Stuff Mom Never Told You

SMNTY Classics: Queer People We Admire

10 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Anney and Samantha share some of their queer icons, discuss the risks of putting icons on pedestals, and Anney talks about coming out in this classic....

SMNTY Classics: Diary of a Queer Kid

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this classic episode, Anney shares her journey of realizing she was queer.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Hour #119: Shortcomings (SATC S2 Ep. 15)

08 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In our continuing Sex and the City watch and react podcast, we talk about a wide range of shortcomings and dating (and breaking up with) the family. A...

An Update on the Queer Community

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this already slightly outdated episode, we survey some recent news impacting the queer community, and discuss the poor ways some politicians and co...

Feminists Around the World: Mawjoudin

06 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For today’s episode we are talking about a non-profit organization from Tunisia fighting for justice, equity and respect for bodily and sexual right...

Monday Mini: The Self-Deprecating Episode

05 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Why do we self-deprecate? What does it have to do with women and trauma specifically? Will Anney and Samantha ever be able to attend a party without m...

SMNTY Classics: An Ace on Our Sleeve

03 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Anney and Samantha sip some drinks and Anney talks about Pride, being ace, and belonging in this classic episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for priva...

SMNTY Fiction: Terminus (Chapter 10.1)

02 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Tilda and Madison reach their destination, but not without perils.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Hour #118: You Have a Fanfiction Update!

01 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Anney revives the comment thread on publishing fanfiction, fanart, community and getting out of your own head.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy ...

Google and Abortion Data with Bridget Todd

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Nearly a year after the overturning of Roe v Wade, Bridget Todd breaks down Google's public statement that they would delete private data around abort...

Feminists Around the World: Maya Lin

30 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we are talking about Chinese-American activist and artist Maya Lin, and all the work she has done in the world of Human Rights and environmental...

Monday Mini: When Expressing Your Boundaries Makes You Feel Bad

29 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Many women have difficulty expressing boundaries, us included. We talked about recent steps forward and steps back we've had, and the guilt around all...

SMNTY Classics: The Original Star Wars Trilogy

27 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Star Wars celebration continues with a look at the original trilogy in this classic. Anney and Samantha use their visual scanning to shine a light...

SMNTY Classics: Mabel Ping-Hua Lee

26 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yves brings us the fascinating story of Mabel Ping-Hua Lee, the first Chinese woman to get a PhD in economics and a force to be reckoned with in the S...

Happy Hour #117: The F*ck Buddy (SATC S2 Ep. 14)

25 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We pick back up with our Sex and the City watch podcast with a discussion on f*ck buddy relationships - how they work and why they fall apart, along w...

Book Club: Kim Ji-young, Born 1982

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're talking about Cho Nam-Joo's international bestseller Kim Ji-young, Born 1982: A Novel. It follows the life of the titular character as she...

Fictional Women Around the World: Bo-Katan Kryze

23 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bo-Katan Kryze's impact on Mandalorian history, and the Star Wars universe at large, is hard to overstate. We set our sights on her past, her politics...

Monday Mini: Vicarious Embarrassment

22 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

After an awkward experience at a high school play, Samantha discusses vicarious embarrassment and how it impacts her. Meanwhile Anney showcases her st...

SMNTY Classics: Sabine Wren

20 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Artist, builder, rebel, Mandalorian and one-time Darksaber wielder. Sabine Wren has gone through several arcs as a character, including reconciling wi...

Female Firsts: Aurora Reyes

19 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yves helps us brush up on the history of Aurora Reyes, Mexico's first Mexican woman muralist.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 6

18 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How does Western Christianity impact views on divorce, especially for women? We dig into some numbers, theories and examples.See omnystudio.com/listen...

Happy Hour #116: What Happens On SMNTY, Stays On SMNTY

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Samantha went to an awkward play! Anney went to Vegas! We talk about both, and navigating tricky situations and exes.See omnystudio.com/listener for p...

Feminists Around the World: Wai Wai Nu

16 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're talking about an activist and advocate who has been working to empower people all over the world, Wai Wai Nu.See omnystudio.com/listener f...

Monday Mini: A Checkin on House Ownership

15 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A year after buying a house, Samantha shares an update.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

SMNTY Classics: Dr. Aphra

13 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this classic episode, Anney and Samantha dig into the chaotic, queer, morally ambiguous Star Wars answer to Indiana Jones, Dr. Aphra.See omnystudio...

