The Christian Dating Coach

Ep. 107: The Man You Want Has Already Met You

10 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Send a textMany extraordinary women quietly come to the same painful conclusion:The kind of man I want must not exist.But what if that isn’t true?Wh...

Ep. 107: You Can Buy Roses. You Can’t Buy This.

10 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Send a textReal love isn’t roses. It isn’t candlelight dinners. It isn’t Instagram.It’s quieter than that.It’s someone doing the dishes. ...

Ep. 106: Something Has Changed

13 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.On one side, church silence and simplification — P...

Ep. 105: Is Surrendering This Desire to God Keeping You Single?

17 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIs surrender keeping you stuck? You might be surprised. If marriage is a holy desire God placed inside you, then it’s time to treat i...

Ep. 104: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen — Give Yourself What You Want

13 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat if the only thing standing between you and your godly husband… is you? In this episode, Michelle delivers the truth that changes ...

Ep. 103: Relationship 101: Purpose — 3 Steps That Get You Engaged Faster

06 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou don’t need a complicated plan to build a relationship that actually leads to marriage—you need purpose. In today’s finale of R...

Ep. 102: Relationship 101: Problems – Don’t Let Them Cost You a Godly Man

03 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEven the best, most godly men will come with problems. Not red flags… just real life, two humans learning how to love. But here’s th...

Ep. 101: Relationship 101: Pleasure — Holy Sizzle That Leads to Marriage

30 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHigh-caliber, godly men are all around you. If they’re not proposing, it’s because you don’t know this secret: they want to feel ...

Ep. 100: The 4 Heart Postures of My Clients Who Marry High-Caliber Men

27 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textAfter 100 episodes, hundreds of coaching calls, and more weddings than she ever imagined, Michelle has seen the pattern — the women wh...

Ep. 99: Behind the Scenes: So Much Love Is in the Air. Are You Ready for It Too?

23 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textLove is in the air—holy, romantic, life-changing love. 💙In this short behind-the-scenes update, Michelle shares what’s been happe...

Ep. 98: Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language

20 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you’ve ever wished a man could just know what you need — this episode is for you.In “Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Spe...

Ep: 97 Your Thoughts Create Your Results — and Some Thoughts Will Keep You Single

16 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat if the biggest thing keeping you single isn’t your circumstances… but your thoughts?In this episode, Michelle breaks down the b...

Ep. 96 Crazy Things Christian Singles Hear

13 Oct 2025

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Send us a textYou know what’s crazy? The things Christian singles get told. “Just be content.” “Jesus should be enough for you.” “It’ll ...

Ep. 95 Shocking Words from My Dating Coach That Will Encourage and Heal You

06 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI had to stop recording this episode three times because I couldn’t stop crying.This might be the most important message I’ve ever s...

Ep. 94: A Kiss in Time for New Year's

02 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textImagine walking into the holidays with more than just another lonely year behind you… imagine a man by your side, a best friend, a par...

Ep. 93: Ask the Guys Interview – “Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out”

29 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou asked to hear from Caleb again—and this time he’s joined by two of his friends for an unfiltered, faith-filled conversation abou...

Ep.92: This is How I Created the Chemistry That Won Caleb

25 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textLast episode, you heard from Caleb, his side of our love story—how we met, what drew him in, and what made him commit. But what if I t...

Ep. 91: How We Met & Why He Chose Me: An Interview with My Husband

22 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt's Caleb's birthday today, and in this special episode, he's joining Michelle to share his unfiltered journey—what it...

Ep. 90: Dating App Photos That Make Him Commit

18 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textDating apps are brutally visual — and low-quality photos are the #1 reason amazing women are being overlooked online.In this episode, ...

Ep. 89: The Secret to Feeling Beautiful — What Men Really Think

15 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEvery woman wonders: what do men really think about beauty? In this episode, Michelle reveals the secret to feeling beautiful—not by c...

Ep. 88: The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster

11 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this powerful episode, Michelle Joiner reveals The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster—truths no one ever told you about w...

Ep. 87: How to Speak the Language of High-Value Men

08 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThe godly, marriage-minded man you’re praying for? He speaks a certain language. A King’s Language. If you don’t know how to speak...

Ep. 86: Kingdom Bride Series — Sarah: The Kingdom Marriage You’ve Longed For

04 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt’s one thing to attract a man. It’s another to captivate him. But God’s design is bigger than attraction — His vision is Kingd...

Ep. 85: Kingdom Bride Series — Solomon’s Beloved: The Mystery of Passion + Purity

01 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThe Shulammite woman’s romance with King Solomon is one of the most passionate love stories in Scripture — filled with desire 🔥, ...

