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#115: What Actually Makes Kinky Relationships Feel Secure

11 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kink can ask a lot from a relationship. When we’re exploring things that feel vulnerable, taboo, or a little scary, the sense of safety between part...

#114: Wearable Claws: The Primal Toy You Didn't Know You Needed – with J from Claws & Clamps

25 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Claws are much more than a costume piece. They can completely change how your hands feel in play — and how you feel wearing them.In this episode, I’...

#113: I’m Pretty Sure the World Is Secretly Kinky

18 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kink is supposed to be this underground, secret-club thing…Except it’s actually everywhere.In this episode, I’m diving into the surprisingly kin...

#112: Using Kink to Stay in My Body When I’m Not Okay

04 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a little more vulnerable than usual. I’m sharing how kink helped me stay grounded during a rough mental health day. I talk about wha...

#111: Let’s Talk Wax, Impact, and Sensation Play — with El from Collared Foxy

28 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I’m joined by El from Collared Foxy for a deep dive into the world of sensation play. We talk through wax play and impact play in a...

#110: Can you be Sexual and Still be Taken Seriously?

21 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

For a long time, I’ve felt clear that you can be openly sexual and still be taken seriously. I’ve lived that belief — sharing my erotic life, po...

#109: How to Make Kink Fit Into Your Busy Life

14 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

For a long time, I thought kink was all about big, flashy peak experiences — elaborate scenes, intense role play, and wild adventures that take a lo...

#108: Christmas Special – A Very Adult Christmas 🎅✨

24 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Merry Christmas, my lovelies, and welcome to my very first Christmas special!This episode is a little gift from me to you: a cosy, cheeky Christmas st...

#107: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender – with Julieta Chiara

17 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever wondered why so many smart, capable, high-performing women melt into a puddle the moment someone takes control… this episode is goi...

#106: Twelve Naughty Ideas for a Very Kinky Christmas

03 Dec 2025

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Send us a textIt’s officially December, which means two things:Christmas chaos is upon us, andI am absolutely going to find ways to make it kinky.In...

#105: Tentacle Erotica — The Art, the History, and My First Toy Review 🐙

26 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHey friends, Harley here!This week we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and surprisingly historic corners of kink culture: ...

#104: Bringing Fantasy to Life: Inside the World of Nothosaur Toys - with Kingsley

19 Nov 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, I chat with Kingsley from Nothosaur, the fantasy toy company turning imagination into art. From dragons and wolves to t...

#103: Evolution of a Shibari Master — with Kazami Sensei

12 Nov 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, I speak with Kazami Sensei, one of Japan’s most respected figures in shibari and the founder of Kazami-ryu. Over a ca...

#102: Three Ingredients for a Seriously Hot S&M Scene

05 Nov 2025

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Send us a textWhy does pain sometimes feel so damn good? And what actually makes a scene hot instead of just… well, hurt?In this episode, I’m divi...

#101: Rope School! What We Learned from a Level 1 Shibari Intensive – with Slade

15 Oct 2025

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Send us a textThis week I’m joined once again by my partner, rigger, and Dom — Slade — as we unpack our recent experience completing Kazami-Ryu ...

#100: Episode 100! Let's Celebrate Together 🎉

01 Oct 2025

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Send us a textWe did it! Turns Out I’m Into It has officially hit 100 episodes. This week isn’t just about celebrating the podcast milestone, it’...

#99: Roleplay Lite - An Easy Guide for the Roleplay-Curious

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhen most people hear roleplay, they instantly cringe. They think of awkward classroom exercises, bad accents, or being forced to improv...

#98: Why do we Celebrate Risk Everywhere Except in Sex?

03 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn last week’s episode, I talked about the “kink police” — the people who project their authority onto others and try to dictate...

#97: Who Are the Kink Police and How Do You Avoid Them?

27 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver met someone in the kink scene who acts like they invented BDSM? Yeah… those are the kink police. 🙄 In this episode, I’m brea...

#96: What Music Taught Me About Sex (Plus a Special Request!)

20 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my journey — from being a guitar-obsessed, heavy metal teenager to chasing a music ca...

#95: Floggers 101: Design, Technique, and Play with Chainwire

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver wondered what makes a great flogger—and how to actually use one?In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by local...

