That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker

29 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practi...

172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers

31 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated fo...

171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin

28 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They&rsquo...

170 The bedroom gap, Labiaplasty and Menopause with Dr Maria Sophocles

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in m...

169 ADHD and relationships with Niamh Mannion

03 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed.  Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on rel...

168 How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni

27 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni   This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is...

167 Discover your erotic blueprint for better sex with Laurie Love

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the ...

166 How to talk about sex and your desires with your partner with Laura Lee

12 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the ...

165 How society fails to support our cycles with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship t...

164 Rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin

26 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They&rsquo...

163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent ...

162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 th...

161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Ni...

160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1

09 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof  Emily and Ni...

159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe

02 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience.  E...

158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]

25 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring the...

157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality

18 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs...

156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clini...

155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one

04 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clini...

154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.    Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal bounda...

153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 1

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions.  My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I...

152 You don't need to suffer, the truth about menopause with Dr. Cathleen Brown

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia.  Emily and Dr. Cat discuss: What is menopause? What is P...

151 Cuckolding, what it is and how to it

24 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding.  Topics include: What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How ...

150 Why disabled folk need sex workers

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not h...

149 So you want to increase your desire for sex?

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your commen...

148 Having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault.  In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down wh...

147 Exhibitionism, thrusting techniques and embracing your inner slut or alpha male with Stace and Ty from Under The Sheets

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out ...

146 Navigating a sexless relationship with Irene Fehr

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work,...

145 Neurodivergent love languages, sensory needs during sex and sexuality dopamenus with Niamh Mannion

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality.  Emily and Niamh dis...

144 Why you don't need a bigger penis

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body im...

143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with bi...

142 Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton

22 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director...

141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she strea...

140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it.  FOLLOW US on Instag...

139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and p...

138 Exploring your sexual expression with disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part Two

24 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a cert...

137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One

24 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a cert...

136 How to stop recurring Thrush, Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and UTIs with Adrienne Rommel

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Adrienne Rommel also known as the Yoni Nutritionist who helps people get to the ROOT CAUSE of their chronic vaginal in...

135 Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, navigating jealousy in your relationship with Dr. Joli Hamilton

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who is a relationship coach for couples who colour outside the lines. She is a research psychologist...

134 How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra

03 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out qu...

133 Consensual non-consent and Obsessive Complusive Disorder and Sex with Reed Amber Thomas-Litmas

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Reed Amber Litman-Thomas who is a UK sex educator, activist and co-host of an amazing podcast Come Curious.  Trigger ...

132 Double penetration, dirty talk and butt plugs with Silvia Saige

20 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I am joined by Silvia Saige. Silvia is a comedian, writer, social media personality, and podcast host of Sexy Funny Raw. Silvia aims ...

131 Dealing with rejection

07 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode Emily discusses rejection. What it is? Why we experience it? and how to deal with it. Emily focuses on romantic rejection from peo...

130 How to pleasure a soft cock

28 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily discusses how to pleasure a flaccid penis in different ways. Join my sunroom ☀️ https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic Join via t...

129 Body image & dating, sensate focus and getting to know your genitals with Nadia Maxwell (BONUS EPISODE from Good Enough Nutrition Podcast)

21 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This is a bonus episode from the podcast Good Enough Nutrition by Nadia Maxwell. Good Enough Nutrition podcast is a podcast discussing nutrition, well...

128 How to get a bigger and harder erection. Discussing erectile health with Dr. Elliot Justin

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Dr. Elliot Justin MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectil...

127 Burlesque: Navigating controversy, empowerment and wild performances with Evana De Lune

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Evana De Lune, one of Australia's most sought-after Burlesque performers. Evana has over 20 years of dance experience covering j...

126 Cruising, lube, maintaining erections and queer sex with Drip founder Hugh Crothers

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Hugh Crothers, who is the founder of drip, a sexual well-being brand he started in 2020 catering to people who are curious and d...

125 I walked in on my teenager having sex, what do I do? With Dr. Tina Schemer Sellers Part 2

25 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is part two of a two-part episode In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender femini...

124 Talking to your kids about sex with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Part 1

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is part one of a two-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender femin...

