The Muslim Marriage Podcast
Episodes
Ep 94 | Why Am I Emotionally Unavailable? (And How Do I Fix it?)
27 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
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Ep 93 | The Religious Manipulator (And How to Spot Him)
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 92 | The Muslim Marriage Crisis (And the Solution No One Talks About)
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 91 | How to Correctly Analyze Red Flags During the Talking Stage.
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I review how to analyze red flags during the talking stage. Jazaa K’Allah Khayr for watching this video, and In Sh...
Ep 90 | Step by Step Process on How to Connect with an Emotionally Unavailable Spouse
12 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 89 | The Problem with "Red Pill" Muslims.
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 88 | Causes of Emotional Unavailability in Men
06 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 87 | Four Subtle Signs That You're Being Love Bombed
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 86 | Deep Dive Into the Narcissistic Relationship
27 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 85 | 5 Early Signs That You're Talking to a Manipulator
19 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 84 | Does Marriage Coaching Actually Work?
18 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 83 | 7 Talking Stage Mistakes to Avoid if You're Serious About Marriage
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 82 | Communication 101 for a Healthy Marriage
04 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🎁 Download your copy of my 5 Steps of Conflict Resolution here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/dy78fqfb0l 💍 Fighting all the ti...
Ep 81 | How to Handle Red Flags the Right Way
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 80 | 5 Terrible Reasons to Go Ahead With an Unsuitable Marriage
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 79 | How To Talk About Emotional Cheating In Marriage
20 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 78 | How to Assess Connection During the Talking Stage
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 77 | How to Talk About and Share the Mental Load in Your Marriage
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 76 | Why You May "Attract" Toxic People, And How To Stop
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 75 | Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 74 | Would You Love Me If I Was a Worm?
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 73 | Am I Emotionally Available (And What Do I Do if I'm Not)?
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 72 | 3 Things Healthy Marriages Have in Common
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 71 | Why Is It So Difficult to Find a Spouse?
20 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 70 | Signs That He Is or Isn't Attracted to You
16 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Ep 69 | I'm Tired of Fighting About Everything | Divorce Series 2 of 2
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 68 | He's Great on the Phone but Boring in Person
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 67 | Choosing the Wrong Partner | Divorce Series 1 of 2
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 66 | Should I Stay or Should I Go?
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 65 | Tips To Help You Avoid Missing Red Flags
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 64 | How to Make Your Marriage an Emotionally Safe Space.
04 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 63 | The 3 Things that Men Look for In a Wife
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Ep 62 | Common Reasons Why People Ghost, And How to Cope
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 61 | How to Ditch the Silent Treatment in Your Marriage.
21 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 60 | Is it Better to Focus on Compatibility, Chemistry, or Both?
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 59 | How To Talk To Your Spouse About Affection
16 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 58 | Why It's Risky to Pursue Rebounding Individuals
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 57 | How to Make Your Husband Feel Respected
07 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 56 | Common Reasons Why Some Women May Reject Compatible Partners
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
📱 Dating App Strategies that ACTUALLY work – Free Live Webinar with me 👇🏽 https://calendly.com/support-xzi/dating-app-strategies-that-actua...
Ep 55 | How to Talk About Jealousy in Marriage
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 54 | How to Cut Down on Wasted Talking Stages
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 53 | My Wife has Completely Changed Since We Were Married
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 52 | How to Decide Whether or not You're Ready for Marriage
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
💍 Wish you could skip the endless talking stages and go straight to meeting your husband? Check out the Single to Wifey Intensive Coaching Progra...
Ep 51 | The Most Common Questions You've Asked Over the Last Year
04 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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Ep 50 | How to Tell if Someone is Pursuing you for Citizenship or if they are Being Sincere.
12 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👇🏽 https://mailchi....
Ep 49 | Avoidant Attachment Style and how to Address this in Your Marriage
05 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 48 | The Difference Between Choosing and Settling during the Talking Stage
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.m...
Ep 47 | Dynamics of Age Gap Marriages, and What to Consider during the Talking Stage
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
🎁 You’ve met a good match, but you’re not sure how to assess compatibility? Get my FREE Compatibility Guide here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/...
Ep 46 | What should you do if you're married to the wrong person?
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
❤️ Want to feel more connected to your spouse? Get my FREE Healthy Marriage Tips here 👉🏽 https://mailchi.mp/zahrahassancoaching/healthymar...
Ep 45 | When to Remarry after Divorce, and Red Flags to Watch out For
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how long it takes to recover after divorce, and red flags to watch out for in the next partner. __________...
Ep 44 | Common Causes of Fighting in Married Couples, and How to Fix This.
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the underlying cause of common fights in married couples, and how to fix this.______________🔴Need help w...
Ep 43 | "As a Revert, when should I get married?"
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the ONE thing that Reverts to Islam should keep in mind when selecting a spouse. ______________🔴Need he...
Ep 42 | "How much do I compromise with my husband?"
01 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how important it is to choose your spouse carefully given the rights and responsibilities of each of you...
Ep 41 | "My parents are refusing a potential."
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I provide tips and tricks for how to get your parents to accept a potential spouse whom they are refusing for superfi...
Ep 40 | "How do I accept never getting married?"
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I provide helpful advice on how to cope with the thought that you may never be married. ______________🔴Need help ...
Ep 39 | "My husband wants me to remove my profile picture."
