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The Ramsey Show

You Don't Get Days Off When You Owe $90,000 (Hour 2)

13 Jul 2023

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Chapter 1: What should I do if I owe $90,000 in debt?

30.473 - 51.435 George Campbell

Live from the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, broadcasting from the Boss Moving and Storage Studio, it's The Ramsey Show, where we help people build wealth, do work that they love, and create amazing relationships. I'm George Campbell, joined by Dr. John Deloney, and we are excited and enthused to take your calls at 888-825-5225.

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51.415 - 59.678 George Campbell

If you need some confirmation, affirmation, inspiration, whatever you're going through, whatever's keeping you up at night, we want to help you take the right next step.

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59.738 - 61.102 Dr. John Deloney

Some constipation.

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61.202 - 64.03 George Campbell

We can't give you that. I don't know that we can relieve that either.

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64.05 - 66.015 Dr. John Deloney

I am certain we can give you constipation.

66.147 - 74.217 George Campbell

John has been known to do that, and he's very, very good at it. He's got a PhD. I don't know what it's in, but apparently he's got one or two.

74.797 - 78.722 Dr. John Deloney

It's in my PhD is in the inability to go to the bathroom.

78.962 - 81.826 George Campbell

There are dumber degrees out there, so it would not shock me at this point.

82.126 - 82.707 Dr. John Deloney

That's probably fair.

Chapter 2: How does debt affect mental health?

87.492 - 89.775 Dr. John Deloney

What are all those Asians you dropped out?

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89.755 - 96.664 George Campbell

Inspiration, affirmation, confirmation. Conservation. Motivation. That's not in there. You keep throwing that one in there. All right. Stop trying to make it happen.

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97.625 - 102.171 George Campbell

All right. Jeremy is up first, if he still even wants to talk to us. Jeremy, how you doing?

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103.533 - 105.175 John Delony

Hey, guys. Thank you so much for taking my call.

105.436 - 105.616 George Campbell

Sure.

Chapter 3: What is the Debt Snowball method and how can I set it up?

105.956 - 106.477 George Campbell

What's going on?

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107.458 - 122.083 John Delony

Well, I've reached a point of desperation in my life. I listen to you guys every night, but I still can't get my act together. I have six kids, and me and my wife, we maybe bring in about 65,000 a year.

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122.103 - 150.317 John Delony

We have no savings, no emergency fund, and we're barely able to pay our bills as they are, uh, due to like a special circumstance where I'm kind of getting double dipped for child support, where I'm paying for two kids who live with me. Um, and I'm, I'm, I have two $600 car payments. as well as the student loans are getting ready to drop.

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150.357 - 157.966 John Delony

We have about $50,000, $40,000 actually in student loans between me and my wife.

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158.206 - 159.207 Dr. John Deloney

What do you do for a living, man?

160.569 - 161.81 John Delony

I'm a bus driver for Disney.

163.953 - 165.174 Dr. John Deloney

What do you make a year doing that?

166.896 - 171.782 John Delony

So I make about $55,000 a year, and that's with my overtime.

172.803 - 176.007 George Campbell

And is your wife working outside the home? Where's the other $10,000 coming from?

Chapter 4: How can I discuss financial help with my parents?

177.218 - 181.947 John Delony

Well, my wife works over at Walmart. She's a regular associate.

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182.808 - 184.091 George Campbell

Okay. And that's part-time?

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185.453 - 188.699 Dr. John Deloney

Yes. Okay. Do you have a degree with these student loans you got to pay back?

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190.282 - 199.159 John Delony

I have a certificate from Universal Technical Institute, and she has some schooling from Puerto Rico. Okay.

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201.029 - 220.369 George Campbell

Well, there's two pieces to the puzzle. There's decreasing expenses, which you've got six kids. You've got a lot going on on top of the debt payments, on top of normal bills that people have. And then we've got to also increase the income. We've got to find ways to make more because we're in the situation where we have a lot of mouths to feed and a lot of debt to pay.

220.77 - 221.691 Dr. John Deloney

Do you hear George?

Chapter 5: What should I consider before asking my spouse to get a job?

