The NVR Podcast
Activity Overview
Episode publication activity over the past year
Episodes
NVR Podcast - Parents - NVR principles to support Sarah with her nonverbal autistic grandson
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Hello and welcome to PartnershipProject's first Parent Podcast. This year we are focusing on Parental Presence in the form of monthly podcasts ...
NVR Podcast Season 4, Episode #1 - Special New Year Edition: NVR and Neurodivergence
22 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
A special edition by Peter Jakob and Joanne Buchmüller, writer and Specialist Family and Systemic Psychotherapist in which they discuss the dilemma...
NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode #9 - The Need for Justice in Child Focused Practice - How to engage with clarity?
03 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Shila Desai and Peter Jakob discuss some additions to Child focused Practices in NVR . Unmet needs were categorised in four ways which included th...
NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 8 - New Developments in NVR
30 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Jill Lubienski and Dr Peter Jakob discuss the wider applications of NVR, focusing on areas of practice not originally considered withi...
NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 7 - "Can't think about anything but war!"
11 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In light of recent events (war) taking our focus, we felt strongly to reflect on what builds peace. This is an emotional piece that we were compelled ...
NVR Podcast Season 3, Episode # 6 'A Gentle Kind of Resistance'- NVR and Mental Health
29 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Shila Desai speaks to Vasiliki Loumpa- a Family and Systemic Psychotherapist/ NVR Accredited Practitioner about how she uses NVR and i...
NVR Podcast season 3, episode #5 - How can NVR be adapted for Situational Mutism
02 Aug 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Shila Desai and Peter Jakob explore the difficult impact of situational mutism, social withdrawal and shutdown faced by parents and c...
NVR Podcast season 3, episode #4 - NVR and Women
22 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this podcast, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob consider the position of women and NVR. Many of our clients are women in situations of distress, who a...
NVR Podcast season 3, episode #3 - Overcoming Resistance Fatigue
25 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Jill Lubienski and Peter Jakob discuss possibilities for how to keep going in tough times. Peter and Jill elaborate on a metaphor of ...
NVR Podcast season 3, episode #2 - Stillness in the Chaos
17 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob introduces Shila Desai and together they discuss the idea of how to cultivate stillness in the demands and uncertainties that families and...
NVR Podcast season 3 episode #1 - 'What's Love Got To Do With It'?
23 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Jill Lubienski take inspiration from Martin Luther King Jr. in exploring the theme of connecting heart and mind and taking action in a...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #23 "when cases are tough"
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer have discussions about practitioners working on cases that are tough. It is farewell from me (Rachael) as I hand over...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #22 - "The Struggle"
17 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob & Rachael Aylmer talk about "The Struggle" between caregivers in NVR and practitioners in NVR. Note * this is a 50-minute ...
NVR Podcast Season 2 episode #21 "Languages of love"
03 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk on this week's podcast about the "Language of Love". reference: Carl Rogers - https://counsell...
NVR podcast Season 2 Episode #20 - "Resisting what adults do"!!!
21 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about resistance in our practice. How do NVR practitioners challenge other professionals with different scripts ...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #18 - "Is it her" - or "Is it the autism"????
02 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss how a diagnosis in a young person can affect how parents and caregivers utilise NVR. Referenced:The National ...
NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #17 - "Clarity"
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about "Clarity" on this week's podcast. A short and sweet conversation about how practitioners ga...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #16 - The Vulnerability of Parents
26 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
The vulnerability of parents was today's discussion between Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR ...
NVR podcast - Diagnosis and Aggression - Series 2 episode #15
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about young people's disabilities and diagnoses and how aggression can be normalised. PartnershipProjects ...
The NVR Association (NVRA) Community PODCAST series 1 episode #01 SPACE Model
15 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the first NVRA community podcast. This month: Rachael Aylmer talks to Warren Matofsky Clinical and Community Psychologist from West Suss...
NVR Podcast Season 2 episode #14 - "Inequality and fear of Social Control"
05 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about Inequality and the fear of Social Control and how NVR practitioners' roles can be portrayed ad misunder...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #13 "Blaming Interaction - how to interrupt it"
21 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob talks in detail about the interaction between parent and child and parent to parent. How mutual blaming can make life difficult. How c...
NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #12 Hero - Role model - NVR
07 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer muse over the understanding of heroes and role models in today's society and our history. Please contact us ...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #11 - NVR in Schools and education
01 Jun 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer talk more about NVR in schools and education settings. Please see Haim Omers Book Courageous Teachers: Courageous te...
NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #10 "To nag or not to nag" - that is the question.
22 May 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob deconstructing the term "nag". PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider fo...
NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #09 "New Authority in Schools"
21 Apr 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer discuss how staff within all educational settings might differ by using NVR and how staff can unite their approaches to...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #08 "Vigilant Care in Schools"
16 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Tony Meehan and Rachael Aylmer talk about how schools can adopt a new approach to behaviours in school, using New Authority. We referenced a book by...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #07 "The Nature of Non Violence"
09 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about the current war on Ukraine and how this sits with this week's topic The Nature of Non-Violence, acts of...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #6 NVR in young peoples mental health
02 Mar 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Rachael Aylmer talks to Vasiliki Loumpa about her work as an NVR accredited practitioner in the NHS inpatients unit using NVR as an intervention to su...
