Through the eyes of a submissive heart

My body mists of 2023.

27 Feb 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Yes, I pulled a muscle in my back… somehow. And yes, I have a stuffy nose. But I’m back with an episode I promised y’all!!! I hope y’all enjoy...

Immortal Twilight: The Official Fragrance of The Twilight Saga|in depth review.

26 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Immortal Twilight is the official fragrance of The Twilight saga. Launched in 2011 by Twilight Beauty, it is a fragrance that captures the love betwee...

Just some new announcements.

05 Jan 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I hope everyone had a fantastic holiday season! I had a few announcements. Don’t worry. I haven’t forgotten about you all. I really miss y’all, ...

Eclipse/The Short Second Life of Bree Tanner.

04 Nov 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I read both books simultaneously, as they’re both kinda connected. I still will never forgive Stephenie for killing Bree, but either way, it was a…...

My experience with Scent Crafters.

28 Oct 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A few months ago, I bit the bullet and got a custom scent from scentcrafters.com and well, of course, I wanted to share. Let me know your thoughts dow...

I read New Moon so you don’t have to.

16 Sep 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Y’all seem to like this, so I’m gonna keep doing this. At least until the series is over. Enjoy my thoughts on New Moon, the second book in The Tw...

I’m reading Midnight Sun so you don’t have to.

19 Aug 2022

Contributed by Lukas

After 17 years of waiting, I’m finally reading Midnight Sun for the first time, and what a ride it’s been so far. I’m not done with it, but I wa...

My love of Twilight never faded.

15 Jul 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Twilight is either a book you love, or one you absolutely hate. It could also be one you love to hate on!!! But for me, it is timeless, capturing my h...

Why community is important to me.

13 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There are people who love to ask this question so many times, and well, what can I say? I like to answer these questions!!!!!! Hopefully, at the very ...

BONUS - Cirkul Flavor Review|Tropical Blast

11 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I really like doing these for y’all, and I really hope you feel the same. I’ve been looking forward to this flavor. Every time I’ve tried to ord...

Answering some questions.

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I thought it would be a cool idea to answer some questions I get asked on a semi-regular basis. If you like this episode, feel free to review it where...

Let’s talk about boundaries.

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Last year was a year of learning lessons. One of which was how to set boundaries and how to stick with said boundaries. My boundaries are probably stu...

A fluff piece.

11 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I’ve been away for awhile, and I’ve missed y’all!! I wanted to tell y’all what’s been happening, along with a story I find amusing. I hope t...

What I want to happen in 2022.

14 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

2021 was an interesting year, to say the least. It was full of good and bad. And towards the end, I started looking towards the future and figuring ou...

Cirkul: A new way to Hydrate.

07 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you’re a brat and say that coffee is, in fact, water, you’re not wrong. It is with this thing. Curious? Listen to find out!!!! Do you like Cirk...

Last episode of 2021.

03 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s been an ok year, as far as year’s past go. I’ve learned and grown a lot, and hope to continue to do so. I hope the rest of my listeners hav...

BONUS: middle space. 🪄🧙‍♀️🧙🧙‍♂️⚡️⛈🌩

22 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode was inspired by chanwills0 on TikTok and partially where the inspiration for the running gag about Voldemort and his lack of shoes. This ...

A little rant about TikTok.

19 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s not often that I talk about this kind of thing, but I think it’s about time that I do. Too often, this kind of thing happens, and apps don’...

Just a little bit of validation.

12 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes, people love to say that someone isn’t valid if they don’t participate in their in-person BDSM community. What they fail to realize is t...

Accepting my masochism is really hard sometimes.

29 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

One of the hardest kinks I have trouble accepting is my masochism. Not everyone I’ve had relationships with understands it. Quite frankly, neither d...

It’s been a year since my last breakup. Let’s reflect.

22 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

After a year, I finally want to talk about my last break up. It was awful, and it still hurts sometimes, but I’m finally over it. It took a couple o...

A special Halloween episode.

15 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

People always tell me to have other interests outside kink, and surprise!!!!!!!!! I do. Some of you already know. Some of you don’t. And either you ...

