The SAP - Comedians Talk Motivation, Dating and Relationships

#355 How To Be A Power Couple & Other Relationship Skills with The Freemans

23 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Relationship Coaches Jocelyn & Aaron Freeman share some wisdom about how to make relationships flourish. We talk about how to listen and communica...

#354 A Bathroom BJ with Michael Blaustein

16 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Our guest this episode is comedian Michael Blaustein, host of The Stiff Socks Podcast. We talk about sex, how women react to cum, shitting your pants,...

#353 How To Catch A Cheater with J Chris Newberg

08 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

J Chris Newberg, host of 'Heroin Has A Great Publicist' podcast, as seen on The Tonight Show and America's Got Talent joins the show to ta...

#352 The Pitfalls of Online Dating with Joe Welkie & then Jeff Abraham Breaks Down The Orgasm Gap

02 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Our chat with Joe Welkie begins at 4:02. We talk about Joe's new podcast, 'The Dating Is Hard Podcast' and of course discuss strategies to...

#351 A Funny Oral Sex Story with Kym Kral

26 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Our guest this week is Kym Kral, comedian and podcast host of The Kym and Ken show on Dash Radio. We discuss the sizes and smells of our anatomy, and ...

#350 Pursuing Your Dream Despite Adversity with Subhah Agarwal

19 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Subhah Agarwal, writer for The Jim Jeffries Show, talks about overcoming toxic relationships, pursuing standup comedy and growing from lost opportunit...

#349 Losing Virginity Late & Cuffing Season with Josh Potter

12 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Josh Potter joins Tasha and Dave to talk about nostalgic pornography, delayed orgasms, using comedy to meet ladies, touring around the country, workin...

#348 How To Get The Weight Off Your Shoulders- Reviewing The Perfection Detox

05 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

On this episode we review Petra Kolber's The Perfection Detox, specifically how to get the weight of the world off your shoulders. We talk about l...

#347 How To Last Longer In Bed

29 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dwayne Perkins brings his wisdom and wit to The SAP podcast. We talk about dating before social media existed, how to communicate with your significan...

#346 Four Comedians Share Sex Stories In The Green Room

22 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

An exclusive Green Room chat with standup comedians 'Q', Hyjinx and Lance Edward. We talk about losing virginity, sex in the south, Atlanta&#3...

#345 How To Amp Up Positivity- The Power To Change The Frequency In The Room

15 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Nicky Davis Miller joins Tasha and Dave to talk about the Law of Attraction, practicing simple meditations, overcoming resistance. We discuss how to r...

#344 How To Stop Ruminating Negativity- A Review of 'The Perfection Detox'

08 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dave and Tasha are road trippin after a fun (and earthquake filled) Fourth of July weekend in Palm Springs. We recap the book 'The Perfection Deto...

#343 Emotional Foreplay with Playmate Raquel Pomplun

01 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Raquel Pomplun, Playmate of the Year returns! We learn the difference between a Playmate and a Playboy Bunny, a word on Hugh Hefner, emotional forepla...

#342 How To Get Sober When Partying Is A Problem with Jay Light

24 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Jay Light, comedian seen on The Roast Battle, joins Tasha and Dave to chat about growing up in Texas, getting into standup comedy, becoming sober, and...

#341 Understanding Empathy & Day One Nut

17 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Happy Father's Day everybody! We call our dads and offer them gratitude. Also, we discuss empathy and country music. Lots of fun in this episode! ...

#340 How To Define The Relationship

10 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Veronica Kwiatkowski joins Tasha and Dave to talk about her broken vagina, learning how to define a relationship, and why it's healthy to...

#339 Breakups and Butt Stuff

03 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Allie Zisfein joins the show to talk about breakups, the five love languages, adultery, and we gift her a sex toy. Also stick around, Dave reviews Cos...

#338 Unapologetically Pro Choice

27 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Jess Mulder joins Tasha and Dave to talk about divorce, a surprise engagement, dealing with a cheating partner and her stance on the pro life/ pro cho...

#337 Finding Your Passion and Sticking With It

20 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

This week's ep is about finding and nurturing your passion. The importance of a support system in life, and learning to communicate with your sign...

