The Lesbian Peep Show
Episodes
Queering identity with Cindy Lee Alves Watley
19 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We talk about the politics of identity and experience, metaphors for pleasure, and somehow land in our favorite conspiracy theories. Shout out Gerald ...
I run with d/kes: on the significance of queer friendship
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move th...
Are the heteros ok? Love is blind & performing attraction
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textIs "I like blondes" a sexual orientation or a bro hierarchy? Why does straight people talking about their types feel like what I ...
Is scissoring real? & other queer sex questions with Cindy Lee
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textErin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the differen...
Field notes for a "new" lesbian (or late bloomer if you like that terminology)
16 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send a textThis episode is a bunch of affirmations I needed when I was "coming out" after divorcing a man. About indoctrination, sex, identi...
"There's always a bigger, badder Dyke" with Sydney King
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSydney and I talk about intergenerational queer friendships (she's in her 20s, I'm in my 40's, we're in community to...
Transmascification, fisting & community with DJ Mausner
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about intersections of identity in the queer community online and off, the geographical differences in our cluster culture, but ...
"I do what the f I want with my body" with Rosè BuTaè
23 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about our experiences identifying as bi while everyone else seemed to already know we were lesbians. Our individual experiences ...
"I do what the f I want with my body" with Rosè BuTaè
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about our experiences identifying as bi while everyone else seemed to already know we were lesbians. Our individual experiences ...
Is it worth "blowing up your life" to be gay? with Erin Brown
12 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this solo episode Erin answers listener questions about identity, relationships and her experience. Other topics include: the new ser...
You're missing out on the TMZ comment section with Jill Louise Busby
05 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textJill Louise Busby is the author of Unfollow me: Essays on Complicity. We talk about the experience of "microfame," reality tel...
Bi baddie basics with Devon Day Moretti (reprise)
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the impact of being labeled sluts, discovering her sexuality, dressing for the queer gaze and biphobia. You can find Dev...
Navigating the holidays with Dani Gagnon
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about being queer and going home for the holidays (or not!) and different ways you might think about your wants, needs and bound...
Starting over (it's never going to be less scary) with Rachel B Turner
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about divorce. Starting over. Life scripts handed to women that are mostly about adjusting to disappointment. And being the type...
BDE (reprise) with Whitni Miller
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRevisiting my first chat with Whitni Miller. We talk about intimacy, the ways binary gender dynamics can play out in queer relationships...
Transition & the lesbian I've always been with Richelle Gordon
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn this episode, I talk with Richelle Gordon about coming out as a trans lesbian later in life and finding home in queer community. We e...
Lesbian matchmaking with Sophia Spallino
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThis episode dives into the world of lesbian matchmaking, queer dating, and the emotional reality of seeking love in the digital age. Er...
Unearthing queer history with Katie Castagno
03 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKatie is a geologist and musician who is documenting queer history through song. We talk about her favorite queer history moments, the i...
The Sapphic Gaze with Artist Halie Torris
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textHalie discusses her journey as a lesbian artist, the significance of the female and sapphic gaze in her work, and the importance of repr...
Queering clothes, grief and sports with Madison T. Clark
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMads is a Kansas City based community staple, organizer and entrepreneur. We talk about their company Grief Cards, their community initi...
Keeping the party going with Dez Jones
06 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about her DJ career (she recently DJed at one of the 3 Chappell Roan tour stops!!), being a Black lesbian in the midwest, food, ...
Divorcing Comphet with Alena Pollitt
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textAlena and I talk about our shared experiences with being in decade long heteronormative relationships before coming out and ultimately d...
We got married! Revisiting the Channon episode
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe got hitched this weekend and it was perfect. I'll have to do a whole episode on just that. But first, a revisit of our love stor...
How to spot a lesbian with Pure XTC
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about their coming out experience, instagram dating, uhauling, how to spot a lesbian in different parts of the country, jorts an...