Stealth protocols in your D/s relationship.

08 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This episode was made on the fly. So this may not be every single protocol ever used by every DOM and sub in their dynamic. If anyone has suggestions,...

Misuse of a safeword and ethical bratting.

01 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Last week, there was a lot happening on KinkTok. There was a discussion on people getting out of punishments by using safewords all the time. There wa...

Creative punishment ideas.

17 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On Reddit, there was a lot of discussion about punishment and some creative punishment ideas for a Dom’s submissive. I tell you some ideas, as well ...

On using the silent treatment as punishment.

10 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

While using the silent treatment as punishment might work for some, it doesn’t work for me. Listen to find out my thoughts.

On making your partner more dominant or submissive.

03 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On Reddit, I see a common discussion: How do I make my partner more dominant or submissive? This question really gets under my skin, and I’ll tell y...

Minors in kink.

27 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I wasn’t going to discuss this, because, as usual, I didn’t know what to really say about it. But then, I saw primalempress’s video on KinkTok a...

Accepting my kinks.

21 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Thanks to Pink Kink for the inspiration to tell my full story.

Invalidation in the BDSM community.

13 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Back with another KinkTok discussion about invalidation in the BDSM/kink community and why it’s not good for anyone.

Aftercare is not a requirement.

06 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There was a lot of discussions on KinkTok about aftercare and if it was a requirement in D/s play or relationships. I wanted to weigh in on the discus...

My thoughts on the honorific discussion on KinkTok.

30 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There’s been a lot of talk about honorifics on KinkTok, and I have thoughts. They may be all askew but they’re thoughts, nonetheless. I hope y’a...

Why I’ve been gone for so long.

28 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This is a bonus episode of sorts to explain why I’ve been gone for awhile for those who don’t know. It feels great to be back.

Let’s talk about Bonding.

16 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Yes. We gonna talk about Bonding. Did I like it? Hate it? Did I think it was an accurate portrayal of BDSM? Well, click the magic button to find out w...

How I would change Fifty Shades of Grey.

09 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This was inspired by my best friend, who gave her sub a task to watch Fifty Shades and write a movie report of things he liked/didn’t and how he’d...

Doms vs. Fifty Shaders.

02 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This was posted in a Facebook group and a lot of things about it bugged me… so I figured I’d talk about the things that annoyed me. There are thin...

Advice for newbies.

25 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

As is the case for most episodes, I reached out to the community for help. If you’re new to the scene, or know someone who’s new to the scene, thi...

Red flags in BDSM.

18 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone is discussing red flags. I thought I’d jump on the topic. Thank you, Shannon_ATX, for the topic idea. I’m sure I missed a whole heap of t...

Reflections on what it was like being outed.

11 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s been a year, and I think it’s about time to share my story, for better or for worse. I really hope people can learn from this, and know that,...

The media and BDSM.

04 Jun 2021

Contributed by Lukas

The media, unfortunately, in my view, doesn’t understand BDSM, which is a shame. The bad outweighs the good in most cases, and usually, when there c...

A special “thank you!!!!!!” episode.

30 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Thank you to 4 very special people. Your education and sense of community means everything. I love what y’all do, and appreciate y’all’s help wi...

We need to talk about title stacking.

28 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

A listener came up with this topic, and I could rant about it all day, so I thought it was a good idea. Title stacking is when you label yourself as m...

We need to talk about vetting!

21 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Most people sadly don’t know what vetting even is. I’m gonna tell you what little bit I’ve learned about it. I hope everyone enjoys this episode...

🚨 special episode! 🚨 q&a!

17 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Because we’ve gotten to past 500 plays, and because one of my listeners, Anthony, kept pestering me, I thought it was time to do a q&a. I didn’t g...

Why won’t you be on Patreon?{my response}

14 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I get asked this question so so so many times. Here’s the answer.

My tips for negotiations.

07 May 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Based off Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s prompt, entitled “Negotiation is just a fancy word for talking.” I decide to give y’all my tips!! Do y’...

Public displays of kink.

