SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey
Episodes
S5 Ep. 4: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex
19 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why can’t my husband change the way he approaches me for sex? He ...
S5 Ep. 3: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy
12 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I am having an emotional affair with one of my co-workers. I’ve been m...
S5 Ep. 2 The Benefits of Solo Sex, Should I Tell About my Past, and How Do I Get My Wife to Have More Sex with Me?
05 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Tracey, you often talk about masturbation as something everyone should d...
S5 Ep. 1 Loss of Desire, Loud Lovers, and How to Tell my Long-Term Partner I've Had Herpes the Whole Time
29 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have lost all desire to have sex: my libido has completely disappeared...
S4 Ep. 10: Religion and Sex, Playing the Field, and How Do I Tell My Partner I Enjoy Choking
22 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I grew up with religious parents and I’ve had it drummed into me from ...
S4 Ep. 9: How to Find a High-End Sex Club, Is Spontaneous Sex Important, and I've Gone Off Sex Since My Daughter was Born
15 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve always wanted to visit a high-end sex club and now that my relati...
S4 Ep. 8: Why Do I Run When the Sex Wanes, Do Women Have Anal Just to Please Men, and How Do I Deal with 'Hot Air'?
08 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) This is a very personal question that’s highly embarrassing. When I ha...
S4 Ep. 7: Sex with a Man 20 Years Older, What to do If He Falls Out, and How to Tell Someone They're Not the Lover They Think They Are
01 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner always falls out when we have sex. It’s frustrating and int...
S4 Ep. 6: Why Can I Only Orgasm Alone, Do Women Like Hairy Men, and Will I Regret Leaving My Husband?
25 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Why is it that I can orgasm easily on my own (using my fingers or a vibr...
S4 Ep. 5: Is It Okay if My Husband Follows Model and Porn Star Accounts, Mixing Up Missionary, and Is My Man Faking It?
18 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Don’t give me a hard time because it sounds boring; but, missionary is...
S4 Ep. 4: I Can Only Orgasm with My Vibrator, Sex During Your Period, and Fixating on Fairytale Encounters
11 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a woman in my early 40s and my problem is that I can only orgasm w...
S4 Ep. 3: Weed and Desire, Sex after Breast Cancer, and How to Hit the 'Reset' Button for Sex
04 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I don’t know where to start but please help because our sex life is su...
S4 Ep. 2: Pubic Hair, B reast Play, and Dealing with a 'Man-Child'
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have an issue with pubic hair. Basically, I’m not a fan and like it ...
S4 Ep. 1: Can You Spot a Cheater, How to Impress that Very First Time, and How to Make Him Last Longer
21 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve gone from one extreme to another. My previous partner used to tak...
S3 Ep. 10: He Can't Find my Clitoris, Sex as a Widow, and Why Has My Affair Made Sex Hotter with My Husband?
16 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m having an affair and ironically, sex with my husband has never bee...
S3 Ep. 9: A New Technique, Friends that Turn on You After an Affair, and Sex Gifts that Won't Make You Cringe
09 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband has been watching porn of women ‘squirting’ on men. He’...
S3 Ep. 8: Bent Penises, Sex Buddies, and Should You Stick Around if the Sex Spark Isn't There?
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 38 and have finally met a nice guy. I really like him, but the sex...
S3 Ep. 7: Open Relationships, The Myth of the Simultaneous Orgasm, and How Soon is Acceptable to Make a Move After a Break Up?
26 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 36-year-old straight woman and just broke up with my ex. Somethi...
S3 Ep. 6: Sex Pests, Stocking Stuffers, and Sexual History
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m 36 and have been married for nine years. I’m sick to death of be...
S3 Ep. 5: Acting Out Sex Fantasies, Newly Discovered Old Affairs, and What to Do If You Never Get Wet
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a woman in my early thirties and I don’t get wet either during m...
S3 Ep. 4: How Do I Know if My Partner is Still Watching Porn, Do 'Sex Dates' Work, and I Don't Trust Men After My Father's Affair
05 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner of six years and I used to have really good sex but it’s dr...
S3 Ep. 3: Does Cheating with Another Woman Count, Hints on How to Speed Up Sex, and Dealing with Daddy Issues
28 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I have been with my partner for 15 years – we got together at college....
S3 Ep. 2: What's Normal Eight Years In, I'm Threatened by His Past, and Does Being Drunk Excuse Someone from Cheating?
21 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a straight woman and very happy with my partner. All is good; but,...
S3 Ep. 1: To Vab or Not to Vab, Baby Speak, and How to Give a Great Hand Job
14 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) What’s your view on ‘vabbing’? Does it really work to attract men?...
S2 Ep. 17: Erections that Come and Go, Tricks for Having Great Sex Long-Distance, and How to Get Back on the Horse after Years of Being Single
03 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve just started a new relationship with a guy I’m really into. Our sex is goo...
S2 Ep. 16: My Husband Only Wants Anal Sex, My partner Was a Virgin, and Is It The Kiss of Death if We Sleep in Separate Beds?
26 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) When my husband and I met in our early 40’s, we had a lot of sex that was fairly ...
