The Openlove101 Show
Episodes
Are Relationships Really Restrictive? Rethinking Love, Freedom & Connection
24 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Is being single really more "free" than being in a relationship? In this solo episode, John from OpenLove101.com challenges the traditional idea that ...
Love Without Limits: The Truth About Consensual Non-Monogamy
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they tackle a thought-provoking question: Would they still be together if they weren't in the swinger lifestyle? I...
Do Open Relationships Mean Something's Missing? Ft: Daily Mail
10 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
After a recent Daily Mail article questioned whether their open relationship suggests something is lacking, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com set t...
5 Emotional Triggers Behind Jealousy
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they tackle a provocative question: Is it possible to experience jealousy while maintaining a healthy non-monogamo...
Should Marriage Always Mean Monogamy? | John & Jackie Respond to Daily Mail Comment
24 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com respond to a comment on a Daily Mail article that claims people who want sexual freedom shouldn'...
From Curious to Confident: Navigating the Evolution of Open Relationships
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they discuss the journey from curiosity to confidence in open relationships and the swinger lifestyle. Drawing fro...
Can You Love More Than One Person? Emotional Bonds in Open Relationships
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—exploring the joys, challeng...
Our Rules vs. Your Rules: Why Every Open Relationship Is Unique
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the fascinating world of consensual non-monogamy and explore why there's no standard set of rules i...
Being True to Yourself in a World That Judges!
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about the challenges of living authentically in a world that often stigmatizes ...
7 Lessons from Watching Your Partner with Others
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this intimate and revealing episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi discuss a pivotal milestone in consensual non-monogam...
The Hard Parts of Swinging (And Why They're Not Actually Bad)
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this candid episode, John and Jackie shift the conversation to something couples don't always talk about openly: the challenges of swinging and op...
The Truth About Swinging: It's Not What You Think!
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 as they discuss how they've broken traditional boundaries in non-monogamous relationships! In this can...
How to Handle Fear & Jealousy in Swinging Relationships
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Fear and jealousy are natural—but how you handle them can make or break your relationship. In this heartfelt video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101...
How to Unlock Non-Sexual Benefits in Open Relationships
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving ...
Setting Boundaries in the Swinger Lifestyle
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for na...
How to Balance Feelings and Fun in Non-monogamy
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing...
How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection
02 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Can swinging lead to more emotional intimacy? In this video,...
10 Myths About Swinging Debunked Pt. 2
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconcep...
Consent in the Swinger Lifestyle: Why It Always Matters
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean consent is automatic. In this important video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the vital role ...
10 Surprising Misconceptions About Nonmonogamy PT.1
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as...
Love & Swinging Lifestyle: Not Always Traditional
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can emotional connections exist without threatening your primary relationship? In this thought-provoking video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com e...
Fantasy Roleplay in Consensual Non-Monogamy Relationships
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, an...
Swingers Lifestyle & Consent - What Does It Really Means?
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Consent isn't one-size-fits-all. In this eye-opening discussion, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com unpack the many ways couples define and navigat...
When Fights Test Your Relationship: Handling Conflict in Consensual Non-Monogamy
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major figh...
How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Looking to connect with like-minded people in the open or swinging ...
Breaking Stereotypes in Open Relationships 🌍
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Breaking stereotypes and redefining what relationships can be! 🌍 Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let's explore it together 🙂!...
How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How Swinging Can Strengthen Your Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Think swinging ruins relationships? Think again. In this video, John and ...
The Truth About Cheating in Open Relationships
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this eye-opening discussion, hosts John and Jackie Melfi tackle the intriguing question: "Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples?"...
Swinging as a Threesome
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can swinging ever be truly "equal"? In this honest and insightful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com tackle the emotional dynamics of open re...
Boundaries vs Rules: Why Language Matters in Relationships
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this insightful episode, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into the important distinction between boundaries and rules in relationships, especially ...
Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs?
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is It Safe for Single Women to Visit Swinger Clubs? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Curious about visiting a swinger club as a single woman—but feeli...
The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work for Every Personality Type
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do Opposite Personalities Work in Non-Monogamy? | Open Love 101 Podcast Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite pe...
Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Debunking Myths About the Swinger Lifestyle | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Is swinging just cheating in disguise? In this video, John and Jackie from ...
Beyond the Bedroom: Exploring the Non-Sexual Benefits of Swinging
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the often-overlooked non-sexual benefits of being in an open relationship. With over 20 years of co...
How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How the Swinger Lifestyle Transformed Our Relationship | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.co...
Beyond the Myth: Insider Perspectives on the Swinger Lifestyle with Courtney
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swi...
How We Talk to Our Kids About Open Relationships
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How do you explain non-traditional relationships to your children? In this thoughtful video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about parent...