#94: Seduced by Fear: Cruciator on the Dark Side of Desire

23 Jul 2025

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Send us a textWelcome to Turns Out I’m Into It. In this unforgettable episode, I’m joined by special guest Cruciator to explore one of the kink wo...

#93: Harley Gets Schooled in Dirty Talk - A Masterclass with Sam Charles

09 Jul 2025

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Send us a textIn this extra juicy episode, I am joined by sex and intimacy coach Sam Charles for a very hands-on dirty talk masterclass. What starts a...

#92: My Brisbane Trip – Navigating Nerves, New Experiences, and My Favourite Rope Scene Yet

02 Jul 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, I’m sharing some honest reflections from my recent trip to Brisbane—where I pushed through some big travel anxiety ...

#91: The Single Most Important Skill in Kink (That You Can Learn Right Now)

18 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat if I told you there was one skill that could make you more attractive as a play partner, safer to play with, and help you create ho...

#90: Behind the Mask – A Deep Dive into Pony Play with Rapidash

11 Jun 2025

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Send us a textI’ll be honest, I used to think pony play sounded… a little silly. But after discovering Rapidash’s stunning photos and hearing th...

#89: Kink in a Small Town, and Finding my Brave

28 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this solo episode, I share a very personal update from my kinky life. I’m four years into a deeply loving dynamic with my Dom, and ...

#88: I’m a Grown Man. And I Wear Nappies - Inside ABDL with DaddaG

21 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined once again by the incredible DaddaG—event organiser behind KangaCon and long-...

#87: The Love Language of Rope — with Deadmaxis and Aura Grey

14 May 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by Deadmaxis and Aura Grey—partners in life, kink, and the art of rope. Known...

#86: How Old Do You Feel in the Bedroom?

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s...

#85: I’m Not Ashamed to Love Masculine Men

16 Apr 2025

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Send us a textIn this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attra...

#84: What Turns You On—and What Turns You Off! Understanding Your Sexual Brakes and Accelerators

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textDo you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned...

#83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your h...

#82: Sub or Bottom? Exploring the Many Flavours of Submission

12 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhen you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you ...

#81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from Stereotypes

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHave you ever wondered if you're kinky enough to belong in the kink community? Maybe you feel like you don’t fit the stereotypica...

#80: Rope Mastery & Mind Games: A Shibari Masterclass – with Miss Gen

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Miss Gen—Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. As h...

#79: How to Play with Gender in BDSM

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost people don’t realise just how much gender shapes the way we play in BDSM. Whether we’re leaning into traditional roles—like m...

#78: Religious Shame, BDSM, and the Psychology of Power – With Shelby Devlin

05 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Shelby Devlin, a sex and intimacy coach with nearly a decade ...

#77: How to Tell Your Partner What You're Really Into... (Even If It Feels Super Scary)

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSharing your sexual fantasies with a partner can feel incredibly vulnerable... maybe even terrifying! In this episode, Harley Rabbit div...

#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What Science Says

15 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEpisode Summary:In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exp...

#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets Revealed - with Wendy Setless

18 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setl...

#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies Unlock Better Sex

11 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative one...

#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re Probably Getting Wrong

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s se...

#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque Class

20 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal...

#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get my First Tattoo!

13 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memor...

#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars

30 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: ...

#69: How Men Can Start Exploring CNC- Interview with Dotch

16 Oct 2024

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Send us a textCNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch...

#68: Romance vs BDSM - Which is More Intimate?

25 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into the concept of intimacy within the kink and BDSM communities, challenging common misconceptio...

#67: My Schoolgirl Fantasy - Exploring Middlespace

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI got up to some exciting kinky shenanigans this weekend and I can’t wait to share! Slade and I did our most elaborate roleplay yet, w...

#66: Dipping Your Toe Into BDSM: Ideas for Beginners - with Jeanne Baade

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I talk with Jeanne Baade, a sex and relationship coach who discovered her sexuality later in life after growing up in a...

#65: The STI Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask – With Dr Sara

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might not be the sexiest, but it’s crucial for anyone exploring their sexuality, esp...