Ep. 84: Kingdom Bride Series — Esther: The Secret to Captivating a King

28 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEsther didn’t win her crown by chance. She carried wisdom, guidance, and a secret that set her apart — a secret that captivated the ...

Ep. 83: Kingdom Bride Series: Ruth — Why You Haven’t Met Your Boaz Yet

25 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textRuth didn’t stumble into her love story—she was guided, positioned, and bold enough to move when others stayed behind. In this episo...

Podcast 82: Weary About Love? Here’s How to Carry Hope Into a New Season

21 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you’ve been praying, showing up, and believing for love—yet another season is ending without the relationship you hoped for—you...

Podcast 81: How to Stop Choosing the Wrong Guy

18 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThe wrong relationship can cost you years, confidence, and even your sense of identity—and it’s almost never worth the price. In th...

Podcast 80: Stop Interviewing on Dates. Start Creating Chemistry.

14 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf your dates keep feeling more like interviews than romance, you’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re “bad at conversatio...

Podcast 79: Success Took Your Love Life — Here’s How to Take It Back

11 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou’ve built the career, the income, and the life others admire — but somewhere along the way, success quietly stole your love life....

Podcast 78: Success Doesn’t Have to Cost You Love

07 Aug 2025

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Send us a textShe got the degrees. She got the corner office. She built the life everyone applauded—but success still left her empty.In this raw and...

Podcast 77: The Secret to Being Irresistible

04 Aug 2025

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Send us a textThere’s a reason some women turn heads without even trying. They don’t chase. They don’t compete. They just are.In today’s episo...

Podcast 76: Single. Christian. And Confident.

31 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a text🎁 SPECIAL EPISODE: The Confidence Call You Didn’t Know You NeededThis week, I’m gifting you something special—straight from my ...

Podcast 75: 5 Mistakes Keeping Christian Women Single

28 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWant to know what’s actually keeping you single?This special edition episode is pulled straight from Michelle’s powerful webinar Fiv...

Podcast 74: My Story: From Résumés to Romance

24 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this deeply personal birthday episode, Michelle pulls back the curtain on her journey from climbing ladders to creating legacy. She o...

Podcast 73: Costly Dating App Mistakes Keeping You from Love

21 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou don’t need to delete the apps—you need a strategy. Dating app purgatory. You know the feeling. Endless messages. Constant profi...

Podcast 72: Stop Window Shopping for Love & Start Dating Like a Future Wife.

17 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textToday, Michelle breaks down the real transformation required to attract a godly, emotionally available, high-quality man.You’ll learn ...

Podcast 71: The 4 Truths My Clients Know — and Why They Met Their Husbands in Months

14 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this powerful episode, Michelle breaks down the four truths her clients live by—truths that radically shifted their mindset, their ...

Podcast 70: It’s Not a Numbers Game

10 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere’s a lie keeping far too many high-value Christian women single: “It’s just a numbers game.”But piling up mediocre dates w...

Podcast 69: Marriage Lessons That Changed Me

07 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMarriage didn’t just teach Michelle how to love her husband — it taught her how to love better. Period.Whether you’re single, dati...

Podcast 68: Are You Overlooking a Great Guy?

30 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat if you’re not single because there are no good men — but because you keep passing by the right ones for the wrong reasons?In th...

Podcast 67: Where to Meet Godly Men

23 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you’ve ever said, “There are no good men out there,” this episode will lovingly shake that belief — and show you exactly wher...

Podcast 66: The Single Tax: The Real Cost of Delayed Marriage That No One Else Is Telling You

16 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou’ve been told to pray. To wait. To be content.But no one told you what it’s costing you to stay stuck in that cycle.This episod...

Podcast 65: Overcoming Social Anxiety & Building Confidence

09 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHave you ever left a party feeling invisible… or stayed home because your nerves got the best of you?In this episode, Michelle gets re...

Podcast 64: How to Tell Him You’re Saving Sex for Marriage

02 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textBringing up sex before marriage can feel awkward, intimidating—or like a guaranteed vibe-killer. But it doesn’t have to be.In this e...

Podcast 63: The Real Reason It Didn’t Work Out

26 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHe was kind. He loved the Lord. He wanted marriage.So why didn’t he pursue you?Here’s the truth no one tells you:Godly men don’t c...

Podcast 62: Don’t Text Again. Do This Instead.

19 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou sent the text… and now you’re staring at your phone, wondering if he’s going to write back.Before you spiral or double text —...

Podcast 61: Make Him Crazy About You in One Week

12 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textShe was having a pleasant conversation. It was fine. It was nice. But I saw what could be.So, I gave her a challenge:Make him crazy abou...