First timer scaries with Eva Bloom
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about style, sex, community and cultural differences that come up when people begin to come into their queer identities. Eva is ...
Lezzing out at the gym with Izzy Wagner
31 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about how Izzy got into fitness, why she trains queer women specifically and what fitness does for both of us in and out of the ...
De-santizing queer with Cat Yezbak
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThis episode was one of those “we could go on forever” conversations. We talk about lesbian representation, being dykes, not being i...
On being a Black Femme Menace with Doctress Kaila Story
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about femme identity, policing of queerness, trad wives, LGBTQ+ history and the lack of inclusion in queer spaces. That's h...
Happier ever after "The Ultimatum: Queer Love" with Marita Prodger
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMarita and I talk about her experience on and off The Ultimatum: Queer Love, what it was like behind the scenes and what she looks forwa...
[Encore episode] Body politics, body image and desire with Dr. Kelly Rafferty
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn one of the most popular episodes to date, we talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desir...
Divorce, Uhauls and Access to Abortion with Kelsey Rhodes
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about Kelsey's journey from a long term heteronormative relationship and marriage to her queer awakening and Uhaul scenario...
"What do we owe each other?" with Sydney King
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSydney King and I discuss what it means to be a part of a community. Why they believe so strongly that you should inconvenience your fri...
Chapstick Magazine with Hannah Shahidi and Isabel Anayaji
13 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textTalking with founders of Chapstick Magazine about the lesbian culture, the importance of lesbian spaces and their growing project. You ...
Lezzy summer book recommendations with Tamara Anderson
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textTamara is back and we talk through a vampire book we read together as well as several other sapphic books we recommend. We do our best t...
Power Bottoming with Emory Parker
29 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textEmory Parker (known widely for her power bottom take on Chappell Roan's The Giver) and I talk about making queer art, the represent...
Dyke discourse with Nelly Papazian
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the on and offline lesbian discourse that irks us, ways we maybe stand to communicate with each other better and an assort...
From The L Word to SoulCycle with Jess Rothschild
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textJess and I talk about her experiences in the early 2000s at Autostraddle, my Roman Empire of celesbian gossip and her recent deep dive i...
The sapphic Fletcher controversy with Kat Nardizzi
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSo a sapphic pop singer started dating a man and launched it during pride and the internet around her fandom erupted with a multitude of...
Don't call me a late bloomer with host Erin Brown
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThis is a solo episode where I talk more about my own story, answer listener questions and am generally elated to be queer. Happy pride!...
Celesbian Gossip with Kat Nardizzi
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKat and I discuss recent lesbian celebrity gossip.You can find Kat here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrownThe Sapphic Syllabus More about...
Womontown: The radical lesbian neighborhood with founders Drea Nedelsky and Mary Ann Hopper
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSend us a textWomontown sought to establish a community where queer women could find financial security, support, and acceptance. Womont...
Bad (perimenopausal) bitches with Whitni Miller
11 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textBody changes, better sex, clearer boundaries, and mostly the joys of being older. You can find Whitni here.*The movie I was trying to r...
Smash or pass: Lesbian stereotypes with musician Liney Blu
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLiney and I talk about the inspiration behind their new music, astrology and play a light and fun round of “smash or pass” featuring...
Queer restorative history with Amanda Timpson
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the importance of restorative queer history and some of public historian Amanda's favorite stories from her research....
Bi baddie basics with Devon Day Moretti
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the impact of being labeled sluts, discovering her sexuality, dressing for the queer gaze and biphobia. You can find Dev...
Relational skills & the "femme tax" with Christabel Mintah-Galloway
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe answer questions from listeners about how to flag as femme, how to "get out there" and relational skills for building commu...
Assume less & don't be the cops with Jasper
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the diversity within the trans experience, trans masc people in lesbian spaces, where to find bi girls in LA, sharing dyke...
From Cosplay to New York Fashion Week with Fi Black aka DykeMint
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe covered a lot of ground : identity development, family, creating space for ourselves, lesbian style, de-centering men and Fi's s...
