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Chapter 1: What is morbid curiosity and why do we have it?
Most people have the capacity to develop behaviors that we would call psychopathic.
So are you saying that we all have a switch in us?
Under the right circumstances, many people can narrow their empathic circle such that other people become not only neutral, but maybe even targets. Those are the kind of individuals that you have trouble spotting if you pass them on the sidewalk.
Dr. Colton Scrivener is the world's leading expert on morbid curiosity and why we can't look away from the dark, the dangerous and the deadly. Why is it that more women are drawn to true crime than men?
Victims are often women, and it's a scenario that, while not very common in the grand scheme of things, if it's going to happen to someone, might be a bit more likely that it would happen to a woman than a man. The best way to learn about someone dangerous is, of course, to get to know them.
But that's a very risky strategy because if you get to know someone dangerous, your chances of becoming a victim of violence at their hands goes way up.
Is there a way that we can see someone who could potentially be a killer just by looking at them?
If only, right? The only way to learn about it is after the fact. They're harder to identify in the real world.
Do you believe in ghosts?
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Chapter 2: Why are women more drawn to true crime than men?
The simple answer to that is because we can tell stories about death, right? We can tell stories about people who are dangerous that we may not know about. And if any other animal could do that, they certainly would.
That's so interesting about the stories, because when you think of, uh, like a true crime story, I guess there's no other type of content that has a natural beginning, a middle and an end. And I guess if you start at this person is, is dead and then we're gonna find out how they died. I, I guess that's what takes you through that narrative storytelling and why we're all fascinated with that.
And we're, you know, I guess storytelling's been around for thousands of years.
Yeah, I think one of the questions I get is, is it just the mystery, right? Is that why we love true crime? Because there's a mystery there. And I think that's some of it. But most things are mysterious to us. I have no idea how I am talking to you from thousands of miles away, and I could not rebuild that if I needed to. That's a complete mystery to me.
But I probably would not be able to make a documentary that 100 million people would watch if I made a documentary about podcasting or about how microphones work or about how video cameras work. But if you can make a podcast about any random serial killer, you'll get 100 million views on it pretty easily, right?
So there are certain kinds of mysteries in life that we are more drawn to, and we tend to be most drawn to mysteries that unveil something about, in particular, dangerous people, but also other kinds of dangerous situations, natural disasters or...
You know, aliens are kind of big in the news right now with all the disclosure stuff in the US going on, and are they potentially dangerous or not dangerous? So stories about things that can hurt us or might hurt us if we were to encounter them tend to be the types of mysteries that we are most intrigued by, most interested in, and sort of hunger for the most in the media landscape.
So why is it that more women are drawn to true crime than men?
I think there are a few answers to that. So one is that most true crime stories focus a bit on the killer and their thoughts, right? Why did they do what they do? That's one of the questions that a lot of true crime stories, whether it's a podcast or a They focus on trying to answer why did the killer do what they did and how did they get to that point? Right.
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Chapter 3: How does storytelling influence our fascination with death?
He had that sort of predisposition and psychopathology anyway. Now, he might have attributed that to curiosity, but certainly people who have the same kind of interests as him but did not have that psychopathology didn't go out and, again, murder and cannibalize numerous people. So it seems to be a fairly safe and innocuous thing on its own.
But like many other traits, if you combine it with a lot of other bad, bad traits, it can lead to things like violence or extreme situations like the ones that you see in true crime.
why are we so attracted or why do we uplift some of these murderers? Like, for example, Ted Bundy, very good looking guy, instead of us saying, oh, what a horrible, obviously it's horrible what he did. But when that new documentary came out and Zac Efron was cast as Ted Bundy, the internet went nuts, right? And we almost made, he's no longer a villain in some people's eyes.
And I can imagine as the family of those people who lost,
lost people it would have been horrible to watch but instead the internet blows it up what's happening psychologically there well you know Ted Bundy really did receive a lot of love letters when he was in prison and a lot of serial killers do I think Bundy is sort of an extreme example and that I think he's a classically handsome was a classically handsome guy and so it was easy to justify that
But they're even, you know, I would say less attractive or less conventionally attractive serial killers who still get love letters. Like, again, Jeffrey Dahmer, who was attracted to men and everybody knew it, got love letters from women as well, even though that's not really his that wasn't his cup of tea. Right.
uh so i think part of what's going on there is that the best way to learn about someone dangerous is of course to get to know them right but that's a very risky strategy because if you get to know someone dangerous your chances of becoming a victim of violence at their hands goes way up right so the safest is as crazy as it sounds the safest way you could do that so what's going on psychologically is uh to learn about that person by getting to know them
when they can't hurt you, which is when they are in prison or behind bars, right? So if a serial killer is convicted and they have, let's say, life in prison or they're on death row, there's no chance of them getting out of prison and never having any actual contact with you. Your mind is probably, some people's minds is telling them that, you know,
if you can create a social connection with this individual, it's a very safe way to then understand the mind of someone who could do something like that. And maybe that will help you understand the minds of people who might do something like that, that you weren't aware of yet, right? People who you encounter in your life or you might encounter in the future.
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Chapter 4: What psychological factors drive our interest in dangerous people?
So these kids who are playing this scary game are actually treating their anxiety as well as the best therapeutic methods that we've developed. And there's some other... evidence that as children have done less and less exploratory, unstructured play and scary play, I would say over the years, rates of anxiety have gone up significantly, let's say in the last 30 or 40 years in the Western world.
And that's coincided with a pretty stark decrease in exploratory, thrilling, unstructured play. And so some people have argued that those two are directly related. Now, to your question, is there a certain age at which you should start letting your children maybe watch scary things or read scary books? I think it depends on the kid, right? People develop at different stages.