S2 Ep. 15: Sex with a Much Older Man, Nipple-Biting, and Why has a Death Made Me Horny?
19 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I’m a 35-year-old woman who has fallen in love with a much older man: he’s 60. ...
S2 Ep. 14: Cross-Dressing, Jealous Rages, and How to Make Sex Work When You’re Different Heights
12 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I am a happily married man who likes wearing women’s underwear under my clothes. ...
S2 Ep. 13: Sex Giggles, Sex Dreams, and How to Tell if Your Boyfriend is Secretly Gay
05 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) Sometimes when I’m in bed with my husband, I start laughing. He gets all huffy ab...
S2 Ep. 12: My Partner Won't Listen to What I Want in Bed, my Boyfriend's Still on Tinder, and Is There Really Such a Thing as an Aphrodisiac?
29 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) Is there such a thing as an aphrodisiac? Oysters, chocolate, things like that? I su...
S2 Ep. 11: I Don't Like How My Vulva Looks, My Friends Can't Forgive His Affair, and How to Use a Butt Plug
22 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I’m embarrassed about the way my vulva looks. My inner labia lips protrude and lo...
S2 Ep. 10: Working from Home Porn Addiction, Crushes on Other Men, and What to Do When You’re Married but Haven’t Had Sex in Years
15 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I’m no prude and have nothing against people watching porn but I am alarmed by th...
S2 Ep. 9: Intercourse Orgasms, Should You Confess an Affair You Got Away With, and How to Talk Yourself into Wanting Sex
08 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I can’t climax during intercourse and it frustrates me. I know I’m not the only...
S2 Ep. 8: How Can I Speed Up Sex, Should I Be Wary of Girly Talk, and Does it Take Longer to Orgasm as You Get Older?
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) Please can you suggest a way to speed up sex with my husband? He can last up to an ...
S2 Ep. 7: When to Go and When to Stay, My Orgasms are Too Intense, and How to Talk to Men about Erection Problems
22 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I am in a relationship that I’d describe as ‘just OK’. Sometimes it feels per...
S2 Ep. 6: Lubes, Swallowing, and What to Do if Your Unborn Child Might Not Be Your Husband's
15 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) This is something I’m sure you get asked all the time but do I really need to swa...
S2 Ep. 5: Nocturnal Erections, How to Jazz Up the Same Old Sex Positions, and is a Forced Proposal Something You Should Refuse?
08 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) We’re stuck in a rut when it comes to sex positions and only do it doggy style or...
S2 Ep. 4: First-Time Sex with Someone You Really Like, Inviting Your Vibrator into Bed with Your Partner, and What to Do if Your Husband Leaves You
01 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) My husband has just left me and I honestly don’t know where to go from here. We w...
S2 Ep. 3: A Husband Obsessed with His Penis Size, Why Zoom Sex is Better than Sex In-Person, and Where Are All the Good Men Hiding?
25 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I am single but please don’t tell me to go online to meet someone because I have ...
S2 Ep. 2: How Much Sex is Normal for Long-Term Couples, Tips on Cringe-Proof Roleplay, and Breaking Up with Your Best Friend
18 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve been married for 15 years and have sex once a week. My husband tells me this...
S2 Ep. 1: Male Virgins, When Does Friendship Turn into Leading Someone On, and Does Viagra Enhance Sex for Women?
11 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I have a dilemma. I have lots of women friends in my drama class. They are all very pl...
Ep. 38: Pegging, Bachelor Confessions, and Noisy Lovers
04 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Back by popular demand, this week we're re-releasing episode 15. In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner of 12 year...
Ep. 37: How Many Lovers is Too Many, ‘Cuckold’ Fantasies, and What if It’s Him Facing the Wall?
28 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Back by popular demand, this week we're re-releasing episode 19. In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My friends talk about...
Ep. 36: Narcissists, Threesomes, and How Do You Know if You're Good in Bed?
21 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and still don’t know where I stand. I...
Ep. 35: Female Ejaculation, Penises Bent like a Banana, and Right Man, Wrong Time
15 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’m a woman in my mid-20s and I have just met a man I think is the love of my life. ...
Ep. 34: Friends Dating Married Men, Girlfriends on OnlyFans, and Falling Asleep on the Job
07 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:A friend of mine (25 years old) has been seeing a married man in his forties who has a...
Ep. 33: Why Does Lust Die Over Time, the Argument for ‘Duty Sex’ and Practical Tips to Help Keep Desire High
30 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’m a 28-year-old woman and I’ve been with my partner for six years. I love him de...
Ep. 32: Threatened Husbands, A ‘Moving’ Clitoris, and Talking About Sex to Teen
23 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My husband and I are having massive fights over a long-time friend of mine who I used ...
Ep. 31: Lubrication Problems, How to Tip Someone Over into Orgasm, and Does It Count As Cheating If It's With the Same Sex?
16 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner of 9 years cheated on me recently with a same-sex partner but doesn’t con...
Ep. 30: Piercings, Hot Ex Sex, and Whether to Keep Quiet About a Potentially Cheating Fiancé
09 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I am really hoping you can advise me on this because I honestly don’t know what else...
