The Weekly Hot Spot
Episodes
Revealing Mistress's dirty little secrets about BDSM and kink
23 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We answer YOUR questions today focusing on your questions about us - as a Femdom Mistress, sex worker, Pro Domme, woman, and human. Here are the ques...
Where to meet Dominant women: real world dating for sissies (and everyone seeking power exchange)
16 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is for kinky people looking for face-to-face romantic connection with a Dominant Woman. Our conversation with our guest, Goddess Demi, wa...
Sissy dating: listener wants help with a new relationship with Goddess Demi
09 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Navigating dating is challenging. It can be even more difficult if someone is kinky. Today’s episode is inspired by a sissy dating question brought ...
Female-led Relationship Coaching
02 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today we discuss some of the most common questions about female-led relationships. What is FLR? How do you help your partner to embrace being dominant...
Spring Sissy Sale: limited-time SALE of Femdom assignments and audios
23 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Despite the huge snowstorm on the east coast, spring will be here eventually and we want you to Spring into Submission with our limited-time sissy sal...
Your Cuckold Personality Quiz! Which one fits you?
16 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What kind of cuckold are you? Take the Cuckold Quiz to find out what your answers say about you. Both Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika are experienc...
The Psychology of Sissy Bondage Wear
09 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever considered that the silk against your skin might be doing more than just making you pretty? That those tight laces aren't merely decorat...
Long distance Femdom Tasks for cock control, submissive men and sissies
02 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today, Ms Olivia and Ms Erika explore the psychology behind power exchange and erotic control — not just physical dominance, but the power of ritual...
The Sissy Switch: Unlocking the girly girl within
26 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Can a dominant woman rewire a man’s identity? Today, the two Femdom hosts talk about their experiences with what they call a sissy switch – an oft...
The Art of the Good Sub Orgasm: When you’ve earned your release
19 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever thought about why some orgasms feel better than others? Today, we talk about those submissives who love to please Mistress and then earn...
The year of the sissy: How intentional feminization becomes self-care
12 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode explores a new way to think about New Year’s resolutions and your feminization or sissy training. We never want to ignore the sex ...
Power exchange dynamics: Femdom guide to using BDSM for personal growth.
05 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Happy New Year, to all our kinky friends! Welcome to the first episode of The Weekly Hot Spot for 2026. We’re kicking off the year with a topic clos...
Humor is the ultimate power play for Femdom Mistresses with playful, dirty minds.
29 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever laughed while you were being punished? What if humor wasn’t a distraction from power exchange — but the sharpest tool in a Mistress’...
BDSM Trends for 2026
22 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does the future of kink look like? Your Femdom hosts have some thoughts (of course we do!). Today, we explore how technology, psychology and a gr...
Cum Eating Games that will test your obedience (and make you beg for more)
15 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What if the ultimate test of your submission wasn't about surrendering control, but about consumption? We’re talking about cum eating because this i...
5 Cliches about being submissive
08 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all heard them—the recycled lines, the oversimplified tropes, the porn-ified fantasy of what submission “should” look like. On this epis...
The Secret Thrill of Humiliation: Why Surrender Feels So Good
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme’s laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder tha...
Sissy secrets:The Fear of Being Found Out – Keeping Your Kink Private
24 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever had (or maybe still have) this fear: What if they find out? What will they think about me? You’re not alone. Today we take a dive deep...
Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire with Dr. Jaime Grant
17 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What does great sex really mean? And why is the simplest question – “What do you really want?” – often the hardest one to answer?In this episo...
Kink for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
10 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’...
When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy
03 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in lovin...
Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy
27 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices...
Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress
20 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance dom...
Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
13 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy c...
The FILTHY MILFS return to talk blow jobs, sexy lingerie, having great sex and exploring BDSM
06 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine, hosts of the new podcast FILTHY MILFS return to have a candid conversation about sex, foreplay, power exchange, kink an...
Meet the FILTHY MILFS, stars of a new podcast of the same name.
29 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie sa...
Pleasure And Pain: the Femdom Guide To Rough Kink
22 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex? Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episod...
Behind the scenes with famous trans porn star Eva Maxim
15 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk ab...
Meet one of today's most popular porn stars, Eva Maxim.
08 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her h...
All about threesomes!
01 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.Adult entertainment...
All about BLOW JOBS with Lainie Speiser
25 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser. How do women feel about giving bl...
His wife knows he’s a crossdresser. Now what?
18 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? M...
Why do my sissy urges go away after I cum?
11 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around ...
Femdom Chastity: new ideas for you
04 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love...
Sissy Pageant: Finding self-acceptance with Femdom Feminization
28 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your l...
Behind the scenes of the porn industry with adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser.
21 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view. T...
