The Messy Inbetween

He LOVES YOU if...I Episode 111

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Another one just because y'all requested it, to atleast dilute the signs he hates you episode. We saw how it got y'all heated and livid 😆 ...

A therapist once said..."Things we've learnt in therapy" I Episode 110

23 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring today’s video; use our link http://betterhelp.com/tmipodcast for 10% off your first month of therapy. We’v...

Signs HE HATES YOU!! I Episode 109

16 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Giiirrl that man hates you!!!! Yeah we said it 🤷🏾‍♀️👀 But ebu lets be honest with eachother pls 😆 because weuh?! Some signs are abit...

An inbetweener once said...I Episode 108

09 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Chukueni mic basi!!!! You guys need to start your own podcast and it shows!😂 Back with another episode going through your comments on our previous ...

Let's START NORMALIZING...I Episode 107

02 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Last episode on things we need to stop normalizing has you guys HOOTTT!😅🤭 So we are back with things we need to START NORMALISING! From short me...

Stop normalising 🙅🏾‍♀️...I Episode 106

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If there’s something that most of us have perfected is normalising questionable habits!! From those entangled in the chains of the bare minimum, wha...

What life is teaching us lately I Episode 105

19 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Allow us to trigger you a little bit with the things life has been teaching all of us lately. 😭Whuehh there’s just a lot. Black tax???? HECTIC! A...

First time having SEX? Here's what to expect I Episode 104

12 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We know alot of inbetweeners are yet to experience sex and since we talk about it sooooo much 😄, we wanted to have a real conversation about our fi...

I knew the sex was BAD when…🤭 | Episode 103

05 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So we were all singing about great sex! Kumbe we’ve also experienced the gherrooo too!😂😭 We asked you on Instagram how you knew the sex was ba...

I knew the sex was GREAT when…😉😈 | Episode 102

28 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Get 40% off your annual subscription on Beducated this month! Discount is locked for life 🤩 LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2326-tmipod...

Hey big sisters 👯‍♀️ - Dilemma episode | Episode 101

21 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Long time no dilemma episode?! We are backkkkk with ‘hey big sisters’. We love these as much as you do. In this messy inbetween we arer just tryin...

TMI AT 100!🥳🥳 CELEBRATING 100 EPISODES!🫶🏾

14 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

100 episodes!!🥳🥳 Inbetweeners, who is cutting onions??🤧 We started this from a place of passion to have these honest conversations and thro...

I knew they were a true friend when…🥹👯‍♀️ | Episode 99

07 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're on the last episode of our Friendship Series and we're winding up on a high note! 🙌🏽 Friendships can be G for Gherro but we also h...

Dealing with friendship break-ups💔 | How to end a friendship and heal from it - Ep 98

31 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Friendships come and go, and sometimes it hurts to say goodbye to someone you thought would be your friend for life💔 Whether you are the one breaki...

I knew the friendship was over when💔…| Part 2 - Ep 97

24 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

As Murugi said, you guys are cutting people off for nothing. Nootthiiinnggggg 😭! But some are making sense. We are doing a part two because frien...

Underrated pleasures of life | It's the little things..Ep 96

17 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Get 50% off Beducated this month! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2320-tmipodcast COUPON CODE: TMIPODCAST From waking up before your ala...

I knew the friendship was over when...💔 - Ep 95

10 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Friendship heartbreaks can leave you wrecked ❤️‍🩹 and no one's ever really ready for it. Today, we're looking at examples of how people knew ...

Ask Us Anything- Q& A Episode | Situationships, ghosting, long-distance marriages and more - Ep 94

03 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We love catching up with you guys and sharing some updates so grab your cup of joe☕ (or whatever else you like) and sit with us, as we answer your q...

WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 | RELATIONSHIP EDITION - Ep 93

26 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Back again with another episode of 'What Women Really Want' and this time, we are talking about relationships.👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾...

Things people are pretending to like👀...but no one really does! - Ep 92

19 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You've got to be dreaming if you expect us to keep up with this act! We are calling out all the things that we all pretend to like because in the ...

