The Art Of Coaching

E421 | Rules to Live By: Some of My All-Time Favorite Tips and Key Principles

06 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Brett fulfills the request of a listener who asked him to go through some of his biggest gold nuggets — some of the one-liners, so...

E420 | How to Reach Someone Who Seems Shutdown, Unmotivated or in a Dark Place

30 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all had somebody in our life we genuinely wanted to help — but couldn’t seem to get through to. Maybe they’re going through a rough se...

E419 | The One Question that Lowers Defensiveness Before Giving Feedback

23 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Most people have spent years studying feedback — the frameworks, the techniques, the dos and don'ts. But almost nobody has ever been asked one sim...

E418 | How to Get Better at Having Hard Conversations

16 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

For myself and a lot of other people, it seems like folks are getting more and more unprofessional. Not just individuals — organizations too.    P...

E417 | The Dark Side of Leadership Nobody Talks About

02 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Brett breaks down many of the themes that rarely get addressed in modern leadership conversations. He talks about power dynamics, i...

E416 | What Actually Makes an Elite Coach or Leader

23 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Most people can name a great coach or leader. Far fewer can explain what actually makes one. In this episode, Brett breaks down what separates truly...

E415 | The #1 Thing You Need to Know to Be a Better Presenter

16 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I break down the legitimate number one tip you need to understand if you want to present your ideas more effectively — in a way t...

E414 | How to Get Someone to Open Up When Something Seems Off

09 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Ever notice someone’s withdrawn, quiet, or clearly bothered—but when you ask “what’s wrong?” they shut down even more? You’re not alone. ...

E413 | Battling the Bullshit, Update On My New Book and Quick Business Tips

02 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I give a real-time update on a few things I’ve been working on and thinking through lately — including the Non-Superficial Bulls...

E412 | Ways to Get Over the Fear of Saying the Wrong Thing

26 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s just say it: some of you are losing time, sleep, and opportunities because you’re afraid to speak up. Not because you don’t know what you...

E411 | The Best Way to Get Ideas Out of Your Head So They Can Impact More People

12 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Most people have a bunch of notes, voice memos, and half-baked thoughts scattered across their phone, laptop, or random legal pads. They tell themselv...

E410 | A Few Things I'm Doing More of in 2026 to Be Happier & Challenge Myself

05 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This is a short, personal episode about a few things I’m intentionally doing more of in 2025—not because they sound impressive or productive, but ...

E409 | Some of My Favorite Books of 2025 (And What Helped Me Learn the Most)

29 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

I get asked about books constantly—what I’m reading, what actually stuck, and what shaped the way I think about leadership, communication, and the...

E408 | Communication Tips for Surviving Holiday Interactions

22 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

The holidays are supposed to be relaxing. Instead, they tend to throw you into rooms full of tired people, loaded topics, and conversations that go si...

E407 | When Different Leadership Styles and Generations Clash

15 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

One thing we work with a lot of organizations on is communication issues related to different generations, conflict resolution, and mismatched communi...

E406 | Re/Set Expectations So Your Team Doesn't Drop the Ball

08 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Expectations are the backbone of any team that wants to function without drama, drift, or constant hand-holding. Clear expectations create alignment. ...

E405 | Tips for Filtering and Making Sense of Information in a World That Wants to Confuse You

01 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Listen, we all have a lot of information coming at us and limited time to process it. Most days it feels like the world is set up to keep you confus...

E404 | The Hardest Conversation I've Ever Had with My Son - On Loneliness, Conviction and Doing Hard Things

24 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode dives into one of the most personal and difficult conversations Brett’s ever had — not with a client, colleague, or friend, but with ...

E403 | How to Stop Going in Circles with People Who Twist Conversations

17 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ever had a discussion that felt like quicksand? You’re trying to solve one thing, but somehow you end up defending three other things that weren’t...

