar in a variety of situations. What do you say when you first approach a woman? What's the difference...
CONFIDENCE FAIL! 5 Myths You Need to Stop Believing
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are common myths about self-confidence holding you back? I'll dive into the top 5 misconceptions about self-confidence that are making it harder...
Self-Perception vs Reality: What Holds Men Back
13 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this video, we dive deep into the hidden ways self-perception shapes your dating life and how it impacts your success with women. Many men unknowin...
Why Men Rage Quit Dating: The 3 Barriers Holding You Back
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do so many men rage quit the dating game? In this video, we dive into the 3 biggest psychological and emotional barriers that hold men back from ...
How To Stop Getting Instantly Rejected By Women
06 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Struggling with instant rejection when approaching women? You’re not alone. Many guys feel like women are dismissive or unfriendly during initial in...
The Ultimate Tinder Strategy for 2025: 3 Steps to Win Big
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
3 steps to getting more matches on Tinder even in 2025 when competition is stronger than ever before. I'll show you the exact steps I take to ge...
The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men
30 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🔥 Welcome to a no-holds-barred exploration of dating and attraction! This video, "The Ugly Truth - Dating And Attraction For Men," dives ...
Should Men Avoid Marriage? The Statistical Evidence
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is it adviseable that men get married? Or has marriage become a lot more trouble than it's worth? How do men and women fair in divorce? How do w...
How To Sexually Flirt With Women (With Examples)
23 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most men really struggle to bring sexuality into their flirting, they end up being too nice and too sweet, but that just isn't sexy for women. I...
How I Beat Panic And Anxiety When Nothing Else Worked
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Dive deep into a personal tale of transformation, resilience, and unexpected solutions that led me from the depths of daily panic attacks to a life of...
5 Steps To Build Confidence As An Introvert
16 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Designed specifically for introverts looking to boost their social confidence and navigate social settings with ease. Whether you're struggling w...
The Dark Side of Seeking Empowerment: Men, Red Pill, and Mental Health
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Delve deep into the world where many men, feeling victimized and disenfranchised, turn to the Red Pill and Manosphere. We examine how these movements,...
The Surprising Reason Smart Men Struggle With Women
09 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you a smart, intellectual man who finds the dating scene baffling? Today we delve into the unexpected challenges that intelligent men face in the...
Style Hacks from a Nobel Laureate: Heuristic Attraction 🔥
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to a unique exploration of style, psychology, and attraction! In this enlightening episode, we dive into the groundbreaking work of Nobel Pri...
What 100,000+ Personality Test Results Taught Me About My Clients
02 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
After analyzing over 100,000 personality test results, including the Big 5 and the 16 Personality Factor (16PF), I've uncovered intriguing patter...
The Quiet Charm: How To Be Introverted and Successful with Women
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you an introvert looking for effective dating advice? In "The Quiet Charm," I explain why I love being an introvert on the dating scen...
Women’s Sexual Liberation - Empowerment Or Social Erosion?
23 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this candid discussion, I navigate the complexities surrounding women's sexual liberation and its impact on society and dating life. Join me ...
6 Red Flags When Meeting Women In Bars/Clubs
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Trying to pick up women in bars and clubs is always difficult, but there are 6 very specific red flags you should be looking out for, and if girls do ...
Flake-Proofing Your Profile: Client's Tinder Hack Revealed
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this groundbreaking episode, discover the ultimate solution to flakey Tinder dates! I'll share the secrets of a client who made a simple twea...
11 Signs A Girl Likes You
09 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you struggling to figure out whether a girl you're interested in actually likes you? In this episode, we're going to unveil 11 unmistak...
Reframe Your Mindset: How to Be More Attractive to Women
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the world of self-perception and dating success. Discover the transformative power of reframing your mi...
Passport Bros: A Valid Solution To A Real Problem?
02 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Passport bros has become a popular idea on YouTube and tiktok with men electing to travel overseas to meet women who are more traditional and acceptin...
Why 90% Of Men Struggle To Build Attraction
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Let's delve into a fascinating truth about modern masculinity. Discover why most men unknowingly shy away from embracing their true power, result...
Tinder VS ChatGPT: Testing AI-Powered Openers
26 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join me on a fascinating experiment as I unleash the power of ChatGPT, an advanced AI language model, on the world of online dating. In this video, I ...
Long Term Partner Green Flags - Choosing The Perfect Mate
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What are the green flags you should seek out in a potential long-term relationship? A great partner can make your life amazing, but the wrong partne...
Should Men Care About Women's Body Count? - Let's Analyse The Data
19 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I'm going on a deep analytical dive into female promiscuity and its effects on future pair bonding behaviours - most notably marital happiness an...
Is Dating Easier For Men Or Women?
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do women have it better than men when it comes to dating?We know that men struggle more to meet women in the first place, but women often struggle mor...
I Did A Tantra Workshop - Things Got Spicy 🌶 🌶
12 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
I've heard my friends talking about tantric sex and tantra workshops for a long time, and It wasn't until last weekend that I finally decide...