Podcast 60: Is He Really Godly? 4 Questions to Find Out

05 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHe says he’s a Christian… but is he truly walking with God? In this episode, I’m giving you 4 powerful, heart-revealing questions ...

Podcast 59: How to Make Long-Distance Love Work (Yes, Really!)

28 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textLong-distance relationships are hard — but they’re not impossible. In this episode, Michelle shares real talk from her own story of ...

Podcast 58: The 3 D's That Are Killing Your Love Life

21 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Michelle gets all the way real about the three silent killers that are keeping so many women stuck in extended singlene...

Podcast 57: Should I Move for Love? Let's Settle This.

14 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textShould you move cities (or even states) just to hopefully find love? In this episode, Michelle finally puts this common question to rest...

Podcast 56: Why is it taking so long?

07 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Michelle dives deep into a thought that plagues so many single women — “Why is it taking so long?” If you’ve ev...

Podcast 55: The One Thing All My Now-Married Clients Had in Common

31 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHey hey sis—welcome back to the show. Today, I’m sharing something I’ve seen time and time again in every client who’s crossed o...

Podcast 54: Hell vs Heaven - You’re Not Too Picky. You Just Need a System.

24 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSis, what if I told you the reason you’re still single isn’t because you’re too picky, too late, or too much — but because you’...

Podcast 53: Angry at God: You're Still Single?

17 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI’m hosting a FREE LIVE Masterclass – SWIPE. MATCH. MARRY. – on Sunday, March 23rd, 2025 to show you exactly how to date effective...

Podcast 52: Success Secrets for Love and Business - Ask my Coach Dave Moreno

10 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textDO NOT MISS THIS EPISODE!Hear a love story from a man's perspective. It will inspire, encourage and give you confidence on how to c...

Podcast 51: Don’t be Entitled

03 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textFalling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens ...

Podcast 50: First Date Tips that Lead to Second Dates and Beyond

24 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textFalling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens ...

Podcast 49: Stop Trying to Get to Know Him

17 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textFalling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens ...

Podcast 48: Why It's OK Not to Have a Date This Valentine's

10 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textFalling in love happens in an instant. One day you're single. Next day, and for the rest of your life, you're not. It happens ...

Podcast 47: Ask the Guys Interview - "This Made Us Commit"

03 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this podcast, I interview 3 men of God as they share where they hung out when single, what they thought about saving sex before marri...

Podcast 46: From First Date to Facebook Official

27 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSo many times, I hear women say they go on all these first dates that go nowhere. If you're wondering why and how to fix it, listen...

Podcast 45: Do Guys Just Want One Thing?

20 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textReady to meet your handsome, godly man RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. The Sisterhood is my small group coaching program where you ...

Podcast 44: A Date for Valentine's and Beyond

13 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textValentine's Day is right around the corner. Wouldn't you like to create a date for Valentine's especially if it becomes y...

Podcast 43: What I'd Do If I Woke Up Single In 2025

06 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textA new cohort of the Sisterhood is starting in January 2025.Ready to change your love life forever RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. I...

Podcast 42: Another Year Single? God Hasn't Forgotten You.

30 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textA new cohort of the Sisterhood is starting in January.Ready to change your love life forever RIGHT NOW? Apply for the Sisterhood. It&apo...

Podcast 41: Flirty Teasing that Has Him Asking for Your Number

23 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textReady for an intimate, premium coaching experience where you have encouragement and fun in the dating process AND fall in love with your...

Podcast 40: How to Get Over Mr. Wrong

16 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you're trying to get over a guy who's taking up real estate in your brain, this is the podcast for you. I'll share pra...

Podcast 39: Why He Isn't Texting You Back

09 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWe all know this story. A guy starts out texting you back and forth. Things are fun and exciting... at first. Then after a couple weeks ...

Podcast 38: Are My Standards Too High?

02 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis is a question we've all asked ourselves. Are my standards too high? We ask this when our search for love gets frustrating and ...

Podcast 37: 1 Corinthains 13 Dating

25 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWe all want a 1 Corinthians 13 marriage. But are we willing to sacrifice our ego and selfishness while dating? Listen in for how to lov...

Podcast 36: How I Got Over the Fear of Rejection

18 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis is what I didn't do and did instead to completely kill my fear of rejection and end up loving the dating, single life.Ready fo...

Podcast 35: 5 Reasons You're Missing Out on the BEST Way to Connect with Christian Men

11 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWant to hear what the BEST way to meet and connect with Christian men is? Want to know what's getting in your way of forming a conn...

