The Attractive Man Podcast

James Is Living His Dream Life: This Is How He Did It

01 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

James reveals how mindset, action, and confidence helped him live his dream life.🎧 Tune in now! 🔥 Want a free dating consultation? Copy and past...

How I Approached This 25 Year Old Woman (I'm 43)

23 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Matt breaks down a real street approach and shows how to create instant attraction without being perfect. Learn how to connect with w...

Dating After Divorce

12 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Divorce is not the end. It can be the beginning of your strongest chapter yet.Learn how to rebuild confidence, attract better women, and take control ...

Create Sexual Tension to Turn Women On

19 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Struggling to spark sexual tension? Learn how to turn women on naturally using confidence, presence, and emotional connection without saying anything ...

5 Things I Can't Live Without

15 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Discover the five unexpected items every man should own to boost productivity, improve hygiene, feel better, and even level up his dating life. Practi...

Why Younger Women Are Interested in Older Men

14 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Learn how older men can confidently date younger women without acting needy, trying too hard, or leading with money.🎧Listen to the full episode now...

5 Rules for Texting Girls

05 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Master 5 texting rules that prevent ghosting and help you attract women with confidence.Listen now to discover how I break down response timing, minds...

10 Dating Tips That Will Change Your Life

26 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Unlock the essential dating habits that set high quality men apart. Matt walks through ten simple but effective tips that help you connect with women,...

What To Say When She Asks How Old You Are

24 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Matt breaks down why age is never the real issue in dating and how insecurity destroys attraction faster than anything else. Learn ho...

Does Watching Porn Ruin Your Sex Life?

22 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Is porn secretly damaging your sex drive, confidence, and relationships? Learn how excessive porn use affects your brain, intimacy, and performance, a...

2 Magic Words That Turn Women ON

29 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Learn how to confidently ask for what you want from women without fear or hesitation. Discover simple mindset shifts and communication techniques to a...

How Bad Boys Get Women

28 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Discover why women are drawn to confident, authentic men who stay true to themselves. Learn how indifference and self-assurance boost attraction and d...

5 Tinder Hacks to Triple Your Matches

27 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of getting zero matches on dating apps? Discover 5 powerful steps to instantly boost your profile, attract quality matches, and finally start la...

Emotional Connection - 97% Of All Women Are Turned On When You Say THIS

04 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Unlock the secret to building intense attraction without being too direct or too “nice.”Discover how to use sexual tension, emotional connection, ...

What To Do If She Doesn't Text Back?

14 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Learn why ignoring texts is bad dating advice and how persistence (done right) can lead to more dates. Discover simple re-engagement texts, cliffhange...

Best First Text To Send A Girl

30 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

What’s the best first text to send a girl that almost guarantees a reply? Dating coach Matt Artisan shares his proven strategy with an 82% reply rat...

Too Fat to Get Girls? That’s a Lie (case study)

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

From Rock Bottom to Confidence: Tucker’s StoryIn this powerful episode, Tucker Perry shares his raw and inspiring journey from heartbreak, depressio...

We can have sex on the first date

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan speaking with Helena , who works at a sex resort in Cancun, Mexico, about her preferences in men, dating, and relationships. She discusse...

7 Girls react to Being Approached by a Stranger

01 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan approaches 7 girls while streaming live on FaceBook and breaks it down for you.

Hot Girls Giving their Best Dating Advice for Men

28 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Attractive women share their top dating tips for men, offering insights on confidence, approach, and building genuine connections.

53 year old says "I got an as many dates as I want to..."

26 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Grant, a 53-year-old from Sydney Australia, shares his experience on how he transformed his dating life. He reveals the key changes he made in his min...

How to Approach a Girl when She’s Exercising

21 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Our top coach Lynn Matalon talks about how to approach a girl exercising or at the gym working out.

Do This When She Ignores You After A Date | Post Date Rejection

20 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you feel a woman is ignoring you, you have 2 choices… You either need to pull back or push forward. And knowing what to do and when to do it wil...

How I Went From Crippling Approach Anxiety To Fearless With Beautiful Women

04 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Today I’ll reveal 5 steps I used to rewire my brain and completely conquer the fear of approaching women. I had crippling approach anxiety, so bad t...

The OnlyFans Epidemic (Men are Paying to Be Lonely)

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

What is the effect of OnlyFans on dating? How is porn hurting this generation of men? What can be done?

5 Phrases that Turn Women On and 💦 (want sex)

22 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan tells you 5 phrases that will turn a woman on and make her want you.

The Secret To Make Her Desperately Want You

29 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I bet this has happened to you — you text her, and suddenly you’re glued to your phone, waiting for her to reply. The longer she doesn’t, the mo...