Sexuality and Gender Identity Featuring Chris Muriithi - Ep 91

12 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We'll be the first to admit that we don't always have the answers to everything, but we want to learn, so we had Chris Muriithi ( They/Them) o...

What Women REALLY Want | The Bedroom Edition - Ep 90

05 Apr 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Get 40% off Beducated this month! LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2315-tmipodcast COUPON CODE: TMIPODCAST We know there’s what women sa...

More Things We're Unlearning | Part Two - Ep 89

29 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We're back with the second part of the "Things We're Unlearning" episode, and just like last time we have a lot we need to unpack......

Things we’ve had to unlearn: Beliefs and habits that gotta go!🚪 - Ep 88

22 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One thing about growth is unlearning a lot of what you thought served you, and to be honest, it's not that fun😬. Sit with us as we do some soul...

An Inbetweener Once Said... | Y'all really had a lot to say👀 - Ep 87

15 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One thing about y’all is that you’ll always have something to say and we're all here for it.🤩 From heartfelt advice to brutal honesty, this epi...

Womanhood Experience | The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly- Ep 86

08 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's International Women's day👭🏽, and although women deserve to be celebrated every day, we are really happy to have a day just for us. 🤗 &nb...

Hey Big Sisters 🙋🏽| Inbetweener Dilemmas | Ep 85

01 Mar 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The big sisters are back with another long-awaited dilemma episode, so scooch on over and let's talk about it because it's definitely TMI!😉 This we...

Birthdays🥳- The good, the bad and the ugly - Ep 84

22 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Our birthdays are next week and one thing about us is that we are going to celebrate🥳 but if you've been keeping up with us, you know that things a...

We're too old for this s%!t.’🙄| Epd 83

15 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever had those moments where you're like, ‘I'm too old for this s%!t.’🙄  Well prepare to feel validated!  Sit with us as we talk abou...

Valentines' Day is CANCELLED??!! | Ep 82

08 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Get 50% off Beducated and improve your intimacy in 2023!   LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2302-tmipodcast It's the season of love and...

Kingbetweeners Contribute🤴🏽| Red Flags That Men Should Look Out For In Women |Epd 81

01 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ladies, it’s time to take several seats because the men are talking, and oooh chile! they really had a lot to say! 😅 A lot of what we talk about...

Social Media Real Talk | The Good, The Bad and The Ugly | Episode 80

25 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We've been able to build a career in the social media space, ( something that still gives us 'pinch me I'm dreaming moments😊' ) and even though we ...

An Inbetweener once said |Tons of love, tons of unpopular opinions | Y’all don’t hold back 😄 |Ep 79

18 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's time for 'An Inbetweener Once Said' and this time, y'all didn't hold back! 👀 We love getting feedback from you and we love that you don’t sh...

Less Diets, More Pleasure | What You Need To Tweak To Hit Your Peak💦 |Epd 78

11 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Get 40% off Beducated and improve your intimacy in 2023!   LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: http://beducate.me/bg2301-tmipodcast COUPON CODE: TMIPODCA...

Setting our 2023 Intentions | It's Going To Be One Hell Of A Ride🤩 | Episode 77

04 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The arrival of a new year brings a new opportunity to reevaluate, reinvent and rewrite our stories. Since this exercise made an impact on how we appro...

Taking Stock | Reviewing our 2022 goals | Epd 76

28 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Christmas has just gone by and the new year's inching closer, so what better time to take stock than in this limbo period where no one ever really kno...

Sister Sister! The Christmas Episode| 'We miss the good old days' | 🎄Episode 75

21 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Christmas is finally here and with it comes memories (some beautiful and others painful), frustrations, and expectations. In this episode, we sat down...

Understanding and embracing your kinks | Episode 74

14 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Although conversations around pleasure are moving into the mainstream space, there's no denying that it is, more often than not, daunting to explore. ...

Unspoken truths about the holiday season 🎄| Episode 73

07 Dec 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The holidays are coming up and we know this is a joyous season for so many. However, there are many unspoken truths about this season that we wanted t...