Do Age Gap Relationships Work?
09 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We've all seen women try to shame men who date much younger females, but is this all just sour grapes? Or is there a valid reason women often see...
4 Truths To Leading An Uncommon and Extraordinary Life - Terry Tucker
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to live an extraordinary life? How can we overcome the endless stream of massive obstacles that life can throw in our path? Motiv...
Taking Back Our Masculinity - Andre Paradis
29 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What is masculinity in a world where men increasingly feel like they're under attack, and the "Boss B!tch" is an archetype women are st...
Man's Need For Intimate Connection For Mental Health - Simon Rinne
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Australian men's mental health practitioner talks about the critical need men have for connection and open communication with each other. We dis...
A Female Dating Coach Perspective - Biggest Mistakes Men And Women Make - Laurie Gerber
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What are the biggest mistakes men and women make when trying to meet and date each other? I speak with Laurie Gerber, a female dating coach who&ap...
Attachment Styles And The Power Of Psychedelic Assisted Therapy - Thomas Westenholz
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
I talk with the host of "Exploring Humanity" Podcast who is a therapist that specialises in resolving attachment styles and psychedelic assi...
3 Steps For Men To Enter Their Masculine - GS Youngblood
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Men's Work Coach and author of "The Masculine In Relationship" - GS Youngblood discusses with me the 3 phases men need to work on to ...
The Importance of Deep Social Connections To Mental Health - Florance Ann Romano
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Florence Ann Romano - the author of "Build Your Village" talks about the critical importance of having a healthy series of emotionally ful...
How To Make Her First Time In Bed With You Amazing - With Leah Piper
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Tantra and Sex coach, and co-host of the "sex reimagined" podcast - Leah Piper talks to me about getting women aroused, creating an incredib...
How To Increase Your Testosterone - Interview With Nick Soulias
03 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I interview online men's fitness and health consultant Nick Soulias about how men can identify and increase low testosterone levels leading to mo...
Do Women Hold All The Power When You Approach Them?
20 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you approach a cute girl in a bar, at a house party, or out during the day? You'd be forgiven for thinking women hold all the power in dat...
7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension With A Woman
13 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
So you've been flirting with a girl at a bar or house party, but you want to know how to start creating some sexual tension and really get her cr...
Sexual Esclation Vs Sexual Tension - A Mistake Many Guys Make
06 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you know what the difference is between sexual tension and sexual esclation? I get men contacting me every week asking me how to sexually escal...
How Bad Are Racial Dating Preferences? - A Critique Of The ‘OK Cupid’ Statistics
27 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How bad is racism when you're dating? OK Cupid released some shocking statistics a few years ago, which have led many men and women to presume...
No Luck Online Dating? Here’s A Completely Novel Approach
20 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Online dating can be really frustrating - it doesn't matter whether you use Tinder or Bumble or Hinge or any of the other competitors out there -...
Why One Night Stands Are A BAD Casual Sex Strategy
13 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Whenever most guys think about getting casual sex, they often think about trying to get one-night stands - They picture going to a bar, finding a cute...
Should You Be More Masculine To Attract Women?
06 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I often hear guys wanting to learn how to be more masculine, or how to be more alpha, and the reason for this is to better attract women - because eve...
My Funniest Dating Failures - Best Ways I've Crashed And Burned
30 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It's easy to talk about our most successful dates ever, and share stories of success with beautiful women - But nobody ever wants to talk about t...
What's The Best Way To Meet Women These Days?
23 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What is the best way to meet women in 2022? While so many of us spend time on online dating these days, this isn't necessarily the best way to f...
Feeling Stuck With Women - Use This Checklist To Get To The Next Level
16 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Maybe you struggle to approach women because you have approach anxiety, or you keep getting told "let's just be friends" - Or maybe you...
How To Set Boundaries Witih Women - And Be Respected
09 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Many men and women struggle with setting boundaries when it comes to dating - they have the belief that boundary setting must always break rapport and...
How To Approach A Girl At A Bar - Without Being A D-Bag
03 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
For most guys, walking into a bar and approaching women is a completely alien idea - it's scary - and there's just so much you don't kn...
How To Build Powerful Banter Skills - Interview With Comedienne Kristen Carney
27 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I'm going to discuss strategies for building a great sense of fun, comedy, and banter when flirting with women. This light-hearted discussion wi...
Being Needy Vs Confidently Expressing Desire - A Crucial Distinction
21 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you constantly worried about being too needy when dating? Most men and women try hard to avoid looking too desperate or needy with their partner...
How To Exploit The Tinder Algorithm In 2022 - Niching, Netflix, And Venn Diagrams
14 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Learn how the tinder ranking algorithm has changed in the last few years, and more importantly how you can exploit that system to help you get more ma...
