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Chapter 1: What is the significance of an ethical will in parenting?
Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues, courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom into the real world. Hey, it's Ryan. Welcome to another episode of the Daily Stoic Podcast. Today is Father's Day. Yesterday, we did a deep dive into Marcus Aurelius and Antoninus, what Marcus learns from his stepfather. That was a sort of how-to father episode.
And then the second half of that episode was maybe a little bit what not to do about Tom Junod's complicated relationship with his father when he came on the Daily Stoic Podcast. Today, I am talking to Lieutenant General Mark Hertling. He spent almost 40 years in the U.S. Army. He started as a tank platoon leader, became commander of U.S. Army Europe and the Seventh Army.
He did combat tours in Desert Storm and Iraq. And then he helped support military transformation across Eastern Europe. Spent many years in uniform, many years deployed, was in combat many times. Thankfully, he came home. But there were many moments, I'm sure, where he didn't know if he would return. And he has this great book called If I Don't Return...
father's wartime journal, which was the thoughts that he put down on his first deployment when he was told there'd be casualties as high as 50% in his unit. You know, what did he want to leave to his two young sons? Sort of an ethical will. It's a great book. You should definitely read it. And I'm going to bring out a fuller episode later, but he and I wanted to talk about some fatherhood stuff.
I think you're really going to like it. It's a palate cleanser after Tom Junod's sort of complicated relationship with his father. But you should definitely read Tom Junod's book, In the Days of My Youth, I Was Told What It Means to Be a Man. It's a great book. And so is Mark's book.
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Chapter 2: How can parents effectively communicate lessons learned from failure?
So two great fatherhood books for today. And it doesn't hurt always to reread Mark Cerullo's passage on Antoninus either. Happy Father's Day, everyone. Enjoy. Hey, it's Ryan. I'm on the road right now doing talks all over the country. I love traveling. I love going to new places.
The thing I don't like about it, though, is I don't get to sleep in my bed at home, which I like not just because it's home, but because I have an eight sleep on my bed.
Chapter 3: What insights does Lt. Gen. Hertling share about character and leadership?
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We write a will that says, hey, you get the house, you get the life insurance policy, you get mom's jewelry and dad's jackets, and then you got to decide... what to do with all these books that you don't want and all the other stuff, right? But the ethical will of like, hey, here's the character I'm trying to bequeath to you. Here are the values I want you to live by.
It strikes me that was the primary reason that you're writing the book. And in the years since, what do you feel like you got right? And what do you feel like maybe you would emphasize more now as far as lessons? Let's say people are listening to this on Father's Day.
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