Mixing friend groups, avocado, and other things we can’t stand that people love 😩 | Episode 72

30 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Social media can easily make you feel like ‘the other’ for what you don’t like but we all have things we don’t like that other people love. Ev...

Lessons we have learned from heartbreak featuring Jules ❤️‍🩹| Episode 71

23 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What comes in mind when you hear the word ‘BreakUp?’ Another sad story for most of us, right? The truth is, in most cases breakups are the darkest...

Sex dilemmas! He won’t go down in me. Post pregnancy loving and more!… 🤯🤪

16 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

With constant information surrounding us on Sex/Intimacy from Porn, hype by friends, ratchet music, movies, magazines etc, it’s easy to get muddled ...

ADULTING…. Things they didn’t tell us! 🥲

09 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to ...

‘TRUST… but VERIFY’… and other things we learned from our Fathers | Episode 68

02 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We did an episode on what our mothers told us a while ago and immediately there were a lot of requests for us to do this episode. Despite not having g...

Q&A Episode!🤩 The break up, our goals for TMI, content creation and so much more | Episode 67

26 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Q&A episode!🤩 We asked you to shoot some questions on our Instagram page and as usual, we spilled the tea. From the break up to splitting bills...

Toxic family members! 😭👀 | Episode 66

19 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A highly requested topic! Many of us are dealing with at least one toxic family member. It can be incredibly tough to navigate because of all the mean...

‘Not all women orgasm’ and other things we wish we knew about sex | Episode 65

12 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Before we were the queens of the sex podcast 😄, we knew nothing at all. Nada! We thought orgasms came every two minutes, we thought porn could teac...

My mother once told me…😍💙 | Episode 64

05 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We both have close relationships with our mums. We listen to them very intently so you may have heard us drop little gems here and there that our mums...

“It’s a girlfriend’s job to make her man happy” 👀 - Girlfriend duties | Episode 63

28 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve heard of wife duties but what are girlfriend duties?👀  Is it her job to make her man happy, stay looking good for him and give him the...

An Inbetweener once said…👀😭😂

21 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We see pretty much every comment the inbetweeners post but we can’t always respond directly. We are going through some of your comments in this epis...

“It’s only cute to be a foodie if you’re slim”🙄 - Double standards we are sick of | Episode 61

14 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

From body size to gender based double standards, there are too many out here that we are simply tired of. Newsflash, women can own their successes, me...

I'm a 10 but...| Episode 60

07 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We've dragged the whole town but what about US? What are some of the things that are really not a 10 in us? This one was tough to do but self introspe...

Hey big sisters!🤩 Dilemma episode | Episode 59

31 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We are back with another dilemma episode. We know it’s a fave.  Every dilemma no matter how simple the answer may look can be very complicated...

The TMI LIVE Experience 🤩 | Episode 58

24 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

3 weeks ago we had the time of our lives at the TMI Live experience to celebrate one year of TMI! We know so many of you couldn’t make it and we hop...

She’s a 10 but…👀😭 | Episode 57

17 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Another one for the laughs!😂 You guys requested this one so who are we to not give it!! Whomst?! Have fun with it and let us know yours in the comm...

Hysterics cannot be the brand sis 😩😭 | Conflict resolution with bae | Episode 56

10 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ooo conflict resolution?!😭 Pull up a seat honey, we are learning! Conflict is normal but there are practices that can make it healthy or unhealthy....

He’s a 5 but…👀😍 | Episode 55

03 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Back again with another one! We are glad you’re loving this series.  As mentioned in the previous episode in the series, this is is just for l...

“Not everyone likes to have sex”🤷🏾‍♀️ | Uncomfortable truths about sex | Episode 54

27 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We love sex. Goes without saying 😅 but there are some truths we all need to get into! Not to make sex bad but to make it an honest experience. &nbs...

He’s a 10 but…👀| Episode 53

20 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We have really been shaking tables in the last few episodes 😅 so today we are having some laughs!  What are those things that can take a guy f...

