The Mental Healness Podcast
Episodes
Narcissists dont like finishing arguments if they dont benefit them directly in some way. Narcissists like to leave arguments on pause
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists dont like finishing arguments if they dont benefit them directly in some way. Narcissists like to leave arguments on pause Welcome...
When you are dealing with a narcissist or toxic person always ask yourself, "How old is that response?"
18 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When you are dealing with a narcissist or toxic person always ask yourself, "How old is that response?". Narcissistic people can experience arrested d...
Narcissists like to hold on to trophies and memories from past and current relationships.
17 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists like to hold on to trophies and memories from past and current relationships. The trophies can be screenshots or old messages and pictures...
Narcissists dont change over time and passed time is not an apology
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists dont change over time and passed time is not an apology Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice...
How To get over a Narcissist or toxic person
15 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How To get over a Narcissist or toxic person Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I ...
Why your next relationship after a narcissist might seem boring at first
14 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why your next relationship after a narcissist might seem boring at first Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
The Narcissists new supply thinks they are winning and wont give up easy
13 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The Narcissists new supply thinks they are winning and wont give up easy Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
How to tell if you are really dealing with a Narcissist or toxic person
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How to tell if you are really dealing with a Narcissist or toxic person Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my v...
What makes a Narcissist angry? What things could set a toxic person off?
11 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What makes a Narcissist angry? What things could set a toxic person off? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
How a self aware narcissist ended up in therapy & eventually accepted it
10 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How a self aware narcissist ended up in therapy & eventually accepted it Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
Do Narcissists ever regret what they do to you? What they put you through
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do Narcissists ever regret what they do to you? What they put you through Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my...
Most narcissists are chasing happiness but it will always escape them
08 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Most narcissists are chasing happiness but it will always escape them Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voi...
How long does it take the Narcissists Mask to drop? when is it created?
07 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How long does it take the Narcissists Mask to drop? when is it created? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my v...
What could happen if a Narcissist sees you happy after the discard phase
06 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Today's episode is about what could occur if/when a narcissist sees you happy after the relationship ends. You DONT have to be with someone else to be...
Narcissists treat you so badly because they dont think you will leave them for any reason
05 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists treat you so badly because they dont think you will leave them for any reason. They think that because you have stayed for so long that th...
Why does a Narcissist discard you. Different why a toxic person could break up with you
04 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Why does a Narcissist discard you. Different why a toxic person could break up with you Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face...
Narcissists know what they are doing to you and what they are putting you through.
03 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Most narcissists know exactly what they are doing to you and what they are putting you through. They justify their actions by blaming you and you stic...
Narcissists dont believe their own lies that they tell on the spot. The truth isnt the goal
02 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
For narcissists and toxic people, the truth isnt the goal.They lie for whatever reason and keep it going til the lies compound on them and they get ca...
Rock Bottom for a Narcissist means they have no one else left to blame. Why most may never get to this point
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Rock Bottom for a Narcissist means they have no one else left to blame. Why most may never get to this point Welcome my channel! If this is your firs...
Does the Narcissist hate you? Most Narcissists hate how you make them feel about themselves
01 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does the Narcissist hate you? Most Narcissists hate how you make them feel about themselves Welcome my channel! If this is your first time see...
Narcissists do not get better as they get older, they typically become angrier
30 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists do not get better as they get older, they typically become angrier Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
Narcissists can sense it when you are unhappy and may try to love bomb you or manipulate you with the things that you want and need.
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists can sense it when you are unhappy and may try to love bomb you or manipulate you with the things that you want and need. Wel...
Narcissists will mirror you and try to replace you in your own life and in your friend group.
28 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will mirror you and try to replace you in your own life and in your friend group. Welcome my channel! If this is your first ...
Narcissists hate when they can no longer manipulate you or take advantage of you anymore. "You're not the same person I met" means they are angry that they can no longer take advantage of you
27 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists hate when they can no longer manipulate you or take advantage of you anymore. "You're not the same person I met" means they are angry that...
