THE REAL SEX EDUCATION

S7 Ep10: What contraception should I be using?

19 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son, Diggory Waite, chat about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virgini...

S7 Ep9: Can long distance work?

13 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite respond to listener questions including how to make long distance relati...

S7 Ep8: Are we too old for sex?

06 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell, along with her son Diggory Waite, responds to a listener questioning whether he and his wife ...

S7 Ep7: How do I get a girlfriend?

30 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions like how do I get a girlfriend not in clubs, p...

S7 Ep6: Should I help boyfriend explore his new bisexual side?

23 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions including how to help one's boyfriend who wants to try having s...

S7 Ep5: Why are young people having less sex?

13 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since ...

S7 Ep4: "Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?"

06 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite take listeners questions including: Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker? ...

S7 Ep3: Baby Voice: Why do we do it with our PARTNERS!?

30 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk all things baby voice - why do we do it to babies? Why do we do it with ...

S7 Ep2: SHOCKING New Guidance on Sex Education in England

23 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

*TRIGGER WARNING* This podcast contains discussion about suicide and sexual assault. Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and so...

S7 Ep1: What can Dua Lipa teach us about dating?

16 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Diggory Waite puts the lyrics of Dua Lipa's song 'Anything for Love' to his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell. Together...

S6 Ep20: "How do I make a girl squirt?"

09 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer listener questions around squirting, not being able to orgas...

S6 Ep19: Should you give sexual feedback to someone you're ending it with?

02 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to supp...

S6 Ep18: “How do my boyfriend and I get back to having more sex?”

25 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

*TRIGGER WARNING* FGM is discussed in this episode. You can find support below: NHS National FGM Support Clinics – https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/f...

S6 Ep17: How to Process a Painful Breakup

11 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this breakups special, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer your questions on breakups and process...

S6 Ep16: IVF, Endometriosis and how to give feedback to partners politely...

04 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite catch up about Cate's holiday, shagging penguins a...

S6 Ep15: The Pill: When is the best time for a break?

28 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on the contraceptive pill, gho...

S6 Ep14: Which simple sex positions are actually best for a small penis?

21 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer more listener questions like what are the '...

S6 Ep13: "How Do I Get Comfortable with Sex?"

14 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listeners questions around how to get comfortable ...

S6 Ep12: Mommy Issues: The Ways to Better Understand My Boyfriend!

07 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory take a serious look at 'Mommy Issues' and answer other quest...

S6 Ep11: Anal Sex: Fears, Preparations, Spontaneity and... Pregnancy?

29 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite take listener questions on all things anal sex address...

S6 Ep10: Female Orgasms: How to Start Having Some

19 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite try to solve the mystery around female orgasms, asking why one might be struggling to hav...

S6 Ep9: How Having ADHD Can Affect Your Sex Life

15 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss sex! They also answer some listener questions inclu...

S6 Ep8: 5 Things Every Great Date Night Needs

12 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this Valentines Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite talk about what you need for a great date night, the hist...

S6 Ep7: "I fancy someone who is asexual"

08 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer the questions sent into them by you the listeners. After answering a co...

S6 Ep6: Does Shame Make Us Monogamous?

05 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory Waite through the 'Compass of Shame' outlining the 4 ways we show shame. The...

S6 Ep5: "Is THIS why I'm Gay?"

01 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer questions sent in by listeners including someone asking if a particular medi...

S6 Ep4: The 3 Reasons You're Attracted to Someone

29 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell takes son Diggory through Henry Dicks' theory of 'Couple Fit', outlining the 3 reasons ...

S6 Ep3: Can masturbation affect the way we have sex?

25 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this masturbation special, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite open up their mailbag to you, the listener...

S6 Ep2: Delayed Ejaculation - Why does it take so long to cum?

22 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In their most requested episode to date, accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite explain what delayed ejaculatio...

S6 Ep1: Does Age Really Matter?

15 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In the first episode of series 6, sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer the questions you sent into them including...

S5 Ep25: "My Girlfriend is Friend Zoning Me!"

08 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory answer your questions surrounding seeing your partner as a friend, getting aro...

S5 Ep24: "I'm a 28 Year Old Virgin, is anything wrong?"

01 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In this New Years Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk about sexy New Years Resolutions before answering the quest...

