The DOM Life

113: Brat Tested. Dom Approved

29 Mar 2026

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Send us Fan MailWhat happens when playful defiance meets structure, trust, and just the right amount of discipline?In Part 2 of this deep-dive into br...

112: Brats, Boundaries and the Fine Line Between Play & Power

22 Mar 2026

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Send us Fan MailWhat happens when playful defiance meets real power—and where does the line between fun and disrespect actually live?In this episode...

111: From Fire Play to Community Power

16 Mar 2026

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Send a textWhat happens when a weekend of kink education, fire, and community support all collide?In this heartfelt and electrifying episode of The Do...

110: Praise, Degradation, and the Power of Silence

08 Mar 2026

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Send a textWords can command… but they can also collapse authority.In Part 2 of this conversation, Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their deep dive...

109: The Sound of Submission: How Tone Creates Authority

01 Mar 2026

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Send a textDon’t move.What if the real power in dominance isn’t volume, force, or physical control—but the steadiness in a single, certain word?...

108: Between Green and Yellow: Riding the Razor's Edge of Play

22 Feb 2026

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Send a textWhat if the smallest flinch could change the entire scene? In this episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive deep int...

107: From Therapy to Tease: Cupping for Healing and Heat

15 Feb 2026

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Send a textWhat happens when ancient healing meets modern kink?Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady Dee blend education, e...

106: Beyond the Fantasy: BDSM, Polyamory, and the Reality of a Third

09 Feb 2026

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Send us a textWhat happens when curiosity, kink, and real-world commitment collide?Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady De...

105: Community

02 Feb 2026

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Send us a textOne night. One community. One powerful reminder of why connection matters.In this episode of The Dom Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady ...

104: Depression in Dynamics Part 2

25 Jan 2026

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Send us a textWhat happens to a power exchange when real life hits hard?In this deeply honest and thought-provoking episode of The Dom Life, Master Ni...

103: Depression in Dynamics Part 1

18 Jan 2026

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Send us a textWhen strength meets vulnerability, real power is revealed. In this episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee tackle a d...

102: Introducing Submission Into Your Relationship Part 2

11 Jan 2026

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Send us a textWhat if your deepest desires aren’t something to hide—but something worth exploring, communicating, and honoring?In this powerful ep...

101: Introducing Submission Into Your Relationship Part 1

04 Jan 2026

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Send us a textWhat happens when your desires no longer fit inside a vanilla relationship—and you don’t know how to say it out loud?In Episode 101 ...

100: What the Hell, Let's Do One More!!!

29 Dec 2025

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Send us a textThe DOM Life Podcast is at 100 episodes!!! After Master Nick found a writing online that resonated with him, he decided one more episode...

99: Continued Growth as a Dom Part 2

15 Dec 2025

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Send us a textLady Dee and Master Nick start the episode talking about communication needed between a Dom and submissive while navigating changes to a...

98: Continued Growth as a Dom

08 Dec 2025

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Send us a textLady Dee starts with a quick update on her health and treatment. Then Master Nick dives into a listener’s requested topic on how to be...

97: Kinktasia 2025 Interviews

04 Dec 2025

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Send us a textThe DOM Life sets up at Kinktasia 2025 to talk to people in attendance, and they did not disappoint! Master Nick and Lady Dee were very ...

96: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 2

30 Nov 2025

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Send us a textIn the second part of Kinktasia 2025, Master Nick leads the discussion on all things Day 2 at the event.  He revisits Day 1 to explain ...

95: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 1

24 Nov 2025

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Send us a textIn the beginning of this episode, Lady Dee gives an update on her health before Master Nick takes a moment to wish all the listeners a H...

94: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 2

16 Nov 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the ...

93: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 1

10 Nov 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee pr...

92: Why Submissives Submit Part 2

02 Nov 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks fro...

91: Why Submissives Submit Part 1

27 Oct 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situa...

90: The DOM Life Attends Indiana Kink & Leather

19 Oct 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis.  Covering information on wha...

89: When Outside Forces Impacts D/s Dynamics

13 Oct 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fracture...

88: Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025

05 Oct 2025

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Send us a textGet Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues dur...