#336 Getting To Know Bachelorette's Greatest Villain- Leo Dottavio

12 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

A chat with Bachelorette and Bachelor In Paradise star Leo Dottavio. We talk about public shaming, overcoming adversity, being labeled one of Bachelor...

#335 How To Self Actualize with Lee Syatt

06 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Lee Syatt, producer and cohost of 'The Church Of What's Happening Now', stops by to chat about how he began working with Joey Diaz, and ho...

#334 How To Juggle 'Multiple Goal Syndrome' with Chrissie Mayr

29 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

New York City based Comedian Chrissie Mayr joins Dave Neal for an episode recorded live from The Hearst Tower in NYC! We talk about 'multiple goal...

#333 Overcoming Anxiety and Anger In Relationships

22 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

We discuss how threat emotions cause us to misread our partners. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/me-first-we-first/201203/how-threat-emotions...

#332 'Everybody Loves Me' and Other Positive Mantras

15 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Liz Glazer joins the podcast to talk about her leap of faith from being a Law Professor to a standup comedian. We bust through limitations, talk about...

#331 Overcoming Stigma To Pursue Your Best Life with Tasha Reign

08 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Adult Film Star Tasha Reign joins the podcast to talk about raising her farm animals, life as a porn actress, how she got into the industry, getting h...

#330 The Curse of Being a People Pleaser with Nikki Howard

01 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Nikki Howard- comedian, actress and host of the Sorry Mom podcast, joins The SAP! We talk about divorce, obsessive work ethics, and people pleasing. W...

#329 How To Score A Stranger On A Flight with Meredith Jacqueline

24 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Meredith Jacqueline joins Tasha and Dave to chat about how she met a guy on a flight, selling nude photos online, instagram plagiarism, and the art of...

#328 Pursuing Your Dreams Without Limitations- with Kane Holloway

18 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Kane Holloway, host of the 'Well Actually' podcast, joins the crew to talk about being in a comedy power couple with Kelsey Cook, we recap the...

#327 How To Read Signals That He/She Is Attracted To You! with 'Weird AF News' Host Jonesy

11 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Jonesy, Host of 'Weird AF News', joins Tasha and Dave to talk about ways to read the opposite sex, and know when to pick up on clues to pursue...

#326 Moving On When A Relationship Ends

04 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Aidan Park and Dave talk about overcoming tragedy, losing loved ones and regaining the spark to live life in the happiest ways possible. This chat is ...

#325 Nightmare Date Stories with Steph Tolev

25 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Steph Tolev, hilarious Canadian Comedian, shares some horrible date stories, being ghosted on, and the worst way to break up. Her comedy album launche...

#324 Incest Adjacent- A Love Story

19 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Jacquie Brown joins the crew to talk about ways men can hit on women. We also talk about Jacquie's family, and the 'incest adjacent' sibli...

#323 The Best & Worst Valentine's Day Date Ideas

11 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode Hosts Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney sit down with touring standup comedians Griff Pippin & Johnny Mitchell to share their best an...

#322 Knowing When Its Right To Break Up with Jordan Leer

04 Feb 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Our friend Jordan Leer joins the podcast to talk about his recent break up, and how he dealt with moving on from his live-in girlfriend. We talk about...

#321 Marrying Your First Tinder Match with King Hassan

28 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hilarious comedian King Hassan joins Tasha and Dave to talk about the red flags he dodged in past relationships and how King got his calling to do sta...

#320 Marriage Expert and Playboy Playmate of the Year Raquel Pomplun

21 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Raquel Pomplun, actress and comedian, joins The Sex Actually Podcast to talk about serendipity, 9 years of marriage and learning how to communicate ef...

#319 Exploring the Female Orgasm with Remy Kassimir

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Remy Kassimir, hilarious New York comedian and host of the How Cum? Podcast joins The Sex Actually crew to discuss her discovery of the female orgasm,...

#318 Dating Is Hard with Joe Welkie

07 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Joe Welkie joins Tasha and Dave to talk about his recent break up(s). We chat about how to set yourself ahead of the pack by demonstrating higher valu...

#316 The Christmas Eve Episode

24 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hey folks! Tasha and Dave here. We are on vacation in Kentucky, heres a quick one with some past holiday bits as well. Hope you enjoy! If you're f...