Crying in front of a Narcissist or showing emotional vulnerability to them could set them off or aggravate them.
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Crying in front of a Narcissist or showing emotional vulnerability to them could set them off or aggravate them. Welcome my channel! If ...
Most narcissists are emotionally immature and will react like adolescents as opposed to adults
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Most narcissists are emotionally immature and will react like adolescents as opposed to adults Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing ...
Not reacting is Your Greatest power against a narcissist or toxic person
24 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Not reacting is Your Greatest power against a narcissist or toxic person Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
Loving Bombing is going to be different for everyone
23 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Loving Bombing is going to be different for everyone Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Le...
things to watch out for on a first date with a Narcissist or toxic person
22 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
things to watch out for on a first date with a Narcissist or toxic person Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my...
Narcissists cant give you closure and if they could give you closure they would withhold it. Closure cannot come from someone other than you. You have to give it to yourself.
21 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists cant give you closure and if they could give you closure they would withhold it. Closure cannot come from someone other than you. You have...
Narcissists show you who they can be, not who they actually are by flashing their potential
20 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists show you who they can be, not who they actually are by flashing their potential Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
Narcissists always want things to be on their terms and will rarely compromise with anyone
19 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists always want things to be on their terms and will rarely compromise with anyone Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my f...
Some narcissists could use selective vulnerability to manipulate you or get you to drop your guard
18 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some narcissists could use selective vulnerability to manipulate you or get you to drop your guard Welcome my channel! If this is your first time see...
Narcissists will emotionally bankrupt you and then leave you for someone else
17 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will emotionally bankrupt you and then leave you for someone else Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearin...
Narcissists think you are hurting your own feelings when you stay in a relationship with them
16 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists think you are hurting your own feelings when you stay in a relationship with them Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing m...
Some Narcissists can use therapy to become better narcissists and to manipulate more people
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some Narcissists can use therapy to become better narcissists and to manipulate more people Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
How to hold a Narcissist accountable....Holding a Narcissist accountable requires having some type of leverage against them
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How to hold a Narcissist accountable....Holding a Narcissist accountable requires having some type of leverage against them. Welcome my ...
Love after a relationship with a narcissist might seem boring to survivors
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode I talk about Love after a narcissistic relationship. How Love after a relationship with a narcissist might seem boring to survivors...
Some narcissists are seemingly angry for no reason and will manufacture anger and arguments
13 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some narcissists are seemingly angry for no reason and will manufacture anger and arguments Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
Narcissists play both the role of the hero and of the villain
11 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists play both the role of the hero and of the villain Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my n...
Reframing your experience with a narcissist can help you heal faster
10 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Reframing your experience with a narcissist can help you heal faster Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voic...
Narcissists have a hard time letting go of grudges and getting over being rejected
09 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists have a hard time letting go of grudges and getting over being rejected Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or h...
Fast is fun and feels good when you are with a Narcissist. Speed is the weapon of a Narcissist
08 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Fast is fun and feels good when you are with a Narcissist. Speed is the weapon of a Narcissist Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing ...
Narcissists think that not talking about issues means that it's resolved
07 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists think that not talking about issues means that it's resolved Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
Dont get hope from the self aware narcissist that the narcissist in your life can change.
06 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dont get hope from the self aware narcissist that the narcissist in your life can change. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing...
Narcissist wont let you be happy when they are sad or unhappy
05 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissist wont let you be happy when they are sad or unhappy Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voic...
Narcissists will use their tears and crying to manipulate you and make you feel guilty
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will use their tears and crying to manipulate you and make you feel guilty Welcome my channel! If this is your first time se...
Narcissistic Rage comes from some narcissists not knowing how to get the emotional needs met
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode we talk about how some Narcissistic Rage comes from some narcissists not knowing how to get the emotional needs met. My therapist h...
The cycle with a narcissist doesnt end or get better when you take them back constantly
04 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The cycle with a narcissist doesnt end or get better when you take them back constantly Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face...
