The Libido Fairy Podcast
Episodes
#130: Why You Were More Attracted to Your Partner at the Beginning - The Science Will Surprise You
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down why attraction fades and how to sustain passion in a long term relationship. Click here to learn more about The ...
#129: What's The Difference Between Sexually Happy Couples And Everyone Else?
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah, The Libido Fairy, discusses the 8 habits of sexually happy couples. Click here to get support for your sex life: https://h...
#128: Why Women Struggle With Initiating Sex And Tips To Get Better
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks through the common mistakes women make when it comes to initiating sex and how women can improve at initiating with thei...
#127: Sex Myths And Tangible Bedroom Tools (Interview on BecomingHER)
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on the BecomingHER podcast. She is sharing sex myths, vulnerable stories about her sex life, and tangible bedro...
#126: Why 80% Of Women Don't Experience Sex The Way You Think They Should (Interview on The Female Blueprint Podcast)
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on The Female Blueprint Podcast. Click here to get support from our team: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi....
#125: The Three Phase Pleasure Cycle
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down the three phases of the pleasure cycle so that you can actually start wanting, liking, and looking forward to sex....
#124: How To Set Up A King or Queen Night For Your Partner
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks through how to set up an intimate evening with your partner to pamper them like a king or queen. Turn on Type quiz: ht...
#123: My Story, Sex Hacking, And Myth Busting (Interview On The Traumedy Show)
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on The Traumedy Show. She shares in depth about her story to becoming the libido fairy, gives tips for overcomi...
#122: Why Sex Stops Being Fun (And How To Fix It)
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about why sex stops being as fun in long-term relationships and how to get out of the rut of having boring, repetitive s...
#121: When Do You Need To Work On Your Sex Life? (4 Signs)
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah discusses the four major signs that it's time to work on your sex life and what to do to start working on it. Take The Libid...
#120: 3 Brutal Relationship Truths That Save Relationships
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks through some brutal truths that have the potential to save your relationship and help you reconnect. If you want suppo...
#119: Biggest Sex, Life, And Relationship Lessons of 2025
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares her top lessons from 2025, breaking down actionable tools that you can use in your relationship and sex life. To get ...
#118: Staying Intimate And Connected In Busy Seasons
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah gives strategies for staying connected and intimate in your relationship during the busiest and toughest seasons of life. Re...
#117: Maybe It's Not Low Sex Drive...
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks through what could be happening for you if you say you're someone that has a low sex drive or libido. Learn more about...
#116: Struggling To Get In The Mood? Ask These 5 Questions
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares knowledge about arousal and turn on plus gives specific questions you can ask to diagnose why you don't feel aroused. ...
#115: How To Deal With Mismatched Libidos In Relationship
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down simple tools and frameworks for dealing with a relationship where one partner wants sex more than the other. Cli...
#114: WTF is Libido? (On The Actual Experts Podcast)
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on the Actual Experts Podcast and breaks down what libido actually is, why it changes throughout our lives, and...
#113: Overcoming Fear And Avoidance With Sex
15 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah talks through strategies for becoming courageous in your sex life and working through common fears that come up related t...
#112: Sex Mistakes That End Marriages (And How To Avoid Them)
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah shares the biggest mistakes she's made in sex and relationships that caused her past relationships to end. To learn more...
#111: 33 Sex Lessons From 33 Years Of Life (Birthday Episode)
20 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah celebrates her birthday by sharing 33 lessons about sex and relationships and life. Click here to learn more about The Intim...
#110: Tools To Get Out Of Your Head And Stay Present During Sex
10 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah talks about why it can be challenging to stay present during sex and gives tools to feel more connected with your partner...
#109: There's No Such Thing As A Sex Drive (How Desire Really Works)
06 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah breaks down why sex drive doesn’t exist, share how sexual desire really works, and how you can feel more sexual desire ...
#108: Answering Your Questions About Libido, Desire, And Relationships
28 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah goes live on her Instagram to answer your questions about oral sex, resentment, and reviving a low libido. Learn about The In...
#107: Making Time For Intimacy When Life Is Busy And Stressful
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah goes over four strategies to have more connection and intimacy in your relationship when life is busy and stressful. To learn...
#106: The Deeper Reasons Why You Don't Want Sex Anymore
21 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down five deeper reasons why women lose desire to be intimate in their relationship plus gives solutions. Turn On Typ...
