The Experience Podcast
Episodes
Rules & Regulations
15 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In podcast, Sir Inq talks about how men need to respect their accomplishments and how not everyone should benefit off the value they've created an...
Get out the middle!
13 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq explains his theory on three different types of men, however the man in the middle really suffers the most. Also why we as me...
RED FLAGS
10 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why we ignore red flags and how they may not appear right away but how one must stave off the emotional connection ...
A Light Keepers Journal
09 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing from The Light Keepers Journal from his page on Tumblr about the journey from the vanilla world into the life...
Date with intention
03 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In todays fast moving dating world, managing the field of daters and discovering the best matches takes one to know themselves, what you want, and how...
Inexperienced or fake?
02 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are those we consider to be fake in some instances just inexperienced with how to leading and others knowing how to follow? The most pressing questio...
Silence her mind
29 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this Podcast, Sir Inq discusses why its important to quiet a submissive's overactive mind and how if unchecked can lead to stagnation, complace...
BDSM Dummy's Guide pt1
27 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses simple rules when it comes to sessions, where to strike on the body, and what to use when doing so.
Impact play into release
24 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how sessions and impact play brings about release for subs that may have nothing to do with what the Dom is adminis...
The InnThrall experience
20 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq gives a show and tell of his experience in a weekend get away at an kinkbnb called InnThrall in Pennsylvania.
Expand your pallet of experiences
19 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reviews his trip to Brazil and also delves into how expanding your pallet travel wise enhances your knowledge base and makes ...
How to attract the right submissive?
18 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the keys to attracting a submissive and whats needed to build a strong foundation in which to build a D/s relations...
Too tired to play my part!
07 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, sir Inq discusses how real life circumstances can deplete you of energy mentally and physically to the point that you want to forego ...
I have a sub but what's next?
05 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses starting points with new submissive's and how there's no one size fits all when training a sub, what may wo...
Good girls pay close attention!
02 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses some important factors that either keep submissive's value high or how lack of focus can cause them to lose out...
Traits of built men
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq, reflects on his 50yrs on this planet and how built men attract the life they want and the sacrifices made to make their lives...
Ghosting is the worse breakup tactic!
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses why men are bad at break ups and are the architect's of whats called "ghosting", and the aftermath that...
Vegas baby Vegas!
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about his recent trip to Las Vegas and answers more questions from followers about his experience and where he sees him...
Q & A of Sir Inq
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq responds to questions from followers about his experience and thoughts on the lifestyle and more.
Thirstday in the SpeakEasy
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses an uptick in work, travel, and the challenges of being in a dynamic and holding up your end of the bargain. Also ex...
One feminist mindset on submission
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq shares and comments on one young ladies feminist mindset towards submission and how the vallina view of submission differs fr...
Controlling women's choices
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the current climate with men wanting to control women, the Roe vs Wade decision, polygamy, age gap and more. #submi...
BDSM lifestyle support
23 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq has a new guest named Pixie join him to chat about her experiences and what led her to creating one of the best groups on Fac...
Brats need love too!
17 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing by JD about brats and why a Dom shouldn't take their behavior personally, he also goes into ...
Reflections while in DR
13 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq discusses the importance of developing the future Doms and subs, also how the old guard is reaching back by having seminars an...
BDSM 101 Littles, Slaves, and Pets
13 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing by JD via Tumblr titled "Why BDSM dynamics contain littles, slaves, and pets". Sir In...
Lessons for D's
26 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads a writing he came across and discusses rules for D's and how to teach their subs how to resolve conflicts, set mode...
TEN FEMALE ORGASMS
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq goes over a writing by Dr. Tanginika Cuascuo on "Ten Female Orgasms" and why it's important that men get to know ...
Madame of House Kinky Misfits
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq interviews Slave Valkyrie and her Madame to discuss what their home life is like with several submissive's, a switch, the...
We don't want to choose!
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq read and reacts to a writing thats about both side of the slash for Dominants and how we can be both caring and sadistic and ...
There is no shame in wanting to be led!
13 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and reacts to a writing by "dwpreturns" via Tumblr that discusses their awakening to seeking submissive women a...
D/s explained in vanilla terms
08 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and comments on a writing he found on Tumblr where the writer "lovemysub" compares a workout trainer and traine...
She kneels
06 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a writing on submission and elaborates on the connection between Dominant and submissive and how the power exchan...
10 FACTS ABOUT ALPHA MALES (Obsidian)
04 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post called "Ten startling facts about alpha males" written by a gentleman named Obsidian who has a chann...
Spoiled men are a problem!
28 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, sir Inq discusses his latest experience with his friends and their lack of having it all together when traveling as well how its a bi...