Every level of a relationship with a narcissist presents different challenges. Every level is a new devil
01 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Every level of a relationship with a narcissist presents different challenges. Every level is a new devil Welcome my channel! If this is your first t...
Narcissists are always on the defensive because they are trying to avoid shame
30 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode I talk about why Narcissists are always on the defensive because they are trying to avoid shame. Shame is one of the biggest things...
Love Bombing from the perspective of a Narcissist
29 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Love Bombing from the perspective of a Narcissist Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee a...
Narcissists are different behind closed doors and become their true selves at home
28 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists are different behind closed doors and become their true selves at home Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or h...
How Narcissists use Future Faking to manipulate you into a relationship or staying with them
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode we talk about How Narcissists use Future Faking to manipulate you into a relationship or staying with them. Narcissistic people use...
How Narcissists and toxic people can try to trap you with a baby after Roe Vs Wade was overturned
27 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How Narcissists and toxic people can try to trap you with a baby after the Roe Vs Wade was overturned Welcome my channel! If this is your first...
Dont expect a narcissist to support you during the grieving process
25 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dont expect a narcissist to support you during the grieving process tubbWelcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my v...
Let losing you be the Narcissist's Karma
24 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let losing you be the Narcissist's Karma Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a...
Narcissists are not your teammates
23 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists are not your teammates Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self ...
Healing from a Narcissistic relationship. The Narcissist cant help you heal so the healing is up to you
22 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Healing from a Narcissistic relationship. The healing is up to you Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice,...
What happens to a Narcissist when you go No Contact and cut off access
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What happens to a Narcissist when you go No Contact and cut off access Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voi...
Taking time to Heal after a Relationship with a narcissist
20 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Taking time to Heal after a Relationship with a narcissist Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name...
Narcissistic parents will discard the scapegoat children and give the golden child everything they asked for
19 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissistic parents will discard the scapegoat children and give the golden child everything they asked for Welcome my channel! If this is your firs...
Narcissists cant heal on their own or validate themselves. They use other people to heal
18 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists cant heal on their own or validate themselves. They use other people to heal Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my fac...
Narcissists get bored very easily. A bored narcissist can be very erratic
17 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists get bored very easily. A bored narcissist can be very erratic Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my...
inner child work with a self aware narcissist
16 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
inner child work Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist....
A Narcissists main goal is Control
15 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
A Narcissists main goal is Control Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self ...
No 2 Narcissistic people are exactly the same. The traits may be similar but the circumstances that created the narcissistic person will be different and they may present differently.
14 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
No 2 Narcissistic people are exactly the same. The traits may be similar but the circumstances that created the narcissistic person will be different ...
You cant hold a narcissist accountable more than once. Double Jeopardy
13 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You cant hold a narcissist accountable more than once. Double Jeopardy Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my vo...
How Well intended bad advice can keep you in a toxic relationship with a Narcissist
12 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode I talk about How well intended bad advice can keep you in a toxic relationship with a narcissist. People with the best intent...
Narcissists wont leave you alone until the SUPPLY runs out
11 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists wont leave you alone until the SUPPLY runs out Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name...
Going from friends or Coworkers to More, with a narcissist or toxic person
10 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Going from friends or Coworkers to More, with a narcissist or toxic person Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing m...
How Long Can the narcissist keep their masks on?
09 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How Long Can the narcissist keep their masks on? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee an...
Narcissists dont want partners or cooperation, they want obedience
08 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists dont want partners or cooperation, they want obedience Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
Narcissists Dont Think you listen to them or support them enough
06 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode we talk about how no amount of support will ever be enough for a narcissist or truly toxic person. Narcissistic people dont think t...
Recording a Narcissist can help protect your mental health.
05 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Recording a Narcissist can help protect your mental health. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, ...
How to Make it work with a Narcissist
04 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How to Make it work with a Narcissist Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a se...
Telling the truth about a Narcissist is not a smear campaign
03 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Telling the truth about a Narcissist is not a smear campaign Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my na...
Narcissists will blame you for how they are treating you
02 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will blame you for how they are treating you Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name i...
