Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

How to Find REAL Men of Quality

02 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If men of quality really do exist… then why is it so ****ing hard to find one!? It’s exhausting to only meet men who are creepy, crappy, or just w...

Feeling Like Love Just Doesn’t Work For You?

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you been trying to find soulmate love for years… or even decades? And all that’s been happening is you just keep spinning in circles, from at...

The 3 Words That Can Change Your Life

29 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Making decisions and starting new habits to change your life can be HARD. It’s not as easy as the movies make it seem. But over our 18 years of holi...

How Men And Women Think Differently About Sex

28 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever thought that men think about sex “too much”, this episode is for you. In this episode, I break down the differences between how m...

Why Being Single Is Wearing You Out

26 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like your love life, and your whole life, is just DRAINING your energy? Have you tried, and failed, for months or maybe YEARS to figure ou...

Bad Dating Tips Are KILLING Your Love Life!

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You might not realize this, but there is sooo much dating advice out there that is NOT as good as it seems! And in fact, it could be what’s KILLING ...

How You’re HURTING Your Chances at Finding Love

22 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I hate to say this, but you’re probably sabotaging your own love life… without even realizing it. There are so many things that smart, successful ...

Are There Any Good Men Left?

21 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It seems like there are no good men left. Is that really true? Where can you find good men? Do you think online dating could be the place? Listen to t...

You Need a Plan for Your Love Life

19 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you taken a moment to think about what you are planning for in your life? Do you have a plan at all? What goals are you going after in your love ...

What’s The Deal With Dating Sites?

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you tried dating online? Do you think dating sites are the problem? Well for the most part they are not the problem. Dating sites work, if you kn...

Finding Love Should NOT Be Your Only Priority!

15 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your relationship SHOULD be a priority but it should not be your ONLY priority. In this episode we’ll explain what you should do.   WHAT YOU WILL L...

You’ve Been Getting Terrible Relationship Advice

14 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Where do you get your relationship advice from? Are you getting advice that has helped? If you are still single then the advice you have gotten is not...

Does Luck Play a Role In Finding Love?

12 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you counting on luck to find your soulmate? Or maybe you don’t call it “luck” but you think it will just happen. Do you think you’ll find ...

Is Trying to Find Love Worth the Pain?

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Nothing is better than coming to your beloved when you've had a rough day and just have him hold you. In this episode, Lara talks about why the soulma...

Why Mindset Matters in Love

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you had any huge challenges in relationships and love? What kind of mindset do you usually practice in the area of love, relationships and findin...

Men Are Idiots!?

07 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Men are IDIOTS! You’ve probably heard this from your single friends a million times, or maybe you’ve thought it or said it yourself. But… where ...

1 Degree Shifts vs a Total Love Life Turnaround

05 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all heard the idea that over time, a lot of 1 degree shifts to your mindset or habits will eventually add up to be a 180 degree, life-changing...

Are You TOO Optimistic?

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yes, being optimistic IS important to keep the faith in your love life… BUT there is such a thing as too much optimism, and it can be harmful. If yo...

Memento Mori

01 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I wanted to get a little more personal in this episode. My father in law, Lara’s dad, recently passed away. And there’s something he used to say a...

This Is Holding You Back In Your Love Life

30 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve been trying for so long to find true love, but you just can’t seem to actually find that relationship you desire so much. So what is it tha...

Finding the Right Man (Part 2)

28 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you listened to our last episode you now have an idea of how to find the right man for you. But there is still more to be talked about. If you want...

Finding the Right Man (Part 1)

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Why aren’t you finding the right man for you? Was is it that makes it so hard to find that soulmate you want so badly? It seems like nowadays good m...

Breakup Bounce Back Better Plan

24 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Breakups are can be extremely hurtful, not just in the moment when they happen but for weeks, months or even years! We all deal with them, but we all ...

Are you being NEEDY with men??

23 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been told that you’re too needy? Have you ever felt like you ‘lost yourself’ in your relationships? If that sounds like you, liste...

Why You Shouldn’t Settle In Love

20 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been told to “never settle in love.” But what does that REALLY mean? And what can you DO to ensure you never settle in love? The answe...