S5 Ep23: What's the Average Penis Size?

25 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this Christmas Day Special, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory chat all things festive and sex before answering your questions:...

S5 Ep22: "Why am I so horny?"

18 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory take more of your questions including 'Why is my penis hurting?' 'How do I kiss a girl?' and 'Why am I so horny after buying a prosta...

S5 Ep21: "Will I pee if I orgasm?"

11 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory answer listener questions including a rather complicated friendship, internalised homophobia, thinking about sex without masturbating...

S5 Ep20: How to Deal with a Fuckboy (with Mary Beth Barone)

04 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Mary Beth Barone takes Cate Campbell and Diggory Waite through how to identify, avoid and hold accountable fuckboys everywhere. Want your s...

S5 Ep19: Can Premature Ejaculation be cured?

30 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sex therapist Cate Campbell discusses early ejaculation with her son and co-host Diggory Waite, answering some of the internet's most searched questio...

S5 Ep18: How to STOP Being a People Pleaser

27 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory answer more of your sex and relationship questions including how to stop being a people pleaser, how to get over the fear of sleeping...

S5 Ep18: Why do they make porn for pandas?

23 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate tells Diggory all about the interesting phenomenon prompting zookeepers to dress as pandas and simulate sex before answering questions sent in by...

S15 Ep16: "My Husband's Texting an OnlyFans Model!"

20 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It's another episode where Cate and Diggory answer the questions you sent into them! This week we have a question on cheating and one on lovebombing, ...

S5 Ep15: Why is Sex So Painful?

16 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

DISCLAIMER: Before embarking on any treatment options always best to check in with a medical advisor. In this episode, Sex therapist Cate Campbell an...

S5 Ep14: Have I Outgrown my Friends?

13 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory field your listener questions surrounding whether you can sleep with your friends, what to do if you've outgrown your friends and how...

S5 Ep13: How to have Safer Sex

09 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory discuss how to have safer sex - from consent to contraception, safe words to STDs - before finishing talking about sex on your period...

S5 Ep12: "Should I Sleep with My Ex?"

06 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory take a look at some of the sex and relationship questions they've received from listeners concerning a bellybutton kink, an inexperie...

S5 Ep11: Is masturbating bad for you?

02 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory answer the question – ‘is masturbating bad for you?’ and question whether NoFap November (the act of not mastu...

S5 Ep10: How to Kiss PROPERLY

30 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory have a go at WikiHow's step by step guide to kissing properly before answering some of your listener questions about masturbation and...

S5 Ep9: Why does Ghosting hurt so much?

26 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This Halloween episode is for anyone who has, or has been, ghosted. In this episode, Cate and Diggory discuss the meaning and definition of Ghosting...

S5 Ep8: "My boyfriend won’t tell me he loves me"

23 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory puts questions to Cate from some of the friends in his life concerning a boyfriend who won't "show some moxy" and tell his gi...

S5 Ep7: How your Attachment Style is affecting your relationships

19 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today, Cate and Diggory discuss what attachments styles/behaviours are, how you can identify them in yourself and others and how your attachment behav...

S5 Ep6: "Sometimes I imagine my boyfriend is a girlfriend..."

16 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory debate whether going all out on your kinks is good practice for your first time sleeping with someone before answeri...

S5 Ep5: Can Cheating be Forgiven?

12 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Cheating – it's often seen as an unforgivable act, the most egregious sin to commit in a relationship and the end for many couples. But can one fo...

S5 Ep4: "I have non-consensual fantasies. Am I normal?"

09 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

*TRIGGER WARNING* - Discussion of rape and sexual assault. If you've been affected by any issues brought up in this episode, please find links to supp...

S5 Ep3: 5 Reasons Why You SHOULD Sext and Take Nudes

05 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory makes the case to his sex therapist mother Cate as to why you SHOULD sext and take nudes. Throughout they answer questions li...

S5 Ep2: How similar are our lives to a certain TV Show?

28 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory chat about what it's like to be compared to Otis and Jean Milburn from Netflix's Sex Education. We hear a bit more ...

S5 Ep1: Is 'the ick' real?

21 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Gone off a potential partner because of their weird laugh? Embarrassing phone case? The way they use their knife and fork? Sounds like you've gotten '...