Some people stay with narcissist because they want to WIN against the new supply
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some people stay with narcissist because they want to WIN against the new supply Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hea...
Shared Traumatic experiences can bond you to a Narcissist quicker and keep you there longer
31 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Shared Traumatic experiences can bond you to a Narcissist quicker and keep you there longer Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
Narcissists will get mad over nothing and create arguments out of thin air.
30 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will get mad over nothing and create arguments out of thin air. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing ...
You may be building up the narcissist for the new supply
29 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
You may be building up the narcissist for the new supply Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name i...
Narcissists lie to defend themselves against the Shame that comes with accountability
28 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists lie to defend themselves against the Shame that comes with accountability Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my ...
I talk about how The Validation or supply the narcissist gets from you eventually runs out. Once the supply gets old they narcissist or toxic person usually moves on.
27 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 381 of THE #NARCISSISTS CODE I talk about how The Validation or supply the narcissist gets from you eventually runs out. Once the supply ge...
Narcissists hate to finish arguments that you start. Arguments on pause with narcissistic people
26 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists hate to finish arguments that you start. Arguments on pause with narcissistic people Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seein...
Is Amber Heard a Narcissist? Is Johnny Depp Narcissistic? Self Aware Narcissist thoughts
25 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 379 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I give my thoughts on the Amber Heard and Johnny Depp defamation case. All these are based on allegations. &nb...
Going No Contact with a Narcissistic Parent. Cutting off toxic parents. When Cutting off a toxic or narcissistic parent you have to consider all the angles.
24 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 378 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I talk about Going No Contact with a Narcissistic Parent. Cutting off toxic parents. When Cutting off a toxic ...
Tactics a #Narcissist could use to deflect blame or avoid shame & accountability
23 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The #Narcissists' Code 377- Tactics a #Narcissist could use to deflect blame or avoid accountability. Narcissists and toxic people hate being held acc...
Some early red flags of narcissists and toxic people. Taking pictures really fast or lying early
22 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Some early red flags of narcissists and toxic people. Taking pictures really fast or lying early Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seein...
The shame that comes after the Narcissistic Rage
21 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware #narcissist. I have narcissist...
DO you really believe that you deserve better than the narcissist in your life? What are your actions telling you?
20 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
DO you really believe that you deserve better than the narcissist in your life? What are your actions telling you? Welcome my channel! I...
Why did you stay with the Narcissist Part 1 - Religion
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
IN this series I break down why some people stay with Narcissists. This is part 1 of an 8 part series. Religion keeps a lot of people in toxic relatio...
Does the narcissist in your life really Hate you or do they hate how you make them feel?
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Does the narcissist in your life really Hate you or do they hate how you make them feel? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing...
Narcissist do not care about being right when you are arguing or having a confrontation
19 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissist do not care about being right when you are arguing or having a confrontation Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face...
Narcissists will blame you for their failures and where they are in life
16 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists will blame you for their failures and where they are in life Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my ...
I talk about how Denial can keep you in a relationship with a #Narcissist. Denying what you are going through can keep you in toxic relationship with a Narcissistic person.
15 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 369 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I talk about how Denial can keep you in a relationship with a #Narcissist. Denying what you are going through ...
Comparing yourself to the Narcissists New Supply could lead you to devaluing yourself and pointing out your own flaws and making you feel like you are not enough.
14 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Comparing yourself to the Narcissists New Supply could lead you to devaluing yourself and pointing out your own flaws and making you feel like you are...
Narcissists act Different at Home, but so do the survivors and victims that deal with them
13 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Narcissists act Different at Home, but so do the survivors and victims that deal with them Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my f...
Do Narcissists Love Themselves or do Narcissistic people hate themselves
12 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 366 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I answer the question Do Narcissists Love Themselves or do Narcissistic people hate themselves? Welcom...
Stop holding on to the Good times with a Narcissist because they can stop you from moving on
11 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
On episode 365 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I talk about why you should Stop holding on to the Good times with a Narcissist because they can stop you from...