87: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 2

28 Sep 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into thei...

86: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 1

21 Sep 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the ...

85: The Long-Awaited Sir Dancealot

14 Sep 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktas...

84: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 2

07 Sep 2025

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Send us a textIn Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have include...

83: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 1

31 Aug 2025

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Send us a textIn this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos.  KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard t...

82: What is a Slosh???

24 Aug 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is ...

81: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 2

17 Aug 2025

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Send us a textAs a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness ...

80: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 1

10 Aug 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including ho...

79: Meet Lilith & Mika-The Share Bears

03 Aug 2025

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Send us a textThis episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on th...

78: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 2

27 Jul 2025

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Send us a textAfter leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to en...

77: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 1

20 Jul 2025

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Send us a textDo you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding person...

76: Attending Performances at AFK Self-Tying 3-Day Summit

13 Jul 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcas...

75: Submissive Stories with Lady Dee and Zorra Part 2

07 Jul 2025

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Send us a textIn Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differen...

74: Submissive Stories with Lady Dee and Zorra Part 1

29 Jun 2025

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Send us a textLady Dee and Zorra sit down for an intimate discussion on their past relationships that involved BDSM and how it helped and sometimes hi...

73: Navigating Kink as a Single With Ashley Part 2

23 Jun 2025

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Send us a textThe DOM Life continues to interview Ashley.  Master Nick and Lady Dee question Ashley about her experience navigating kink/BDSM as a si...

72: Navigating Kink as a Single-Meet Ashley

16 Jun 2025

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Send us a textFirst off, Happy Father's Day!!!  Master Nick and Lady Dee sit down with Ashley, who we have talked about throughout several episo...

71: Here Comes Season 2!!!

08 Jun 2025

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Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they discuss what they want to cover in Season 2. While Season 1 was full of a variety of topics, there...

70: A Year In Review

02 Jun 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee have been recording the podcast for one year. They use this episode to review their podcast including the top 5...

69: Lifestyle Etiquette

26 May 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss etiquette in the lifestyle as well as BDSM.  They touch upon topics such as communication, ghosting, p...

68: Demos @ Swingers Society May Club Takeover

18 May 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee give a breakdown of their demonstrations for the Swingers Society Club Takeover.  Friday night they had a shoc...

67: Community

11 May 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss community and what it means to them.  With their upcoming demonstrations of the electric wand and then...

66: CNC

05 May 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss a topic which is very controversial where opinions are widely split and highly divisive. They try to pr...

65: Interview with Grey & Evie Part 3

27 Apr 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee had a number of laughs with Grey and Evie in the third and final installment of their interview. Discussions de...

64: Interview with Grey & Evie Part 2

20 Apr 2025

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Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they explore the Lifestyle with Grey and Evie. There is in depth discussions on where they started and ...

63: Interview with Grey & Evie

13 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode we sit down with Grey and Evie to discuss their long running relationship. They have been married over 20 years, but jus...

62: Interview with BDSM/Boudoir Photographer

06 Apr 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Shaun from Eye of the Steiger Photography. They discuss their first meeting at the opening of Ex Libr...

61: Contract Renegotiation, Part 2

30 Mar 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee complete the final negotiations and discussions on their updated BDSM contract. During the episode, they openly...

60: Contract Renegotiation, Part 1

24 Mar 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss and negotiate their updated contract, adding where things may have been missing and adjusting and remov...

59: What's in a Contract???

16 Mar 2025

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Send us a textAs Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, this is the perfect time to discuss contracts what they are, what belongs in it ...

58: Initial Contract Review

09 Mar 2025

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Send us a textAs Master Nick and Lady Dee renegotiate their contract, the first important step is to review their existing contract which they do in t...

57: Real Talk-All Good Things Must Come to an End

08 Mar 2025

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Send us a textSadly the time has come... We have discussed all the topics that we wanted to when we started this mini-series. Now it is time to move b...