30 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I know it’s taken a really long time to get my thoughts in order with this one. I’m not sure if they’re really in order or not. I’ll let y’a...

things that vanilla people do that drive kinky people crazy.

23 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I took to social media to ask my friends, and anyone else who wanted to participate, if they had anything that drove them crazy that vanilla people do...

Thirty days of D/s: what does submission mean to you?

20 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

We’re on day 2 of the Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s challenge. Yes, the blog post was a bit longer than the last one, but I still wanted to elabora...

30 days of D/s: what does dominance mean to you?

18 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Taking the plunge and writing about my experiences with D/s, and my thoughts on certain kink topics. Thanks to John Brownstone and Kayla Lords of the ...

it’s ok to be vanilla. really.

16 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

this idea came up after i issued a challenge to social media to explain what vanilla people do/say that annoys them. the challenge is still going on. ...

Bonus episode: Apple makes me mad.

15 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Apple really really really really really really really really really hates sex, porn, controversial content and anything that is adult-like. Yet, if y...

thank you so much for listening!!!!!

09 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I sincerely appreciate all of you, and I hope that I have help in some small way. Let’s fill the world up with hearts with this podcast. :-)

role play vs. mindfucking.

02 Apr 2021

Contributed by Lukas

cw: assault.

how much flirtation is too much in online kink spaces?

26 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

title is pretty self-explanatory.

trying to unravel this thing called consent.

19 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

consent is always an interesting topic. i hope everyone enjoys this jumbled mess of thoughts on the matter.

virginity in BDSM relationships: does it *really* matter?

12 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I know I’m probably beating this dead horse, but I feel like it should be said because some people need to hear it.

special announcement!!!

03 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

click to find out what it is. :-)

my own personal lists of do’s and dont’s of Fetlife.

02 Mar 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I realize that there are probably new people who have joined the BDSM community and I figured I would try to help them out by telling them what not to...

Disabilities and kink.

25 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Talking with a kinky friend about disabilities, specifically blindness, and kink... and of course, randomness.

Rope bunny interview|Kink City{reaction podcast}

15 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Talking about rope, because you can’t spell bondage without bond. And also, because why not? Because it’s there and because I can. That’s why. I...

Redoing a BDSM Checklist|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

08 Jan 2021

Contributed by Lukas

This was a lot of fun. I hope to one day do this particular checklist with a partner. But in the meantime, I suppose this will work. If you like what ...

Submission isn’t a gift and subs don’t have the power.

04 Dec 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I’m going to Kink Jail for saying these things but I don’t give a rat’s ass.

Would-be author reacts to the first Twilight movie.

20 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It was my every intention to roast the fuck out of this movie because there are so many problems with it, but I did not because I’m a hopeless roman...

How the Coffee and Kink Discord got it’s start...... and whatever randomness.

16 Nov 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Want the link to this cool place? Just ask!!!!!!!!

Being blind and kinky. How does it work?

26 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This conversation happened because of a discussion that took place yesterday in my Discord server. I feel like these discussions don’t happen as muc...

When your kinks don’t align|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

24 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This was a really great podcast.

My experiences with polyamory.

21 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I have been wanting to do this for months, and with the end of the year being so close and yet so far away, I figured I would tell you guys my experie...

Self-collaring in BDSM|Kuldrin’s Crypt{reaction podcast}

20 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I really didn’t have a whole lot to say because I felt like my head was going to explode. This has been an ongoing topic in a lot of communities I a...

A look back at what my submission started out as and what it is now.

19 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Somebody wanted to know what submission feels like, and hopefully, I answer their question. If you want the link to my Discord, just ask. Join my subr...

📝 what makes a Dom and a sub. 📝

13 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Yep, it’s another rant episode. Enjoy! Who knows what happens in this thing? I don’t.

Dealing with feelings of shame|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

10 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I really felt this episode!! It was exactly what I needed in a weird kinda way.

BDSMer reveiews Fifty Shades of Grey

07 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Yep, I finally bit the bullet and did this. Shout out to Evie Lupine for the inspiration to do this. I hope y’all like it. Your input is appreciated...