“You don’t have to love your body”🤚🏾🤷🏾‍♀️ | Unpopular opinions about the female body | Episode 52

13 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We really did mean “uncomfortable truths“ but here we are. 😄 This episode is sponsored by beGirlKE. Their new website has officially launched. ...

“Your partner will probably cheat on you”👀😩 - Uncomfortable truths about life | Episode 51

06 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Deep breaths. This may be triggering but the truth is the truth.  It’s safer and far more hopeful to go through life ignoring some of these unc...

'Contraception is not just for whores' 👀 - Uncomfortable truths about family planning | Episode 50

29 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We are always shouting about family planning but we know there are still some uncomfortable truths out there that we are still not ready to accept! T...

Things women do that 'turn us off' 😩🥴| Episode 49

22 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We love women. A lot. But sometimes we really do some yucky things. Some of these are just our own icks but others are almost universal. From having ...

Things we love that women do 😍🥰🤩 | Episode 48

15 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We love women and there’s plenty other women do that we love. In business, In friendships and even strangers. From how they approach us to how they ...

Hey big sisters!👀😭 Dilemma episode | Episode 47

08 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Another dilemma episode! Big sisters are here to help the best way we can. This is a sisterhood so we want you guys to also share your view on these d...

Immediately no!🤮 Major turn offs | Episode 46

01 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

All turns off are valid. We said it. To be honest, you can help what gives you the ick! The yuck! The immediately no! We each shared our very specifi...

Girl Code 📝🔐 ft Over 25 | Episode 45

25 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Finally! You guys have really been asking for this collabo and we finally did it. We had the ladies from Over 25 to chat about Girl code!  We say...

Come here dzaddy!😈🥵 Our biggest turns ons | Episode 44

18 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Not everyday “leave sis!”, sometimes we stop and just drool over the sexy things men do.  The way they drive, the way they dress, the way th...

Hey big sisters, hide my ID.. - Answering your dilemmas | Episode 43

11 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We love that you guys trust us with what’s going on with your lives. this episode is all about that. We get quite a lot of dilemmas so we wanted to ...

Life in different sizes! | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 42

04 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

From childhood to adulthood, we have both been in nearly the same body sizes we are now and that has definitely affected how we go through life. From ...

Help! The passion is gone!😢 | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 41

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes for many reasons the passion in any relationship can deplete. You love each other but you’ve become a little disconnected. If that’s som...

Dating as a single mum | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 40

20 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most requested episodes! Dating is already ghetto hood but having a child in the process adds another complexity. Murugi was a single mum ...

Cheating is DEFINITELY a deal breaker! Or is it?👀| TMI Podcast KE | Episode 39

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Deal breakers in relationships! I think it’s always very easy to say what would make you walk away until you’re faced with it. However, it’s goo...

Feeling uninspired?! Try this! | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 38

06 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The hype of the new year is over and maybe the year so isn’t as life changing as you hoped it would be. But it’s not over. it’s only just beginn...

Are we actually in Bridgerton? 👀 | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 37

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is sponsored by Netflix. Watch Bridgerton season 2 out now! Bridgeton has the teaaaaa! Although it’s set hundreds of years ago we ...

Why your man won’t open up to you | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 36

23 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s chat about it sis!  Men being vulnerable with us and the world is not the norm. Partly because of their own struggles but also we might ...

Lies you’ve been told about LOVE! | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 35

16 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Relationships are made a lot harder by the amount of misconceptions we are fed. Every relationship is different so how are all the rules the same ?👀...

Stop doing THIS during sex! | TMI PODCAST KE | Episode 34

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It’s you we are talking to. Come back here!😂 Sex should be free and exactly how you want it to be but we can all agree that that there are some t...

Birthday episode!🥳 - Let’s talk age anxiety! | Episode 33 | TMI Podcast KE

02 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It’s our birthday week! Murugi turns 32 today and Lydia turns 31 tomorrow. As we celebrate our birthdays with excitement and positive anticipation, ...

