Sleeping in separate beds, loneliness & making friends as an adult
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Why are Matt and Abby sleeping in separate beds?
abby and i are sleeping in separate beds does this mean that you're separating from me what let's take that out i love being married i want to die in that house here you are talking about death and you always get on me about talking about death you talked about in the context of like dying with me still here that's probably gonna happen like statistically that's gonna happen loneliness as an adult it is an epidemic in our society everything was handed to us in college but then we leave and we're like lonelier than we've ever been in our entire lives
What are the challenges of loneliness as adults?
Welcome back to the Unplanned Podcast, everybody. Thank you for being here. How are you feeling right now? What?
How do you make friends as an adult?
I'm in a really funny mood today.
It's cold out today, so every time I touch a microphone or the camera, we get shocked. It's been so frustrating.
What is the science behind that?
Trying to set up all of our gear. I just kept getting zapped. So I feel like I've gotten tased multiple times today.
Yeah, I was making you really mad. You said a couple not good words.
You're looking good today, baby.
Thank you.
You're still looking so hot.
You know, have you ever heard of the winter uglies?
No, I don't even know what that is.
Well, I was just talking about it with my friend and it's a real thing.
The winter uglies?
Yeah, like, you know, summer you're feeling tan. You're feeling like your hair is brighter.
What is the concept of 'creator hell'?
Well, you got the winter sexies.
No, I don't. Because the other day I was like, I literally didn't do it. We had a kid sick. And so I literally didn't do anything to myself all day. And I just felt like I might not be able to look at myself in the mirror without self-tanner on one more time before I was going to physically gag.
You've been looking so good.
That was so dramatic, but I do feel like I'm experiencing the winter uglies, you know?
I wouldn't actually disagree with that.
Well, you're just being kind.
I think you've gotten more attractive since we started dating.
You know, I will agree with that.
Yeah, I think you're very hot.
I also was a child when we started dating.
Yeah. Can we just, like, dude, we should, like, throw up a picture. Throw up a picture of us, like, when we first started dating. We were children, dude.
Be honest with me.
We were children.
I feel like my face has slimmed down a little bit. Like, I had, like, kid chubby cheeks.
I mean, you still got chubby cheeks. They're still chubby. They're cute, though. I like them. They're cute.
You know, I don't think there's a way for me to not have them be chubby.
You're cute. I really like you.
Thank you.
I think you're beautiful. How do you feel about what I just launched a couple of days ago?
I have mixed feelings.
Why do you have mixed feelings?
I mean, for being completely honest, I'm like, this feels like, I think we know now what a big project, something like this is, like what this undertaking is. Oh, yeah. So that's why I'm like a little nervous about it.
We've been doing this show for two years now, babe.
I know. So I'm like, wow, are we really going to... This has been a lot.
I know. Well, I think that's the funny thing is you think of a podcast, you're like, I have to talk for an hour. That's so easy. You do a podcast and you're like, oh, if you want to do it well, there's a lot that goes into it. Anyway, I... So I'm like, man, will I ever see my husband again? Oh, you're worried that I'm going to just never spend time with you anymore.
How does sleeping in separate beds affect a marriage?
Because you're... Oh, wait, I'm so sorry. I'm going to spend a lot of time with you. Don't you worry. Don't you worry.
Okay.
No. Okay. So I realized this, you guys, I call this, there's a concept that I like to refer to as creator hell. So it's when you're a new creator and you do literally everything yourself. Cause it's almost like you're a, it's almost like you're a small business owner. Like say you open a taco stand and you are the sole owner. So you have to clean everything and cook everything and do all the branding and do all the marketing. Like you are the entire team and, Being a creator is the same way. Like when you start off making content, you are the analyst, you are the marketer, you are the on-camera person. So where the heck was I going with that?
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why are Matt and Abby sleeping in separate beds?
0:00–0:26
2
What are the challenges of loneliness as adults?
0:26–0:33
3
How do you make friends as an adult?
0:33–1:04
4
What is the concept of 'creator hell'?
1:04–2:49
5
How does sleeping in separate beds affect a marriage?
2:49–8:55
6
What is the significance of essential oils in their routine?
8:55–12:56
7
What does 'smut' mean in literature?
12:56–17:21
8
How do cultural differences affect views on intimacy?
17:21–1:10:42
Speakers
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