He tried to cold approach 100 girls | Dating Coaches React

07 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

join our expert dating coaches, Men and Lynn, as they react to the viral YouTube video where a guy attempts to cold approach 100 girls in one day! 👫...

Why Women WANT Older Men (The TRUTH)

06 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

why many women are drawn to older men. From emotional maturity and stability to life experience and confidence, we unpack the reasons that make age ...

A Date with a Playboy Model Almost Killed Me

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan here. You won't believe the wild story I have for you today—it's about a date with a Playboy model that nearly ended in disaste...

Nice Guys or Bad Boys: What Do Girls Prefer?

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial t...

Text This If She's Not Responding

20 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys, Matt Artisan here – your go-to dating coach! In today’s video, I’m diving deep into one of the most frustrating situations in dating...

Simple MINDSET will END Your Approach Anxiety Forever

17 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial t...

The Truth about HOT Women What All Men Must Know

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

The Truth about HOT Women: What All Men Must Know," we’re breaking down the myths and misconceptions surrounding beautiful women that are holdi...

Stop Attracting Women That Will Use You

10 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan here! Welcome back to another video where we dive deep into the world of dating and relationships. Today, we're tackling a crucial t...

Girls Reveal: Bad Boys or Nice Guys?

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan, your go-to men’s dating coach, and today we’re diving deep into one of the most talked-about topics in the dating world: Bad Boys v...

From One Date a Year To Seven Dates In a Week

01 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan, your trusted dating coach, as I sit down with one of my incredible students who went from one date a year to an astonishing seven dates...

Sex Therapist Explains How to Overcome Approach Anxiety in just 2 minutes!

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this quick 2-minute clip, sex therapist Nora and top dating coach Lynn share their expert insights on overcoming approach anxiety. With practical ...

How Often Do Men Approach You?

26 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan, founder of The Attractive Man, hits the streets to uncover the truth about how often men approach women. In this eye-opening interview ...

How I Rewired my Brain to Overcome APPROACH ANXIETY

23 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan, renowned men's dating coach and founder of The Attractive Man, shares his personal journey and proven strategies to conquer approac...

Do Women Really Want To Be Approached?

20 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Do women really want to be approached? In this engaging video, Matt conducts candid interviews with women from diverse backgrounds to uncover their h...

Women REVEAL the BIGGEST Dating Turn Offs

17 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Women reveal the biggest dating turn-offs! Matt interviews women in the street, in the mall, and models, asking them about the biggest dating turn-of...

Using Andrew Tate's Pickup Lines | Dating Coaches React

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Dating Coaches Matt and Lynn, from The Attractive Man, share their expert insights and reactions to Mr. Beast's recent video on approaching girls...

Andrew Tate | How to Be a Top G

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this podcast, renowned men's dating coach Matt Artisan delves into the controversial world of dating advice as he reacts to Andrew Tate's ...

How to Approach Girls (works EVERY time) | Dating Coaches React

01 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this enlightening audio podcast, renowned dating coaches Matt and Lynn, from The Attractive Man, share their expert insights and reactions to Mr. ...

The REAL Reason Women HATE Being Approached

18 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In the ever-evolving landscape of dating and relationships, the question of whether to approach women remains a topic of debate. Join us for an enli...

4 Masculine Ways to STOP Being Needy Around Gorgeous Women

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Join us as we explore the mindset shifts and behavioral changes that can transform your interactions with beautiful women. From cultivating self-ass...

Zero dates in 3 years to 25 dates in one month

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Eric Mattson's experience with TAM

$100k+ in the Bank, But Still Single? What You're Doing Wrong!

25 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Artisan here, your go-to dating coach! If you've got a solid six-figure bank balance but still find yourself flying solo in the dating game,...

7 Secrets To Sparking Instant Chemistry

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm unveiling the strategies and techniques to create that irresistible connection from the get-go. Whether you're in a social setting or a...

3 Steps to Land a High-Value Woman

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm laying out the roadmap to attracting and connecting with those incredible, high-caliber women you've always dreamed of. From mastering t...

Three Steps To Approaching Girls Anywhere

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm breaking down the secrets to overcoming approach anxiety and making those initial interactions smooth as silk. From the mindset shift you n...

Signs She Wants You to Kiss Her

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today, we'll be dissecting the body language, verbal cues, and those electrifying moments of tension that reveal she's ready for that magical...

Avoid Small Talk

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Say goodbye to mundane chit-chat and hello to engaging, meaningful conversations that leave a lasting impression. From powerful openers to steering ...

Can I Flirt Around In The Workplace

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm breaking down the do's and don'ts of workplace flirting, providing you with the ultimate guide on navigating those tricky waters. We...