Men in panties
14 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink educat...
Are you turned on by smart, sexy women?
07 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or dista...
What if all your edging ends in a ruined orgasm?
30 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ru...
He said no to BDSM pain play but got this surprise!
23 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any des...
Did you know about these interesting sex facts?
16 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
How much do you know about sex? There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be! Normally, we focus on BDSM education, k...
We’re having a Sissy Pageant and you’re invited!
09 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun! This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives unde...
You need the ultimate sissy resume!
02 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi te...
What does Femdom Mistress discipline really mean to you?
26 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” That person was talking about spanking and while pa...
Feminization: What’s the origin story of your sissy name?
19 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networkin...
Everything you always wanted to know about Femdom Mistress Masturbation
12 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdo...
Femdom Approved Tips: Have A Sissygasm For Masturbation May 2025
05 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hos...
Inspiring Tips For Masturbation Month From Your Amazing Femdom Podcast Hosts
28 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need perm...
Do you need cock control? We think you do!
21 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological direct...
BDSM: Are you a switch? Miss Eden joins the conversation.
14 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
BDSM: Are you a switch? Are you a switch?In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/sub...
Are you nervous about being transformed into a sissy?
07 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There a...
Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?
31 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms ...
Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress
24 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.What does the...
Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?
17 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? Are ...
He called for cuckold advice. Guess what happened?
10 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore ...
Mistress advice: How to prepare for your distance domination session
03 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should...
Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doi...
Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
17 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are...
Why you need prostate play.
10 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with th...
Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?
03 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is ...
Feminization: Building sissy confidence
27 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or trans woman is about self-confidence in ...
Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?
20 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to si...
Are you searching for an online Mistress?
13 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the so...
What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?
06 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? L...
Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version
30 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals...
Top BDSM kink sissy podcast episodes of 2024
23 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growt...
A year of feminization by Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia
16 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many request...
Tease and Denial Games: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?
09 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the re...
All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.
02 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because...
Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen
25 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Domin...
So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?
11 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbi...
Do trans women get you horny?
04 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this.Topics incl...
What does it mean to be submissive?
28 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives...
How to talk to your partner about crossdressing, feminization, and sissy desires
21 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that wil...
It’s LOCKTOBER: are you ready for chastity?
14 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire m...
Are you worried about topping from the bottom? BDSM advice from your Femdom hosts.
07 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a...
Power, money, BDSM, and Femdom: interview with author Jane Boon
30 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro D...
What happens after Edge Play? Author Jane Boon tells us about her new BDSM novel Bold Strokes
23 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed...
What makes a sissy purge? And how to avoid crossdresser purging cycles.
16 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys...
Feminization: Are you nervous about lingerie shopping in person?
09 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls wh...
Where can you find your Mistress? Check out our Spaces on X Twitter!
02 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces...
Self-bondage with Elite Rope Dominatrix Miss Cassie Loves Rope
26 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play.Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdom...
Bondage, rope play and more from elite rigger Miss Cassie
19 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This life...
Here’s a sissy success story with timeless advice for anyone into feminization
12 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do...
BDSM Kink event invite: Naughty Knowledge from Studio 58
05 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years. Today’s episod...
Are you ready for serious edging? Stroke-a-thon is back by popular demand!
29 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usua...
BDSM: Are you ready for shocking news about electro play?
22 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play.You’ll get answers to v...
The Dungeon Store: AVN nominated sex toys, female owned, and in depth BDSM education.
15 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, fem...
Sissy advice: The prettiest think tank ever
08 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are tr...
The secret sissy: Do you feel alone?
01 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might sti...
BDSM: pain play and how to not leave marks
24 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? How do you hide the marks whe...
Do you need sissy workout tips?
17 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips. Mistress Erika begins the episod...
BDSM: Are you surprised to find out we love to be a sensual sadist?
10 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. It starts with this q...
BDSM: Is pain necessary to train a sissy?
03 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive? Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing w...
BDSM, kink, Femdom and pop culture with Edge Play author and journalist Jane Boon
27 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that cl...
Everything you need to know about how to enter the Sissy Pageant!
20 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminiza...
Edge Play author Jane Boon on BDSM power exchange and the accidental transformation of an investment banker into a Femdom.
13 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to prof...
Do you have sissygasms? It’s Masturbation May!
06 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm! This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails ab...
Can you handle our cock stroking instructions for Masturbation Month?
29 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Are you ready for Masturbation Month? Your Femdom hosts love this month-long celebration of self love. Today’s podcast is all about cock stroking i...
Bi curious cuckolding: Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds?
22 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we’re talking about bi curious cuckolding. That might be seduced, manipulated, or coerced bi for the cuckold.Do all cuckolds suck cock? What a...