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Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1441 - Rick Loves Videotaping his Wife with Other Guys

28 Apr 2026

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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?

0.031 - 15.323 Kathy Kay

Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or X, follow me at strict anonymous. If you want to be on this, if you want to be on the show, it's called

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15.303 - 37.834 Kathy Kay

strictly anonymous because I change everybody's voices and everyone's name so if you have an interesting naughty secret life or even just regular not so naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous if you're out and proud that's cool too you can be on the show I also look for like health related stories now I have a sexual health Saturday so

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37.814 - 57.787 Kathy Kay

So if you have any kind of interesting health story, I love stuff like that health and fitness story. You could send me an email at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com or just go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on be on the show. If you have a naughty confession that you want to leave on my confessions hotline, you could do that 24 seven. The number is 347-420-3579.

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57.807 - 77.372 Kathy Kay

That's 347-420-3579. 420-3579. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode and I talk about them. The rest of them all go up on my Patreon. My Patreon is a great place. Listen, if you're annoyed with these beginning intros and you don't want to hear effing ads anywhere,

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77.352 - 107.359 Kathy Kay

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107.339 - 132.144 Kathy Kay

It's now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out till August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show, told in the third person. They're quick, short stories. Think like Penthouse Forum letters or naughty, true stories all in one book.

132.164 - 147.946 Kathy Kay

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147.966 - 168.414 Kathy Kay

We have lots of contests, tons of different channels with all kinds of content, but it is private and I only give links to either my guests. If you call into the show, you get a link to my Discord or get my book or join my Patreon. You get it from all that. Last thing I want to tell you about is if you are looking to get into the lifestyle, the site I recommend to everybody is SDC.com.

168.554 - 186.334 Kathy Kay

SDC.com is like the world's largest online adult dating site, but it's so much more than a dating site. It's more than a pickup place, okay? You go on there, you're going to learn everything about the lifestyle. They have live events. They have educational stuff that you can learn on there. They also will tell you where all the gangbangs and swinger clubs and

Chapter 2: What led Rick to explore hotwifing with his wife?

815.847 - 838.007 Rick

You know, I wasn't unhappy. She wasn't unhappy. This was just, in the way that I even presented it to her whenever, you know, I realized I was getting close to getting her to crack on it because I had to pressure her. Of course. I had to bring it up several, several times for a long time to get her to do it. And I said, listen, you know, I said, nobody knows about it.

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838.528 - 861.686 Rick

And still, for the most part, nobody knows about it. It has gotten out a couple of times, but it's just not, you know, widely known that we know of anyway. Nobody's ever brought it up to us except for one or two people. It's just a sexy game that we play. And, you know, that girl is a fantasy. That's not. my wife, if you will, you know, that's just kind of how we look at it.

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861.726 - 873.962 Rick

This is, this is a whole fantasy that we're playing out. And then the next day it goes back to husband and wife and we've got kids and, you know, Baseball practice and football practice and all the crap that goes on with you know being a family.

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874.122 - 892.183 Kathy Kay

Yeah, I got it So let's let's walk it back though to that point that you were telling me before so you wind up saying hey I've been having these dreams I'm kind of into this and she's like what the fuck you know, how how like what were your conversations? Like after that and how did they progress to the point where she said, okay?

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893.905 - 898.29 Rick

Okay, so The conversations

Chapter 3: How did Rick's wife initially react to the idea of hotwifing?

899.806 - 916.161 Rick

She pretty much just shut it down. The conversations was was nonexistent. And of course, I'm not going to fight with my wife over this. It's not worth that. And none of it is is is worth divorce. So I would just shut my mouth for a little bit.

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You're not going to believe me, but they all look like something you could just like literally leave on a bookshelf or your nightstand and nobody would know that it's a sex toy.

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Chapter 4: What role does humiliation play in Rick's experience?

975.767 - 1001.059 Kathy Kay

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Chapter 5: Why do Rick and his wife prefer not to hook up with newbies?