123 My bladder fell into my vagina...living with a prolapse

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Season 5 of That's Orgasmic is here. Today Emily shares a personal story on her experience with an Anterior Wall Prolapse AKA a Cystocele.  Emily dis...

122 From orgasmic music to orgasmic sex with Miss Kaninna

15 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Miss Kannina who is a proud Yorta Yorta, Djadja Wurrung, Kalkadoon and Yirendali woman who has taken the Australian live music l...

121 My vagina splits every time I have sex

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily answers a listener's question 'My Vagina tears every time I have sex, what can I do?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend ...

120 Embracing your hoe phase with Jenay

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Jenay who is a certified relationship and life coach and host of her podcast ‘My Naked Mindset’ which is a sex and dating po...

119 Men, this is how to date with Celeste Moore

25 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Celeste Moore an image consultant and dating coach who helps midlife men who have forgotten how to date by providing discreet da...

118 Throatgasms, penis pumps and sexuality as we age with Susan Bratton

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Susan Bratton who is an intimacy expert to millions. Emily and Susan discuss: What Susan’s experience with her sexuality has ...

117 Breastmilk play and ADHD & BDSM with Alice Lovegood

11 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Alice Lovegood who is a sex educator, life coach and spicy creator. Emily and Alice discuss: How Alice got into this field Alic...

116 Can we orgasm without being touched? Exploring Tantra with Isiah McKimme

04 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Isiah McKimme, a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover deeper i...

115 Mistakes we're making in our relationships with Samantha Manovski

27 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Samantha Manovski who is a relationship and intimacy coach. Emily and Sam discuss: What Sam thinks of society’s current expec...

114 Exploring your deeper desires LIVE SHOW with sexploration

20 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is the live show Emily hosted at Piano Bar Geelong in August 2023 with Bridget Scholes from Sexploration. Emily and Bridget discuss: Des...

113 I don't like to share bodily fluids with the men who fuck my girlfriend

10 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily responds to a listener's dilemma about sharing bodily fluids with the people who have sex with his girlfriend and spicing up cu...

112 Anal training, play and fissures with Marc from Happie Holl

06 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Marc the founder of Happie Holl. Emily and Marc discuss all things butts and Happie Holl’s products: After Anal Cooling Cream...

111 What lube should I use?

03 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily answers the question 'What lubricant should I use?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stor...

110 Straps ons, scissoring & shame: unpacking queer sex with Cindra Banks

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Cindra Banks who is a sex coach and sexological body worker. She identifies as queer and polyamorous, and loves bringing "taboo"...

109 How to become a sexologist or sex therapist

28 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is answering the question ‘how do I become a sexologist?’ FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stor...

108 How to impress somebody in the bedroom

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily answers a listeners question 'Can you suggest some new things I could do in bed that would surprise my partner? I mean we have a...

107 How to find your sexual energy with Deborah Kagan

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Deborah Kagan who is a speaker, author, mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist with years of practice being a turned-on woman. She ...

106 Is it ok for a girl to cum multiple times?

13 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily answers a listener's question about vulva owners having multiple orgasms. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your commen...

105 Are you happy with your life? with Nicole

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Nicole from Your Say Nicole. Nicole is a coach, leader and podcast host who teaches individuals to stop and embody their power t...

104 Best sex toys for a submissive

06 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is answering another listener's question. The question was 'What is the best sex toy for a submissive wife?' To buy tickets to ...

103 Does penis size matter? Debunking sex myths with Selina

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Selina, a relationship and sex therapist working from Gadigal land, Sydney. They work with individuals and couples to unpack eve...

102 Do's and don'ts for an orgy

30 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Emily is bringing back two episodes a week, except this time Monday's episode will be answering your questions! This week's question was 'what to do a...

101 Zappos, sex tips and the Bachelor with Bella Johnston

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Bella Johnston an ex-reality star who featured on the Bachelors 2022. Emily and Bella discuss: Navigating life always horny Bel...

100 Talking about pegging with my Dad!?

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In the 100th episode, Emily's Dad features on the podcast.  We discuss: What his sex education was like growing up in the 70/80s What it has been li...

099 Is porn bad for you?

12 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily answers the question is porn bad for you? Emily discusses both the positives and potential harms of porn.  FREE returning to s...

098 My girlfriend wants to play with my belly button

05 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s episode, Emily answers a listener’s question about how to engage in belly button play AKA Alvinophilia. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsor...