Feminist Movie Friday: Strong Girl Bong-soon

12 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this special Feminist Movie Friday, we're talking about not a movie but a K-Drama called Strong Girl Bong-soon. Join us as we dig into tropes, supe...

Happy Hour #115: Games People Play (SATC S2 Ep. 13)

11 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our Sex and the City watch party continues! Games are played, metaphorically and not! Break ups! Therapy!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy infor...

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 5

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our ongoing mini-series on marginalized communities and Christianity continues as we delve into how harmful religious ideas play into marriage and fam...

Fictional Women Around the World: Fennec Shand

09 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ming Na Wen's Fennec Shand is a Star Wars fan favorite bounty hunter and assassin. We uncover some of her past.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy...

Monday Mini: When Men Don't Get It

08 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes it is hard to put things into words. Anney dishes on her recent and ongoing fridge drama, and what it has to do with gender differences.See ...

SMNTY Classics: May Princess Leia Be With You (Part 2)

06 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

No, this is the Princess Leia episode you're looking for. In Part 2 of our classic deep dive on Princess Leia, we talk about the infamous metal bikini...

SMNTY Classics: May Princess Leia Be With You (Part 1)

05 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

A not so long time ago, in a galaxy not far, far away, two podcasters came together to discuss the feminism of the original badass princess icon, Leia...

Happy Hour #114: May the Fourth Be With You

04 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In celebration of Star Wars Day, we talk about fandom and some recent big news stories.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Force is Strong With This Episode

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

On the eve of Star Wars Day, we present to you a camtono (AKA grab bag AKA an ice cream maker) of Star Wars thoughts and topics, the Light side and Da...

Feminists Around the World: Cecilia Chung

02 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For today's episode, we're talking about the trans activism and accomplishments of Cecilia Chung.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Monday Mini: Problematic Responses

01 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

David Choe's comments about sexual assault are back in the news. We talk about what he's said, actions he's taken or not taken, and the responses from...

SMNTY Classics: The Myths of Virginity (Part 2)

29 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In part two at our classic episodes on around the misinformation and disinformation around virginity, Anney and Samantha discuss Western (and particul...

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 4

28 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In our on-going series on the many intersections of Christianity and marginalized communities, we discuss sexual abuse and religion.See omnystudio.com...

Happy Hour #113: La Douleur Exquise! (SATC S2, Ep. 12)

27 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're back with our Sex and the City watch and react podcast with discussions around pain and power dynamics in relationships.See omnystudio.com/liste...

SMNTY Fiction: Terminus (Chapter 9)

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

With threats closing in and the barest hope of a cure, Tilda and Madison leave relative safety for the dark and dangerous night.See omnystudio.com/lis...

Fictional Women Around the World: Mara Jade (Part 2)

25 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Mara Jade's journey continues! Wedding bells are ringing! Bachelor parties, bachelorette parties, babies, murder. And a hot mess of an enemies to love...

Monday Mini: More Pontificating on AI

24 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As a followup to our recent AI episodes, we share some personal updates and fears. Anney defends her fanfiction honor.See omnystudio.com/listener for ...

SMNTY Classics: The Myths of Virginity (Part 1)

22 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

History has long made a Big Deal out of virginity, and also created a lot of (harmful) myths about it. Anney and Samantha shift through the history, u...

Feminist Movie Friday: Boy Meets Girl

21 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For this month's pick, we chat about the 2014 rom-com-drama Boy Meets Girl, and discuss themes around trans folks, sex-positivity and being your true ...

Happy Hour #112: Mistakes and Anxiety

20 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome, enter our anxiety corner where we discuss pressure and making mistakes.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 3

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the third part of our ever-growing series on religion, we focus on the damages of purity culture, especially in the context of rape culture.See omn...

Fictional Women Around the World: Mara Jade (Part 1)

18 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Assassin. Spy. Emperor's Hand. Smuggler. Jedi. In the Legends Universe of Star Wars, Mara Jade was a deadly, competent Force-Sensitive who managed to ...

Monday Mini: Feminism, According to AI

17 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What does AI think feminism is? Who does it think we are? We put it to the test.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

SMNTY Classics: Women and Environmental Activism

15 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to environmental activism, women have been integral throughout history. In this classic episode, Anney and Samantha discuss the eco-gend...

