Sexcapades with Annie and Mr. A
Episodes
Welcome to New York! (NYC Sex Museum, Broadway, Subway experience)
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss part their first ever trip to NYC. It was...and interesting experience, to say the least.Supp...
"Women's Issues" (an episode about common female sex topics in therapy)
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A comment on the most common sexual topics raised in therapy (per Huffington Post). Support the showIn...
"How do I get my wife to do that?" It's deeper than you think. (Dealing with sexual shame)
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textIn this episode, Annie Mr. A discuss their struggles with internalized shame and how they got through some (but only some) of it...Support ...
This little piggy went to market... (the foot fetish episode)
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A learn about foot fetishes by interviewing foot fetishists Daphne and Mr. D...Support the showIntro music b...
Goals 2026 (will we accomplish any of them?)
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their goals for a sexy (and informative) 2026. Let's see if any of them come to pass...Suppor...
Total Power Exchange: How does that work? (Our interview with Trixie and Rohan)...
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A interview Trixie and Rohan, a married couple that engages in Total Power Exchange. It's a pretty i...
Thanksgiving at the strip club: our night at Tootsies (Miami vacation 4 of 4)
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their last night out in Miami: a Thanksgiving night trip to the world's largest strip club...
Miami vacation day 3 of 4- Shibari tutorial and a second trip to the nude beach
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the next day of their Miami vacation. This episode includes a discussion of a Shibari tutorial ...
Miami adventure, part 2 of 4: nude beach and sex museum
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textin this episode, Annie and Mr. discuss their trip to a nude beach and an evening at. the Museum of Sex...Pure Tested Peptides - GLP-3, B...
Miami Shenanigans, part 1 of 4 (South Beach, Erotica Museum, Naughty Rooster)
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the first part of their vacation to Miami. (If you missed it before, there is a whole episode o...
Medical Follies (sex as a problematic subject for health care providers)
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss a recent medical experience that highlighted problems with information about sex in health care...
*Repaired Audio* Recreational lesbians? (the "Hunting Wives" episode)
09 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the Netflix phenomenon, "Hunting Wives."Support the showIntro music by Poor Man'...
Fill 'er up! (the creampie episode)
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the allure, if any, of creampies from each person's perspective. (Who doesn't love an...
Season 3 finale! Turning reality into fantasy (a discussion of fact/fiction in Annie's erotica)
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the season three finale, Annie and Mr. A discuss how much of their sexual experiences are incorporated into Annie's erotica, as opposed to &qu...
Thank you, sir; may I have another? (Spanking part 2)
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A revisit Annie's favorite kink, spanking, to chat about how that kink has evolved in the years since they first d...
Back to the Beginning- Revisiting Anal Play
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss all things anal, revisiting the conversations they had in the first three ever episodes of the podcast. Supp...
And now for something completely different (tl;dr a sex-free discussion of the last Black Sabbath/Ozzy Osbourne concert)
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this special episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their trip to Birmingham UK for the "Back to the Beginning" final concert of Black Sabbath ...
Cheating, part 2: (John Wick Voice- "Consequences...")
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the potential fallout from cheating. How would (did?) you handle cheating in your life? Our experiences could...
Cheating, part 1: What constitutes cheating anyway?
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the nature of cheating: what is it? Is it different than just being shady? What do you think?Support the show...
Who Is Your Celebrity Hall Pass?
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their top three respective "hall passes." It revealed some interesting insights!Support the showInt...
Siskel and Ebert live on...in spirit. (A discussion of the Dom/sub relationship portrayed in the Nicole Kidman movie "Babygirl.")
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the film Babygirl, with specific reference to its portrayal of the Dom/sub sexual dynamic of the main charact...
Bonus episode! Annie's new book, "Post Apocalyptic Submission" is out now!
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this bonus episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss Annie's new book, "Post Apocalyptic Submission," an elseworld dystopian story set in a d...
Gaming the System (deconstructing a game of sex dares)
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A look into a sexy dare game sent to them by a listener. It doesn't exactly go as planned, as Annie and Mr. A (as ...
Days of Service (a/k/s light submission sessions)
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A chat about their way to scale back from full "submission sessions" into more manageable (and therefore more...
Was it good for you?
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the difference in perception that can occur between men and women in the quality of the sex they just had. S...
Interview with Porsche Lynn Part 2
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A conclude their interview with Adult film Hall of Fame performer and BDSM dungeon owner, Porsche Lynn.Support the showIntro music by Po...
The Girl with the Million Dollar Legs is here! (Porsche Lynn interview Part One)
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode (the first part of two), Annie and Mr. A interview Hall of Fame adult actress and proprietor of the Den of Indomitus BDSM dungeon in P...
Wanna go to a sex dungeon? (The Den of Indomitus episode)
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their visit to the Den of Indomitus sex dungeon in Phoenix, AZ. There were some surprises! https://doiaz.com...