56: Negotiation in BDSM

02 Mar 2025

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Send us a textIn preparation of their contract negotiation, Master Nick and Lady Dee will be discussing negotiation in BDSM in this episode. Negotiati...

55: Real Talk-Remember Who You Came With

26 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIt can be very easy to get distracted with all the sexiness that is around. In this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee remind you to reme...

54: Jade's Interview Sub-Space, Sub-Drop & Aftercare

23 Feb 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee continue the interview with Jade and after getting to know her last episode, we immediately begin discussing th...

53: Interview with Jade, Let's Get to Know Her

16 Feb 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Jade who is a submissive in order to discuss the topics of sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare from a p...

52: Valentine's Day Sensual Demo at Club Tempted

09 Feb 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee discuss their upcoming Valentine’s Day romantic evening plans with a few of their closest friends at Club Tem...

51: Real Talk-Being a Good Submissive Part 2

08 Feb 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about submitting even when it’s hard. He gives her a couple of scenarios which she expl...

50: Recap of the D/S Lifestyle Deeper Dive into Domination Series

02 Feb 2025

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee recap their deeper dive into Domination series. We discuss the differences between the dominants, their relatio...

49: Real Talk-Being a Good Submissive

31 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Dee discusses how to be a good submissive in less-than-ideal times and situations. Master Nick is in the supportin...

48: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear Part 3

27 Jan 2025

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Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they finish the third and final part of their interview with Bear, a Dominant, who actively lives the D...

47: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear Part 2

19 Jan 2025

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Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they continue their interview with Bear, a Dominant, who actively lives the D/s Lifestyle. In this epis...

46: Real Talk-Kinky When Apart

18 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss how to start adding kinky times when apart. Things you might want to consider having y...

45: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Bear

12 Jan 2025

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Send us a textJoin Master Nick and Lady Dee as they interview another Dominant, Bear, who actively lives the D/s Lifestyle. In this episode he discuss...

44: Real Talk-Introducing Dominance into your Relationship

10 Jan 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss ways to introduce dominance in your existing relationship.  Join us as we discuss . ...

43: Dungeon Play Date with MiLady Kay-Sensory Deprivation/Sensual to Light Impact

05 Jan 2025

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Send us a textMiLady Kay has a substantial amount of experience in sensation/sensory play and she shows off all her skills on Lady Dee. She explains h...

42: Real Talk - How to be a Good Dominant Part 2

03 Jan 2025

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Send us a textLady Dee is back to normal as we finish the discussion on what it takes to be a good or bad Dominant. Master Nick covers some red flags ...

41: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with MiLady Kay Part 2

29 Dec 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee continues their interview with MiLady Kay. She discusses a bit more in depth her style of dominance and what ...

40: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with MiLady Kay

22 Dec 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee interview MiLady Kay. She provides a different perspective on Dominance and submission as she is a switch whi...

39: Real Talk - How to be a Good Dominant

20 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn tonight's episode, Lady Dee is feeling a little under the weather with a sinus infection. Master Nick decides it would be a grea...

38: Demos at Swingers Society December Club Takeover

16 Dec 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee discuss the demonstrations they did in collaboration with Sir Dante and Zorra from Ex Libris at Club Tempted ...

37: Real Talk-Date Night

13 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, Master Nick walks us through a date night in a vanilla venue where you still participate in BDSM power exchange. While ...

36: Temperature Play

08 Dec 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick & Lady Dee dip their feet into Temperature Play. With the upcoming demonstration at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeove...

35: Real Talk - Scene Creation, Punishment

06 Dec 2024

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Send us a textIn this episode, we invite you into the world of punishments.  We discuss a scene on the cross where all the tender, sensual play is go...

34: Interview with Snapped Ginger, an Experienced Rigger Part 2

01 Dec 2024

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Send us a textThis episode continues the interview with Snapped Ginger, she steps into the next level deeper of rope (no longer 101). She provides sev...

33: Real Talk - Scene Creation Sensual with Light to Medium Impact

29 Nov 2024

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Send us a textJoin us in a one-on-one discussion where Master Nick thrills Lady Dee drawing a picture of BDSM scene on the St. Andrews Cross. This epi...