Book Club: I Hope We Choose Love

14 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For this month's book club, we discuss Kai Cheng Thom's heartfelt and moving work "I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl’s Notes from the End of the W...

Happy Hour #111: Adoption, Identity and Unanswered Questions

14 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Samantha does a check-in on some unanswered questions, updates, changes and challenges around her adoption and identity.See omnystudio.com/listener fo...

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 2

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As we continue our mini-series on the darkside of religion, especially when it comes to marginalized communities, we discuss religious trauma syndrome...

Feminists Around the World: Miss Major Griffin-Gracy

11 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we spotlight activist and icon Miss Major Griffin-Gracy and her leadership in the trans community.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inform...

Monday Mini: Sex Workers Protest in Amsterdam

10 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Recently, sex workers in Amsterdam protested new regulations they argue discriminate against them. We give a brief overview of what's going on and why...

SMNTY Classics: Can a Woman be the Pope?

08 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Nope! Not right now, at least. Anney and Samantha dig into why that is, and cast their thoughts towards the future and into the past, when there may h...

Christianity and Marginalized People: Part 1

07 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the first part of this series around Western Christian religion, trauma and marginalized communities, we delve into the history, numbers and some p...

Happy Hour #110: When You Gotta Go, You Gotta Go

06 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're back for another rendition of (un)happy hour! In this one, we discuss trauma around bathrooms, the lasting damage of it, and the hurt of connect...

SMNTY Interviews: Dara Starr Tucker

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Musician, historian, wearer of many other hats and expert of many topics Dara Starr Tucker stops by to enlighten us on topics ranging from music to us...

Feminists Around the World: Nim Ralph

04 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're talking about the advocacy of UK trans activist Nim Ralph.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Monday Mini: Let's Uplift

03 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In a special edition of Mental Health Monday, Samantha opens up about her mental health, ways to be mindful, and how to support marginalized communiti...

SMNTY Classics: Comedy and Activism with Chanel Ali

01 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this classic episode, SMNTY sits down with comedian Chanel Ali to discuss women, comedy, and advocacy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy infor...

The TikTok Hearings, Explained

31 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bridget Todd breaks down just what exactly is going on with the TikTok hearings, the implications of them, what a ban could mean, and why it matters.S...

Happy Hour #109: Evolution (SATC S2, Ep. 11)

30 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Friend of the show and SATC newbie Joey Patt joins us to talk about queer stereotypes, dating tropes, shifting narratives and more in our continuing w...

SMNTY Fiction: Terminus (Chapter 8.2)

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Tilda decides it isn't safe for her and Madison to stay in one place, and they prepare to set out in the dangerous night in order to seek out the poss...

Feminists Around the World: Ianne Fields Stewart

28 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

While the news can be so bleak, there are those that are and have been fighting. One of those people is Ianne Fields Stewart, a queer trans Black perf...

Monday Mini: We Wrote a Book!

27 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yes, we did, but only with the help of an amazing team of women. We talk about the process and what we're excited to share with you.See omnystudio.com...

SMNTY Classics: Banned Books

25 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are the most commonly banned books? In this classic episode, Cristen and Caroline read between the (banned) lines of history, from a legal timeli...

Female Firsts: Madame Sul-Te-Wan

24 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yves joins us to talk about the accomplishments of Madame Sul-Te-Wan in the world of film as the first Black American to be hired by a major movie pro...

Happy Hour #108: Welcome back, Settle In

23 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's the triumphant (?) return of Anney's happy hours! Back after a brief hiatus, we chat about the concept of settling down.See omnystudio.com/listen...

Book Club: The Importance of Feminist Works

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The SMNTY team announces the mysterious project we've been working on (spoiler alert, it's a book), while discussing the importance of feminist works ...

Fictional Women Around the World: Marlene

21 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the post-apocalyptic world of The Last of Us, Marlene fought to find a cure, while also looking over her best friend's daughter Ellie from afar. We...

Monday Mini: Millennial Midlife Crisis

20 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you call it peak survival or the early halfway, the millennial midlife crisis looks a bit different, if it happens at all. We talk about why t...

The Last of Us Special: Episode 9

18 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Look for the Light. In the finale of our Last of Us mini-series, we break down the heartbreaking decision at the heart of the final episode and its im...

SMNTY Classics: Everything Everywhere All At Once

17 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bring out the googly eyes and find joy with us as we unpack the many multiverses of this classic everything bagel episode of Everything Everywhere All...