S4 Ep20: S4 20. Why do we have Anal Sex?

10 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory talk about anal sex, discussing the different types before answering questions like: Who has anal sex? Why do p...

S4 Ep19: S4 19. Why Straight Men Have Sex with Men (with Dr Joe Kort)

03 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss: Why some str...

S4 Ep18: S4 18. Do you have spontaneous or responsive desire?

26 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sex therapist Cate and son Diggory ask whether lesbian bed death (the idea that lesbians' sex lives become non existent in long-term relationships) is...

S4 Ep17: S4 17. How to Approach Modern Dating (with Lalalaletmeexplain)

19 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to Lalalaletmeexplain about Modern Dating, discussing: The issues with Dating Apps What are situationships...

S4 Ep16: S4 16. Writing Your Rules for Casual Relationships

12 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

From 'Situationships' to 'Friends with Benefits', Cate and Diggory discuss why people have casual relationships and what are some best practices for t...

S4 Ep15: S4 15. The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)

05 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to fellow sex and relationship therapist Silva Neves. They discuss: The reasons why LGBTQ+ have to be trea...

S4 Ep14: S4 14. Bisexuality - do we need labels?

29 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Cate and Diggory discuss what bisexuality is, whether it's on the rise and debate whether we need labels at all before answering listener's questions ...

S4 Ep13: S4 13. How to Lose Your Virginity

22 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Losing your virginity. What does it actually mean? Is it important? What should you know before you do it? Can you get it back!? Diggory and Cate an...

S4 Ep12: S4 12. Why We Opened Up Our Relationship (with Jack Barry)

15 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by comedian and actor Jack Barry to discuss his sex education, acting as h...

S4 Ep11: S4 11. (No) Sex in Japan (with Dr Alice Pacher)

08 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by Meiji University Professor Dr Alice Pacher to talk about her new book (...

S4 Ep10: S4 10. How to Have Festival Sex (Live at Latitude 2022)

28 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wanted to know how to have festival sex, put your sex knowledge to the test or have some of your burning questions answered by a sex and relation...

S4 Ep9: S4 9. How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)

21 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to host of the F**ks Given and Love High podcasts Florence Bark about her own history with heartbreak. They ...

S4 Ep8: S4 8. What is the Dating Strategy for Straight Women We're Seeing Everywhere?

14 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Hypergamy - the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background - is popping up...

S4 Ep7: S4 7. Cyber Flashing: How Men Can Help (with Sophie Gallagher)

07 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory speak to award-winning writer, editor and campaigner Sophie Gallagher to talk about the emergence and rapid rise of ...

S4 Ep6: S4 6. How to Close the Orgasm Gap

30 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory go on their first school trip to the cinema to watch the new film, 'Good Luck to You, Leo Grande' in which Emma Thom...

S4 Ep5: S4 5. Cuckolding: When Hotwifing works...

23 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Cate and Diggory talk all things Cuckolding and interview Steve (not his real name) who partakes in a specific kind of cuckolding wit...

S4 Ep4: S4 4. Are Daddy Issues Real?

16 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, sex therapist Cate Campbell takes her son Diggory on a deep dive into all things Daddy Issues. They answer some of the key questions:...

S4 Ep3: S4 3. Improving School Sex Ed (with Justin Hancock)

09 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate discuss the new bill in the UK which will make it compulsory to input data that proves you’...

S4 Ep2: S4 2. Are you and your partner sexually compatible?

02 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell is quizzed by her son Diggory on all things sexual compatibility: What is ...

S4 Ep1: S4 1. Big Tits (with Jackie Adedeji)

26 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Can you orgasm from having your nipples played with? Is one boob often bigger than the other? Can you lactate just from hearing a baby cry? Join acc...

S3 Ep10: S3 10. Polyamory (with Dr. Magdalena J Fosse)

18 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the final episode of series 3, sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite sex therapist, clinical psychologist and author Dr. Mag...

S3 Ep9: S3 9. Fertility (with Ruth Corden & Gill Aldridge)

11 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this very special episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite not one – but two guests onto the show. They ...

S3 Ep8: S3 8. Erectile Difficulties (with Angus Barge from Mojo)

04 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite invite Angus Barge onto the podcast to talk about his struggles with erectile difficulties. Angu...

