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The Mindset Mentor

How to Be Miserable for the Rest of Your Life

26 Feb 2025

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Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s never enough? In this episode, I’m exposing The Achievement Trap—the mindset that keeps you chasing more but never feeling satisfied. If you’ve ever hit a big goal only to feel empty afterward, this one’s for you.   The Mindset Mentor™ podcast is designed for anyone desiring motivation, direction, and focus in life. Past guests of The Mindset Mentor include Tony Robbins, Matthew McConaughey, Jay Shetty, Andrew Huberman, Lewis Howes, Gregg Braden, Rich Roll and Dr Steven Gundry. Here are some useful links for you… If you want access to a multitude of life advice, self development tips, and exclusive content daily that will help you improve your life, then you can follow me around the web at these links here:Instagram TikTokFacebookYoutube

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8.058 - 23.949 Rob Dial

Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I am your host, Rob Dial. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so you never miss another podcast episode. And if you're out there and you want to receive some inspirational and mindset texts from me sporadically throughout your week, text me right now, 512-580-9305. Once again, 512-580-9305.

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23.969 - 54.363 Rob Dial

Today, I'm going to talk to you about how to be miserable for the rest of your life, especially How to make sure that every moment from this moment forward until the day that you die, you are not as happy as you want to be. And then I'm going to talk about how to avoid it. And it has to do with something that I like to call the achievement trap.

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54.603 - 77.111 Rob Dial

We're going to dive into our social and personal problems where we never feel like too much is ever enough. And I'm just curious, before we dive into it, in the past, have you ever wanted something so bad and you worked so hard to get it? And this might have been three or four or five, 10 years ago, whatever it is.

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77.411 - 98.864 Rob Dial

And you have that thing now, or you had it at some point in the past, like you wanted it, you wanted it, you achieved it. And now that you have it, it's just another thing. Maybe it's a house. Maybe it's a car. Maybe it's a relationship. Maybe it's a achievement. It's a job. Or maybe it's a certain amount of money that you're making. Now that you have it, you're just like, ugh, whatever.

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99.004 - 106.21 Rob Dial

But when you were younger, it was like the thing you wanted more than anybody else. You worked so hard for it. You dreamed about it. You prayed about that thing.

106.71 - 125.459 Rob Dial

and now you're having like ah whatever we all get caught in this trap of wanting the next thing you know maybe you want you want your dream job oh if i could only get this dream job then i'd be set for life and then you get it and then six months later like okay now i want to move up to the next level because my salary isn't quite enough

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Or maybe you want a pay raise and you do get that pay raise. Oh, if I could only make $80,000 a year, then I'd be happy. And then you get to $80,000 a year eventually and you're like, you know what? I'm so close. I need to hit six figures and then I'll feel secure. And then you hit six figures. You hit $100,000.

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You're like, now I need to make $200,000 so I can be really secure and I can buy some more cool stuff. Or maybe you're living in an apartment and you're just like, I just really want to buy a house. I want my own place. If I could just buy my own place, I'd be so happy. And then you finally get that first home. It's a nice little home.

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And then a couple of years later, you're like, ah, it's too small. I need something bigger. And you get something bigger and you're like, I need something with a pool. Or maybe you just, you've been dreaming about finally getting into a perfect relationship. If I could just find the right partner, everything will be amazing. And then you find someone that you love.

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