This or That: Exploring Consensual Non-Monogamy
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi in this fun and revealing episode where they play "This or That: Lifestyle Edition"! The couple behind colette Swinge...
Swingers Lifestyle & New Way of Looking at Jealousy
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Jealousy in Open Relationships: Fix It or Ignore It? | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 What do jealousy and a broken refrigerator have in common? In this...
The Psychology of Open Relationships: Insights from a Sex Therapist
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog openlove101.com, as they dive deep into relations...
What Is Compersion? Exploring Joy in Non-Monogamous Relationships
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Can you feel joy when your partner finds happiness with someone else? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive into the concept of com...
Can You Love More Than One Person?
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How to Reconnect After a Lifestyle Misstep In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—explo...
Honey, wanna go to a Swinger's Club?
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about exploring a swingers club but not sure how to bring it up with your partner? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share p...
Boundaries vs Rules: The Key to Open Relationship Success
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about the secrets behind open relationship success? Ever thought about how boundaries and rules can transform your love life? Let's explore it...
Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Jealousy in Relationships: How to Talk About It | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Jealousy isn't just one emotion—it's a mix of fear, anger, and vulner...
How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How Single Men Can Succeed in Swingers Clubs | Tips from John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Filmed during Mardi Gras in New Orleans, John and Jackie from Ope...
Breaking Myths About Swinging: A Unicorn's Perspective
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Ever thought about what it's like to embrace intimacy, trust, and communication in new ways? Let's ...
Swingers Lifestyle: Working Past Uncomfortable Feelings
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this candid conversation, John and Jackie from Openlove101 dive into how relationship dynamics evolve over time—especially in open and non-tradi...
The Hidden Truth About Partner Jealousy I Finally Discovered
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Discover the hidden truth about partner jealousy in open relationships! Ever struggled with feelings of control when your partner is with someone else...
Visiting Swingers Club as a Single Woman
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In today's throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about visiting a swingers club as a single woman! They discuss expectations, ways to break the ic...
5 Brutal Myths About Open Relationships DEBUNKED 🔍
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Debunking 5 brutal myths about open relationships! 🔍 Curious about the lifestyle? Let's explore together! Ever thought STDs were inevitable? Or tha...
Dealing With Fear And Jealousy In Open Relationships
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about dealing with fear and jealousy in an Open Relationship. Do you throw in the towel and call it ...
The Truth About Non-Monogamy: My 40-Year Journey
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about non-monogamy? Join us for a fascinating journey through 40 years of open relationships! Ever wondered how someone's upbringing shapes th...
Swinger Relationships and Coming Out To Your Kids
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about "Coming Out" to your kids. They discuss the intense feelings, navigating having an intimate co...
Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥 Ever wondered what it's like to dive into the open lifestyle? Join us for some juicy stories! ...
Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships A Different POV
25 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about Overcoming Fear in Open Relationships (A Different POV)! They discuss the early stages of the ...
The TRUTH About Swingers Clubs Most People Don't Know
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The TRUTH about swingers clubs? It's not what you think! Ever wondered what really goes on behind those doors? Surprise - it's not just for swinger...
Swingers Lifestyle - Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the self care through self empathy and giving yourself a break. They discuss the intense feeli...
The Ugly Truth About Open Relationships: Not Cheating
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The ugly truth about open relationships? It's NOT cheating! Join John and Jackie as they tackle the biggest misconception about ethical non-monogam...
Swinging Relationship Issues Defusing Arguments
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how to defuse arguments within the lifestyle. They discuss how most arguments are rooted in fear of...
Celebrating 10 Years of OpenLove101: Reflections, Growth, and Gratitude
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
John and Jackie commemorate a decade of OpenLove101, reflecting on their journey in the world of consensual non-monogamy advocacy. They share memorabl...
Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie talk about the Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows! They discuss the intense feelings, both positive and nega...
Hotel Takeover Tips: Everything You Need to Know
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie dive deep into the fascinating world of hotel takeovers and conventions in the lifestyle community. They share esse...
Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss dealing with the pressure of visiting a Swingers Club. They most common answer for why peop...
Visiting Swingers Club and Embracing Your Bi-Sexuality
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss feel confident in embracing your bi-sexuality while attending a swingers club! They discuss the c...
This is Why Non Monogamous Relationships Fails
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we tackle a difficult but important topic: "What happens when couples in the swinger lifestyle go through a breakup or divorce?" We...
What is Swinging? The Definition Of Swinging
03 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the definition of Swinging and what is really means! Is Swinging what mainstream media paints ...
What Is Your Relationship Model: 14 Different Varieties of Open Relationships
26 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join John and Jackie in this engaging episode as they dive into the diverse world of open relationships. Today they're exploring 14 different varietie...
Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest
19 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the most common fear they hear from other's in the lifestyle. The Fear of Being Honest Tun...