#105: Increase Sexual Satisfaction In Your Relationship Without Increasing The Amount You Have Sex
13 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares a life-changing concept that helps couples increase sexual satisfaction in their relationship without increasing the fr...
#104: Navigating Big Emotions And Sex
07 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares a story from her relationship where she balanced feeling challenging emotions with expectations of sex from her partner...
#103: The Biggest Mistake Women Make In Sex
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares the most common mistake that women make when it comes to sex that gets in the way of libido, desire, connection, and in...
#102: What To Do When It's "Been A While" Since You Had Sex
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about a real life scenario in her relationship where it's been a while since she was intimate with her partner. She goes...
#101: "Innocent" Bedroom Habits That Hurt Your Relationship
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about 8 bedroom habits that you might think are healthy but that actually harm relationships. To take the turn on type...
#100: Underrated Ways To Make Sex More Satisfying (For Women)
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks through practical tools for making sex more satisfying and pleasurable for women. Quiz to discover your turn on type: ...
#99: Normalizing 7 Things In The Bedroom That Make Us Feel Like There's Something Wrong
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah talks about things that are completely normal in the bedroom, debunking common myths and helping you free yourself from s...
#98: Three Of My Favorite Tools To Ignite Desire For Women
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah shares three tools that have helped hundreds of women feel desire again in their relationships, reconnect to their bodies...
#97: How To Talk About Sex Without Conflict Or Awkwardness
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah shares all of her best communication tools for couples. Want our support with your relationship? Click here: https://ha...
#96: Seven Surprising Natural Libido Boosters
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah reveals seven natural ways to boost libido that actually address the deeper root causes of why women lose desire in the first ...
#95: The Exact Blueprint To Go From Zero Desire To Wanting Sex
05 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah talks through the exact step-by-step process that they've used with hundreds of students in The Intimacy Accelerator to h...
#94: Why You Need To STOP Trying To Spice Things Up (And What To Do Instead)
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this solo episode, Hannah discusses why "spice things up" is the worst advice for couples in the bedroom and gives five deeper tips of what to try ...
#93: Making Midlife & Perimenopause Magic (With Shannon Hamaker)
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah interviews one of the Libido Fairy coaches, Shannon Hamaker. Shannon is a certified sex coach, educator, and somatic practitio...
#92: Counterintuitive Truths About Sex That Changed Everything For Me
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about foundational ideas that can help women who struggle with desire finally understand more about what's going on in t...
#91: Increasing Libido And Desiring Sex More Often (On Rat Girls Podcast)
07 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah's interviewed by Abigail Jensen on Rat Girls podcast. We walk through how to go from faking orgasms to enjoying mind-blowing s...
#90: Sex Hacks For Parents & Mythbusting For Moms With Bri Carey
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today I’m interviewing one of the incredible coaches on my team that works with our students, Bri Carey. Bri is a postpartum intimacy expert and cer...
#89: Seven Myths About Sex That Ruin Relationships
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is breaking down the seven biggest libido lies that are keeping you stuck, and giving you the truth so you can finally feel em...
#88: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Desire, Boundaries & Pleasure
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed on the Fluently Forward podcast to unpack the real reasons why so many women struggle with low desire in long-t...
#87: How to Figure Out What You Actually Want in Bed
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) walks you through a practical, compassionate process for discovering what you actually want in the bedr...
#86: Why High-Achieving Women Struggle With Sex
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re a high-achieving, do-it-right kind of woman who finds herself overthinking, shutting down, or checking out during sex—you’re not alone...
#85: The Hidden Mistakes That Kill Your Desire (And How To Fix Them)
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Feeling like you should want sex more — but you don’t? You’re not broken, but you might be making a few common mistakes without realizing it. I...
#84: Why You Can’t Get Out of Your Head During Sex—And What To Do About It
13 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah (aka The Libido Fairy) breaks down the real reasons why women get stuck in their heads during sex—like stress, performance p...
#83: 5 Things I Wish I Knew About Sex When I Was Struggling In My Relationship
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I’m sharing the five things I wish someone had told me back then—the things that could’ve saved me years of faking it, freezing...
#82: How We Make Sex Work With Different Libidos: A Real-Life Story
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wonder how couples with mismatched sex drives actually make it work? In this episode, I’m giving you a real, behind-the-scenes look into my rel...