S3 Ep7: S3 7. FGM (with Dr Leyla Hussein)

28 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

*Trigger Warning* This episode includes frequent reference to and discussion of child sexual abuse and assault. If you believe you may find that trig...

S3 Ep6: S3 6. Masculinity (with Nathaniel Cole)

21 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate invite writer, researcher and workshop facilitator Nathaniel Cole. Together, they discuss i...

S3 Ep5: S3 5. Asexuality (with Alice Olivia Scarlett)

14 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory speak to Alice Olivia Scarlett about Asexuality - the lack of or low inter...

S3 Ep4: S3 4. Testosterone (with Dr Janine David)

07 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, GP and Men’s Health Specialist Dr Janine David joins accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite to talk about...

S3 Ep3: S3 3. Sexual Wellbeing (with Kate Moyle)

30 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate and her son, Diggory invite fellow sex therapist Kate Moyle onto the podcast. Kate tells us what a good...

S3 Ep2: S3 2. Pegging (with Zachary Zane)

23 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this rather explicit and in-depth episode (you've been warned!), accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory invite sex educator Zac...

S3 Ep1: S3 1. Consent (with Dr. Betty Martin)

16 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the first episode of a new series, Diggory Waite and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate Campbell explore the ‘Wheel of Consent’ with its ...

S2 Ep10: S2 10. Sexy TikToks (with Olga Koch)

11 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In the final episode of Series 2, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate speak to Olga Koch about her sex education in Russia, the UK and the Unite...

S2 Ep9: S2 9. Crab Buckets (with Meg-John Barker)

04 Feb 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, psychosexual and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory invite lecturer and writer Meg-John Barker onto the show to tal...

S2 Ep8: S2 8. Coming Out Twice (with Bethany Black)

28 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate chat to "Britain's only goth, lesbian, transexual comedian" Bethany Black as th...

S2 Ep7: S2 7. TV Sex Scenes (with Ita O’Brien)

21 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate speak with Intimacy Coordinator Ita O'Brien about her work choreographing the intimate scen...

S2 Ep6: S2 6. Coming Out & Cowboy Erotica (with Harry Trevaldwyn)

14 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This week, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory interview actor Harry Trevaldywn about secondary school slurs, coming out in cars an...

S2 Ep5: S2 5. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (with Dr Thaddeus Bichard)

07 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, Diggory and Cate speak with Dr Thaddeus Birchard, founder of the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, ...

S2: New Year's Bonus

31 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the second of two holiday bonus episodes, Diggory and Jessica answer more sex and relationship conundrums put to them by their sex therapist mother...

S2: Christmas Bonus

24 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the first of two holiday bonus episodes, sex therapist Cate puts a couple of sex and relationship queries from The Real Sex Education listenership ...

S2 Ep4: S2 4. 'The Talk' (with Hannah Witton)

17 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory welcome author, podcaster and YouTuber Hannah Witton onto the show. They talk ...

S2 Ep3: S2 3. The Base System (with Tom Price)

10 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this week's episode Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate Campbell meet actor, comedian and broadcaster Tom Price. They hear about h...

S2 Ep2: S2 2. Porn (with Tyger Drew Honey)

03 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate chat to Outnumbered and Cuckoo star, Tyger Drew Honey. They talk about what is was like to be th...

S2 Ep1: S2 1. Sex Dreams (with Poppy Jay & Rubina Pabani)

26 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In the first episode of the second series, Diggory and his accredited sex therapist mother Cate chat to two podcasting superstars; Rubina and Poppy, ...

S1 Ep10: S1 10. Chemsex (with David Stuart)

17 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In a very frank, honest and enlightening interview, Diggory and Cate speak with David Stuart about Chemsex - a drug-use epidemic specific to the gay c...

S1 Ep9: S1 9. Tiny Lesbians (with Sarah Keyworth)

10 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

9. Sarah Keyworth In this much anticipated sequel to the Catherine Bohart episode, sex therapist Cate and son Diggory interview comedian Sarah Keywor...

S1 Ep8: S1 8. Conscious Wanks & Feminist Sex (with Flo Perry)

03 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, sex therapist Cate and son Diggory interview author of "How to Have Feminist Sex", Flo Perry. She talks about her therapist mother, t...