#315 A Therapy Session With Dat Phan

17 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Comedian Dat Phan joins Tasha and Dave this episode. We chat about Dat's journey in stand up comedy, and how relationships have fit into that path...

#314 A Guide To Interacting With Powerful Modern Women

10 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Robert Kandell joins the podcast to talk about his new book 'UnHidden'. Robert’s mission has been to help men find themselves and use their...

#313 The Best Pickup Line Ever with Kris Rubio

03 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Kris Rubio joins the crew! Its an auto tuned Christmas delight! The Sex Actually Podcast is a movement of funny folks talking about their sex and dati...

#312 Ghost Busting- How To Overcome A Flake

26 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Kaitlin Mamie joins Tasha and Dave in studio to talk about her battle dating a repeat ghoster and how she turned the haunting into a long term relatio...

#311 Commitment Issues Between Men & Successful Women with Jenna Birch

19 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Jenna Birch, author of 'The Love Gap' joins me (Dave Neal) to talk about the problem with the current state of courtship. Men often say they w...

#310 Finding Independence with Hayley Law

12 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hayley Law joins Dave to chat about her new movie 'The New Romantic', and how she was cast in the show 'Riverdale' on CW. We talk abou...

#309 Dealing With Creeps In The Work Place

05 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A chat about date auctions, dealing with creeps in the work place, micro penises, and scientologists! Jess DiGiovanni is an actress, and she joins Tas...

#308 Overcoming Sex & Love Addiction with Charlene deGuzman

29 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Charlene deGuzman joins Tasha & Dave to chat about sex and love addiction, and how she recovered. We discuss her new movie, 'Unlovable' wh...

#307 How To Flirt & Show Them You're Interested

22 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dave talks practicing Detached Mindfulness, and how to use that detachment when it comes to relationships. Also how to become the most interesting per...

#306 Ariana Grande & Pete Davidson Breakup and Sex Ed For Dummies

15 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We discuss the Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson breakup, plus Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are pregnant, and Dave shares his misinformed sex educatio...

#305 How To Date Using Bumble & Polyamory Explained

08 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Doug Key, comedian and founder of the Rogue Island Comedy Festival, stops by with his significant other and we talk about their love languages and how...

#304 Ralphing At A Wedding & How To Overcome Doubters

01 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Solo episode today! Dave Neal here, recounting my weekend of weddings, standup shows and reading some sex and dating questions. I talk about The Kavan...

#303 Traveling The World With The Bachelor

24 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney sit down with Brad Silnutzer, comedian and a producer on the world's most talked about matchmaking show, 'The B...

#302 More Money More Problems with Eric Rocha

17 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Eric Rocha joins Dave Neal and Tasha Courtney to talk about dating culture within the gay community, Grindr and determining when to settle down. The S...

#301 Friends Sharing Pickup and Relationship Strategies

10 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Channing Apodaca & Gilbert Galon, (Tiger Belly Podcast) join Tasha Courtney & Dave Neal for this marathon friendship reunion episode. We cover...

#300 Overcoming A Cynical Mindset

04 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal here! We have an outpouring of gratitude for the 300 episodes we've shared with y'all. To many more! The SAP dive...

#299 Stay In Your Own Lane While Pursuing Happiness

27 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hey folks! A solo episode, answering some dating and sex questions. How to focus on your own happiness and letting the power of attraction guide good ...

#298 Boy Muscle and Virtue Signaling with Landon Hughes

20 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Landon Hughes joins Dave for a chat about life, how he proposed on the day gay marriage was legalized, and the problem with virtue signaling in today&...

#297 Learning To Be Less Agreeable

13 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Shannon Dee joins Dave Neal in studio. We talk about the birds and the bees, failed first kiss attempts, and knowing how to pick up on someone's v...

#296 How To Not Hit On My Lady

06 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Tasha @tashacourtney and Dave @dnealz do a carcast on the ride back to Los Angeles from Lake Tahoe. We recap the events of the week. Dave had to deal ...

#295 How To College 101: When You Combine A Theater Nerd With A Frat Guy

30 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Hobin, Executive Producer of Bizarre Foods on Travel Channel joins Dave for a chat about making the most out of life. Matt marches to the beat of...

