The Niall Graham Podcast
Episodes
#35 From Rewriting the Irish Story Within Us w/h Conor Creighton
23 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In today’s episode, I sit down with Conor Creighton a writer, coach, and host of the Healing from Irishness podcast. Conor’s work explores th...
#34 The Dark Masculine: Reclaiming your Male Power w/h Alex Mischka
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
“The dark masculine isn’t toxic, it’s the part of a man that gives him backbone, sexual vitality, direction, and the power to meet life fully.”...
#33 The Emotional Skills Men Were Never Taught w/h David Chambers - The Authentic Man
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Most men don’t struggle in relationships because they don’t care, they struggle because they were never taught how. In this episode, I’m joined ...
#32 Why Independence Won’t Heal You (Connection Will) w/h Fergus Cronin
09 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I’m joined by Fergus Cronin — an emotionally focused couples therapist who’s been working with Irish couples for over a decade,...
#31 Why Men Struggle to be Emotionally Available (And What It Costs Relationship) W/h Hugh Newton
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve ever felt like men are changing… but not fast enough — this episode is for you. The relationship & expectations between me...
The Father Wound, Men’s Work & The Return of Community (w/h Ianto Doyle & Robin Botley)
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ianto Doyle is a men’s work facilitator, coach, and one of the founders of Journeyman UK—the UK branch of an international rites-of-passage moveme...
#29 7 Essential qualities women need from men
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Over the past six months many men have come to me saying the same thing: “My relationship is falling apart… and I don’t know what to do.” In t...
#27 "The buck stops here." A conversation with Michael Ryan
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Michael Ryan is a Yoga and Breathwork teacher with over 20 years experience. In recent years his work has focussed on guiding men towards a deeper sen...
#26 Shame, Power, and the Nervous System: A Conversation with Catherine Hale
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
My guest on the show this week is Catherine Hale is a nervous system coach and founder of Culture of Care Training, helping changemakers, coaches, and...
#25 The 4 levels of Shame and how we can move through them.
29 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Shame is one of the most powerful emotions we carry. It keeps us small, disconnected, and afraid to show up as who we truly are. In this episode, I re...
#24 Where are all the good men?
08 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We hear this question being echoed in society, a calling forth of a different type of man. But often we do not look at the greater cultural shifts tha...
#23 What it means to be an Embodied Man, Head, Heart and Guts.
27 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many men have the experience ‘I feel like im living in my head.’ Yes we are functional and getting by but there is an underlying restlessness or s...
#22 Reclaiming Power from Coloniser, Religion and Society
03 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We have been lead to believe that as an individual we can gain personal power but it is becoming clear that we as men are intimately linked to much gr...
#21 Eldership, Mission & Navigating our Wounding w/h Robin Botley
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This is beautiful conversation with my good friend and elder Robin Botley. He has been involved in Mens work for over 25 years. A member of both Manki...
#20 Become a more mature man by regulating your inner child
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
As men we cannot step into full maturity until we develop deep relationship with our inner child. He must feel safe and protected for us to be able to...
#19 Revisioning and tending the relationship between Men & women w/h Michaela of Rooted Feminine Wellness
25 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The battle of the sexes is such a big issue in culture. Women not feeling safe or protected in society and men feeling unsure of how to step up for fe...
#18 Spirit & Soul - Navigating both realms of life
10 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Many men end up trapped the spirit realms, avoiding emotions and rationalizing our way through life because many spiritual teachings support this. A...
#17 The Ultradian cycle - Following natural cycles for deep concentration and focus.
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We are natural beings connected to nature and the cycles. When we can align with the natural cycles of life we get more done with much more ease. I...
#16 Containment & Healthy expression of Anger
14 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this weeks episode I dive deeply into anger. Anger is a pivotal emotion to master for men. Often we have a bad relationship with anger and haven't ...
W/h Guest - Angie Twydall - Womb/Hara Inner Authority & Awakening the Grail Knights
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This Episode im joined by Angie Twydall Founder of The Sanctuary of Sophia, a sacred space dedicated to offering womb and hara training, trauma-aware ...
#15 Stop being a People Pleaser - Start putting yourself first
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The people pleaser is so common in modern society. 'Nice guys,' 'yes men,' but ultimately spineless and lack of balls. On the surface he is agreeable ...
#14 Diary of a breakdown. What happens when everything falls apart?
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I share a personal story of a breakdown I had when I was 20. Breakdowns or mental disorders are often stigmatized and pathologised i...
#13 Why talk therapy doesn’t work for all men and what men actually need.
16 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Over the years ive worked with many men who say ive been to therapy for years and I need something else. In this episode I dive into: Why talk thera...
#12 Men and Cocks. Discovering the essence of being a man.
08 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I dive into Mens relationship with our cocks and why this is such a fundamental part of our journey into manhood: - How having a healt...
#11 The Sacred Body w/h Michaela
11 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Michaela is the Founder of Rooted Feminine Wellness, caring for Womb, Sexual & reproductive vitality. She is also Co Facilitating the Path of Sacr...
#10 Mythology, Masculinity and Meaning w/h André Adri-Soejoko
23 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
#10 Mythology, Masculinity & Meaning with André Adri-Soejoko André Adri-Soejoko is a mens work facilitator based in Cornwall. He is Co-Founde...
#9 The Feminine - The missing key for men
12 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
As men, we are needing to connect to the feminine. But what does this actually mean and how we can we do this? In this podcast I cover the subjects of...
#8 The Feminine Mysteries W/h Cherazade Aanya
09 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Cherazade is a Somatic Womb Therapist based in Hawaii. In this episode we go deeply into the feminine mysteries, healing and womb/hara. We go deeply i...
#7 Irish Men & Emotional Maturity
19 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I look at how a lot of men have ended up emotionally immature. What is the impact on our lives and the people around us and how do we ...
Episode 6 - The Need to Belong W/h Jenny O’Hare
07 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I welcome on a very good friend and work colleague of mine Jenny O'Hare who is a deep ecologist living in the west of Ireland. In this...
Episode 5 - Men in Community
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Men have gathered in communities of men for centuries. Most tribes or communities will have Mens Lodges where men gather and do sacred work. In this p...
Episode 4 - Reclaiming Masculinity
28 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I discuss what is the Patriarchy and unhealthy masculinity and introduce the idea that it is necessary to reclaim healthy masculini...
Episode 3 - Reflection on Sacred Sons EMX Weekend
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sacred Sons have become a very well known and International Mens movement, that are bringing in alot of new people to Mens work, they are really putti...
Episode 2 - The feminine cannot truly rise until the Masculine does his work
12 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
This comes from a long journey of self discovery, of trying to avoid my own toxic masculinity and deeper more fucked up parts of me, I escaped and asp...
Episode 1 - The Hara and The Descent
12 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
An Introduction to my Podcast and also looking at the fundamental teachings that I offer. Looking at the relationship between the missing piece in cul...