Is It Worth Turning To Tantra To Build Our Sexual Self Esteem? Interview With Marcin - Kinky Guru
10 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I interview Tantra coach Marcin aka the Kinky Guru about how he became more sexually confident in himself as a man - not by learning to pick up chicks...
Why All Men Need To Learn How To Connect Deeply To Others
02 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
One of the biggest things lacking from the lives of most men is a deep connection with other men, women, and people in general. We are suffering from...
Learning To Overcome The Grief Of Breakup
26 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dealing with breakups can be emotionally traumatising - There's all kinds of self-doubt, and self-esteem damage. We can feel like we're comi...
Using Online Video Chat To Safely Explore Our Kinks - Interview With Femme Fatale From Arousr
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I talk with a Femme Fatale, a representative of website arousr.com and talk about the ways men can begin to explore their kinks in the safety of onlin...
How To Stop NEEDING Things From Women - Divya Darling Makes Me Squirm In Very Personal Interview
24 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I sit and interview Divya Darling, a coach, business owner, and neuro-scientist, and a personal friend while we discuss the notion of why we feel we n...
A Scientific Look At The Red Pill Ideology - Interview With Author Cynthia Payne
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Author of the newly published book - Red Pill Ideology - Cynthia Payne sits with me as we take a very scientific look at the claims made by the red pi...
How Has Dating Changed The Last Few Years? - Interview With Lloyd From The Single Guy
11 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dating has radically changed over the last 10 years with the dating app explosion and then the covid epidemic. What trends and patterns are we seeing...
Being Present And In Your Masculine Around Women - Interview With A Mentor
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Today I talk with Jay - an ex School Of Attraction student and current mentor who really stepped into his masculine power and discovered how incredibl...
What Top Salesmen Can Teach Us About Attracting Women?
07 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever thought about how similar sales skills are to seduction skills? If you have, then you're not alone. As it turns out, many of the s...
New Hinge Dating Statistics - What Photos Get The Most Matches?
30 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
The Hinge dating company recently released a series of statistics they gathered by combing through 1000 hinge dating app profiles to see which photos ...
Dating Preferences And Race - Is Racial Fetishization Bad? Not Necessarily....
23 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
There's an increasing amount of pressure in the media to make men feel bad about their tastes in women. But recently it's become clear to ...
How To Get Lucky With Women - Choosing Your Relationship To Luck And Loss
16 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you get lucky with women often? What does it mean to get lucky? Is there really any luck involved? Is it all lucky? When you see a cute girl walki...
To Attract Beautiful Women - You Must First Walk Away From Them
09 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
How many times have you seen a beautiful woman and decided to walk away from her if she wasn't interesting enough? I am guessing you have almost...
Women Aren't That Complicated - You Are!
02 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Woman are really complicated, aren't they? Well... Maybe not - In fact, I'd argue that women are absolutely no more complicated than men. I...
Why Can I Break Dating "Rules" - And Still Be Successful
26 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
So you want to attract beautiful women? Let me ask you a few quick questions to get you thinking... If you go on a date with a woman - is it a good...
Want To Be Successful At Life? - Consider A Therapist
19 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it that a disproportionate number of highly successful people invest in therapists? Is it because they're more broken? Or is it because ...
Evolutionary Theory Of Attraction - Fact Or Fiction?
12 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What can our past tell us about what women find attractive? Is it possible to look at our distant ancestors and consider what their lives looked like...
Do You Flirt With Women From The Wrong Tribes - And Always Fail?
05 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you have the experience of approaching women, trying your best to build attraction and flirt with them, but always feeling like a fish out of water...
How To Have Fun With Girls - Accessing Your Inner Child
28 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Do you struggle to have fun in social situations? Do you feel too boring for women to notice you? Do you hope that fun people will be around so you ca...
Dating Younger Women - A Complex Morality
21 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
You walk into a bar, and you see an older man dating a much younger woman - Is that guy a sleaze or a legend? Is he to be admired or scorned? Is he do...
Stop Being Shy With Girls | Overcome Social Anxiety The Easy Way
05 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
What is a simple daily lifestyle change you can make which will drastically reduce your shyness with girls AND your social anxiety? There are many re...
When To Sexually Escalate - Many Guys Get This Wrong
29 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you sexually escalating at the wrong time? If you're flirting with a girl, how long should you wait until you start trying to create sexua...
3 Radical Strategies to Become More Confident With Girls
24 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
I'm going to share 3 extreme strategies you can use to drastically improve your confidence with women. These aren't your regular 'how ...
How To Make Her Chase You - Without Being Manipulative
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Are you sick of constantly being the one to chase after the women you want to date? Wouldn't it be amazing if just for once, you could get wom...
How To Discover Your Kink - And Become Amazing In Bed - Interview With Priestess Ava
17 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Most people walk around thinking that kink is usual.. or unhealthy.. or unnatural... But in actuality it's far more common to have sexual kinks t...
Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
15 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We've all heard that nice guys finish last, but why does that have to be the case? What is it about nice guys that stops them getting the girl th...