People have different personality profiles that make them more or less interested in those things. I think the thing I would say is that if your kid is younger and really interested in sort of scary or spooky stuff, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with them. It doesn't mean you should try to keep that out of their realm of influence.
You know, one thing you could do is when your kid shows interest in something sort of scary is if it's a movie, let's say, watch it with them. Right. If they watch that with their parent, you know, they learn that it's if it gets to be too extreme, their parents there, it's not too bad. Right. It's not so scary. They have a safe place to return to.
And importantly, you show them that it's okay to feel afraid. That's not the end of the world, right?
I think that's one thing that kids who tend to avoid thrilling or scary play, either on their own volition or because their parents don't let them watch it, let's say, one thing that they often struggle with is when they become adults, they inevitably face situations that are frightening or scary or anxiety-inducing.
And they've not developed the right toolkit, the right sort of cognitive emotional toolkit for learning how to deal with those feelings. And then it becomes sort of an overwhelming feeling because it's new and they don't know how to deal with it. They've never felt this way before.
And so if you sort of practice regulating difficult emotions like anxiety or fear when you're a kid and you do it in a safe way through games or movies or books, it can help you sort of build your toolkit, your emotional regulation toolkit. And you can use those emotion regulation skills in the real world when you're feeling afraid or anxious.
Is there a way that we can see someone who could potentially be a killer just by walking down the street and looking at them?
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Chapter 5: What role does fear play in our consumption of true crime media?
It might, right? I mean, the more that we engage with a certain kind of... I'll say something that's, you know, something that is mimicking a social interaction. I don't know that it's certainly a social interaction of some kind, but if you're conversing with AI a lot and you get used to the way that it responds to you and the way that it's kind of sycophantic as well.
It sort of kisses up to you and tells you that everything you do is brilliant. That maybe breeds a certain kind of behavior in individuals that isn't really conducive to cooperation with actual humans in the real world, because real humans don't always operate like that. And so you could grow
you know frustrated with them for not operating how now you are used to operating yeah when you have a conversation uh is there a is there a criminal that you are fascinated by someone's mind that you really think about a lot when you're just lying in bed at night ed kemper is a really interesting one to me so he was a really tall like six foot nine guy who did he committed a lot of really brutal awful crimes against women i you know uh like very very gruesome violence against women
But he was reasonably intelligent. I mean, you know, I would say smarter than the certainly smarter than the average college student, probably smarter, as smart as the average college professor is smarter and very reflective and narcissistic. And so he liked to he liked to feel like he was helping. So if you've ever seen Mindhunter or read the book or know anything about their cases.
they spoke with Ed Kemper a lot because he gave them information into the mind of a killer by reflecting on his own crimes. And so he's very self-reflective as well. It's unclear how honest he was being about all of that, because again, if he's, you know,
high in narcissism he's you know probably inflating he was smart enough to probably fool some some people into uh thinking certain things um but he was interesting to me because he was he was fairly intelligent and at least in interviews with profilers and other people very fairly even keeled Um, and I've always found that fascinating.
The, the other guy I think that came to mind would be, uh, Richard Kuklinski. He was a mafia hit man. And I remember that his interviews in prison were maybe one of the first things I asked, you know, I watched it on YouTube, like before true crime was really big on streaming platforms or anything. And I'm not a, I'm not a huge true crime snob. I haven't watched every documentary out there.
So I'm sure there's others, but Richard Kuklinski was, uh, Maybe one of the most interesting ones I watched him was one of the first because he is so he embodies what we envision as a psychopath. If you've ever seen No Country for Old Men, Anton Chigurh, he's kind of he's like Anton Chigurh in real life. I mean, he is so.
Just flat with his affect, he has no there's no emotion, it's almost like there's nothing behind him when he's talking and he'll talk about, you know, these horrible crimes he did as a mafia hit man. And it's like, it just doesn't affect him at all. And it's, it's crazy to watch because he's not really, he's not erratic or anything. He's very cool, calm and collected.
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Chapter 6: How does morbid curiosity relate to violent behavior?
And so that feels like something very relevant, right? These people were just in a car and they just had an accident. I'm in a car.
hope they're not injured but if they are i kind of want to know what the consequences of something bad happening in a car are um and many times when you when you're looking at a car wreck on the side of the road the police or the ambulances have already been called it's already been attended to it's not like you're looking at it and then nobody ever calls the police or calls the ambulance or nobody's been notified the authorities to come take care of it right um so i think it's less of the
I think it's a little harsh to call it something like gawking or I don't know, rubbernecking is what we call it in the US because you're sort of cranking your neck to look at it. But most people who engage, I would say most people engage in that. And most people who engage in that are hoping that nobody's actually injured, right? They don't hope that someone is injured.
But if someone is, that is a good signal to the consequences or potential consequences of driving a car every day to work.
Have you seen a dead body and how did you feel when you saw that dead body?
I don't think I have. I don't think I've seen a victim of a crime or an accident or come across a victim of a crime or an accident. I've probably seen a dead body. I probably have actually in a car wreck or something briefly, but I've never been in a place when someone died and watched them. die.
Again, I'm trying to think aside from a hospital or a cadaver for a school anatomy class or something. I haven't been in a place where someone died unexpectedly and maybe violently.
I have. I've been on a beach with a guy that had a heart attack. Oh, wow. I think the toughest part when you're there watching that is watching all the people around that are hysterical and trying to save the person. I don't think it's necessarily seeing the, because the person's quite still. It's the drama that's going on around them that makes it more intense, I think.
But the feelings at the time were really just very overwhelming. And still, as I'm talking to you now about that, I can visualize it right now. Visualize the beach. Visualize the faces of the people. It's a pretty horrific thing to watch. Yeah.
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