E402 | The Benefits of Being the Bad Guy: Boundaries, Expectations, and Protecting Your Time

10 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

At some point, every one of us becomes “the bad guy” — the person who says no, sets a line in the sand, or disappoints someone who wanted a litt...

E401 | Most Listened To E299 | How to Quit Being a People Pleaser

03 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

People pleasing -  we’ve all seen it before (whether we recognized it or not) - constantly being agreeable, always saying yes, never setting any ...

E400 | The Lost Art of Reaching Out and Rebuilding Genuine Connections

27 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We all get busy. Work piles up, routines take over, and before you know it, years have gone by since you last checked in with people who actually mat...

E399 | How to Ethically Persuade People Without Pressure, Tricks or Gimmicks

20 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Logic rarely wins people over — emotion does.   In this episode, Brett breaks down the timeless principles of persuasion through the lens of a real...

E398 | Holding Yourself Accountable & Auditing Your Comfort Zone

13 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone talks about “stepping out of your comfort zone,” but few actually do it.   In this episode, Brett breaks down one of the biggest lies in...

E397 | David Clancy | Pivoting in Your Career, Filtering Your Passions & Building Relationships

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

David Clancy is a world-class sports physio and author who’s taken more than a few sharp turns in his career. He’s had to face the same question...

E396 | How to Stand Out in a World Addicted to Superficial Content and Noise

29 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Most of what you see online right now isn’t designed to help you grow. It’s designed to keep you nodding, scrolling, and agreeing.    Viral sou...

E395 | Keith Ferrazzi | Building Better Teams, Generosity and Adapting to an AI World

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I sit down with Keith Ferrazzi — author, speaker, and one of the most recognized voices on leadership and collaboration.   We dig ...

E394 | Dr. Nick Holton & Dr. Adam Wright | Anti-Fragility: Thriving Amidst Unpleasantness

15 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Adam Wright and Dr. Nick Holton for a wide-ranging conversation on anti-fragility—the ability not just to endur...

E393 | Tips for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and How to Stop Playing Small

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all met somebody—and been there ourselves—where no matter how much success you’ve had, you still feel like you’re about to get found o...

E392 | B-Side: How to Survive Conversations with People Who Don't Shut Up

01 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been stuck in conversations that feel like hostage situations. This isn’t about passionate people with good stories — it’s about the...

E391 | Why Sometimes Feeling Like Shit Means You're Perfectly Fine

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a lot of noise out there telling you that if you’re not jumping out of bed every morning with boundless energy, something’s wrong with y...

E390 | Subtle Strategies that Make You More Persuasive

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

When most people think about persuasion, they go straight to education (“if they just understood, they’d agree”), inspiration (“let me tell yo...

E389 | The Truth About Narcissism: 4 Types You Need to Know (and How to Navigate Them)

11 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

These days, it feels like everyone is calling someone a narcissist. Ex-partner? Narcissist. Difficult boss? Narcissist. Confident stranger on Instagra...

E388 | How to Deal with Haters

05 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever gotten a negative review on something you've made or your business? Received a one-star rating? Dared to venture into the comment sectio...

E387 | How to Deal with Defensive People Who Project

28 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Wait... when did this become my fault? Why do I feel like I’m being indicted?  That’s not at all what I meant when I said that.  I have no idea ...

E386 | What to Do If You Want to Change Careers But Feel Stuck, Unsure, or Scared

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

It can be one of the most frustrating things in the world. That discontent and confusion about your professional life and where it’s headed. The fee...

E385 | Tips for Saying What Matters Before It's Too Late

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Nothing will haunt you like the things you leave unsaid. It’s a bold statement, and a chilling one—but unfortunately, most of us know exactly how ...

E384 | 21 Questions I've Never Answered Before on Training, Dating, Leadership and Life

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

E383 | B-Side: When a Good Old-Fashioned Ass-Chewing is the Right Call

30 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Think about the last time you dealt with someone you were trying really hard to be professional with. Despite multiple miscommunications on their part...

