Strawberry Letter

It Was Just A Suggestion

10 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to a man that is always about to explode about something. He’s easily irritated and likes to gripe abo...

He Keep Sharing His Toys

09 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year single woman and I’m in a long-distance relationship with a man that lives with two females. They ha...

A Slap In The Face

06 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old engaged woman. I met my fiancé while in the miliary and we hung out for 2 years before I had se...

She Doesn't Know He's My Husband

05 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 51 year old married woman and my husband and I have 1 child. We’re separated for a while because he admitted...

On Campus Clowning

04 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single mother of an honor student that got a full ride scholarship to a predominantly white college in the northea...

I Just Can't Do This

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 4 years and I asked him to marry me recently because time is of the essence and I want to hav...

I'm Married To A Messy Mitch

02 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a wife, mother and businesswoman. I have known my husband for 13 years and we’ve been married for 10 years. In...

Right Under My Nose

29 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley,  I'm a 44 year old man and my wife and I are legally separated and I am facing legal charges because of her.  We wer...

Believe Half Of What You See

28 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for almost two months and a few days after we said ‘I do,’ my life changed. We met at chur...

Why Is My Man So Childish

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

  Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m too old to be playing games with my husband. He’s 60 and I’m 58 years old. He’s a coach and...

He Doesn't Make Me Feel Safe

26 Apr 2022

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  Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old woman and my fiancé is 30. We met at a house party four years ago and we got engaged a f...

Bless This Blended Mess

25 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 47 year old married woman and we have a four bedroom house.  I have a two children from a previous relationship an...

The International Player About To Get Played

22 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for nine years and I have been tapping my husband's phone and I’ve found out about his three-year in...

Where Do I Fit In With His Friends

21 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently married the man of my dreams and I love everything about him, except his female friends and his ex-girlfriends. Thi...

My Husband Really Enjoyed The Prom

20 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 11 years and I have one daughter that’s 15 and my husband and I have an 8 year old. My husba...

They Let Their Husbands Run Wild

19 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 2 years and I’m 25 years old. My husband is 26 and he pursued me heavily until I let him tak...

Her Family Is Ghetto And She Doesn’t Know It

18 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I grew up in a two-parent home and both of my parents earned college degrees and worked hard to provide a good life for me and...

How Often Should You Get A Massage

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30-year old man and I love working out. I started a new, very intense workout routine last month and my trainer su...

My Bf Is A Showoff

14 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for almost 9 years to a man that would rather buy me things than talk to me and spend time with me. We...

He's Hiding Money In This Raggedy House

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 49 year old married woman and my husband is 59. We’ve been married for 6 years and this is my first marriage...

What’s The Rush

12 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with the same man for 11 years and he asked me to marry him 4 years ago. Now all of a sudden, he wants to set ...

He Needs Some Friends

11 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our late forties and we’ve been married for 20 years. We have one son that was active in sports ...

My Two Older Side Dishes

08 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 56 year old married woman and my husband and I have been married for 18 years. I work as a CNA at a really nice se...

Thotting Thursday

07 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 48 year old married woman and I’ve been married since I was 22 years old. My husband is 3 years my senior an...

He And His Brother’s Baby Mama

06 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 11 years and we had 2 daughters. The last three years of our marriage, he messed with his brother’s ba...

Is My Man A Gold Digger

05 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old licensed cosmetologist, nail technician and esthetician. I have a hair salon, I do eyebrows, nails and...

I Hate All Of His Family And His Friends

04 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend of 2 years has been talking about marriage, but I hate all of his family and friends. We’re both 33 years o...

Let’s Make A Deal

01 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a very beautiful and buxom female in my mid forties and I’m divorced. My husband cheated on me with an acquain...

Loving In All The Wrong Places

31 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m ashamed to even be writing to you so don’t judge me. I’m a 52 year old man and my lady-friend is fifteen...

My Ex Children Aren't Welcome

30 Mar 2022

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I Didn’t Mean What I Said

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 8 years but we’ve known each other for 15 years. We have been through ups and dow...