Eat, Drink, and Be Horny
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the relationship(s) between food and drinks and sex/romance. As usual, there's a particular emphasis on ...
"Swing" in to the Blue Martini
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a monogamous couple attends a gathering of swingers at a local bar? Give a listen as Annie and Mr. A describe what transpired when t...
I "Want" that!
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the episode, Annie and Mr. A chat about the book discussing real female sexual fantasies "Want" compiled by X-Files, Sex Education, and C...
Goals for 2025
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the first episode of 2025, Annie and Mr. A discuss their goals for the year: goals for the podcast, goals for social media, and goals for sexual ac...
A BTS discussion of how the sausage is made....or how the sausage gets hardened? (A real time brainstorming session for Annie's in-progress erotica story)
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A have a brainstorming session in real time regarding Annie's in-progress erotica story....Support the showIntro m...
Be proud of your "handy" work (the fingering episode with bonus product review)
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the upside of fingering, an underrated sex act. Plus, Annie gives her review of a pulsating and vibrating dil...
Part III of III -Finding love after divorce (and sex in a new relationship)
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In part 3 of their 3 part conversation, Annie and Mr. A discuss the tale end of post-divorce issues and what happens when you recover and fall in love...
Dating after Divorce part II of III
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In part two of this three part miniseries, Annie and Mr. A continue to discuss their post-divorce experiences, both good and (mostly) bad... Support ...
Sex and Dating After Divorce, part 1
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In the first episode of a discussion lasting multiple episodes, Annie and Mr. A discuss the pitfalls of dating after a divorce, including "fun&qu...
Hold your horses, Khaleesi! (a discussion of sex positions and intimacy)
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss whether specific sex positions are more or less "intimate" for relationship purposes. Support the ...
Sometimes, the pen is mightier than the porn (a podcast about erotica)
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss the value of erotica as a means of sexual expression and arousal.Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check ...
The Eras Tour! (Sex over the years)
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss how sex changes over the course of time and circumstance. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them o...
I promise we're not the Try Guys, but... (another sex toy product review)
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie tries a solo saddle-type sex toy and offers her thoughts on the feel and the accessories. Mr. A contributes the best he can...Support the showIn...
My bologna has first name...(an episode about dicks)
31 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A have a wide-ranging discussion about dicks. Does size matter? When is a dick pic appropriate? They get down to the long and short of a...
How can we get even hornier? Let's find out!
17 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A try CBD-infused gummies designed to enhance sexual arousal and pleasure. If you were thinking of trying them, here's one couple&a...
It burns so good! (the figging episode)
03 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A try something for the first time, and you can be along for the ride! Figging was once a form of torture but now an accepted part of BD...
Don't throw that bottle away! I have an idea... (the object fucking episode)
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
in this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss their experiences with object fucking- what works, what is less pleasant, and the drive behind the kink...Sup...
Open up and say "Ahhhhh..." (The speculum discussion)
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A detail their experiences with speculums, including what types work best (and worst) and offer at least one cautionary tale...Support t...
"This never happens to me..." (how aging affects men's sex lives- a companion to the menopause episode)
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In a counterpart discussion of the menopause episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the effects of aging on men in particular and how that impacts the relat...
You want me to put that WHERE?! (The anal toy episode)
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their experiences with (and favorite) anal toys...Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they&...
Legalize it! (An interview with Madam Bella, owner of Bella's Hacienda Ranch)
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A interview Madam Bella to discuss the ins and outs (no pun intended) of legalizing prostitution and de-stigmatizing se...
Toy Time!
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their favorite toys to use, why they became favorites, and what works best for specific situations...Support the showIntro mus...
Two's company, three's a crowd...or is it?
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A chat with two non-monogamous couples about their lifestyle. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, th...
Don't Go Chasin' Waterfalls...(the squirting episode)
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A discuss the mysterious phenomenon that is squirting. Is it pee? Is it vaginal fluid? Does it prove a woman had an org...
Start Me Up
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their earliest sexuality, their first memories of feeling sexual, and what movies influenced their early sex brains. Support ...
What time is it? GAME TIME!!
14 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A have fun with a less than fun erotica card game. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're ...
Take me there to take me there... Vacation sex
31 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss how to plan a sex vacation experience. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're am...
Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot! The Menopause Episode
17 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss peri-menopause and menopause as it relates to sexual changes and how HRT is beneficial in balancing the sex brain. Support th...
Foreplay: Gentleman, Start Her Engine
03 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss the importance of foreplay to keep the spark going and what constitutes foreplay in the relationship. Support the showIntro m...
Stuff My Stocking, Baby! (The Holiday Special)
20 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss matters of sex and fun as it relates to the holidays. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, ...
Erotic Humiliation, Part II: Translating theory into practice
06 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In part 2 of their discussion of erotic humiliation, Annie and Mr. A give a recent example of how they put the theory of erotic humiliation into pract...