32: Interview with Snapped Ginger, an Experienced Rigger Part 1

24 Nov 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee interview Snapped Ginger an experienced rigger. She explains her path to becoming a rigger and gives details ab...

31: Introducing Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics Mini-Series

22 Nov 2024

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Send us a textThis episode is to introduce The DOM Life’s new mini-series - Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics. Master Nick and Lady Dee are using these ...

30: Interview with Jon & Tonya, Club Tempted Managers, Part 3

17 Nov 2024

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Send us a textThe final part of the 3-part interview we hear about Jon & Tonya and the way in which they Manage the club including how events are ...

29: Interview with Jon & Tonya, Club Tempted Managers, Part 2

10 Nov 2024

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Send us a textThe interview with Jon and Tonya was informative with Part 1 focused on Jon and Tonya and their kinky selves but in this episode we get ...

28: Meet Jon & Tonya, Managers of Club Tempted

03 Nov 2024

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Send us a textAfter an epic event breakdown of Boo Bash, we get to air part one of the interview of Jon & Tonya the Managers of Club Tempted recor...

27: The DOM Life Attends Boo Bash at Club Tempted

27 Oct 2024

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Send us a textMaster Nick and Lady Dee finally focus on Club Tempted and their Epic Halloween Event - Boo Bash.  Come one & come all, step right ...

26: Recapping The DOM Life 25 Episodes In

22 Oct 2024

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Send us a textWith the subbie episode having technical issues, we decided to dedicate one episode to recap the past 25 episodes.  We explain why we h...

25: Interview with Shannon from LiNK, Inc. Part 2

13 Oct 2024

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Send us a textAfter Master Nick requests assistance from Shannon and her company Love Leather and Lace to create some UV reactive and light up impleme...

24: Interview with Shannon from LiNK, Inc.

07 Oct 2024

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Send us a textIf you have not heard of Shannon, Sparklemoonbeam, then you are probably not actively involved in the Louisville kink community.  After...

23: Electric Wand (It's SHOCKING....)

29 Sep 2024

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Send us a textThis episode is all about the electric wand. Master Nick uses this implement often and describes it in detail. During the episode you wi...

22: Dungeon Play Date with Loki & Christina-Wax Play

22 Sep 2024

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Send us a textIf you have never experienced wax play after a BDSM flogging session, you are missing out. This episode finds Lady Dee and Christina ove...

21: Dungeon Voting Poll Closes-What Is the Best Episode???

18 Sep 2024

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Send us a textThis is a mini episode to thank everyone for voting on which dungeon play was the best.  Master Nick was all about Episode 9 where he a...

20: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Loki and Christina Part 2

15 Sep 2024

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Send us a textAfter another episode left hanging for an answer, we continue with the interview of Loki & Christina on their D/s relationship.  As...

19: Dom/sub Lifestyle-Deeper Dive into Domination with Loki and Christina

08 Sep 2024

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Send us a textIn an effort to give you a number of perspectives on D/s Lifestyles we are doing a series of interviews of individuals involved in Domin...

18: Introduction to Rope Play

01 Sep 2024

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Send us a textThis episode is our introduction to rope bondage which is also known widely as rope play.  We walk through safety, risks, things to thi...

17: Demos at Swingers Society Club Takeover

25 Aug 2024

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Send us a textThis episode we discuss the Demonstrations that we were contracted to do at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeover of Club Tempted.  The...

16: The DOM Life attends Kinktasia by LiNK

18 Aug 2024

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Send us a textAfter attending Kinktasia, the first convention by LiNK, we wanted to voice our thoughts and opinions of the event including the class w...

15: Sensual Play/Sensory Deprivation

11 Aug 2024

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Send us a textIn advance of our upcoming demo for Swinger Society takeover at Club Tempted, we are recording an episode exploring the wonderful world ...

14: Dungeon Voting Poll – what is the best episode???

07 Aug 2024

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Send us a textThis is a mini episode to get the listeners opinion on which dungeon play was the best.  Master Nick believes Episode 9 where he and Si...