Body politics, body image and desire with Dr. Kelly Rafferty
23 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desire outside of cultural expectations.You can fi...
Hosting queer spaces & religious family experiences with Lo Cowan
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLo is the host and co-founder of Where to Find Us. We talked about her religious upbringing, her first relationship experiences, coming ...
Gay clowns and Central Florida with author Kristen Arnett
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textIn spite of just meeting, this episode really feels like old friends. We talk about being from places that are gayer than people realize...
The Lesbian welcome wagon with Lori Lindsey
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about Lori's experience being a part of the US women's national team and all 3 women's pro soccer leagues, her re...
So I'm queer and dating a guy... with Kat Nardizzi
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKat and I talk about her current dating experience, the conversations she's having with herself and her partner about her queerness...
The one about perimenopause with Hailee Bland Walsh
16 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about what perimenopause even is, how we’re both navigating, bad advice from before better info was available and what might h...
The lesbian stripper who challenged a sex toy company with Keli Lynn Jewel
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about her experience being a stripper in the midwest in the early 2000s, getting married before it was legal, working for a sex ...
Starring in sapphic reality TV with Lailah Muscat and Meg Homer
02 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textErin talks with Meg Homer and Lailah Muscat about their experience filming the Sapphic UK reality series I Kissed A Girl. We talk about ...
BDE with Whitni Miller
26 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about intimacy, the ways binary gender dynamics can play out in queer relationships, types of desire, orgasm cheat codes and com...
Opening a queer hub with Lance Pierce
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the years of organizing and event planning that led to the opening of Q in Kansas City, what to expect from the new space ...
Outside the binary with Bear Hebert
19 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textBear and Erin talk about life, experiences, sex and identity outside of binaries. Some laughing, some crying, it's a good one.You c...
Nerding out about sapphic media with Jada DaMae
12 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textJada and Erin talk about the importance of representation in media and then just nerd out about books, television, movies and finding qu...
"Where to find us" with Tiffany Watts
02 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about Tiffany leveraging her events experience to creating the kind of events and spaces she wanted to see in Kansas City. We al...
Four decades of activism with Jay Pryor
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the history of butch-femme balls, slut nights, shifts in queer culture and political backlash historic and present. You ca...
Self care, situationships and unseriousness with Zee Underscore
22 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about upgrading our self care, how Zee discovered herself in a situationship that inspired the new music, "You don't d...
Creating community & safe queer spaces with Principal, Rebecca Clark
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about Rebecca's experience growing up with queer moms, Catholic school, and the road from there to queer education professi...
The Lesbian Pop Renaissance with Caroline Kingsbury
09 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about being a part of the lesbian music renaissance, the importance of queer art and resistance in revolutionary times and livin...
Kink 101 with Pro Dom & Psychotherapist Rae Bowerman
01 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRae is a Pro Dom and Psychotherapist. We get into a intro level conversation about kink including impact play, D/s dynamics and how to g...
How to face sit and other lesbian sex frontiers with Rachel B Turner (BEST OF)
24 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRachel and Erin talk about some actual lesbian sex logistics we wish anyone had ever told us about (instead of it all seeming like a gia...
Open marriage, sex clubs and pussy gazing with Cara Turnquist (BEST OF)
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about opening her marriage, but mostly everything that has happened since. What polyamory looks like in her life and heart, sex ...
Queer attachment styles and sex with Kyleigh Weathers
11 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKyleigh is back on the podcast to talk about how attachment shows up in queer relationships, how to examine your stories about sex and w...
First queer dating experience (a follow up) with Tamara Anderson
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWhen we last spoke with Tamara she was very invested in queer community but had not yet had her first dating experience. In this follow ...
BEST OF "Who am I to Lesbian?" with Rachel B Turner
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textTo celebrate 6 months of the Lesbian Peep Show, I'm sharing reruns of some of our most loved episodes. Kicking off with this early ...