NVR Podcast season 2 episode #05 Taking a Stand
16 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Shila Desai and Rachael Aylmer talk about "Taking a stand" ..... how might parents find the strength to do this. PartnershipProjects is th...
NVR Podcast season 2 Episode #04 "NVR in Schools"????
09 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Rachael Aylmer and Tony Meehan talk about how NVR can influence school systems and behaviour policies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OdPaqt6RY_Q ...
NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #03 Overcoming Parental Trauma
02 Feb 2022
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer are following on from the last podcast #2 Parent trauma talking more about Overcoming Parental Trauma ...
NVR Podcast Season 2 epiosode #2 The Parents Trauma
14 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things related to parents trauma. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resis...
NVR Podcast Season 2 Episode #01 Normalising and De-normalising Controlling Behaviour
14 Jan 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about ways in which parents/caregivers can normalise and de-normalise controlling behaviours by a young person. ...
NVR Podcast # 25 - Sending a signal???????
19 Nov 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the messages caregivers can offer a young person in need and after an aggressive/violent incident. Apologies f...
NVR Podcast # 24 From contructive struggle to child focus
08 Oct 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things NVR. In this episode, we talk about the shifts that parents/caregivers can make when moving fro...
NVR Podcast #23 "When a parent feels like they don't matter"
17 Sep 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the topic of "mattering". PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance...
NVR Podcast # 22 Parents Knowledge
20 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things NVR. This episode is about parents knowledge of their child/adolescent/young person. Please ch...
NVR Podcast # 21 Impulse and Intent
13 Aug 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer Podcast #21 Impulse and IntentThis is the link to the Ted Talk peter mentions: https://www.ted.com/talks/chimamanda_ng...
NVR Podcast # 20 NVR in Early Childhood and the Parental Alliance
02 Jul 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing all things related to NVR. (Apologies for my sniffing - hay fever-related!) PartnershipProjects is the UK...
NVR Podcast # 19 "When love is not enough"
07 Apr 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - talking about thoughts and reflection on the topic "when love is not enough" PartnershipProjects is the UK...
NVR podcast # 18 - "Don't talk about violence" !!!! (Part B)
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Part B - Here is the remaining part of the podcast - I hope this makes easy listening and hasn't disrupted the flow!!Many thanks for listening. ...
NVR Podcast # 18 - "Don't talk about violence"!!!! (Part A)
22 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer talk about 'not' talking about violence!!! This podcast is in two parts - apologies for any confusing - acci...
NVR Podcast #17 - We are Peaceful!
17 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussing being peaceful. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provid...
NVR Podcast #16 Imagination!
08 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing Imaginative Practice. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training pr...
NVR Podcast #15 - No Support????
01 Mar 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussing support, supporters, and the challenges we face. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Vi...
Podcast #14 Practitioner Embodying NVR
05 Feb 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussions PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for profession...
NVR Podcast # 13 - Shame
17 Jan 2021
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing SHAME PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for profe...
NVR Podcast # 12 Being the Boundary
21 Dec 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discuss the ideas around parental boundaries. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance...
NVR Podcast # 11 - Sit In's
25 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer discussing thoughts about the Sit-In. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Traini...
NVR Podcast #10 Beyond Parenting
11 Nov 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussions on how NVR is taken further when working with parents who are experiencing harm and harmful behaviours. ...
NVR Podcast #9 - Only Parenting
28 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer Discussing Only ParentingSuggested future podcast topics - email [email protected] PartnershipProjects is ...
NVR Podcast #8 - Consequences
21 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael - Discussing 'consequences' when using NVR PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance...
NVR Podcast #7 - When do you stop doing NVR?
13 Oct 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - discussing when NVR stops! PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provid...
NVR Podcast # 6 - The Fear of The Announcement
28 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Discussions by Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer 25 minutes PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider...
NVR Podcast #5 Unconditional Love and Conditional Care
17 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - 25 minute conversation about unconditional love and conditional care. PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading ...
NVR Podcast #4 - Erasure & The Presence Mind.
05 Aug 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob & Rachael Aylmer - 25 min podcast PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for pro...
NVR Podcast #3 - Harmonizing or Reconciliation?
22 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob & Rachael Aylmer PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provider for professionals and pa...
NVR Podcast #2- Solution Focus
08 Jul 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer - A 25-minute discussion on solution focus work in NVR.PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Re...
NVR Podcast #1 - Coping & Resistance
24 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer 24/06/2020 NVR Podcast #1 PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resistance) Training provide...
Coping & Resistance
24 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer 24/06/2020Discussion on Coping & Resistance PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-Violent Resista...
Coping & Resistance
24 Jun 2020
Contributed by Lukas
21 minutes - Peter Jakob and Rachael Aylmer Discussion on coping & resistance. 24/06/2020PartnershipProjects is the UK's leading NVR (Non-V...