#81: The Truth About Sexual Compatibility: It’s Not What You Think
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Most people think sexual compatibility is either there or it’s not—like some magical, uncontrollable force. But that’s bullshit. In this episode...
#80: The Ultimate Guide To Emotional Intimacy
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The best sex you’ve ever had is on the other side of deep emotional connection with your partner. And the opposite is true, too – when you are not...
#79: How to Take Back Your Sexual Power (For Women)
02 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I’m breaking down: ✔️ The five steps to reclaiming your sexual power ✔️ How to identify the beliefs that are keeping you sm...
#78: Do Romantic Relationships Need Sex To Survive?
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down her answer to whether or not relationships need sex to survive. Get the support of our team: https://hannah-dein...
#77: 5 Reasons You're Not Having Orgasms With Your Partner (Plus Tips)
15 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
If you’re struggling to orgasm with your partner, it’s not because something is wrong with you. So many women can orgasm alone but not with a par...
#76: The Real Reason You Don’t Want Sex (And How to Fix It)
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I’m breaking down: The biggest myth about libido that’s keeping you stuck Why your desire disappears in long-term relationships ...
#75: Permission To Take Up Space & Feel Pleasure In Sex
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah shares a personal story of her experience uncovering the way she was being inauthentic in sex and shares tips for feeling more...
#74: Stop Saying Yes When You Mean No: How to Honor Your Needs in the Bedroom
25 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you ever say yes to sex when you really mean no? You’re not alone—so many women fall into this pattern out of fear of disappointing their partn...
#72: The Secret to Better Sex: What You’re Missing Before and After
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah reveals the often-overlooked secrets to creating deeply fulfilling and connected sexual experience...
#71: Stop Performing & Create Authentic Pleasure and Connection in the Bedroom
09 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah dives into one of the most common challenges in intimacy—faking pleasure and performing in bed. She breaks down why faking o...
#70: Ultimate Guide To Communication About Sex
04 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the most powerful tools and frameworks for improving communication about sex and intima...
#69: Life-Changing Lessons From 2024
29 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this special year-end episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah reflects on her personal and professional growth in 2024, sharing nine transforma...
#68: Cycle-Syncing Sex + Intimacy For Every Menstrual Phase
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Hannah Deindorfer, a sex coach known as the libido fairy, discusses the importance of understanding the menstrual cycle and its ...
#67: Do We Even Need To Have Sex?
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about sexual motivators, how sex drive really works, and answers the question of whether you need to have sex to have a ...
#66: Duty Sex And Controversial Tweets
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Is sex your duty? A friend sent me this tweet yesterday about “duty sex” that is blowing up on X. I think within 2 days it had over 5 million view...
#65: The Ultimate Guide To Initiating Sex
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah breaks down the challenges and strategies for initiating sex in a way that builds intimacy and con...
#64: Ten Years Of Brutally Honest Sex Advice For Women In Less Than 20 Minutes
11 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah delivers 10 years of brutally honest sex advice that transforms your relationship with sex, your b...
#63: The World's Most Underrated Sex Toy
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast* Hannah introduces a simple yet transformative bedroom tool that can enhance intimacy, boost confidence, a...
#62: Why Faking Orgasms Hurts Your Sex Life—And How to Stop
04 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah takes on the topic of faking orgasms—a common issue for many women. Drawing from personal experi...
#61: Building Confidence In Sex (What It REALLY Takes)
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the topic of sexual confidence and freedom. Inspired by a conversation with on...
#60: Give Honest Feedback About Sex Without Hurting Feelings
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into one of the most challenging aspects of intimacy: giving honest feedback about sex witho...
#59: Sex Myths Busted: What’s Actually Normal in Long-Term Relationships
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of the Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah Deindorfer busts common myths about sex in long-term relationships. She discusses how desire discr...
#58: Five Simple Tips for More Satisfying Sex
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah Deindorfer, the Libido Fairy, shares five actionable tips to enhance sexual satisfaction. She highlights the importance of sup...
#57: Reclaiming Sexual Power And Increasing Desire (on The Deep Within Podcast)
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is interviewed by Marina on The Deep Within Podcast about her journey to overcoming sexual trauma, mental health issues, and g...
#56: The Simplest Way To Figure Out What You Like In Bed
02 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah gives simple tips to help you figure out what you want in the bedroom so you can communicate it effectively with your partner ...
#55: Change This Immediately For Better Sex
29 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah Deindorfer, also known as the Libido Fairy, dives into the critical changes you need to make in your beliefs and behaviors to ...