How To Get Over A Heart Break

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm sharing practical, actionable steps on how to get over a heartbreak and reclaim your happiness. From understanding the emotional rollercoas...

How To Immediately Connect with Anyone

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I'm laying out the roadmap to attracting and connecting with those incredible, high-caliber women you've always dreamed of. From mastering t...

How to Create a Deep Connection With Anyone You Meet

21 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Say goodbye to shallow conversations and approaches that don't go anywhere. Even when you get her number, she won't reply back if you never m...

How to be a High-Value Man

23 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Being High-Value DOES NOT mean having looks, money, or fame. Nowadays, it takes a man that is far from average to find success in life and in dating. ...

Signs You're a Nice Guy That Women Don't Respect

07 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Women don't respect "nice guys" so you should stop doing THESE common nice guy mistakes! Matt explains why showing and doing these nice guy mistakes t...

Signs a Girl Wants YOU to KISS HER

26 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, we'll give you the best advice on how to know when it's time to kiss her. The sings that a girl WANTS you to KISS HER! We'll discu...

10 Things Men Should Always Do Before a Date

21 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, we're going to give you some advice on how to prepare for the date so that it's a success from start to finish!  Whether you'...

The Best First Text You'll Send

10 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Matt shows you his best techniques and examples of how to text a girl you like..   ..A lot of guys don't really know even the basics of how ...

Signs She Wants YOU to Approach Her

01 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Matt shows the best signs she wants you to approach her and exactly how to approach a girl to make her like you. Follow more of these dating advice fo...

Get a Girl to Like you in 24 Hours (Or Less!)

12 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Don’t wait days, weeks even months – this is the best way to get a girl to like you in 24 Hours (or less!) This is what you do..

3 Worst Dating Mistakes Guys Make

27 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Whether you're a single man looking for the right woman, or just need some general guidance, listen to these tips to jumpstart your love life today.. ...

How to Approach & Attract the Hottest Girl

13 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What do you say to women and how do you say it?  Approaching Women is not rocket science! But it isn't a walk in the park either - at least for g...

5 BEST Playful Flirting Techniques Women Can't Resist

10 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Learn how to flirt with women the RIGHT WAY. Matt shows his 5 playful flirting techniques women can't resist. Getting a girl to know that you’re int...

How to be a REAL "Alpha Male"

27 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve probably heard of the term “Alpha Male” "Beta Male" or "Sigma Male" by now..  Question is, do women really fall for these kinds of g...

Why she's losing interest and how to get her interested in you again

27 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is she losing interest? Scared you're going to lose her? Want to know how to get her interested again? We got you covered.  International Dating ...

How Shy Guys Can Attract Women Like Crazy (w/ Tripp Advice)

05 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We're joined by Tripp Kramer from Tripp Advice where he shares his BEST advice for shy guys if they want to learn how to get a girlfriend.  So ma...

How to Get a Girlfriend When You Have A Busy Schedule

31 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The most successful men often have the busiest schedules. In today's video, our team of elite coaches discuss how to get a girlfriend when you have a ...

The KIND of CONFIDENCE That's SEXY to Women (Hint: Don't be a Jerk!)

24 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Matt shows you the RIGHT kind of confidence that women love and 2 Easy Ways to develop this kind of natural, attractive confidence.  Yes, this ki...

5 BEST Responses to her saying "I Have A Boyfriend!"

17 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

97% of Men freeze up when a girl says she has a boyfriend after they approach them. (Believe me, I’ve been there, too!) Matt shares his best respons...

What to do When a Guy Tries to STEAL Your Girl

17 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The Attractive Man’s team of elite dating coaches meet up yet again to discuss one of the most requested topics from our viewers - “how to attract...

HOW TO TALK TO GIRLS | What to Say to Her

13 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Men haven't actually been taught how to talk to girls.. Sure, you think you've learned the formal way to talk to girls (being a gentleman who knows wh...

3 BEST Ways to Make A Great First Impression (How to Get a Girl Like You)

09 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wanted to meet a girl and make the BEST possible impression on her when you meet and date? Reality is, first impressions always LAST. And you'd w...

How to KISS Her (THIS turns her on!) | Kissing Tips for Men

11 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Kissing advice and how to kiss her is a direct question I always get from my clients and viewers.  That's quite understandable. Since learning ho...

The Dark Side of Online Dating | #1 Tinder Mistake

26 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Matt talks about the dark side of tinder, his #1 Tinder mistake, and an online dating tip that no other coach talks about..  Tinder has been a mu...

Make EVERY interaction successful/You NEED to make her FEEL THIS (100% success rate)

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You need to make her feel THIS if you want to make a girl fall for you.. And it isn't what you normally think you would have to do in order to make a ...