1001.748 - 1017.057 Kathy Kay

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1046.551 - 1074.501 Rick

quickly at savage.love subscribe and then the dreams would continue on and again a couple weeks later I'd bring it up again and I'd get shut down again and so then I said okay well let's compromise I really want this so tell me tell me about your ex tell me about you know you had One guy in your life that just set the bar and fucked you better than anybody ever had.

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1074.842 - 1091.668 Rick

And she was like, well, it's you. That's not what I'm wanting to hear. Okay. So if it's me, then tell me the second best guy. Right. And so then she starts telling me about ex boyfriends. And she started seeing how that that really turned me on. And usually it was her giving me a blowjob and talking to me about these things.

1091.768 - 1109.835 Rick

And I would get off way harder than I normally did whenever she was doing that. Well, then we she kind of started opening up about her past a little bit. And I mean, there's no really other way to say she was a fucking slut. You know, and I like that. You know, I like that. It was, you know, she she had kind of.

1110.17 - 1125.343 Kathy Kay

kept that hidden from me and i get it you know i mean slut shaming is a thing too totally that's another thing that women deal with thank god forbid she told you before you you copped to the all these dreams what she really did you know what i mean you might have not put a ring on it

1126.268 - 1129.433 Rick

Well, and honestly, I would have. Right.

1129.694 - 1144.159 Kathy Kay

And I know plenty of guys out there that not only are okay with it, but like down. They like girls like that. You know what I mean? And obviously you're that type because she also has a very big personality and that doesn't intimidate you at all. But I'm telling you, there's a whole slew of guys out there.

Chapter 6: What was the couple's first experience with a new partner like?

1158.212 - 1163.998 Kathy Kay

But, you know, she's leery because we all know as women that most guys are that. A lot of guys are that type.

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1164.859 - 1192.312 Rick

So that progresses on. And, you know, the stories and the talking and things like that. And then I started, listen, I really want to do this. I really want to do this. Well, now she's less taken aback by it and I guess more cautious. I think she felt like maybe I was trying to use it as an angle to be able to get with another woman, which was not the case, which was not the case at all.

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1193.313 - 1217.356 Rick

And she pretty much, she said, okay, listen, if I even consider doing this, don't come at me six months eight months a year later and say okay well i let you fuck this one this one this one and this one so now i want to go have sex with another woman because she wasn't she wouldn't have been down with that she's not open to you being with other women No, no, not at all. Not at all.

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1217.376 - 1220.199 Rick

And I don't want to be with another woman. I don't.

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1220.7 - 1239.443 Kathy Kay

So before people come after her and you, or her, a lot of times they go after the woman. Like, that's not fair. She gets to be with other people, but he doesn't. But you guys are the perfect pair because you don't even care. So what does it matter? It doesn't matter. It's not tit for tat. It's like you don't want it and she doesn't want it. So you guys make a great pair. End of story. Keep going.

1239.463 - 1248.998 Kathy Kay

Because people go after stories like this. They'll be like, oh... So selfish. That's wrong. It's like if he doesn't care, what does it matter? You don't need to harp on it. You know what I mean?

1249.078 - 1275.894 Rick

Yeah. Yeah. The desire to have another woman is not it's not in me at all. And she knows that now. She trusts that. But we've done this so many times now. Like it's really it's been a long road. So. And then the second thing was, I mean, of course, just like any couple that's been together more than a month or two, we have fights and we have arguments. It happens, right?

1275.994 - 1297.412 Rick

You live with somebody for 18 years, eventually you're going to want to choke them. And so she said, listen, if this is ever brought up and thrown in my face again, You know, I'm done with it. You know, not us, but this whole thing. And I was like, look, you know, that'll never happen. And it never has, you know. And she's like, all right.

1297.432 - 1300.962 Rick

She said, well, I guess I'll bite the bullet and give you what you want.

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