#294 How To Overcome Resistance & Meet People At Bars

24 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a solo ep with Dave Neal. We discuss The Five Love Languages, and The War of Art. Overcoming self doubt and the insecurity of not bein...

#293 When You Catch Her Cheating with Chris Scopo

17 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Chris Scopo of 'The Suite Buddies Podcast' joins Tasha and Dave in studio. We talk about masturbating on airplanes, catching your girlfriend c...

#292 Reviewing Jordan Peterson's '12 Rules For Life'

09 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Solo episode alert! Hey folks, Dave Neal here (@dneaz). I'm wrapping up my east coast tour/ family vacation, and recapping some highlights of the ...

#291 Playing With Matches with Hannah Orenstein

02 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hannah Orenstein, dating editor for Elite Daily and former professional matchmaker joins the podcast to talk about her new book ‘Playing With Matche...

#290 Powerfully Single & Tales of Cheating

25 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Travis Clyburn joins Dave Neal to talk about dealing with being cheated on, learning how to battle jealousy, and what to do when communication fails i...

#289 Pride Week and Masturbation Stories with Jade Catta-Preta

18 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Jade Catta-Preta joins Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal to talk Pride Week, regaining the self after a long term relationship, pursuing standup comedy and...

#288 The Daddy Issue- Happy Father's Day!

11 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hey folks, here's our special Father's Day episode with Bryan Dey, Tasha Courtney & Dave Neal. We talk about the importance of a father fi...

#287 How To Get A Date Using Instagram aka The Thirst Trap

04 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Carlisle Forrester, host of 'The 2 Girls, 1 Guy Podcast' joins Tasha and Dave in studio. We talk about Carlisle growing up in a college town i...

#286 When Relocating For A Relationship Doesn't Work

28 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Gabby Bryan, comedian from the 'You Know What Dude' podcast and Zack Signore join Dave and Tasha to talk about long distance relationships, an...

#285 Be Obsessed Or Be Ordinary

21 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Doheny joins Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal to talk about life as a professional photographer and what it means to pursue your passion with ambitio...

#284 When You Fall For Your Rebound + Improve Your Text/Tinder Game + Does Size Matter?

14 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Solo episode! Dave Neal (me) jumps into questions. What happens when you fall for your rebound? Is Tinder a waste of time? Open Marriages, how to keep...

#283 Recovering From Divorce & Finding Authenticity In The Rubble

08 May 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Kane Holloway and Jay Hollingsworth join Dave Neal in this special road trip episode of The SAP. We discuss getting married/divorced in early 20's...

#282 World Travelers Explore A Hooters In Chicago

30 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dave does a road episode, chatting with study abroad pal Brecht Van Poucke about the differences between European living and the USA. We talk a little...

#281 Normalize The Nipple

23 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Should bras be required in high school? (spoiler: no). Tasha makes an important announcement and we continue the gender debate.  The Sex Actually Pod...

#280 Bonus 4/20 episode- A Blunt Convo with 'The Tree House Queen'

20 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

A bonus 4/20 episode, light up a joint and enjoy! We chat about slut shaming, the #metoo movement, gender roles in dating, why women want a powerful g...

#279 Transitioning Out Of Bachelorhood with Matt Ritter from 'Safe For Work'

16 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Matt Ritter, former lawyer turned comedian and podcaster, talks about his previous life as a debaucherous bachelor, and how he settled down with his w...

#278 Recovering From Mental Abuse with Vanessa Johnston

09 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Vanessa Johnston joins Dave to discuss being a female in comedy,  her stint on 'America's Next Top Model', overcoming obstacles, being fr...

#277 Romance Versus Stalking with Quincy Johnson

02 Apr 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Quincy Johnson joins Dave Neal to talk about his dating life, falling in and out of love, divorce, dating in the bible belt, STD's in old folks ho...

#276 How To Move On When A Breakup Is Blindsiding

26 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Katie Haller joins Tasha and Dave to talk about overcoming breakup and being laid off in the same week. She is recovering from these set backs in a ve...

#275 Swingers Versus Traditional Couples

20 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

We talk about swingers, and Dave grills Tasha on if she could handle the lifestyle. Also, Dave gets super personal, talking about his newly found fami...