E382 | Why "How Can I Help?" Isn't Always Helpful and What to Do Instead

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

“Is there anything I can do to help?” It’s interesting and unique how we’ve all been asked this question by a spouse, friend, co-worker, or bo...

E381 | An Unapologetic Call-Out to Those Who Claim to Want to Be the Best at What They Do

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This isn’t personal, but it’s been a long time coming. This episode is aimed directly at the legacy industries of Art of Coaching, Strength and Co...

E380 | What to Do When Clients Get Too Dependent

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Ever feel like you're coaching on repeat?  You've handed a client every tool they need, yet they keep circling back with the same issue.  Or maybe y...

E379 | Dealing with Checked-Out Youth Coaches

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Coaching youth sports can be one of the most rewarding things you can do, whether you're a parent, a former athlete, or someone who just wants to make...

E378 | How to Silence Your Inner Critic and Give Yourself More Credit

26 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is for a very specific type of person.  Those of you who are hard on yourself, and if you're being honest, it's to an unhealthy degree. ...

E377 | Why You're Drained as a Leader (and What to Do About It)

19 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Why can't someone else step up and do this? How come I'm always the one who has to do everything? What more do I have to do before someone finally tak...

E376 | Tips If You Feel Stuck at Your Job and Need a Way Forward

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Everything is okay at work, but… yeah, work is fine—I just don’t know what I’m going to do. We’ve all felt like that at some point in our ca...

E375 | Uneven Effort in Relationships & Why Dating is a Gong Show

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all felt it. That awkward disconnect when the vibe is off and you're wondering how you ended up across the table from someone who just isn’t...

E374 | How to Get Through to Incredibly Stubborn People

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been hit by it. It seemingly comes out of nowhere—a misunderstanding or argument we never saw coming. One moment you’re having a discu...

E373 | Hiring Tips Part 3: Compensation & Pay Structures

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Why is talking about money so hard?  An even better question might be: why do so many job postings treat compensation like a state secret—vague, un...

E372 | Hiring Tips Part 2: Asking the Right Interview Questions

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Most interviews miss the mark. Predictable questions. Rehearsed answers. And when it’s over, you still haven’t figured out who the person really i...

Hiring Tips Part 1: How to Attract the Right People

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Hiring the right people doesn’t start with the interview — it starts with the job posting. In this first episode of our hiring series, we tackle a...

E370 | How to Hash It Out and Get Rid of Drama

24 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

You feel it, right? That tension thick enough to slice, the elephant in the room no one dares mention. But sooner or later, it has to be dealt with. M...

E369 | How to Change the Culture of an Organization Pt. 1

17 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

You hear about it all the time. A team goes from the bottom of the league to championship contenders. A failing company suddenly becomes the industry ...

E368 | How to Stand Out as a Speaker: The Details Everyone Misses

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Most people focus on the big moments when preparing for a speech, but true professionals know it’s the small, overlooked details that make all the d...

E367 | How Busy People Can Best Use AI to Enhance Their Thinking, Not Replace It

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In a world where AI is becoming part of everything we do, the big question isn’t if you should use it—it’s how you should use it. Are you using ...

E366 | How to Be Better at Code Switching

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We all wear different hats throughout the day. One minute, you’re locked in at work, making quick decisions under pressure. Next, you’re at home, ...

E365 | How to Get Things Done When Progress Feels Impossible

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

You can’t make this stuff up.  Every time you finally sit down to tackle the project you know needs to get done, something gets in the way. You get...

E364 | In Case You Missed It E259: Understanding and Overcoming Perfectionism

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

DONE. You’ve finally finished the big project you’ve been agonizing over. But as you prepare to hit send, print, submit - whatever - all you feel ...

E363 | How to Guide Someone Who's Stuck Or Languishing

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been there. Stuck, unmotivated, and unsure of what to do or where to go next. And just as we’ve struggled, we’ve also had to help othe...

E362 | MOST SHARED E299: How to Quit Being a People Pleaser

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we’re revisiting one of our most popular episodes, and a topic people continue to ask us about.  People pleasing. We’ve all seen it be...