#54: Period Health & Libido (with Cynthia Donovan)
26 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Listen in on a conversation between The Period Nutritionist and The Libido Fairy. We chat all things women's sexual health, body connection, and regai...
#53: What To Do When Your Sex Drives Don’t Match
26 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the rejection-pressure-avoidance cycle that so many couples face when there's a differe...
#52: Breaking The Cycle of Intimacy Avoidance
16 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah dives deep into the topic of intimacy avoidance. She shares her personal experiences of avoiding intimacy and provides insight...
#51: Seven Sex Mistakes That End Marriages
09 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
74% of sexless marriages end in divorce. Hannah shares seven mistakes to avoid when it comes to sex. If you’re making any of these mistakes, they’...
#50: How To Stop Distraction During Sex
02 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah gives tangible tips for getting out of your head and into your body during sex so you can stop spectatoring and start experien...
#49: Nine Things Low Libido Partners Wish High Libido Partners Understood
26 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah is putting words to some things that can be hard for low libido partners to describe.
#46: Orgasms, Shame, & Long Distance Intimacy
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, you get two Libido Fairies answering your vulnerable questions about sex, orgasms, shame, and long-distance intimacy.
#45: What To Do When The Sex Isn't Good
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah tells a story about a recent experience she had with awkward sex and how she worked through it with her partner.
#48: The Secret About Turn-On No One Told You
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah talks about the secret to turning on that no one teaches in school. This week’s voice memo is for you if… …you feel lik...
#47: 5 Rules To Make Date Night Hot Again
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah breaks down the 5 rules she uses in her relationship to keep date nights hot, exciting, and fun.
#44: "Am I Taking Too Long?" And Other Performance Anxiety Things
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah addresses common fears about orgasm, feeling too complicated, taking too long, and other performance anxiety related challenge...
#43: Answering Your Sex Questions (On Seggs Talk Radio Sleepover)
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join Hannah as she answers listener questions on Seggs Talk Radio Sleepover with Thea. Topics range from keeping things spicy in long-term relationshi...
#42: Do You Really Need To Have Sex?
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Hannah busts one of the most common myths about sex and helps you figure out why you should want sex (or not)?
#41: Overcoming Resentment and Shame In Sex (On The Unnamed And Untamed Podcast)
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hannah is interviewed on the Unnamed and Untamed Podcast and shares her story and tangible tips for breaking through common barriers to desire includi...
#40: The Trap Of Caretaking
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Hannah goes in on THE TRAP OF CARETAKING and how that’s been a huge killer of her libido as well as one of the main barriers she sees in clie...
#39: How To Stop Rejecting Your Partner
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this love note, Hannah talks about two fixes you can implement now to stop automatically rejecting your partner when they initiate with you.
#38: The Libido Fairy Is Back - Engagement Sex & Re-Commitment To Self-Pleasure
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Hannah shares her engagement story and talks about her commitment to pleasure and a spicy story with a lesson.
#37: Queer Exploration, Faking Orgasms, & Sexploration with Julia
13 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Julia shares about her exploration with same-gender-sex, faking orgasms, and her fantasy to have a MFM threesome.
#36: Dating Professors, Daddy Issues, & High Sex Drive with Marcella
30 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marcella talks about her experience with dating a professor, slut shaming, and navigating life with a high sex drive.
#35: Sober Sex, Purity Culture, & BDSM with Amanda
22 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Amanda shares about her journey with sobriety, her upbringing in religious programming, and a kinky storytime.
#34: Disappointment, Safety, & Heart-Open Sex with Bryn
08 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Bryn talks about a sexual experience that was deeply unsatisfying because there was too much "technique" and not enough "love."
#33: Bisexuality & Firework Orgasms with Lila
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Lila shares about her experience with women, what she wish men knew about sex, and how she had the best orgasm of her life.
#32: Hookup Culture, Pegging, & Porn with Cole
18 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Cole talks about his experiences with hookup culture and porn and how that shaped his desires and his relationship with sex.
#31: Religious Programming, Hoe Phases, + Anal with "Stacy"
11 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, "Stacy" shares about her religious upbringing and how that impacted her sexual development (including a necessary hoe phase).
#30: Shame, Drunk Sex, & Alignment With David Pratter
11 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, David talks about his experience with shame around his desires, his cringy story of a time when he had sex with a drunk ballerina, an...