Surviving The Covert Narcissist

Update: Introducing Children of a Narcissistic Mother to my Partner

21 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details the introduction of my children to,my partner to where we are currently at while highlighting some of the struggles we are having...

Update: Inflated Narcissistic Entitlement and Their Army.

15 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The ongoing moves and now new needs to counter from mistakes I made to agree with my narcissists mother outside of court months back. Now I have to co...

Men Do Cry: Conversation with author A. Dean

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I had the opportunity to speak with A. Dean about his experience with gaining custody over his child due to domestic violence and his new book titled ...

Update: Delays and victories. Dividing the home and keeping boundaries.

23 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details the delays and the wrenches thrown at me over the last couple of weeks with the final days of owning the marital home come to an ...

SPECIAL: The Pickup Game With Barnaby and Matthew O'Connell

12 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I had the pleasure of speaking with an interviewing Barnaby and Matthew O'Connell. They are the filmmakers of a recent film receiving a lot of buzz ti...

Support Systems: Conversation with my Sister

08 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I am so happy to bring my sister to the podcast! Discussing our journey together during my darkest time and her perspective on support and some great ...

Hoovering: I Hate You, Don't Leave Me

29 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The story details some of my experiences of being hoovered multiple times back into a relationship with a narcissist. Some of the warning signs and so...

Sexual and Psychological abuse of a narcissist (WARNING: Explicit)

15 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a documentation of some of the psychological manipulations and tactics my ex narcissist employed on my psyche throughout the course of...

Spoiler alert: She fired her lawyer

08 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode serves as validation and frustration as I am navigating my own emotions, my children's growth and we'll being, attempting to transition, ...

Update episode: Tension building up to court and the rulings.

14 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There have been a lot of Court sessions up to this point for me but this one was definitely very stressful building up to it. The house is sold there'...

The Narcissist's Special Day

07 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Whether it be birthdays, holidays, vacations, anniversaries, personal milestone dates, the narcissist has an uncanny ability to ruin them all. This ep...

Matt's story (Part 2)

30 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I spoke with Matt for a continuation of his court battles with his highly toxic ex husband. If you haven't already, I highly recommend listening to pa...

Ricia's Story

10 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I had the opportunity to email back and forth with a woman named Ricia. Her story was eerily similar to mine in many ways. And it seems like no matter...

Court battles, co-parenting, anxiety and more with Trish Valleys

26 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is another discussion with Trish Valleys. We discuss our experiences with our battles with the narcissist through the legal system where ...

Gaslighting

19 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

11 signs of gaslighting. This is tool a narcissist uses to control, manipulate, and isolate you to the point of questioning your own sanity. Intertwin...

Guilting, shaming, and an update

16 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is covering some thoughts I have been having lately about the characteristics of guilting and shaming. It is a subtle weapon narcissists ...

Trish Valleys Co-parenting, hoovering, and candid conversation

09 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Conversation with Trish about co-parenting, hoovering, and more red flags. Links to my back yard below as to the condition before and where it is at n...

Signs of Covert narcissists and CPTSD symptoms

06 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details some signs of the covert narc and symptoms of CPTSD stemming from my life experiences and hopefully some words of encouragement y...

Matt's story

27 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I emailed back and forth the man named Matt. He was telling me about his situation with his ex and where he was at now in a very high conflict court b...

An episode and epiphany

22 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I had an episode of my past traumas. Slight similarities all the different that triggered an emotional outburst. I also had a message that reminded me...

Trish Valleys discussion. Children of a narcissistic parent and more.

14 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode we discuss some experiences, thoughts, and feelings surrounding how to best support your children that are navigating through their own e...

Update: Divorce update and the control moves a narcissist will still try to play

12 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a continuation of my current situation on separating from my ex narcissist. This could be helpful for those going through divorce or a...

Identifying Red Flags and More with Trish Valleys

04 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is an open discussion of some of the characteristics that help identify the narcissist along with our own personal experiences. We detail...

Trish Valleys' Story

27 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details the story of Trish Valleys. She discusses topics of how she found herself in a relationship with a narcissist, having a child wit...

Gray Rock Method: Bore your Narcissist

21 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details some techniques that can be utilized to help you deal with the narcissist in your life you can't fully cut out. Just because you ...

PTSD, CPTST How to find healing from your past toxic narcissist

07 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode details some of my own personal battles and struggles along my journey of healing from a narcissist. Some of the steps I've taken, and so...

(Part 6) Picking up the pieces after escaping my narcissist.

27 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is the final segment that will get you up to my current timeline. After I left my narcissist, the abuse did not stop. I did still have my...

Update: second court date and the struggles of coparenting with a narcissist

24 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a description struggles of the past couple of weeks leading up to the latest court date and what the outcome is up to this point.

(Part 5) How I found strength to escape my relationship with my narcissist

13 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

12 years and 2 children later, I had some discoveries about the condition of my partner. The first 4 parts of this story lead up to my final push to f...

Update: CPTSD symptoms peaking as Custody Agreements unfold

30 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I am having some really strong and unusual reactions to the efforts my NPD ex is utilizing to prolong my ability to be with my children. Visitation an...

(Part 4) How I found myself in a relationship with a narcissist

24 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode outlines another chapter in my journey. From my wedding day, all the way to the my big revelation finally bestowed on me from my support ...

Update: First day in court under my belt.

21 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A quick update on my first day in court. Some items that got settled, some that didn't. An answer to now where I have to go from here and continue unr...

(Part 3) How I found myself trapped in a relationship with a narcissist.

10 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This is the continuation of my attempted escape from my narcissistic ex and how I found myself proposing to her and convincing myself through years of...

Update: Prepping for court and expecting the unexpected.

10 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Update on where life has been post serving my ex narcissist with divorce papers. Some of the new public smear campaign moves she has made for her fina...

(Part 2) How I found myself trapped in a relationship with a narcissist

02 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This is a continuation of my story highlighting some of the abuse experienced along my journey by my narcissistic ex. I am continuing the story from w...

Update: She has been served!!

19 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Quick update on my current situation with my NPD ex, a little background for context, and some advice on what to do if you are leaving/have left your ...

How I found myself trapped in a relationship with a narcissist

13 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This is a narration of myself documenting the mental archives of my first year with a narcissist and how it took form as she embedded herself in my li...

Introduction and NPD 101

12 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This is an introduction to myself, Phil, and what are some things that you should be aware of if you think there is a narcissist in your midst.

Surviving The Covert Narcissist (Trailer)

11 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas