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Why is personal style so hard?

Sun, 04 May 2025

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Fashion has made a big swing from a strict set of rules to the idea that we should all just wear what we want. But personal style is still dictated by outside forces. And a lot of people don't even know where to start. This episode was produced by Victoria Chamberlin, edited by Jolie Myers, fact checked by Melissa Hirsch, engineered by Matthew Billy, and hosted by Jonquilyn Hill. Image of Clinton Kelly and Stacy London by Donna Svennevik/Disney General Entertainment Content via Getty Images. If you have a question for us, give us a call at 1-800-618-8545, or send us a note here.  Listen to Explain It to Me ad-free by becoming a Vox Member: vox.com/members.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Chapter 1: Why is personal style so difficult to define?

1106.88 - 1125.494 Avery Truffleman

I think you can, like, change the clothes you already have to be more in fashion. You know, you can cut off your shorts. You can... embroider a shirt. You can do things that make clothes keep up with fashion without shopping. And you can observe fashion and know what's in fashion without having to go out and like buy it.

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1126.175 - 1137.265 Jonquilyn Hill

How do economic realities factor into the fashion industry and predictions about what's going to be new? You know, I mean, I can't even fathom what tariff fashion is about to be.

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1137.847 - 1157.264 Avery Truffleman

Well, I think it'll be interesting. I think a lot of companies, you know, again, because they're these big institutions that have to move a lot of product. I think someone who I talked to at sort of a mid-tier mainstream fashion company was telling me that their lines are going to have to be a lot smaller. They can't just make these huge dumps of seasons.

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1157.625 - 1177.604 Avery Truffleman

They have to start editing and be really specific. And I think to make one brand stand out from another is— This might mean that the clothes will have to start being more signature, more interesting. That's like a best-case scenario, which would be nice. Who knows? Maybe they'd just lean into trends and basics and whatever they know will actually move product.

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1177.885 - 1191.388 Avery Truffleman

I mean, ultimately, it's going to hurt small designers, which is the sad thing that most... Interesting creators committed to high quality are probably going to suffer. But it's going to make a huge change. It's going to be massive.

1193.509 - 1201.633 Jonquilyn Hill

Okay, so we've learned where style comes from. But now, what do we do with it? How to dress yourself after the break.

1212.285 - 1216.077 Brian Sakawa

Does this look good on me? And do I feel good wearing this?

1217.802 - 1230.471 Jonquilyn Hill

So we know finding our personal style is hard. A lot of it isn't even in our hands. But some of it is. That's what we went to our next two guests about. Two very stylish and very online people who think about this for a living.

1230.951 - 1245.721 Laken Carlton

I'm Laken Carlton. I go by the ethical stylist. I am a stylist with a focus on, obviously, ethics, sustainability, but also kind of unlearning all of those rules that we've kind of been indoctrinated with.

Chapter 2: What are the frustrations of finding personal style?

1570.634 - 1571.914 Jonquilyn Hill

Favorite brand.

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1573.135 - 1574.155 Laken Carlton

Diane von Furstenberg.

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1574.935 - 1576.996 Brian Sakawa

He spoke style by Michael Andrews Bespoke.

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1578.196 - 1579.117 Jonquilyn Hill

Wait, can I change my answer?

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1579.217 - 1581.157 Brian Sakawa

Can you wear black with navy?

1581.257 - 1582.218 Jonquilyn Hill

Yeah.

1586.511 - 1586.791 Brian Sakawa

Yes.

1587.071 - 1591.992 Jonquilyn Hill

Okay, and what is the longest you've held on to one piece of clothing?

1592.012 - 1605.335 Laken Carlton

I have a blouse that I actually wore to my very first job interview. That was my grandmother's. It was huge on me then. Now it's a little too small on me now. But I have had it for about 15 years. 31 years.

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