Contributing to queer community and the *specific* joys of lesbian relationships with Cet Mohamed Moore (Aunt Grampa)
20 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about the problem with pathologizing the queer community as "unwelcoming" when you're new. How to get involved. S...
Sapphic Sci-fi with Ann Drew
14 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textAnn Drew is a Lesbian Illustrator and Comic Artist based out of Kansas City whose work focuses on adding a Queer lens to Pulp Erotica. Y...
Finding flow in movement and life with Adele Jackson Gibson
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about movement as playful expression, finding flow in life and queer parenting.You can find Adele here.All of the rest of Adele&...
Queer fashion with Butch Bimbo
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textFashion as a medium of queer expression with stylist June Daniel.You can find June @butch.bimboYou can find Erin @iamerinbrownThe Sapphi...
Queer attachment theory with Kyleigh Weathers
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKyleigh applies attachment theory to coaching queer folks and is passionate about helping people form secure attachments and to bond fro...
Baby making and birthwork for everybody with Sus Jones
16 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textSus talks about their experience as a midwife, expanding to fertility assistance, how a queer inclusive lens creates more room for every...
"Let's get square!" Gender affirming fitness with Body by Daddy (Lizzy Bristow)
09 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textBody by Daddy (THE lesbian fitness icon, mark her words) writes fitness programs to help people 'match their insides to their outsi...
Queer sex lore with Cindy Lee Alves Watley
26 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textErin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the diffe...
Soccer Mom meets Boss Lady with Channon Nitz
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe one where you get to see the inside of our relationship like we really haven't shared before.You can see more Channon when she ...
How to face sit and other lesbian sex frontiers with Rachel B Turner
11 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textRachel and Erin talk about some actual lesbian sex logistics we wish anyone had ever told us about (instead of it all seeming like a gia...
Sorority queers with Liney Blu
05 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLiney and Erin talk about their shared history of being queer in sororities but in different decades and different climates. Liney share...
Queer Dyke Night with Lava Dreams
29 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textLava Dreams talks about the origins of Queer Dyke Night in Kansas City, future plans for the event and their Midwestern queer roots. Fin...
Queering fitness with Maria Rodriguez
21 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textMaria and Erin talk about the evolutions of their experience in fitness spaces and their own bodies as relates to queerness. You can fi...
Titters to the face with Ali Clayton
14 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textThe great pussy hunt of 2009 and other stories with Ali Clayton. You can find Ali on instagram at @aliclaytoncomedy, her podcast @yallga...
Purity culture drop outs with Erica Smith, M.Ed.
01 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about how Erica found her way to a femme identity and what that means to her, the evolution of her career as a sex educator to w...
Open marriage, sex clubs and pussy gazing with Cara Turnquist
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe talk about opening her marriage, but mostly everything that has happened since. What polyamory looks like in her life and heart, sex ...
bi bye bye with Kat Nardizzi
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textKat shares her recent shift in identity from Bisexual to Lesbian / Queer / Gay. We talk about biphobia, poly relationships, meeting quee...
Enthusiastic cunnilingus with Christabel Mintah-Galloway
28 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textWe cover a lot of ground in this one. From religious indoctrination to queer polyamory, Christabel has lived a lot of lives. That doesn&...
Second adolescence with Tamara Anderson
28 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textTamara and Erin talk about the phenomenon of "second adolescence" when coming out as queer, her journey to self-acceptance and...
Who am I to lesbian? with Rachel B Turner
28 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textOn this episode Erin and Rachel explore identity development, pressures around how to be queer enough, not too much and to whom. You ca...
"My standards aren't that high" On Love Lies Bleeding with Cet Mohamed Moore
05 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textErin is joined by Cet Mohamed Moore to talk all things lesbian film: Love Lies Bleeding. You can find Cet @auntgrampa on instagram.And ...
The pilot
04 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us a textA quick intro into the inspiration behind the Lesbian Peep Show and what's to come.