I'm so embarrassed and so wet: Erotic humiliation play, Part I
22 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this first episode of a two part discussion, Annie and Mr. A discuss the theory of humiliation play, how to get started, and when and why they do i...
When I think about you, I touch myself
08 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss all things related to masturbation, from childhood to adult playtime. They discuss why it's still a stigmatized and how i...
Exhibitionism, water sports, spanking, and humilation play: a special edition
01 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss her new erotica novel, "Naughty Nights at the Bloom: All Desires Welcome." Annie discusses her inspiration to write ...
Dress for "Sex"cess
25 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss the importance of clothing to set the mood for before sex, during sex, thinking about sex, or any play time. Support the show...
Setting a sexy tone: music to fit the mood
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss the best music for having sex, thinking about sex, or getting in the mood fo sex.Support the showIntro music by Poor Man'...
Get in Loser, We're Doing Butt Stuff
27 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A take it back to the beginning. They chat about their anal sex origins and offer advice on getting started and getting a partner on boa...
Season Finale: What's with all the monogamy?
13 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Far and away, the most frequent question submitted is: do you share each other? In this episode, Annie and Mr. A end season one by sharing the reasons...
Sex adventures in New Orleans- part 3 of 3
30 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A recount their last night of a long weekend in New Orleans. A shopping trip results in an extra-sexy night out and rooftop shenanigans ...
NOLA author Ann Rice erotica reading- New Orleans, part two
16 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss the kink inspiration of NOLA-based author, Anne Rice. Listen to them read the juiciest selections: it's hot AF!Support th...
Sex: New Orleans style, part one
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss day one of their New Orleans sex-focused vacation and offer a glimpse into the day-to-day of the experience. Support the show...
Porno for Pyros (and Everyone else)
19 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their experience with pornography and its potential uses in a relationship context.Support the showIntro music by Poor Man&apo...
Fantasyland: The Backstory
05 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss an early erotic fantasy written to Mr. A by Annie that sparked their dive into dom/sub play. Support the showIntro music by P...
Fantasyland
21 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their sex fantasies and the importance of including fantasies in your sex life! They discuss the difference between keeping ...
Sex time and family time
07 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss how they manage to maintain a healthy sex life with kids in the house. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison....
Show us your tits!
24 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss all things breast-related from sex during lactation, nipple stimulation, erogenous zones, breasts from a female and male persp...
dom play and importance of aftercare
10 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss why aftercare in dom/sub sex play is important, what they do, and how it keeps both wanting to play some more. Support the sh...
Edging- why and how to do it.
26 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A explore the sex act of edging -- both how to do it and why they have tried it. They discuss orgasm control, building up to a play sess...
Sex Kinks and Taboo, Part B
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A explore sex kinks, ranging from mild to taboo such as rimming, spreading/display, and body writing in part two of a two-part discussio...
Sex Kinks and Taboo, Part A
29 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A explore sex kinks, ranging from mild to taboo such as cum play, pizza dares, object fucking, and figging in part one of a two-part dis...
Sex Toys
15 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A dig deep into their bag of sex toys for a frank discussion on using toys together. A few key items include anal plugs, glass dildos,...
Episode 13, Mailbag!
01 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A answer your questions. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're amazing! Don't forget...
Episode 12, Public Sex Play
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Annie and Mr. A discuss their experiences and thoughts on public play. Areas of interest include oral sex, public sex, flashing, and c...
Oral Sex
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A explore their perspectives on oral sex. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they're amazing! ...
Erotica reading: Water sports, chapter 2
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A read a story from Annie's Water sports collection, ch 2.Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, th...
Sexual Role play
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss their thoughts and experiences with role play, including how they got started. They discuss topics such as performance anxiety...
Getting started with Dom/sub play
22 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss how they got started with Dom/sub play and offer tips and suggestions for anyone interested in experimenting with dominance pl...
Spanking Erotica Reading
05 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Annie and Mr. A read from Annie's Spanking Erotica book, Spanking Stories of Annie and Mr. A, Ch. 2, Public Spanking. Support...
Episode 6, Spanking origins
23 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A discuss how they first explored spanking as an erotic kink.Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they...
Anal Sex secrets revealed
13 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why we love anal one more time! Annie and Mr. A conclude their discussion on anal sex, focusing on their personal experiences, including power play, e...
Costa Rica Erotica Story
06 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Read by Annie and Mr. A, this bonus edition is a reading from Annie's Kindle Book, "Anal Sex Stories of Annie and Mr. A," Chapter 3. It...
Anal Sex-- myths and misconceptions
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why we love anal continued! Annie and Mr. A continue their discussion on anal sex. This episode discusses myths and misconceptions, including enemas, ...
Anal Sex, Getting started and training
29 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why we love anal! Annie and Mr A. discuss their journey with anal sex and to each other. This episode examines anal training and best techniques and...
Pilot
29 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Annie and Mr. A introduce the podcast and describe what to expect. Support the showIntro music by Poor Man's Poison. Check them out, they'r...