#274 Nude Photography, Shark Attacks and Leaving A Cult

12 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Ben Horton joins Dave Neal and Tasha Courtney to talk about life as an adventurer, shooting photography for National Geographic, growing up a Jehovah&...

#273 The Bachelor Finale & Advice On Handling Friends With Benefits

07 Mar 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dave discusses The Bachelor finale, and answers some emails regarding Friends With Benefits, finding the love within, dealing with an insecure partner...

#272 Getting Engaged To Your Tinder Match with Hunter Hill

26 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hunter Hill joins Dave Neal for a chat about performing standup, balancing a relationship, perfecting an engagement, touring the country and building ...

#271 Dreys Diary - A Reformed Klepto & Sex Toys

20 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Audrey Bradford joins Tasha and Dave to talk about instagram fame, how to date in a social media world, and offers men help on being less creepy. Dave...

#270 Why Men Blow Opportunities With Women

13 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Our sexual Valentine's Day episode is here! Lauren Marie aka @lomariee joins Dave and Tasha for a fun chat about how guys blow chances with hot gi...

#269 How To Handle Resentment Against Someone

07 Feb 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hey friends! Dave and Tasha here. We break down the ways to handle resentment, its a really helpful guide I think we can all use. Also, we read some s...

#268 How To Date Like A Comic

30 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Griff Pippin @GriffPippin joins Dave @dnealz and Tasha @tashacourtney on this hilarious episode. Griff offers advice on how authenticity helps with st...

#267 Cheat Day With A Gold Star Gay

23 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Aidan Park, hilarious comedian, joins Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal for a Sunday Brunch episode. We dive into talk about coming out as a gay man, leavi...

#266 So Many Dicks with Irina Skaya

17 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Irina Skaya joins Dave Neal to talk about the #metoo movement, and the positives and negatives of our current climate. We talk about the different typ...

#265 The Hookup List with Valerie Tosi

11 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Valerie Tosi @Valerie_Tosi joins Dave to chat about her semi recent breakup, moving out and moving on. We discuss dating within the entertainment worl...

#264 New Year New You! Battling Sexual Tension With a Coworker

03 Jan 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Happy New Years! Dave Neal reads some dating and sex questions: when to tell your significant other that you are a virgin? How to break the ice with a...

#263 Diamonds In A Mine Shaft & New Year's Eve Sex

27 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal discuss New Years Resolutions, overcoming limitations and motivational methods to succeeding this new year. Thanks for an...

#262 How To Date Using Instagram, Open Relationships and Combating Online Jealousy with Meredith Jacqueline

19 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

#262 How To Date Using Instagram, Open Relationships and Combating Online Jealousy with Meredith Jacqueline Meredith joins me (Dave) to talk about her...

#261 Be An Independent Self Employed Badass

13 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

'Tanya' writes in, discussing her inability to date a guy who is dynamic and ready to settle down. Some sage sex advice and so much more in th...

#260 Lindsey Simcik from 'Almost 30' talks long distance relationships and transitioning into adulthood

06 Dec 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Lindsey Simcik cohost of 'Almost 30' podcast joins us to chat about her transition into her thirties. She shares experiences about long distan...

#259 Jeremiah Watkins discusses the Comedy Store, Marriage and Syncing Google Calendars

29 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Jeremiah Watkins joins Dave and Tasha on this episode of The Sex Actually Podcast. We discuss marriage, juggling the busy schedule of standup comedy w...

#258 How NOT to Approach Women

22 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Tasha shares a recent example of all the wrong ways guys hit on women. We discuss the book 'The Highly Sensitive person'. Dave's MOM calls...

#257 Pick Up The Hint And Move On

15 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Hey folks solocast today. I read a couple listener emails, offer some dating advice and talk about how guys can better pick up on clues of when to mov...

#256 The Highly Sensitive Person

09 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Tasha Courtney and Dave Neal discuss the book 'The Highly Sensitive Person' and how environmental and hereditary factors can make people highl...

#255 A Chat With Delanie Fischer from Self-Helpless Podcast

02 Nov 2017

Contributed by Lukas

Delanie Fischer joins Dave Neal and Tasha Courtney to talk about her life, moving in with her boyfriend and co-hosting The Self-Helpless Podcast. Sex ...