Speak when given permission!
26 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a meme posted on FB that says "Never speak when a man is talking, Bow your head down and wait until he says ...
Male narcissism look like...
25 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a post he found online about "The narcissist male" and the sentiments of the writer coupled with his though...
The abusive submissive
21 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reacts to a post he found on "what abusive submission" is and the tactics they use.
The nature of women
17 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq comments on a post a follower sent him on "the nature of women" and his views on what was said. Also touches on moder...
Sensual domination bs!
07 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how to distinguish the old guard from the new and how the term "sensual Dom" is new BS made up by those who...
SubMadMadame and Dutch Wolf
05 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest Dutch Wolf and Submadmadame discuss their journey into bdsm, the scene in Amsterdam, fantasies, and how they...
What can we learn from Will and Jada?
29 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
I rarely discuss mainstream trendy topics and celebrities however the Jada and Will saga is the gift that keeps on giving, however, I get into why ...
Dating in 2022?
26 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest the Curious Girl discuss dating as self-employed business owners, and how that can dictate who you connect with...
Emotions, misunderstandings and solutions
26 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a situation where he was misunderstood, as well the difference between his version and terms of endearment in a BDS...
The Curious Girl in the Speak Easy
17 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast the Curious Girl Layla London joins me to talk about dating in modern times, masturbation month, talking dirty, and what's the for...
Mental Heath within BDSM
10 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses mental health and how it's deeply intertwined into BDSM, monogamous, and poly relationships.
TOXIC MASCULINITY
06 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses toxic masculinity and what men need to do to nurture the youth in how to control their emotions and have healthier ...
Thru a Dom you can see yourself
01 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses a concept of how a sub may find her reflection thru a Dominant's direction. he talks about connection in the wa...
Be the gatekeeper to her debauchery!
27 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq talks about being the gatekeeper to a sub/woman's kinky side and how he uses "permission to speak" to him as a re...
How to get her in line?!
22 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq elaborates on a question asked of him by a follower of "how to get a submissive on his page?!". Of course, for SI the...
Online support
13 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq has one of his favorite guest Slave Valkyrie (aka Slave Draconica) back to discuss online support groups, the up, the downs,...
Making your wish her command with protocols
13 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast Sir Inq responds to a follower's suggestion to talk about what Dom's expect from their submissive's when they meet up whic...
Narratophilia, the art of using voice and words to seduce
08 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance in mastering your tone of voice coupled with the right words to wet the minds, hearts, and panties o...
Boundaries!
05 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq's Wed night discussion on "boundaries" and why it's important to have them, especially within the BDSM lifest...
Keep it SPICY!!!
27 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq live Wednesday night show on FB discusses the importance of keeping your edge and why BDSM is a great lifestyle to help keep...
Establishing your dominant ways
20 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the importance of how dominants must establish themselves, their principles and stand ten toes down in them. Also w...
The crossroads of BDSM and vanilla
12 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses the various crossroads he's encountered in the journey from vanilla to BDSM and the ones he's encountered w...
How did he become bi?
03 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast cast, Sir Inq discusses a conversation with a female friend that opened up a discussion about how a guy she knows became bi and how he...
The issue with men and multiple lovers
27 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq and his guest The Curious Girl discuss the issue of men's issue with fidelity, being able to live their authentic lives a...
Can a "man's man" be submissive?
24 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this vlog cast, Sir Inq discusses can a "man's man" be submissive and why, also discusses these men shouldn't be shamed for who and...
Fake flowers, candy and fake romance
22 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how the man that comes with good morning text, flowers, candy, and superficial romance tactics are there to prey on...
Intimacy or sex?
20 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses "intimacy or sex" and which is more important? It seems more women lean towards intimacy and most men lean...
One relationship with many ex's
16 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq discusses how many people use ex's and past acquaintances to stich together a relationship however does that prevent that...
Half your age plus 7yrs
08 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast, Sir Inq discusses old world view relationships with older men dating younger women, the westernized view opposed to other places, why...
Terms of endearment
06 Dec 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this brief podcast, Sir Inq talks about terms of endearment from the sub to a Dom, when they should start using them and how a Dom likes to be addr...
BDSM, poly and the journey
30 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq and Slave Draconia discuss her journey into a BDSM relationship coupled with poly, and how she manages others as the madam of...
Pop pop and bbl's
24 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq tells stories about a friend who's 49 and struggling with dating women half his age and how the cost of dating them has g...
Are men of Gen X becoming emotionally devoid?
23 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir Inq reads and discusses a short writing he came across online of a mental therapist 48yr female that speaks on her dating experie...
WELLNESS CHECK!