221.731 - 235.929 Dr. John Deloney

I want you to – George just distilled that down, but it's as simple as that. And I know it's terrifying to think that it's that simple. But the only two options here are to increase what you make and decrease the expenses you have.

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236.99 - 239.935 John Delony

So the only issue with that is we've been looking.

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241.337 - 244.001 Dr. John Deloney

But you haven't because you got two $600 a month car payments.

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244.662 - 251.353 George Campbell

I would look right in the driveway and I would go, those things got to go today. Yeah. What are the cars worth?

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252.987 - 273.009 John Delony

My van's worth about $11,000, and we owe $14,000. And my Corolla is worth about $15,000, and we owe, I believe, $13,000. But we needed the Corolla because I live about 55 miles from my job. So I needed the gas mileage.

274.05 - 276.092 Dr. John Deloney

Why is this the end-all, be-all job?

280.072 - 284.198 John Delony

They've been very good to me. I mean, it has its benefits.

Chapter 6: How can I balance my financial responsibilities with family obligations?

284.218 - 307.53 Dr. John Deloney

You can't afford to live there, brother. I mean, you can't afford to work there. It's 50 miles away for $50,000. You can go be an assistant manager at a fast food restaurant and make that money. What is it about that job? Because that job is costing you two hours of commute time a day. It's costing you a car you cannot afford, and it's not paying you enough to pay your bills.

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311.24 - 315.546 Dr. John Deloney

I don't have a real good answer for that.

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315.586 - 318.75 John Delony

I mean, I really enjoy my job. I enjoy the guest interaction.

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319.01 - 333.17 Dr. John Deloney

Oh, dude, I know I'm stomping on your heart. I know you love that job. You love the people. And my understanding is when you are fully bought in as a Disney employee, it's a family big time. It's a community.

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Chapter 7: What are effective strategies for reducing monthly expenses?

333.37 - 338.657 Dr. John Deloney

I get that. And you are broke. And you can't breathe.

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339.809 - 349.243 Dr. John Deloney

And then you get in a car that's depreciating every second you sit in it and drive an hour in that traffic to work a job that does not pay you enough to support all six kids.

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353.209 - 354.791 George Campbell

What's your total consumer debt, Jeremy?

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356.754 - 358.136 John Delony

About $90,000.

359.898 - 368.03 George Campbell

Is your wife able to work more? What is the child care situation like? I can't even imagine taking care of six kids. I imagine the ages are wildly spread.

368.05 - 370.755 Dr. John Deloney

George has two... Were they pugs? Yeah.

370.875 - 371.497 George Campbell

French bulldogs.

Chapter 8: How can I improve my financial situation without compromising my values?

371.517 - 374.462 Dr. John Deloney

French bulldogs. Two bulldogs.

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374.482 - 376.105 George Campbell

He has two French bulldogs.

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376.146 - 376.326 Dr. John Deloney

Yeah.

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376.787 - 381.476 John Delony

Okay, 15? And my youngest two are two and one.

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381.736 - 382.979 George Campbell

Okay.

383.44 - 401.546 John Delony

So that's kind of where that comes, where she has to help with the babies, especially while I'm working. I mean, it does... Yeah, that's one of the benefits. One of the benefits is I do get to take my kids to Disney on my days off. So, I mean, that's kind of a big benefit for my children.

401.567 - 422.685 Dr. John Deloney

For the next couple of years, you don't get days off. You owe $90,000. $90,000. You've got to start making some headway on this. And, dude, trust me. I'm not trying to be a jerk, man. I'm just trying to put both hands on your shoulders and let you realize how precarious your situation is.

424.91 - 435.086 George Campbell

And if the cars can get us out of what? They can decrease our debt by $27,000. Obviously, we've got to save up some money. We've got to figure out the underwater situation. We've got to get some cars.

435.106 - 449.448 Dr. John Deloney

Keep the van, right? Keep the van because you've got 14,000 children, right? So keep the van. And then here's what we're trying to do. We're trying to rattle your cage a little bit to get you out of the there's just no way. There is ways, but you've got to be willing to go all in, man.

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