Podcast 34: Why You're Still Single Hard Truths

04 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThese are the hard truths as to why you're still single. I can help you kick all of these reasons keeping you single to the curb.Re...

Podcast 33: High Value Thoughts for the High Value Woman

28 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou are a high value woman. Here are some thoughts that will help you on your journey to finding love.Ready for an intimate, premium coa...

Podcast 32: Get Addicted to Talking to New Men in Person

21 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWant to become a confident, siren at talking to new men in person? Want to go to new places and walk straight up to the cutest guy in t...

Podcast 31: These Excuses Will Keep You Single

14 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this podcast, I talk about my coaching webinar starting THIS WEEK (October 15 & 16, 2024) called All I Want for Christmas is You....

Podcast 30: Client Interview with Heather - From Fearful to Empowered

07 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIn this first client interview, I talk to Heather. Listen in to how she is now feeling empowered in her dating journey, dating better gu...

Podcast 29: Secrets to Dating App Messaging

30 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textTired of those boring dating app conversations that seem to lead nowhere and then just end? In this episode, I share the secrets to crea...

Podcast 28: Dating App Profile Tips

23 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI actually loved using dating apps once I went from Clueless to Captivating. I even met my now husband Caleb on a dating app. This podca...

Podcast 27: My Story from Clueless to Captivating

16 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textListen to my story of going from clueless single to captivating siren, creating chemistry with ease, and hearing I love you from Caleb a...

Podcast 26: Grace and Generosity in the Dating Journey

10 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you're feeling frustrated and discouraged along your dating journey, this podcast shows you a different path.There’s only ONE ...

Podcast 25: Encouraging Bible Verses When You're Single

02 Sep 2024

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Send us a textWhen I was single these Bible verses truly were a source of comfort to me. I pray they will encourage you today. It's a holiday in ...

Podcast 24: How to Stay Out of the Friend Zone

26 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMy 3 tools to stay out of the friend zone. This is a continuation of last week's podcast Inspire Him to Commit. I go into detail on...

Podcast 23: Inspire Him to Commit

19 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver meet a really great guy but feel frustrated when the relationship doesn't move forward? Here's how you can inspire a guy ...

Podcast 22: The Roadmap to Finding Love & Getting Married

12 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI recently talked to someone who told me that all she wanted was the steps and roadmap to finding love and getting married. Ask and you ...

Podcast 21: Client (Now Married) Thought No Christian Men Existed. Here's How She Did It.

05 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textAre you thinking there's no more Christian Men out there? That's what this client thought. Then she got coaching and found the...

Podcast 20: How You'll Know

29 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textAsk these questions to know whether or not he's the One. These are the very questions my clients and I ask when they meet a man the...

Podcast 19: Marrying Up

22 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat are the inner conversations in your mind about choosing a man to be in a relationship with? Do you secretly (or not so secretly) wa...

Podcast 18: Client Engaged in Less than 6 months - Here's How She Did It

15 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMy client met a guy in January of this year, and on July 4 of this same year, he proposed. Listen in to hear how she did it.Check out mo...

Podcast 17: Music Orgasms

08 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYes, you read that right. This podcast is about something I call Music Orgasms. Also listen if you want to hear more about Siren Energy.

Podcast 16: 3 Behaviors You Must Change

01 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWant to get married yesterday? You must change these 3 behaviors.My Sisterhood small group coaching program is starting in 11 days. Sign...

Podcast 15: Ask my Coach Sarah Plowman

24 Jun 2024

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Send us a textListen to my interview with my business coach Sarah Plowman. Her website is Transform Your Life and Business with an ICONIC Coach (sara...

Podcast 14: Ask my Coach Samantha Siffring

24 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textListen to my interview with my business coach Samantha Siffring. Her website is Home | Samantha Siffring Coaching.

Podcast 13: I Want You Energy

23 Jun 2024

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Send us a textListen to this for the secret to happy marriages from the dawn of time.www.thechristiandatingcoach.com

Podcast 12: Teasing

23 Jun 2024

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Send us a textYou have to be fun. More fun. Funnier and fun. That's what you need to be.www.thechristiandatingcoach.com

Podcast 11: Respect & Manliness

23 Jun 2024

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Send us a textSooooo hard to do. I learned a lot from people smarter than me about www.thechristiandatingcoach.com.

Podcast 10: Honey Words

23 Jun 2024

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Send us a textIt's what it sounds like, but with a twist.www.thechristiandatingcoach.com

Podcast 9: Show your Value

23 Jun 2024

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Send us a textThis is the toughest part of the foundation of my coaching. This is why people hire me. Have a listen.www.thechristiandatingcoach.com