E361 | Tips for De-Escalating a Heated Conflict

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been there, and watched it happen from afar.  Something happens, and the temperature starts to rise. Tempers flare, and the situation bec...

E360 | The Key to Making Progress and Staying Consistent When Life is Hectic

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever heard the phrase, "no plan survives first contact," or, "everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face"?  These sayings might ...

E359 | Why You Need to Own Your Sh** to Be a Better Leader

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

New year, new you, right?  Many of us set resolutions and goals this time of year, which is a great way to start fresh. But let’s be honest: flippi...

E358 | BEST OF & MOST SHARED: E281: How to Get Better at Receiving Feedback

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This week, we’re revisiting one of our most popular episodes, because the questions about this topic just keep coming! While giving feedback is a sk...

E357 | One of My Favorite Tools for Avoiding Regrets in Conversations that Matter

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Regret. It’s a loaded word, especially around the holidays.  But it doesn’t have to be as painful as it seems. Imagine the peace of mind that com...

E356 | Advice for When You've Hit a Low Point and Don't Want to Spiral

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

There’s nowhere lonelier in the world than rock bottom.  It’s a place where overwhelm, anxiety, and uncertainty feel relentless, and the total we...

E355 | Mind Games: How the Content You Consume is Controlling You

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

This is not a “social media is bad” episode.  That conversation has been talked to death. The truth is, very few things are inherently good or ba...

E354 | Am I Lazy Or Just Mentally Drained?

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Lazy.  It's one of the most shameful things you can be. And it's largely a title or accusation we make of ourselves. Why do we so frequently feel utt...

E353 | What to Do If You Feel Like You're Stagnating

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever felt stuck or stagnant?  That restless feeling like you’re spinning your wheels, going nowhere fast, yet knowing deep down that you n...

E352 | Q&A: How to Manage a Talented But Difficult Individual

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When they’re your best player or most productive employee, but ALSO the biggest thorn in your side.  We’ve all been there and had to deal with th...

E351 | Kyle Holland: The Accountability Gap & Facing Uncomfortable Growth

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The knot in your stomach. That flush of unease when you know you’ve fallen short of your own standards.  The only way to truly adapt and evolve is ...

E350 | The End of Year Goal Audit You Need

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Audit. It’s one of the most unsettling words in the English dictionary, carrying a connotation of fear and unease that makes people shy away from ev...

E349 | Overcoming the "I've Tried Everything" Mindset

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“I’M DONE.” It’s one of the most frustrating feelings in the world.  You’ve tried everything to fix things but just can’t get through to ...

E348 | Tex McQuilkin: Strategies for Dealing with Poor Coaching and Feedback in Sport

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Empty Coaching.  Words and phrases that lack teeth. “Good job! You’re getting there! I like that.” “We’ve got to get better. C’mon, step ...

E347 | Dr. Emma Hite: Managing Motherhood, Expectations and Life Transitions

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Our lives are not the movies.  When sudden, unpredictable events like family hardships or natural disasters strike, it can feel like we’re living i...

E346 | The Cost of Silence and Not Putting Yourself Out There

07 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all heard the motivational phrase, “Failure isn’t an option.” It sounds inspiring, but is it really true?  Failure, in reality, is an o...

E345 | In Case You Missed It E202: Why Facts and Logic Don't Change Our Minds

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Why would someone hold on to a false or inaccurate belief even when you’ve laid out all the facts and logic in front of them? You couldn’t have be...

E344 | Tips for "Balancing" Work and Family Life

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the holy grail of mental health and wellness for many people. Almost all of us, at one point or another, have chased the elusive 'work-life bal...

E343 | The Power of Indirect Influence: Strategies for Convincing Stubborn People

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“They just won’t listen. No matter how clearly I explain it, they refuse to see my side of things. It’s like talking to a brick wall." Have you ...