Frequently Asked Questions About Men

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

To women, men can be confusing and hard to figure out. But what if I told you there are secrets to understanding men, and that they’re simpler than ...

Perfectionism is Hurting Your Love Life

17 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Attention perfectionists!! If you consider yourself a perfectionist, this episode is a MUST-listen for you. Your perfectionism is HURTING your love li...

Lies Society Has Told You About Men

16 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The dating world has changed SO much… There's no denying it. In recent years, some huge misconceptions about relationships, dating, and men have beg...

Do You Fear Staying Single Forever?

14 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of being single? Are you fed up with coming home to an empty house every single day, despite the success you’ve achieved in every othe...

You Need to Give This Up

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things that could be silently holding you back from love. But in this episode, I’m going to discuss the MOST important one, and the r...

Can You See Your Own Beauty?

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you tired of being single? Are you fed up with coming home to an empty house every single day, despite the success you’ve achieved in every othe...

Do Men Only Think About Sex?

09 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“Men only think about sex!” You’ve heard this everywhere, right? Is this even true to begin with and how are they different   WHAT YOU WILL LEA...

A Testimonial from One of Our Clients

07 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve heard us talk about how our clients have attracted their soulmate and are now living the life of their dreams. Well it’s time you hear i...

Why Your Love Life is SO EXHAUSTING!

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You already know about the emotional costs of being single- you’re probably experiencing them already. Heartbreak, loneliness, missing out on the fa...

When Should You Date?

03 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When should you date!? If you date anyone then you’ll fill like your giving yourself away, but if you are super strict about who you date then you w...

Being Single Is Expensive!

02 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Being single when you want to be in a relationship with a high quality man is frustrating! But it also is expensive! Let’s talk about the costs of b...

High Pressure Dating Is Hurting You!

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Finding love these days can be HARD. The modern dating world is notoriously high pressure. So many expectations, unwritten rules, ghosts, and players ...

The 5 Minute Strategy

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Modern life is crazy busy! With so much negativity and distractions pulling us in different directions, it can be difficult to stay focused on our dre...

Is It Too Late to Live Your Dream?

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, we’ll explore the idea of whether it's ever too late to find true love. We'll discuss the challenges and tough truths about priorit...

What You Need to Avoid to Attract Your Soulmate

26 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you are committed to attracting a high quality man and you are doing all you can. The problem with that is that some of the things you do might hur...

Being Single Too Long IS Affecting You!

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You probably aren’t single right now because you want to. You likely want a high-quality man by your side but love hasn’t gone your way. But this ...

What Are You Trying to Prove?

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve led a successful personal and professional life. You keep fighting to accomplish more but something is missing, right? Why do you keep fig...

Do You Fear Failure or Something Else?

20 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is your fear of failure what’s holding you back from finally finding true love? Or could the reality of it be something else you haven’t noticed? ...

Could You End Up Alone All Your Life?

18 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's possible that you are unknowingly setting yourself up for failure in your love life. I know it’s hard to hear but the reality is your actions t...

What Men Are Really Thinking

17 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s no secret that men and women think differently. This is one of the things that can make understanding a man, even a high quality one. So how co...

Do Not Settle In Love

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We've all heard the advice to never settle when it comes to love. It's important to be in a relationship where you can thrive and be your best self. T...

It’s Time to Honor Your Dreams

13 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you achieved many of your goals, but find that you haven’t really done what you truly dreamed of? Life happens and people start abandoning thei...

Why You Are Focusing on the Wrong Things

11 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are you focusing on? Wherever you put your focus and energy will keep you from seeing the rest of the view, so if you are focusing on the wrong t...

You Don’t Need More Time to Find Your Soulmate

10 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“Don’t worry about it! You got time” your girlfriends say. But, are they right about it? How much time to find true love do you really have? Lif...

How You Are Driving Men Away

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like for some reason you are driving away good men and can’t quite get why? Are you tired of “missing out” on good men? You can fix ...

Are You Scared of True Intimacy?