SMNTY Classics: Jacinda Ardern

16 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Meet the New Zealand Prime Minister Who Gave Birth in Office in this classic episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

SMNTY <3s K-Dramas

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What exactly and why are they so popular? We go over some history, tropes and examples.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Feminists Around the World: Feminism in South Korea

14 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We look into what's going on with the feminist movement in South Korea.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Monday Mini: SMNTY Team Revisit

13 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's time to check in on the SMNTY team and discuss what it takes to make a podcast.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Last of Us Special: Episode 8

11 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When We Are In Need. In the dead of winter and deprivation, with hope dwindling, Ellie is captured by a religious group. Their leader preaches to Elli...

Legacy and Fandom Ethics

10 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the face of increasing violence against the trans community, a new Harry Potter game has become a flashpoint of conversation. Friend of the show an...

Happy Hour #107: The Caste System (SATC S2, Ep. 10)

09 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our journey down the Sex and the City lane continues as we power through the second season and topics of racism, class, relationships, suits, success ...

SMNTY Interviews: Elica Le Bon

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Activist Elica Le Bon joins us to break down the situation in Iran and why women are and have been crucial to the revolution happening there.See omnys...

Feminists Around the World: Dr. Rebecca Gomperts

07 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we focus in on Dr. Rebecca Gomperts, and the waves she has made in the realm of reproductive rights and abortion (on a boat!).See omnystudio.com...

Monday Mini: A Cozy Monster

06 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Samantha updates us on her cozy gaming adventures, and shares some of the recommendations listeners have sent in. Y'all have created a monster. A very...

The Last of Us Special: Episode 7

04 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Left Behind. Ellie flashes back to an innocent mall outing that ended in love at first bite, and wrestles with survivor's guilt in the present.See omn...

SMNTY Fiction: Terminus (Chapter 8.1)

03 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this installment, Tilda is faced with a choice, confronted with realities, and gets a taste of hope. And pancakes. See omnystudio.com/listener for...

SMNTY Classics: Daddy Issues

02 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are daddy issues a thing? We investigate in this classic episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Dark Side of Mom Influencers

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

There's a difference between posting a picture of your child on social media and making a business out of posting content about your child. Bridget To...

Fictional Women Around the World: Riley Abel

28 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Last of Us's Riley Abel was self-sufficient, impulsive, passionate and Ellie's first crush. When she takes Ellie on a date to the mall where the t...

Monday Mini: What is 'Daddy'?

27 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Internet is abuzz about the term 'daddy', what it means, and why it has blown up. We explore some definitions, history and examples, and do our be...

The Last of Us Special: Episode 6

25 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Kin. When family members reunite, histories and traumas come to light, revelations are had and pivotal decisions are made.See omnystudio.com/listener ...

Book Club: Wake

24 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Part graphic novel and part memoir, Dr. Rebecca Hall's Wake: The Hidden History of Women Led Slave Revolts is a beautiful and painful look into the er...

Happy Hour #106: Old Dogs, New D*cks (SATC S2, Ep. 9)

23 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode of our Sex and The City watch podcast, we chat about nap times, scheduling sex, arrogance in a partner, circumcision, and when the cig...

SMNTY Interviews: Paco de Leon

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Author, podcast host and financial expert Paco de Leon answers our burning questions around intersectional feminism and finance.See omnystudio.com/lis...

Feminists Around the World: Michelle Browder

21 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today we highlight the works of artist, activist and historian Michelle Browder.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Monday Mini: Cozy Gaming

20 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What exactly is cozy gaming and why does it appeal to so many? SMNTY investigates.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Last of Us Special: Episode 5

18 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Endure and Survive. What would you do for love? We talk tragedy, forgiveness, innocence, revenge and survivor's guilt. Oh, and Bloaters. See omnystud...

Feminist Movie Friday: Sister Act

17 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

SMNTY gets our act together with the 90s films Sister Act and Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit. We talk about sisterhood, believing in each other and t...

SMNTY Classics: Meta Vaux Warrick Fuller

16 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

For this rendition of a classic Female Firsts, Yves shares the story of Meta Vaux Warrick Fuller, the first Black woman artist to receive a US Federal...

Female Firsts: Sarojini Naidu

15 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yves joins us to share the story of poet, politician, activist and woman of many firsts Sarojini Naidu.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy informa...