They Want Equal Treatment

28 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

  Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late forties and my sister-in-law is my best friend. My brother is cheating on her and she found out fr...

Your Place Or Mine

25 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 57 and my boyfriend is 62. His grown children live with him and my father lives with me. We can’t catch a break when i...

The Crazy Cookie Lady

24 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old single woman and my mom had me when she was 42 so she’s considerably older than my friends’ parents. I...

I Need Both Of Them

23 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been through hell and back in our short 4 year marriage. He cheated on me first and then I cheated on hi...

My Daughter Is Married To A Hobo

22 Mar 2022

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He Took It At The Dinner Table

21 Mar 2022

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He’s In A Situation With His Wife

18 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36 year old single woman and I’m dating a man that has been separated from his wife for 4 years, but they are not div...

The Backseat And The Barbershop

17 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married woman in my late forties. I have a boyfriend that’s 5 years younger than I am and he’s also married. He is...

My Husband Won’t Let Me Out Of His Sight

16 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 8 years and during the pandemic, we did the opposite of gaining weight. We got serious ...

Right Situation With The Wrong Man

15 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old woman and I’ve been dating the greatest man on earth for about 4 months. I wanted to do things right thi...

He Hates His Wife But I Don’t

14 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old married man and my sister-in-law is living with us temporarily. She and my brother are separated because s...

They Don’t See What I See

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m dating a wealthy, handsome and very powerful man. He’s a popular motivational speaker and life coach online and in our...

Can My Sugar Baby Be My Lady

08 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman for a year and I need some advice. She’s 35 and I’m 54 years old. When we met, ...

Keeping A Secret Always Backfires

07 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my late twenties and I got married 2 years ago. My husband is 11 years older than I am and he’s a great man, but he...

My Wife Is Hella Aggressive

04 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 35 years old and my wife is 34. We’ve been married for four years and we have a toddler. My wife is 5’1” and she w...

He Has A Lot Of Jokes In The Bedroom

03 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 4 years and we were supposed to get married before all of the Covid drama. He moved into my house...

I'm Here For A Good Time Not A Long Time

02 Mar 2022

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My Boss Wants To Whip Me

01 Mar 2022

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He Won’t Let Me Lead

28 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 40-something married female and I knew that my husband cheated on me for years and I finally gave him an ultimatum at ...

Is She My Queen Or A Narcisst

25 Feb 2022

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Best Friends and Lovers

24 Feb 2022

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I’m The Captain Of This Ship

23 Feb 2022

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What Was She Was Doing When I Was Gone

22 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old black man, married for 9 years. When I got married, I was young and still in the streets. Over time, I got...

He Stole My Heart and A Few Other Things

21 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, a while back I met a man on a dating app and it was supposed to be just a one-night stand. He came over and we had the most ex...

My Daughter’s Husband

18 Feb 2022

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My Husband Found The Wrong Gift

17 Feb 2022

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It’s A Lot To Leave

16 Feb 2022

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Keeping It In The Family

15 Feb 2022

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Over 60 And Full Of Stamina

14 Feb 2022

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Sexy And 70 Still Stutters

11 Feb 2022

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My Grandson's GF Jumped Me

10 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 68 year old divorced woman, living with my daughter and her 16 year old son. Well, they’re living with me, in my hou...

If It Ain't Broke Don't Fix It

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 21 years and we have 3 teenagers at home. I’m working from hom...

He’s Not Satisfied But I Am

08 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to my college sweetheart and he’s a great man but we don’t get along now. I wore the pants in our family for...

My Husband’s Stray Cat

07 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our late thirties and my husband is working on his bachelor’s degree. He’s been at it for a few ye...

He Shouldn't Be In My Purse

04 Feb 2022

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Caught On Camera

03 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 42 year old married woman but I’m separated from my husband. I’ve been married 4 years and I was in a long-distanc...

His Super Boo Game Party

02 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old female, dating a 34 year old man. We met at our college homecoming 2 years ago and we didn’t know each o...

How Far Is Too Far With My Man

01 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for 2 years and we’ve been married for six months. I’m 28 and he’s 3 years younger t...