06 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You want to find true love more than anything. But are you ready to be truly intimate with a man? I’m not talking about sex, intimacy is much more t...

How High Quality Men Pick Women

04 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What exactly are high quality men seeking in a partner? How do they go about selecting someone to be with? Have you ever paused to ponder their decisi...

When Should You Go on a Date with a Man?

03 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You meet a guy and you start getting interested in him. So when should you start dating? And how should the dating process go? You don’t want anothe...

Why Finding a Quality Man Is Hard

02 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever experienced the difficulty of finding a genuinely caring and high-quality man in today's dating scene? It's true, the current social and...

Does Chemistry Really Matter?

27 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is chemistry the only thing that matters in a relationship? Focusing solely on chemistry can be a trap. The chemistry of a relationship doesn't necess...

Why Boundaries Matter

26 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Boundaries are very important for everyone and in every type of relationship. Not establishing them can cause real damage. So what is the best way to ...

How Important Are Looks?

24 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever feel as though your physical appearance is preventing you from discovering true love? Have your insecurities overwhelmed you? While looks ...

Lying in Your Online Dating Profile Is Ok

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you little a little bit on your online dating profile or just weren’t very clear on something about yourself. You’ll clarify it once you start ...

You’ll Just Know It When You Meet the One

21 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Love is filled with magic there is no doubt about it. But is that magic the way to know if you’ve finally met your soulmate? Let’s talk about that...

Playing Hard to Get (And Other Foolish Yet Common Dating Advice)

19 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“You gotta play hard to get in order to get his attention!” You’ve probably heard this or something similar before. It’s common advice. But is...

Self Criticism Is Killing Your Joy

18 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’re being overly critical of yourself and it’s hurting you more than you realize. It’s not just how it makes you feel but it’s what it is c...

Problems With Men?

14 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Aren’t you tired of having so many problems with men? Whether it’s not attracting the right men, having no 2nd dates or even no dates at all! Thes...

Your Breakup Does Not Define You

13 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A breakup is hurtful there is no doubt about it. It can be a life changing event. However, you are not what that previous relationship was nor should ...

10 Years Ago…

12 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s time we take a trip down memory lane. Let’s look at where you were 10 years ago today and how your life has changed. You very likely are in a...

The Valentine’s Day Dilema

11 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to Valentine’s Day people can be on either of to extremes. Either they love it or they despise it. It can be especially hard if you’...

One Thing That Is Stopping You From Finding Love

11 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There is one particular thing that has been affecting your love life that you probably have not even noticed. If you can identify how it plays a role ...

The Real Reason Why Finding Love Is Hard

10 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Finding it difficult to attract any men at all? There's nothing inherently wrong with you, but there may be underlying factors causing difficulties in...

How Can You Attract the Man of Your Dreams?

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Finding soulmate love is possible for you. Despite any faults, flaws, regrets, or past heartbreak, you are truly amazing and deserving of love. But, h...

This Turns Men Off

06 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There’s one thing that can turn any man off when you do it. It may seem irrelevant or you might even think that it’s a good thing, but for the mal...

Where Are All the Good Men?

04 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s tackle the age-old question "Where are all the good men?". Why does it seem like there are no more of them left? And if there are any how can ...

Choose You or Use You

02 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s dive into the male mind and take a look at how men decide whether they choose you or use you. You might be surprised by how men really think a...

The 3 A’s That You Need to Get and Keep a High Quality Man

31 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There are three crucial elements for attracting and retaining a high-quality man and they all start with the letter “A”. So what are they and why ...

Should You Live Together Before Getting Married?

29 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are the pros and cons of living together before marriage? What do statistics say? Is it beneficial at all? Should you do it? These are very commo...

2 Online Dating App Pictures You Must Include

27 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You could boost your chances of attracting higher quality men if you use 2 very important pics on your online dating profile. What are they and why do...

You’re Going to Lose This Argument

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There’s an argument you probably are making to yourself that is keeping you from finding the love you want so much. This is killing your chance at l...

Why You’re Still Single… You’re Arrogant

23 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Arrogance can sabotage your efforts to find love. You might not notice it but it is possible you are being arrogant and it’s hurting your chance of ...

