The Suzanne Venker Show

67. Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (SYMBIS.com): Dr. Les Parrott

18 Oct 2020

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Is marriage a crapshoot? My guest today says no. He argues that couples who take a proactive approach to marriage have the best chance at having the most successful relationships. His name is Les Parrott, and he’s a clinical psychologist specializing in marriage and family. He, along with his wife Leslie, who’s also a marriage therapist, wrote Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Seven Questions to Ask Before — And After — You Marry. Les and I are going to discuss how a person knows if he or she is ready for marriage, the myths people have about marriage that set them up for disappointment, and the 5 attitudes young people have about marriage that speak volumes about how the future success of their own marriages. We will also discuss the common traits of happily married couples. While our conversation is geared toward engaged couples or newlyweds, even if you’ve been married a long time there are definite takeaways in this podcast that you won't to miss. IN THIS EPISODE: 3:15 You can only be as healthy as the “least healthy” partner in the relationship. 4:00 The most important thing you can do for your relationship is work on yourself. 4:20 How to cope when you’re working on yourself and your spouse isn’t 6:00 If you try to build intimacy with a person before you’ve taken care of your own issues, all your relationships become an attempt to complete yourself and they’ll fall flat. 6:40 We never really “arrive”; we’re always in progress. 9:15 How a couple manages conflict is a big factor in how successful a marriage will be 10:30-12:20 Les discusses “good” fighting. A good fight results in deeper intimacy and allows both parties to be heard. 12:24 Les explains important aspects of self-awareness, including “authenticity” 15:15 – 23:13 Les explains the 5 attitudes young people have towards marriage: “resolute,” “rational,” “romantic,” “restless,” and “reluctant.” 23:40 The benefits of pre-marital counseling 30:25 SYMBIS, or Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts, is about learning how to “match well” and how to leverage that to have the best relationship you can have 36:24 Les talks about the 3 ingredients of romantic love: “passion,” “intimacy,” and “commitment” and how these 3 ingredients are fluid and change throughout the course of a relationship 43:00 How having a baby changes the marital dynamic 45:00- Les discusses his program betterlove.com

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The Suzanne Venker Show

67. Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (SYMBIS.com): Dr. Les Parrott

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13:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

10:00H | 21 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

12:00H | 20 DIC 2025 | Fin de Semana

2ª PARTE | 06 ENE 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

3ª PARTE | 22 ENE 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

3ª PARTE | 04 MAR 2026 | EL PARTIDAZO DE COPE

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