097 July ins, period sex and sexting

28 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This is part 2 to a 2-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their July ins, period sex, kinks, masturbation, the...

096 Orgasming in your sleep, icks and rim jobs

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily is joined by a friend and they discuss their icks, green flags, red flags, orgasming in your sleep, orgasmic sex and rim jobs. ...

095 How to give a blowjob

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is all about blowjobs. Emily provides different tips so that you can give your sexual partner or partners the best blowjob for them.  FO...

094 Exploring non-monogamy with Sexologist Bridget Scholes

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode feature Sexologist Bridget Scholes discussing non-monogamy.  Emily and Bridget discuss: What is non-monogamy? Bridget's experience with...

093 Reconnecting to your sexual desire with Psychologist Emma St John

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Psychologist Emma St John discussing low sexual desire. Emily and Emma discuss: What is sexual desire? Spontaneous and responsi...

092 Is the G-Spot real?

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode answers a shaggers question “Is the G-Spot real?” Emily answers this question by unpacking the history, research and issues attached....

091 5 ways to spice up your sex life when you are single

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode gives you 5 different tips to spice up your sex life when you are single. There is so much information out there on how to spice up your ...

090 10 ways to last longer in bed

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode gives you 10 different tips to last longer during sex.  Emily discusses:  How long the average penis owner and vulva owner can take to...

089 BDSM, fire play and 24/7 dom/sub relationships with Eric Weinstein

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Eric Weinstein from 69 Whiskey Podcast. Emily and Eric discuss kinks and BDSM. Topics include: Eric’s wildest/funniest sex st...

088 Body image and sex with Psychologist Laura Lee

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Laura Lee a Psychologist based in Geelong. Laura has her own private practice Blue Space Psychology. Emily and Laura discuss bod...

087 Can you masturbate too much?

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode answers the question ‘can you masturbate too much?’ Emily discusses: How much masturbation is too much masturbation Can vibrators de...

086 Bachelor & Spinster Balls - the country sex party

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The latest episode is all about Bachelor and Spinster Balls (BNS) AKA country sex parties. Emily discusses what a BNS is, the history of BNS balls and...

085 How to have a threesome

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is all about threesomes. Emily discusses what threesomes are and how to have them. Emily discusses:  What to do first if you want to ha...

084 Is it anti-feminist to like giving blowjobs? with Indi Gage

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Indi Gage the co-host of Hot Girls Theory. Indi has a Bachelor of Arts in Gender, Sexuality and Diversity studies.  In this epi...

083 Autism Spectrum Disorder and sex with Kate Duncan

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Kate Duncan an Occupational Therapist who works with children and adults on the autism spectrum.  Trigger warning this episode ...

082 How to find self-love with Marisa Jayne

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Marisa Jayne the host of the podcast Selfish Sesh. Emily and Marisa talk all about self-love in this episode. Emily and Marisa d...

081 How to date in your 20s with Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Jess Matthews from The Boy Detox. Jess is a writer and dating & relationship expert. Jess has over 8 years of experience as ...

080 How to squirt

15 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Emily discusses squirting and how to do it. Emily also discusses how to try and avoid squirting if you don’t want to. FOLLOW US on I...

079 23 things I have learnt about sex

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Emily celebrates her 23rd birthday by sharing 23 things she has learned in her 23 years of life.  FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgas...

078 Penis owners, you have a pelvic floor too with Chloe Burger

01 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Chloe burger a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist. Emily and Chloe discuss penis owners’ pelvic health Emily and Chloe discuss: Wha...

077 Foot fetishes and choking with Talisin Switch

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Trigger Warning this episode discusses strangulation and choking. This episode features Talisin Switch.  Emily and Talisin discuss: What is the dif...

076 Exploring Queer identity and sexuality through sex work with Talisin Switch

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Talisin Switch a BDSM facilitator, kink and sexuality educator, and sex worker who specialises in queer exploration. Talisin con...

075 The worst first date...ever

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The final episode of season 3. Emily discusses a personal story of her worst first date...ever. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comment...

074 Navigating your sex life as a Malaysian Indian woman with Natasha

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This episode features Natasha AKA Lama who is a Malaysian-Indian sex-positive content creator.  Emily and Lama discuss: What the sexual culture is l...