#64: Igniting Libido - Bringing Desire Outside of the Bedroom

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textOne of the most common challenges people experience in their sex life is issues with libido. Whether it's a mismatch with their par...

#63: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 2)

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textGet ready for part 2 of our conversation about men’s profiles on Fetlife. If you're a man on Fetlife struggling to represent your...

#62: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 1)

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textOk guys, if you're on Fetlife and not having much luck with the ladies… How much effort have you really put into your profile? Be...

#61: The Art and Connection of Rope Bondage - with Ravel

24 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you are interested in rope bondage, you need to listen to this episode! Ravel is an experienced rigger from Brisbane Australia, who u...

#60: Slade and I had our First FMF Threesome!

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI know this is an experience on a lot of people’s ‘Fuckit lists’ so I thought I’d share some details that might help you in orga...

#59: The Dynamic Mind of a Pleasure Sub - with Chained Valkyrie

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI am super excited to have the incredible Chained Valkyrie on the show today. Valkyrie identifies as a pleasure sub, and as you’ll fin...

#58: Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn? People Pleasing in Kink

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat the hell is “fawning” and what does it have to do with kink? Well, that’s exactly what we are talking about on today’s epis...

#57: Empowerment through Dominance - Interview with Jessica Langley

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI have an exciting guest for you today. She is another friend from my Somatica course and her name is Jessica Langley. Jessica is a soma...

#56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed

12 Jun 2024

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Send us a textIn this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reac...

#55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries

05 Jun 2024

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Send us a textSetting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context...

#54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences an...

#53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I s...

#52: Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy - with Alisa Millard

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWelcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying ...

#49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t Deepthroat

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI am so excited to dive into this topic today! Most of us learn about blowjobs from porn, which usually shows some very talented actress...

#48: I Booked a Rope Trip! - Planning an Experience Safely

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHey friends! Today I am spilling the beads about my plans for a rope trip in Brisbane! Woop Woop! I am doing a rope class with Slade, vi...

#47: Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! - Interview with DaddaG

03 Apr 2024

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Send us a textMeet the man behind Kangacon - Australia's first Ageplay convention. I had so much fun chatting to DaddaG about his journey as an A...

#46: Strength in Darkness - Soothing Trauma with BDSM

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSummary:In this episode, Harley Rabbit concludes the mini-series on degradation play, pain play, and taboo kinks by discussing trauma an...

#45: The Truth About Turn-Ons

20 Mar 2024

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Send us a textSummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the concept of arousal beyond romance and challenges the idea that love is the sole sourc...

#44: When bad feels really good - kink is NOT abuse

13 Mar 2024

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Send us a textSummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the difference between abuse and kink. She shares personal stories and examples to illust...

#43: Live Sex Shows, Pole Dancing and Help for Veterans - with Will Denison

06 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textToday I am starting a new series called Every Day Kinksters. The idea is to interview regular, everyday people, either from Fetlife or w...

#42: Advice for new submissives (don't make these mistakes!)

28 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textRecently I’ve had quite a few DM’s from subs who are new to kink, but are unsure on how to find a good Dominant partner, and how to ...

#41: The Art of Erotic Photography - Interview with KinkyLens

21 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week it was my absolute pleasure to speak with artist, kinkster and fet!sh photographer KinkyLens! I know many of you enjoy taking ...

#40: Is it ok to Fantasize About Someone Else?

14 Feb 2024

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Send us a textThis question brings up a lot of feelings for the best of us. Maybe the thought of your partner fantasising about someone else feels rea...

#39: Life in the Fast Lane - Talking About Premature Ejaculation

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere are many things in life we’d like to happen quickly. The 3 minute planking part of your workout, waiting for the microwave count...

#38: Why I Told my Mum I was Kinky…

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere are lots of reasons we keep our kinky lives a secret. For some of us, secrecy is part of the fun! For others, it might be about pr...

#37: Outsourcing Sex: Advice for Opening a Relationship

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textNot everyone is super well matched in the bedroom. You might be an amazing couple, but when it comes to sex you’re just not really com...

#36: Are Open Relationships Committed?

17 Jan 2024

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Send us a textMost of us have grown up in a culture where monogamy is the norm. If you enter a relationship it is pretty much expected that you will b...

#35: Top 10 Vetting Questions for new Play Partners

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHappy new year! If you are wanting to have an exciting year of kinky experiences, it’s likely you might need to do some vetting. So w...

#34: Embracing Your Inner Child - Age Play with Bear

20 Dec 2023

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Send us a textToday we are doing a deep dive into Age Play! I was lucky enough to sit down with Bear, a kinkster from Perth, Western Australia, who is...

#33: Tied up in a Pool - Not What I Expected!

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textLast night I got to experience something I’ve been wanting to try for a long time - I got to go into my friend's pool and be tied...

#32: Extreme Scenes: Understanding Abduction Play with Cruciator

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textAre you curious about the darker, more extreme or taboo side of kink? I know I certainly am! In this episode we are taking a deep dive i...

#31: Kinks vs Values: Exploring your shadow self

29 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost kinksters (myself included) struggle with shame. One of the reasons for experiencing shame is because what turns us on is often in ...

#30: The 3 Dimensions of Sex

22 Nov 2023

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Send us a textIt’s all well and good if you are into romance and passion - you know, the kind of sex you see in the movies - but what if you're...

#29: You're so perfect, I'm so proud of you! (did I just turn you on?)

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this podcast. I’m so proud of you for being curious and wanting to explore k...

#28: Sleep Play - The Gateway Kink to CNC?

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat is Sleep Play? Well, Sleep Play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in...

#27: Do you Find it Hard to say "no"?

25 Oct 2023

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Send us a textHave you ever found it challenging to utter that two-letter word, "no"? In this episode, I discuss the reasons why saying &qu...

#26: Collar me, own me

18 Oct 2023

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Send us a textCollars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and that meaning can be very different depending on the person.I asked the com...

#25: The Many Faces of 'Free Use'

10 Oct 2023

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Send us a text‘Free use’ is a kink that has been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately - which is causing a lot of people to feel curio...

#24: What's so Good About a Threesome? Let me tell you...

03 Oct 2023

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Send us a textDid you know, the threesome is the most common sexual fantasy, across different genders and sexual orientations? Rarely is anything to d...

#23 Answering Your Kinky Questions - Establishing Boundaries, Communicating Your Desires, Always Learning

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI get a lot of great questions in my inbox, so I thought it was about time I did a Q&A episode on this podcast. Today I discuss some...

#22: Female Submission and Feminism - Are They Compatible?

19 Sep 2023

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Send us a textThere are a lot of misconceptions around D/s relationships, which on the surface can look as though they are perpetuating a culture of m...

#21: I Tried Being a Camgirl - This is What it was Like…

12 Sep 2023

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Send us a textThis week I tried being a cam girl! If you’re curious to know what it’s like to get naked on a livestream then you will love this ep...

#20: Making Your Kink Fantasies a Reality!

05 Sep 2023

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Send us a textThis week's episode is all about making things happen! No more “someday” goals people, I want you to pick a date, make a plan, ...

#19: The Confidence Myth, FoMo and Comparing Yourself to Others

30 Aug 2023

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Send us a textIt might all look happy and confident on the surface, but the reality is, social media (including Fetlife!) isn’t the best place for o...

#18: The Case of the Harry Potter Pyjamas

23 Aug 2023

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Send us a textIn this episode I talk about my journey with Age Play. This is one of the more divisive kinks in BDSM and it was a form of play I used t...

#17: A Night at the ‘Erotic Ball’

16 Aug 2023

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Send us a textI don't think this was quite what the fairy godmother had in mind, but I had a great night out at the Townsville Erotic Ball! This ...

#16: A Sharp Look at Sadomasochism - Interview with PersephonyFalls

09 Aug 2023

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Send us a textI’ve got an extra special deep-dive episode for you today, where I interview Persephony Falls. Persephony is one of the first people I...

#15: Toxic Monogamy is the Enemy of Love

02 Aug 2023

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Send us a textMonogamy is something most couples never really discuss. It is generally assumed when we enter a relationship, it will be monogamous, an...

#14 - How Does it Feel to Watch Your Partner F**k Someone Else?

26 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textFor many people, the idea of seeing their partner in the arms of another person is to painful to even imagine… but for Slade and I, we...