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to approach autonomy and social media in your marriage. ______________ 🔴Need help with figuring...
Ep 38 | "Is he even interested in me?"
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through tips on how to recognize whether a potential match is actually interested in you. ______________ 🔴N...
Ep 37 | "How do I get past being cheated on?"
11 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through some strategies for how to start healing after being cheated on. ______________🔴Need help with figur...
Ep 36 | "She doesn't think I will provide."
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to navigate the tricky topic of financial compatibility during the talking stage. ______________ 🔴...
Ep 35 | "How long does the spark last in marriage?"
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through tips and tricks for keeping the spark in your marriage alive…years after you sign the paper, In Shaa A...
Ep 34 | "How do I not get attached?"
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss tips for avoiding attachment to potential matches during the talking stage. ______________🔴Worried your...
Ep 33 | "How do I not get cheated on?"
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to manage the very real fear of being cheated on. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strat...
Ep 32 | "How do you just know?"
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how and when you “just know” that the person you’re talking to is the right one for you. ________...
Ep 31 | "What do we say during the talking stage?"
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about what to talk about during the talking stage, as well as how to gauge connection with a potential match. ...
Ep 30 | "My wife is a bit masculine."
20 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the impact of masculinity and femineity on healthy relationships. ______________ 🔴Worried your dati...
Ep 29 | "Am I too insecure to find a spouse?"
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through some helpful tips on how to manage insecurity when it comes to finding your spouse. ______________🔴W...
Ep 28 | "My wife doesn't appreciate me."
13 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about a man who does not feel appreciated by his wife. We review how to have difficult conversa...
Ep 27 | "We feel awkward as newlyweds."
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about awkwardness during the newlywed stage. Using our own experience, we provide practical tip...
Ep 26 | "I am a different race from my husband.".
06 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about some of the challenges that come up in interracial or intercultural marriages._____________...
Ep 25 | "I don't know if I'm attracted to him."
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I answer a question about whether or not attraction can develop over time.______________🔴Worried your dating app s...
Ep 24 | How to be Open with Your Spouse
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to start to be open with your spouse and manage hyperindependence.______________🔴Worried your dat...
Ep 23 | How to Remarry as a Single Parent
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I go through how to approach looking for a spouse as a single parent. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app...
Ep 22 | Is Islamic Marriage Risky?
09 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss why the Muslim marriage process mitigates risk more efficiently than other strategies. ______________🔴...
Ep 21 | How to Know if a Man is Serious
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I review how to know whether a potential gentleman is serious about pursuing marriage with you. ______________ 🔴...
Ep 20 | Why are Men Afraid of Commitment?
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I unpack common reasons why some men shy away from commitment. ______________ 🔴Worried your dating app strate...
Ep 19 | How to Make Long Distance Work
12 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about strategies to help make your long distance courtship or marriage work out, In Shaa Allah.______________🔴...
Ep 18 | How to Use the Dating Apps
02 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to use the dating/matrimonial apps strategically to actually find a spouse, Bi’Iznillah.__________...
Ep 17 | How to Make Your Spouse Happy
18 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to win your husband or wife's heart within your marriage, In Shaa Allah.______________🔴Worri...
Ep 16 | How to Know if She's a Good Woman
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to recognize a good woman based on her characteristics and approach, In Shaa Allah.____________🔴W...
Ep 15 | How to Know if He's a Good Man
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to recognize a good man based on his characteristics and approach, In Shaa Allah.____________🔴Wor...
Ep 14 | How to be Manipulation Proof
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the perspective and strategies that are helpful for side-stepping manipulators entirely during your sear...
Ep 13 | How to Make a Marriage Work
11 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about our best understanding of what are the requirements and skills needed to make a marriage work. ___...
Ep 12 | How to Choose a Spouse
03 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, I (just me! AJ will be back next week Bi’Iznillah) talk about the right criteria to have in mind when choosing a spouse....
Ep 11 | How Should Money be Managed in Marriage?
23 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to talk about and manage money in a healthy way both during the talking stage and after marriage. _...
Ep 10 | How Important is Attraction in Marriage?
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how attraction should factor into your talking stage, and how to address loss of attraction during marriage...
Ep 9 | How to Handle Boredom in Marriage
09 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to tackle boredom and disconnection in marriage. ______________🔴Worried your dating app strategy i...
Ep 8 | Divorce & Breakups
18 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss the common underlying causes of divorce, our own experiences, and how to start the recovery process. ____...
Ep 7 | How to Recognize Red Flags
04 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how to recognize red flags associated with possible manipulators early in the talking stage, as well as how...
Ep 6 | Loyalty & Trust
21 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss loyalty and trust in the context of infidelity, social media, and checking each other’s phones.__________...
Ep 5 | How to Find a Spouse
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I discuss how and where to find a spouse.______________🔴Worried your dating app strategy isn’t working? Let me...
Ep 4 | The Gender Wars
01 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I address the gender wars. We discuss opposing views, the reasoning behind them, and how they lead to misunderstand...
Ep 3 | The Mental Load
16 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about how to manage and share the mental load of responsibilities that comes with running a household. This ...
Ep 2 | The First Year of Marriage
10 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this week’s episode, AJ and I talk about the challenges that come up during the first year of marriage. We discuss how to establish a good foun...
Ep 1 | The Talking Stage
02 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, AJ and I review the most common questions of clients regarding the Talking Stage from both the women and men's perspectives. T...