One Husband Three Men

31 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 12 years and I have cheated on my husband for the past 5 years. My husband is a bit older than I am, a...

A Masterpiece Without Peace Or A Piece

28 Jan 2022

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This Cannot Be My Life

27 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 35 year old female with a cute face and a small waist. I haven’t had any trouble meeting men but I’ve had trouble ...

Her Husband Is Better Than Mine

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for 11 years total and married for 8. My older sister has been married for 15 years and he...

In Love And Terrified

25 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 32 and my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. He’s a great guy and everything I’d hoped for in my sec...

He Won’t Stay Out Of My Stuff

24 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 46 year old married woman and this is my second marriage. When I was dating my new husband, he’d love wearing my hou...

I Need To Get Away For A While

21 Jan 2022

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 43 year old married woman and my husband and I have 4 children. The teenagers are fine, but I went and had 2 younger c...

We Did It And He’s Trying To Do Me

20 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old married woman and I’ve got a problem with my district manager. For years, we flirted with each other and...

He Won't Honor My Husband's Memory

19 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 47 year old woman and I’ve been dating my soulmate for the past 8 years. We could not be more perfect for each other...

Boo Boo Breaths Assistant

18 Jan 2022

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My 3 Way Love Affair

14 Jan 2022

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She Only Wants To Be A Baby Mama

13 Jan 2022

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old single woman and my long-time friend has two children by my brother. He’s a business owner and he’s in...

Polite In The Streets, Rude In The Sheets

12 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old newlywed and I married a pastor whose wife died 5 years ago. Long story short, I started attending his chu...

Hump Day And Wednesdays Are Two Different Days

11 Jan 2022

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They Both Want Me

10 Jan 2022

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old divorced woman and I recently got divorced because my husband caught me cheating on him. I had been having...

Thick Thighs Oh My

07 Jan 2022

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem with meeting men and when I do meet them, they can’t handle a woman like me. I’m 34 years old and I’m 5...

Smother Lover

06 Jan 2022

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 39 year old woman, dating a 45 year old man. We met a year ago and things started off fantastic and moved quickly. He i...

What Will She Do Next

05 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have never written into a show before so be easy on me. I’m married to a woman that I did not date long enough. In the beg...

Santa Stopped at the Wrong House

04 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 40 year old married woman and my husband and I have two children, ages 6 and 8. He’s a fireman so he’s used to dre...

Living With Another Mans Wife

03 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married a little over a year now and this is my second marriage. Since the wedding, my husband and I had been sear...

I Want A Real Man Not This Man

31 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my husband for 13 years, but we have been together for a total of 23 years. We have one son and my husb...

I Need More Than Hugging and Hunching

30 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am engaged to a 63 year old man that acts a lot older than he is. His thoughts on sex and life in general shock me and I nee...

An Unattractive Man's Plea For Help

29 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing you for advice since I have heard you guys talk about this on the show before. I’m in my mid 30s and I’m an e...

Her Old Man Is Taking Care of My Family

28 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have two children with my high school sweetheart. We both come from seriously dysfunctional families and we were all each ot...

20 Years Later He Still Wants the MGP

27 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 46 year old single lady and I am ready for the next chapter in my life. In 1999 I dated a man off and on for a while, b...

If You Lost Your Underwear Please Call Me

24 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married man that drives part-time as a Lyft/Uber driver for extra income for my family. Last week, I got home late one ...

I Have Never Seen it or Touched it

23 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with a great guy for the past six years. We live an hour apart so it’s not far a...

My Husband's Supportive Secretary

22 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 14 years and we have two sons. My husband is a middle school principal and I work full time in an offi...

I Get Excited Very Easily

21 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your help and advice with an embarrassing problem. I’m a 28 year old, healthy black male and I am single. Sinc...

Best of 2021: My Husband and His Pretty Best Friend

21 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve known my husband since I was in high school and we’ve been in an off-and-on relationship for 31 years. Years ago, my ...

I Thought I Found the Perfect Man

20 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hardworking, educated, financially secure, good looking mature woman with a lot to offer, but since my divorce, I had b...