Building Up to the Moment: Navigating Playtime with Ease
12 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, we're diving into a question from one of our Openlove101+ members: "How do you smoothly transition to playtime with another coup...
How Different Cultures Embrace the Swinging Lifestyle
05 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the Swinging Lifestyle is different in different cultures! They discuss the difference and...
Managing Boundaries in Open Relationships: Communicating and Respecting Limits
29 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie are tackling some tough questions from their viewers about navigating boundaries in open relationships. "What do ...
Swingers Lifestyle And The Subject Of Consent
22 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the topic of "consent" has changed over the years. They discuss the importance of both non...
Keeping It Spicy: How New Experiences Can Revitalize Your Relationship
15 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of keeping relationships spicy and vibrant. They explore how introducing new experienc...
Swinging Advice For Non-Swingers
08 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join John and Jackie as they discuss how the relationship advice they give for non-monogamy helps their monogamous friends in their relationship! ...
Discover Swinger Terms You Won't Believe!
01 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join John and Jackie as they dive into the fascinating world of swinger terminology. Ever wondered what terms like "unicorn," "soft swap," or "airti...
When Swinging Doesn't Go As Planned!
24 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Join John and Jackie in this blast from the past episode as they discuss what to do when you have a bad experience inside a lifestyle club or swinger...
Are You Someone's Fantasy? (Surprising Truth About Body Image In Lifestyle!)
17 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
John and Jackie dive into the important topic of body image within the lifestyle community. They share insights on how everyone, regardless of their...
Swinging As A Solution
10 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Can swinging be a solution to marriage issues? Today we talk about a married couple who are having some challenges in their relationship and decid...
From Playing Solo to Tik Tok Famous with The Swing Nation
03 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with the dynamic duo from The Swing Nation, Dan and Lacy, to hear about their incredible journey within the lifestyle. W...
Different Types of Open Relationships
27 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's blast from the past episode, John and Jackie discuss different types of Open Relationships. From Swinging Relationships to Myths to Em...
The New Relationship Energy: Embracing Change in Open Relationships
20 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, we dive into the exhilarating yet sometimes challenging topic of New Relationship Energy (NRE). We discuss the powerful emotion...
How We Deal With Discrimination in Our Swingers Lifestyle
13 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in today's episode! "Have You Ever Faced Discrimination in the Swingers Lifestyle?" In today...
Setting Positive Boundaries in Relationships: A New Approach
06 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
John and Jackie explore the transformative power of setting boundaries in relationships from a positive perspective. Instead of focusing on what we do...
Swinging Lifestyle And Playing Alone
30 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
John and Jackie sit down in this blast from the past episode and talk about Swinging in the Lifestyle and a few questions they received regarding swi...
Single Men At Swingers Clubs (What Not To Do)
16 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NO...
Ask John and Jackie: Exploring Dynamics in the Swinging Lifestyle
09 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie tackle various aspects of navigating the swinging lifestyle based on questions from their audience. "How do I deal...
Open Relationship Workshop - True Sex and Wild Love (2019)
02 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We went to an incredible open relationship workshop in Austin, Texas called "True Sex and Wild Love" and here is recap in case you missed it! (And yes...
Empowering Women in the Lifestyle
25 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie dive into a conversation about the positive impact of the lifestyle on women. Jackie reflects on the acceptance an...
Poly Relationships and How to Get Your Partner Into It
18 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Want to have your cake and eat it too? Well, it takes two to tango. But, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. And, t...
Handling Rejection and Canceled Dates
11 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In today's episode, John and Jackie discuss the common experience of handling rejection and dealing with canceled dates. They explore the emotion...
Open Relationship Partner Permission and Consent
04 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to consent, what's usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction. What's...
Open Relationships and Playing With Couples
21 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
You know what they say, "The only thing constant is change." And that includes playing with couples in our open marriage. How it started is not how i...
The Ups and Downs of the Lifestyle: Cultivating Good Experiences
14 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities. The...
Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy
07 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Open Relationship Advice: How To Handle Fear & Jealousy John and Jackie answer a follower submitted question in this week's episode! Do you have any a...
Navigating Friendships in Open Relationships
30 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie delve into the intricacies of friendships when one person is in an open relationship. Courtney shares her experien...
Threesomes are Amazing
23 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we talk about threesomes because they are amazing! What guy (and even lots of gals) doesn't fantasize about a threesome experience?! In fact, it...
Navigating Religious Perspectives in Open Relationships
16 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie respond to a viewer's question about reconciling religious beliefs with an open relationship. John and Jackie share t...
How to Talk to Your Dating Partner About Your Open Relationship
09 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we answer one of your questions posted in the YouTube comments in one of our videos: What about the folks you're dating? Do they ...
Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open Relationships
02 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, John and Jackie discuss the complexities of dealing with uncomfortable boundaries in open relationships. The episode explores various...