E342 | Unpacking the Controversy of Nike's Latest Ad

09 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Am I a bad person? Nike’s latest ad asks this question, and the internet erupted in response. But is the real issue the ad, or what it reveals about...

E341 | 3 Things You Can Do Right Now to Improve Your Relationship with Your Spouse or Partner

02 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all been there. Our significant other is struggling and we ask “how can I help?”  While this is well-intentioned, is there anything we ca...

E340 | Framework Bandwagons and the Illusion of Competence

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“Before tackling this problem, let me figure out how to make this simple.  It’s really not that complicated…” Have you ever taken this approa...

E339 | Scott & Jaime Livingston: Overcoming Challenges in Relationships

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The quality of our relationships is the #1 determining factor in our overall happiness and well-being. Yet, how often do we hear real people having ho...

E338 | Taylor Evernden: Business Owner By Day, Jungle Explorer By Night

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever thought, "I'd love to do that, but I just don't have the money," or do you have interests or passions outside of your professional life ...

E337 | Tips for How to Be a Better Mentor

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you think mentorship is a straightforward, progressive process? Think again. We envision that ideal student-teacher relationship or the picturesque...

E336 | Tools and Strategies I'm Using to Write My Next Book: Sneak Peek

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“How can I do this better?”  Tackling large projects, like writing a book, can be incredibly daunting. It's easy to feel overwhelmed by your own ...

E335 | Stepping Up: How to Be a Better Advocate for Others and Yourself

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

“What can I do to help?”  Have you ever been asked that question and felt like throwing your hands up in frustration? Maybe it's a question you a...

E334 | Priscilla Tallman: Mental Performance Principles That Actually Work

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve heard it all before. Whether in sports or business, high achievers think differently than we do.  They’ve developed an internal flow chart ...

E333 | How to Ensure What You Learn Isn't Going to Waste

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

That spun out of control.  I don’t think they quite understand.  Would things have turned out different if I had approached it another way? Have y...

E332 | How to Argue with People Who Deflect and Change the Conversation

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Everything has turned into a debate.  No matter the topic, everyone seems to have an opinion.  Don’t feel left out…you’re included!  So are y...

E331 | Dontari Poe: Mental Toughness Myths and Life Tips

17 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Imagine what it takes to reach the pinnacle of any profession. We’re not just talking about the top 5-10%, but fractions of that. Now add that this ...

E330 | Unmet Needs in Relationships: How to Express What You Really Want

10 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Relationships are hard.  Even if you’ve been with your better half for years, it can still be easy to miss the forest for the trees during busy tim...

329 | Crucial Tips for Organizing and Running Your Own Events

03 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s time!  You’ve spent YEARS building your skill set and building your reputation as a leader in your field.  You’re ready to convert your k...

E328 | Copywriting: How to Persuade and Connect with Integrity

27 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do you ever feel like people are tuning you out?  It can be EXTREMELY frustrating when you know your message or product isn’t landing with your aud...

E327 | Change Management: What to Expect and Mistakes to Avoid

20 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve been brought in to be the difference maker.  You’ve done the market research and have even done some background on your new team, you’re...

E326 | What a Rap Beef Can Teach You About Business

13 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You’re on edge.  Heart is pounding.  Mind is racing.  We’ve all been confronted by someone either in-person, over email, or on social media who...

E325 | Battling Inner Demons: How to Work Out of a Creative Funk

06 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling with your work?  Feel like you’re not hitting the mark?  You’re not alone.  Today’s chat dives deep into what it feels like when n...

E324 | How to Get Good at Small Talk Even if You Hate It

29 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been in the middle of a conversation and thought “can we just cut to the chase?”   For some people small talk seems like a complet...

E323 | How to Respond When Someone Talks Down to You

22 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

E322 | A Better Way to Organize Your Thoughts: Part 1

15 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

You have to admit, it happens a lot.  You’ll be doing something mundane and BOOM, an amazing idea hits you that you’ll want to remember for later...