Ep. 29: The Telltale Sign She's Faking It, Sex Addicts, and Sex with Younger Men
02 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:Is it true that a red rash appears on the chest if she’s had a real orgasm? Or is th...
Ep. 28: Virtual Porn, Performance Anxiety, and How to Orgasm from Oral
26 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My husband of 30 years recently bought a pair of VR goggles for work. The other night ...
Ep. 27: Multiple Orgasms, Bi-Sexuality, and How To Delicately Tackle Those Lockdown Pounds
19 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I know women can have multiple orgasms but that never happens for me. Once I have one,...
Ep. 26: Unsettling Fantasies, Love Changes And Why Does He Still Watch Porn When He Has Me?
12 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I have been married for eight years and am worried my partner has fallen out of love w...
Ep. 25: Friends Who Want to be Lovers, Approved Extra-Marital Sex, and What If They Won’t Reciprocate Oral Sex?
05 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My best male friend has – out of the blue – confessed that he loves me. I have nev...
Ep. 24: The Affair Special: Do Details Help or Make it Worse, Should You Even Up the Score with Your Own Affair – And How Can You Ever Enjoy Sex with Them Again?
28 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve had so many questions in response to a cheating question we did, we thought we would do a special and answer questions that center around the ...
Ep. 23: Wild Women, Satisfying Quickies and Trying to Change Your Partner
21 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My wife of 35 years has just reached her 60th birthday and she has come through the me...
Ep. 22: Windy Sex, Safe One-Night Stands and Sex Post Pregnancy
14 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’m 20 years old and have been sexually active about 2 years, with the same partner....
Ep. 21: G-Spots, Female-Friendly Porn and Finding Your Perfect Sex Match
07 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I just recently started finding interest in porn. But I’m not really finding anythin...
Ep. 20: Lasting Longer, a Friend’s Affair and Disappearing Sex Toys
31 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I am a middle aged man, married, in good health. My question is, how can I last longer...
Ep. 19: How Many Lovers is Too Many, ‘Cuckold’ Fantasies, and What if It’s Him Facing the Wall?
24 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My friends talk about their partners always hassling them for sex but I have the oppos...
Ep. 18: New Things to Try in Bed, What to Do If Your Bits Don’t Fit, and Dealing with an Obnoxious Partner
17 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner and I have been together for 6 years and haven't tried anything new in a wh...
Ep. 17: Orgasm-friendly Sex Positions, Younger Men, and the Top Three Sex Toys to Try
10 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:Is it normal for couples to have sex in the same position every single time? We only e...
Ep. 16: Finding ‘The One’, Nude Selfies, and Viagra Rivals
03 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’m a huge believer in soulmates and “The One’ and the idea that there’s one p...
Ep. 15: Pegging, Bachelor Confessions, and Noisy Lovers
27 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner of 12 years wants me to ‘peg’ him. I didn’t even know what it was and...
Ep. 14: Suspiciously Adventurous Husbands, Signature Sex Moves, and Gay Exes
20 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My husband of 13 years is suddenly wanting to try lots of new things in bed. Even more...
Ep. 13: Talking Dirty, In-the-Flesh Dating, and Sex Secrets
13 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My long-term girlfriend wants me to talk dirty in bed but I just can’t bring myself ...
Ep. 12: Painful Sex, Missing Kissing and Viagra Fears
06 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I find sex at best uncomfortable, at worst outright painful. How do I make it more enj...
Ep. 11: First Time Anal Sex, Men Who Don’t Make a Move, and Battling Catholic Guilt
29 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner and I want to try anal sex for the first time. Can you give us some tips on...
Ep. 10: Tips on Oral Sex, Not Feeling Like Doin’ It, and Sex Toys
22 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’ve just started my first relationship with a woman - my others have all been with ...
Ep. 9: Sex at the Start, a Friend’s Husband, and Fantasies
15 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I have met a new man and really like him but the sex is OK at best. Is this a bad sign...
Ep. 8: Shortage of eligible men, polyamorous relationships, and location preference
08 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I am 42, have been single for three years, and am starting to think I am never going t...
Ep. 7: Sex personalities, Exes and Orgasm Face
01 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1. How can I get my partner to get more kinky? I've tried suggesting things, I've chan...
Ep. 6: Affairs, Painful Sex, and Asexuality
25 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1. I’m married and having an affair with a man who is also married. I know it’s wr...
Ep. 5: Stretch Marks, Vibrators, and Porn
18 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:1. I used to love sex but I’m finding, as I’m getting ol...
Ep. 4: Pubic Hair Grooming, Frequency, and Drinking Before Sex
11 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:I’ve just split from my partner and back out there dating again...
Ep. 3: Orgasms, Work Wives, and Frequency
04 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:My partner is very close to a woman at his work. Pre lockdown, th...
Ep. 2: Date Night, Sex Secrets, and Size
27 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Tracey tackles these 3 topics:1. Do date nights actually work - and do I really have to have one?2. I told my friends his sex secret - and now he's fo...
Ep. 1: Porn, Dreams, and Oral Sex
15 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
International sex expert Tracey Cox chats with Zibby who asks her these three anonymous questions: 1. Your husband would rather watch porn than h...