Why You’re Still Single... You Don’t Know the Difference Between These Two D’S

21 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Discover the 2 key words starting with the letter "D" that are key to finding your soulmate. This will help you understand the importance of these wor...

Why You’re Still Single... You’re A Liar

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Uncover the truth about why self-deception is preventing you from finding your soulmate. This podcast episode helps single women understand the impact...

Why You’re Still Single... You’re Angry

15 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

First episode of our series exploring the reasons why you are still single. In it we'll examine how anger towards men can impact a your ability to fin...

You’re Overcomplicating Men

14 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Women tend to overcomplicate men when looking for love, and how this can hinder their chances of finding a healthy relationship. Men are far more simp...

Does Your ”Body Count” Even Matter

12 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What impact does the number of men you’ve been with have in your love life? Does it even matter? Well, there’s some interesting data about it that...

Give Yourself Credit for Not Giving Up

09 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Finding a man that treats you right can be extremely hard. I’m sure you know that, however, you haven’t given up have you? So give yourself credit...

Nobody Cares

07 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here’s a harsh truth about life, almost nobody cares about you. Everyone has something going on in life. However, we didn’t say that no one at all...

How Do You Decide if That Guy Is Worth Your Time?

06 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So you are dating someone and he seems kinda nice, but you are not very sure if he really is worth your time. Maybe you’ve only had one date or mayb...

New Year’s Resolutions!

05 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The start of a new year is here and with it comes new year’s resolutions. But what’s the hype about them? Should you keep making them? Do they eve...

The State of Dating and Relationships in 2023

03 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Do you feel like as time passes by and the world keeps evolving dating and relationships seems to keep getting worse and worse? It’s not and age thi...

Ask Yourself These Questions When Making a Hard Decision

01 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Thinking about making a big decision you've been holding off on? Before you do so ask there are 2 questions that will help you know what is the right ...

You’re Getting Terrible Love Advice

30 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Anyone can give out advice, it’s easy. But not all of it is good. So how can you know who’s advice to take and who’s to ignore? It’s though ri...

How Much Time Do You Have to Find Love?

28 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone says you got time to find love. But, are they right about it? How much time do you actually have until it’s too late?   WHAT YOU WILL LEAR...

How to Determine if a Man Is Worth Your Time

25 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The beginning of dating or just knowing someone new can be tricky. Everything is new, you see no bad in the other person you are just happy to be dati...

Are You In a Relationship or Just Dating?

23 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

“So what are we?” The dreaded question no one wants to ever ask. Dating these days is very confusing and you might not even know what sort of rela...

Dating with Soulmate Love as a Goal

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you date someone new are you thinking about what you ultimately want with that person? Or are just just winging it? Most women date with no goal ...

Will More Dates Help Find Your Perfect Match?

19 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever thought that the more men you meet, the more likely you are to find the right one? We tend to think a lot of things in life are just a n...

​​The 7 Keys to Dating with Intention and Power

16 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dating is different to many things in life, but at the same time very similar to it. You won’t be successful in it and you won’t attract your soul...

Are YOU the Red Flag?

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve been trying to find your soulmate but it seems like things aren’t going your way. Could you be the red flag? Well, it’s time to consid...

What a High Quality Man Wants in a Relationship

20 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There’s always been lots of speculation amongst women about what good men REALLY want in a relationship. Maybe you’ve felt like it’s impossible ...

How Envy & Gossip Hurt Your Love Life

18 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Envy and gossip aren’t good for you, most people would agree. But what does that have to do with your love life? In this episode, we’ll talk about...

Who ACTUALLY determines your value?

17 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve been heartbroken by life and relationships, you might be terrified for the future and maybe even feel less valuable, or broken. But are yo...

Do You Have the Emotional Maturity for Marriage?

14 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

So you’re ready for true love, and living the rest of your life married to your soulmate. But are you… emotionally mature enough for that? Unfortu...

Single in Your 30s and Looking For True Love?

14 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve focused only on your career and becoming successful… until one day you woke up and realized you don’t have someone to share it all with, ...