22 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, (I) Sir inq discusses mental health and the upcoming holiday season. This it's not a bdsm lifestyle-themed podcast but it's o...
Negotiating your position pt 1
15 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq briefly discusses a meme he posted about negotiating your position in a relationship also a response from a known Dominant na...
Poly and jealousy
07 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss polyamory, the history of it, jealousy, and why so many men want to have multiple women but h...
Erectile dysfunction or something else?
03 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Sir inQ discusses ED and the various causes as well the history of how the pharmaceutical companies stumbled across the remedy for ED...
"Use me as you see fit"
24 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest lilheaven discuss her journey into the lifestyle and how far she's gone into her submission with acts of ul...
Pimps and Dominants
17 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq discusses a Pimp saying that correlates with Dominants and how some sub will allow you to Dominate and others make you Domina...
What makes for mid life crisis?
10 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq discusses what life crises for men look like through stories of those he's come across and common-sense views so we all c...
Conversation with a slave
05 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inq and his guest Slave Draconia discuss her history in the lifestyle, her view of the lifestyle and what's next for her in i...
Angie from across the pond
26 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ has a discussion with his guest Angie from the EU about life, dating, comedy, sex, and her podcast that's filled with int...
IMAGINARY SOUL TIES
14 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ challenges the concept of soul ties, is a soul tie a lie we tell ourselves when maybe it's just the fear of losing someon...
SIMPS
07 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his list of 7 things that good guy SIMPS do or don't do that leave them in losing situations! He also discusse...
NOT MY KINK!
22 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sir Inq discusses a post he saw on a kink community site that caused a firestorm of comments based on race and sexuality. It amazes him how we in the ...
Session script for beginners!
16 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast Sir inQ discusses what goes into a session in his opinion, also talks about the importance of writing out the session and all that wil...
PRIMAL
09 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this episode Sir inQ discusses different aspects of primal and what get's men going, also how that primal side can get dark if not reigned in b...
Message to new Dom's
01 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Sir inQ discusses what a dominant is and what it takes to be a Dominant in the Power exchange dynamic.
Good Girls Get Gifts!
25 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sir inQ discusses good girls getting gifts and the different levels of gifts that should be given (in his opinion) for tasks, deeds, and just cause. H...
Life post Covid
19 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Sir inQ discusses life post-pandemic shutdown, economic fallout, relationship changes, work-life balance, and the latest trends in hi...
Living the lifestyle 24/7
12 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast, Sir inQ and his guest Mr. Dsaw discuss the challenges of living the lifestyle 24/7. They discuss how to navigate around children but ...
Does the box suit you?
05 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses societal norms and the effects of trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. Meaning does the box fit the authenti...
The Divine feminine and masculine
30 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Sir inQ and his guest Naro discuss the principles of divine femininity and masculinity and also the negative side of them and remedie...
What she didn't say!
26 Jun 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sir inQ discusses the things people do not talk about on 1st dates or in general as well as the importance of clear and concise communication, Also to...
PROTECTION
30 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
On this podcast, Sir inQ discusses the unseen and unspoken forms of protection a man must provide to his family beyond the physical aspect of it as sh...
Why do you care?
25 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sir inQ discusses the importance of focusing on yourself and those who find you valuable and those of like minds. Talks about his interactions with de...
Podcast Gumbo
16 May 2021
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Sir inQ discusses his trip to New Orleans and a new concept he calls "relationship gumbo". The gumbo is a story of a real-li...
Knots and kink
25 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
This episode Sir inq and his guest Noir Kink discuss being a nerd, bondage, vetting, sub drop and Dominant's responsibilities to his submissive(s)...
Wolf & inQ Part 2
19 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Legendary Wolf and Sir Inq go deeper in the discussion of beta's and alpha's whether they're male or female. Also, discuss can you teach a...
Mr. Wolf
10 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
My guest Legendary Wolf and I discuss his introduction to the lifestyle and how men should carry themselves with women and our responsibility to more ...
Vetting
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Sir inQ discusses with a friend/ mentee (Shae) the process of vetting, creating a vetting script, and the positive results she's seen since implem...
Men the game has changed!
17 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Let's get right to it ..the days of dating or having sex with co workers is more dangerous and men need to learn the new rules, adapt their behavi...
MAGNETISM
14 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
If a man wants to live a long and virtuous life there are certain things he needs to do to protect his internal fire so he may become stellar man. SiR...
HOT SEAT
09 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
SiR iNQ and his guest host Layla put SI on the hot seat for random questions about sex, kink and much more. Hear his thoughts and listen to his sexual...
Actions and reactions reflect character
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
SiR iNQ delves into his experience working for men as a barber, shop owner and entrepreneur for over 30ty years and discusses how the lack of good mal...