Distary 20 massaging wand review

06 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Reviewing my first ever sex toy cause I can. Enjoy!

Break-ups in a D/s relationship. Yep, they’re real.. even online.

05 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I get really emotional during this episode, so if anyone doesn’t want to hear me cry, I completely understand.

Total power exchange (TPE) in BDSM|Kuldrin’s Crypt{reaction podcast}

04 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Since total power exchanges are a hot topic, I figured I would do this particular episode this week. I hope you guys enjoy it. If you want the link to...

What I love about my online kink communities.

02 Oct 2020

Contributed by Lukas

If you ever need incentive to join my online spaces, here it is.

What I have learned in four years of being a BDSMer

29 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It’s been four years, and what an interesting journey it has been. I hope to continue doing these when I learned more things.

Assumptions about me.

27 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This isn’t a formal podcast, in that I didn’t ask for them. If you have some, let me know and I’ll do another cause it’s fun.

What I’ve learned in 100 episodes.|Kuldrin’s Crypt{reaction podcast}

25 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Support my podcast by giving it a favorite or subscribing to it on Overcast!!!! If you’d like the link to my Discord server, just ask. Follow my Ins...

Why I never have liked the BDSM tests.

23 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Title says everything you need to know.

Tips for socially distant BDSM|Kuldrin’s Crypt{reaction podcast}

22 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This was a genuine reaction podcast, in that I didn’t cheat and listen to it beforehand. If you like what you hear, a favorite would be nice. Just s...

A bonus episode.

18 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

It’s Friday, and I don’t have anything to really talk about, so I figured I would just tell you guys what is happening in my world. Enjoy!!!!

A history of BDSM, kink, and protocol|Kuldrin’s Crypt{reaction podcast}

16 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Hang out with me on Discord: https://discord.gg/eHuZEf - follow my Instagram: justsmittenkitten - join my subreddit: TheRedRoomOfKink - follow my twit...

Domming isn’t for me. Here’s my story.

12 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Based on a blog post that took way less longer to write than this podcast took me to record, I talk about why being Dominant is not me and what I felt...

👏🏻reaction 👏🏻podcast

11 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I really enjoyed this episode! I love hearing other’s assumptions about BDSM, D/s and kink.

A jumbled mess of thoughts.

08 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Title says it all.

Tasks in a long-distance relationship|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

06 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I hope this episode helps someone. It definitely is one of my favorites.

Alternatives to crawling or kneeling|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

03 Sep 2020

Contributed by Lukas

You can’t (or maybe you don’t want to crawl or kneel), so what can you do? My favorite podcasters have ideas..... and I’m reacting to them, caus...

Processing feelings

31 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Talking about how I’m feeling and how I have felt over the past three months.

***reuploaded*** A Vanilla’s Perspective About BDSM.

30 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Reuploading this because my podcast previously has been disbanded. This episode was really popular the last time I uploaded it so I hope any newcomers...

Things good Dominants do|Loving BDSM{reaction podcast}

27 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

This is a topic I feel passionately about, mostly cause I hate the terms “True”, “real” etc. almost as badly as Kayla does. Sorry, y’all. Bu...

👏🏻reaction👏🏻 podcast👏🏻

25 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Guys meet Nemesis again. This is fun and I can’t wait to do it again.

Tuesday thoughts

25 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I am always thinking about some thing, so I figured I would share my thoughts today.

Identifying a true dominant.|my genuine reactions. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

19 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Follow my social media: twitter: SmittenKitten_2

Inspired by someone I love and respect.

11 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Title says it all.

A submissive’s perspective about the Fifty Shades franchise

08 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Just a few thoughts on Fifty Shades of Grey from a newbie sub.

Subspace and anal. Yep. It’s a thing.

02 Aug 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Subspace is the best thing ever!

How my D/s journey began..... and a rant.

23 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

I don’t know why I like to tell the story, but I do. I hope someone gets something out of it. And also, thanks for listening.

Fifty Shades vs. The Secretary

13 Jul 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Have you watched these 2 movies? Well, I have, and naturally I have thoughts.