9 Facts about men every woman should know!..👀| TMI Podcast KE | Episode 32

23 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is inspired by a video we came across on Instagram.  There are so many of these “facts“ that are shared about women or relation...

Q&A | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 31

16 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Our first Q&A episode!🥳 We arr always chatting on DMs but we wnates do so an episode answering all your questions. We loved  them all! Are...

Happily Single | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 30

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ladies! 🗣Single is the default. Our society is so obsessed with relationships to the point that you are made to feel weird when you're single. Alth...

The Alpha Female Phenomenal | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 29

02 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The Alpha female. Who is she? What defines her? There’s so much conversation around what it means to be an alpha female and we wanted to sit down an...

JIPENDE! A lesson in Self-Love | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 28

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

The self love trend is here. But what does it even mean to love yourself? Do I love myself because I love the soft life? There’s just so many narrat...

DEALING WITH REJECTION I TMI PODCAST KE I EPISODE 27

19 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

New year, new things, new journeys!  As long as you’re willing to try new things you are likely to stumble on rejection. A new relationship, a ...

First Date Etiquette I TMI Podcast KE I Episode 26

12 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We are starting a new year and if you listened to us and left that dusty man in 2021, then you may just be ready for your first date!😁  If we ...

New Year, New us?? | Our resolutions!! - TMI Podcast KE | Episode 25

05 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hey inbetweeners! Happy New Year! Welcome to our first episode of the year! We're chatting about things we want for the new year and our resolutions t...

WHAT WE ARE LEAVING IN 2021 - EPISODE 24

29 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

And just like that, 2021 is coming to an end. As we start a new one we wanted to share what we are leaving in 2021. From songs, to habits to trends. W...

WHAT WENT RIGHT AND WHAT WENT WRONG - TAKING STOCK FOR 2021 - EPISODE 23

15 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

What a year it’s been? The year we started TMI, first and foremost!😄  It’s also been a year of many highs but also some lows. We wanted to...

You’ve broken up…NOW WHAT?

08 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s not break up season we swear!! But since we talked about how to know when it’s over, we thought we offer some support on what to do if you do...

YOU KNOW YOU NEED TO BREAK UP WITH HIM/HER WHEN…👀 - EPISODE 21

01 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Before accepting that your relationship is over…it takes time. But whether you like it or not, eventually there comes a point of no return and you a...

BOUNDARIES - Setting them and sticking to them - EPISODE 20

24 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most overused word in 2021 but a necessary one. We have touched on boundaries before we wanted to do a full episode so we ca share our pers...

HOW TO BUILD BETTER MONEY HABITS - EPISODE 19

17 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Money money moooneeyyyy! We are always talking about securing the bag but what happens after the you secure it? What are our money habits and are they...

HOW TO BE A BETTER PARTNER - EPISODE 18

10 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We are always complaining about how our partners are... what our exes did...how hard done by we have been... what about us? Are we present in our rela...

HOW TO KNOW YOU’VE FOUND "THE ONE" - EPISODE 17

03 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After last week's very triggering episode (check out "Episode 16 - How to know your partner is cheating" if you haven't), we are on the other side of ...

HOW TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING - EPISOSDE 16

27 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Disclaimer - Each of these things separately aren't necessarily red flags but a couple of them together probably are.   Cheating is a constant co...

HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL CONFIDENCE - Episode 15

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual confidence!!! Knowing you deserve pleasure, owing your right to have it and freely enjoying that right. We know that women especially are cond...

WHY DO MEN/WOMEN DO WHAT THEY DO? featuring MANTALK.KE

13 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s here guys! Our first collaboration! And it’s with the best in the biz 🤩 If you don’t know , get out from under your rock and go check th...

ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS! OUR FIRST Q&A - Episode 13

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Hey guys! Today we decided to do something different! You guys are constantly sending us questions about our lives, the podcast, content creation and...

WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW ABOUT OUR BODIES

29 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The body of a woman!  It goes through so many changes but we hardly ever see them coming. There are so many myths around our bodies that are simp...