My Husband’s Affair Is Over. . . But He Still Talks to Her

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What is the situation with the husband's affair and coaching arrangement?

Dr. John Delony 0:05
So she's a Little League coach?
Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection) 0:06
Yes. And he's a coach? And he's the coach. On the same team? Yes. And they had an affair and you caught him? Yes. And he's still coaching?
Dr. John Delony 0:14
Yes. Your husband is absolute embarrassment to husbands everywhere. If this was a Hallmark movie, the only way to make this right is for you to call the other husband and be like, hey, what's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? This is John with the Dr. John Deloney Show. And for more than 20 years, I've been sitting with hurting people who, and that includes all of us, trying to do life, like just do the next right thing and the wheels fall off, whether it's in our marriages, our mental and emotional health, whether that is in our workplace, wherever you find challenge. I'll show up and sit with you. And man, it's one of my life's greatest honors to sit with hurting people trying to figure out, hey, what's the next right move? Hey, I think I see a light over that hill. What if we headed that way? If you would like me to sit with you and just figure out what's the next right decision, give me a buzz, 1-844-693-3291. Or you can go to johndeloney.com slash ask, A-S-K.
Dr. John Delony 1:18
All right, let's go back to Texas and talk to Michelle in Corpus Christi. What's up, Michelle?
Hi, Dr. John.
Dr. John Delony 1:25
How are you?
I'm doing good. Awesome. Today's a good day.
Dr. John Delony 1:30
Good, good, good. What's up? How can I help?
So my question is, how do I cope with when my husband wants to remain on the same team as the woman that he was involved with in an affair? What? Yeah, I know.
Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection) 1:49
What team?
It's a Little League baseball team.
Dr. John Delony 1:53
Oh, God help us. We're doomed as a culture. We're doomed.
I know. Unfortunately, they're both the coaches for this team.
Dr. John Delony 2:05
Was he with another man?
No, no, no. It was a woman.
Dr. John Delony 2:08
Okay. So she's a Little League coach?
Yes.
Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection) 2:12
And he's a coach? And he's the coach. On the same team? Yes. And they had an affair and you caught him? Yes. And he's still coaching? Yes. Yes.
Dr. John Delony 2:21
Michelle.
Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection) 2:24
I know.
Dr. John Delony 2:24
You're in Corpus Christi. They would never find his body if you took it far enough out in the bay.
I've considered it.
Dr. John Delony 2:30
I know you have. Don't do that.
No, I wouldn't. So as ridiculous as it sounds.
Dr. John Delony 2:39
This is ridiculous at a level that it's even ridiculous for my show. And you can just look at the thumbnails on YouTube and this show gets ridiculous.
Yes.
Dr. John Delony 2:47
This is insanity.
It is insanity. And that's where I'm struggling with because, well, to add more sprinkles on top of this dessert, the husband is also aware of the affair and her husband. So he's agreed to stay on this team for this last season as well. So basically... On top of that, we actually had a friendship outside of this team. Like we had three or four years, we've already been friends with this couple and a group of couples. And so we hung out with them outside the baseball field, you know, on, you know, personal lives and everything. And it was constant. So not only did we have that friendship, We lost a friendship, but we also have this issue.
Dr. John Delony 3:35
Hold on, hold on. It's not an issue. You lost your marriage. Your husband is absolute embarrassment to husbands everywhere. An absolute embarrassment.
Unidentified Speaker (Brief Interjection) 3:47
Yeah.
Dr. John Delony 3:48
He blew up his marriage and he is going to rub it in publicly. That's astonishing to me. The fact that he has all of his teeth from the other husband. Yeah. If this was a Hallmark movie, the only way to make this right is for you to call the other husband and be like, hey, what's up? I can't even wrap my head around this.
Yeah, I know, John. It's been tough. I can say that my husband did test up to everything.
Dr. John Delony 4:19
No, he got caught.
Yeah, he got caught.
Dr. John Delony 4:24
Yeah, he gets no gold stars here. None. Zero gold stars. He's an embarrassment to men.
Wow. Yeah.
Dr. John Delony 4:33
An absolute embarrassment to married men, to unmarried men. They're all men. The cowardice to take his, the cowardice and shame it takes not to cheat on your wife. It happens. I've got, I will sit with you. Okay. But to rub your nose in it, you sit up in the stands while me and her share a dugout and we're going to bring our kids around so that they get to see this too.

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