Top 3 Countries for Meeting Women (and 10 WORST)

14 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

International Coach Matt Artisan, shows his top 3 countries for meeting and dating women as well as his top 10 worst countries to meet and date women....

How to Make Women Obsessed with You (Non-Manipulative and Honest)

12 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our top mentor, Matt Artisan, shares his two-step formula to get women obsessed with you. BUT this is the HONEST way. The non-manipulative way.  ...

7 RIDICULOUS Mistakes Men Make When TALKING TO WOMEN

20 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When talking to girls, its not the same as talking to men. Not all of us were told how to talk to women, much more how to talk to girls with confidenc...

How to Get Good With Women FAST in 2021 (Dating Coaches Give Their BEST Tips)

08 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

► Apply for our coaching here: https://www.theattractiveman.co/training/yt/ma/bp82WRo24XY A student in Vegas asked us "How to get good with women fa...

Are Your Texts TOO DESPERATE? | How To NOT Be NEEDY When You're Texting Women

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After all the requests to update our texting and text game advice, we've got a fresh new discussion all about how to stop being needy (when you text a...

What to do if you're SHY/INTROVERTED and you want to Meet and Date Women (feat. Tripp Advice)

17 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Matt is joined by Tripp Kramer from Tripp Advice who specializes in "Shy Guy Transformation" coaching. Matt and Tripp were both shy guys before they s...

What to Do if You Want To Get Your Ex GF, Wife, Lover, etc. Back (Breakup Advice)

10 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our team of expert coaches talk all about the best breakup advice for men who had a rough breakup and still wants to get back with their ex girlfriend...

Why Women Want To Sleep With MASCULINE Men (w/ Dr. Robert Glover)

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We're here with Josiah and Dr. Robert Glover talking all about how women want to sleep with men who know how to balance the masculine feminine polarit...

Do NOT Let Her "NO" Hurt You (How to Deal with Rejection w/ Robert Glover)

29 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One of the hardest hurdles is how to recover fast from a rejection. Today's topic covers how to deal with rejection, plus some realistic rejection mot...

The UNPOPULAR Truth About Open Relationships (w/ Dr. Robert Glover)

13 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Today we're talking about monogamy and the unpopular truth about having one vs. many girlfriends. (Honestly, of course, as in "open relationships" / p...

Best Texting Tips To Get Her Hooked | STOP Getting GHOSTED

06 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Our coaches show you the ropes of how to go about texting a girl you like. Whether its texting or messaging her online, if you don't really know how t...

8 Things You Can Do RIGHT NOW to ATTRACT The Woman Of Your Dreams in 2021 (Even DURING Quarantine!) w/ Coach Lynn

08 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

► Book your breakthrough call here: http://www.tammentoring.com/Lynn ► Join our community group: https://bit.ly/2UDl1oz Our online dating expert, ...

4 Step Ultimate Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend in Real Life in 2021

24 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The team has this simple 4-step recipe on how to get a girlfriend. You could be single and never had a girlfriend before. You could be divorced, or fr...

4 EASY Ways to Quit P0rn Addiction For GOOD!

15 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

For all you p0rn lovers out there, its time to STOP ruining your life - these are 4 STEPS to Finally Overcome Your Addiction to Pornography! This will...

Hot Women WILL NOT Make You HAPPY (Does Pick Up Actually Work in 2021?!)

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I'm joined with Dr. Robert Glover again, and this time we discuss why hot women will NOT make you happy. It might not make sense for you at first, but...

Why A**holes Get Girls & You Don't ("Nice" is NOT a TURN ON!)

03 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you being the "nicest guy" to women.. ONLY to still lose to the huge a**holes that lie and cheat yet STILL have girls all over them? Why do women ...

3 Steps to Get Her to CHASE YOU & Stop Being FRIENDZONED

27 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Tired of always chasing after women? You DON'T HAVE TO! In todays video, Matt shares his top 3 Steps to get HER to chase YOU. (And no, it has nothing ...

Why NICE Guys FINISH LAST (w/ Dr. Robert Glover)

20 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In all honesty, women loved it when i stopped being a nice guy! You men have always wondered what women want, and well, this here podcast episode answ...

7 Steps to STOP Watching PORN For Good (Porn Addiction Help That WORKS)

18 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do THESE Powerful 7 steps to stop watching porn and get your control back! Matt shows you how to stop watching porn - because it is a fact that lives ...

3 POWERFUL Ways To Be More INTERESTING In Conversations (w/ video on YouTube)

12 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Matt's 3 SIMPLE Ways to be more interesting to keep the conversation going and to help you never run out of things to say. ► Download the FREE Conve...