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#119: Behind the Scenes: Creating the Missing Erototypes

13 May 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome friends! This one's for the sex nerds. 🤓In this episode I'm nerding out on sexology and taking you behind the scenes on the Eroto...

#118: The Manosphere Is Doing Dominance Wrong

29 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

The manosphere loves to talk about power, masculinity and being “alpha," but from where I’m sitting, they’re missing the point completely. ...

#118: Where Do Fetishes Come From?

22 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This week I'm diving into the fascinating world of fetishes: what they are, how they differ from core desires, and why some very specific things ...

#117: Kink Isn't Just About Pain (The 4 Types of Turn On)

01 Apr 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kink has a bit of a PR problem. Most people assume it’s all pain, whips and chains… but that’s actually a tiny slice of what’s possible. In th...

#116: Introducing Erototypes: A Playful Way to Understand What Turns You On

25 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Alright friends, it’s been a long time coming, but I’m finally ready to share something I’ve been quietly building behind the scenes. 🥁🥁🥁...

#115: What Actually Makes Kinky Relationships Feel Secure

11 Mar 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kink can ask a lot from a relationship. When we’re exploring things that feel vulnerable, taboo, or a little scary, the sense of safety between part...

#114: Wearable Claws: The Primal Toy You Didn't Know You Needed – with J from Claws & Clamps

25 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Claws are much more than a costume piece. They can completely change how your hands feel in play — and how you feel wearing them.In this episode, I’...

#113: I’m Pretty Sure the World Is Secretly Kinky

18 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

Kink is supposed to be this underground, secret-club thing…Except it’s actually everywhere.In this episode, I’m diving into the surprisingly kin...

#112: Using Kink to Stay in My Body When I’m Not Okay

04 Feb 2026

Contributed by Lukas

This episode is a little more vulnerable than usual. I’m sharing how kink helped me stay grounded during a rough mental health day. I talk about wha...

#111: Let’s Talk Wax, Impact, and Sensation Play — with El from Collared Foxy

28 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

In this episode, I’m joined by El from Collared Foxy for a deep dive into the world of sensation play. We talk through wax play and impact play in a...

#110: Can you be Sexual and Still be Taken Seriously?

21 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

For a long time, I’ve felt clear that you can be openly sexual and still be taken seriously. I’ve lived that belief — sharing my erotic life, po...

#109: How to Make Kink Fit Into Your Busy Life

14 Jan 2026

Contributed by Lukas

For a long time, I thought kink was all about big, flashy peak experiences — elaborate scenes, intense role play, and wild adventures that take a lo...

#108: Christmas Special – A Very Adult Christmas 🎅✨

24 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Merry Christmas, my lovelies, and welcome to my very first Christmas special!This episode is a little gift from me to you: a cosy, cheeky Christmas st...

#107: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender – with Julieta Chiara

17 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever wondered why so many smart, capable, high-performing women melt into a puddle the moment someone takes control… this episode is goi...

#106: Twelve Naughty Ideas for a Very Kinky Christmas

03 Dec 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt’s officially December, which means two things:Christmas chaos is upon us, andI am absolutely going to find ways to make it kinky.In...

#105: Tentacle Erotica — The Art, the History, and My First Toy Review 🐙

26 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHey friends, Harley here!This week we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and surprisingly historic corners of kink culture: ...

#104: Bringing Fantasy to Life: Inside the World of Nothosaur Toys - with Kingsley

19 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I chat with Kingsley from Nothosaur, the fantasy toy company turning imagination into art. From dragons and wolves to t...

#103: Evolution of a Shibari Master — with Kazami Sensei

12 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I speak with Kazami Sensei, one of Japan’s most respected figures in shibari and the founder of Kazami-ryu. Over a ca...

#102: Three Ingredients for a Seriously Hot S&M Scene

05 Nov 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhy does pain sometimes feel so damn good? And what actually makes a scene hot instead of just… well, hurt?In this episode, I’m divi...

#101: Rope School! What We Learned from a Level 1 Shibari Intensive – with Slade

15 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week I’m joined once again by my partner, rigger, and Dom — Slade — as we unpack our recent experience completing Kazami-Ryu ...

#100: Episode 100! Let's Celebrate Together 🎉

01 Oct 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWe did it! Turns Out I’m Into It has officially hit 100 episodes. This week isn’t just about celebrating the podcast milestone, it’...

#99: Roleplay Lite - An Easy Guide for the Roleplay-Curious

17 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhen most people hear roleplay, they instantly cringe. They think of awkward classroom exercises, bad accents, or being forced to improv...

#98: Why do we Celebrate Risk Everywhere Except in Sex?

03 Sep 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn last week’s episode, I talked about the “kink police” — the people who project their authority onto others and try to dictate...

#97: Who Are the Kink Police and How Do You Avoid Them?

27 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver met someone in the kink scene who acts like they invented BDSM? Yeah… those are the kink police. 🙄 In this episode, I’m brea...

#96: What Music Taught Me About Sex (Plus a Special Request!)

20 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my journey — from being a guitar-obsessed, heavy metal teenager to chasing a music ca...

#95: Floggers 101: Design, Technique, and Play with Chainwire

06 Aug 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver wondered what makes a great flogger—and how to actually use one?In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by local...

#94: Seduced by Fear: Cruciator on the Dark Side of Desire

23 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWelcome to Turns Out I’m Into It. In this unforgettable episode, I’m joined by special guest Cruciator to explore one of the kink wo...

#93: Harley Gets Schooled in Dirty Talk - A Masterclass with Sam Charles

09 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this extra juicy episode, I am joined by sex and intimacy coach Sam Charles for a very hands-on dirty talk masterclass. What starts a...

#92: My Brisbane Trip – Navigating Nerves, New Experiences, and My Favourite Rope Scene Yet

02 Jul 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I’m sharing some honest reflections from my recent trip to Brisbane—where I pushed through some big travel anxiety ...

#91: The Single Most Important Skill in Kink (That You Can Learn Right Now)

18 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat if I told you there was one skill that could make you more attractive as a play partner, safer to play with, and help you create ho...

#90: Behind the Mask – A Deep Dive into Pony Play with Rapidash

11 Jun 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI’ll be honest, I used to think pony play sounded… a little silly. But after discovering Rapidash’s stunning photos and hearing th...

#89: Kink in a Small Town, and Finding my Brave

28 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this solo episode, I share a very personal update from my kinky life. I’m four years into a deeply loving dynamic with my Dom, and ...

#88: I’m a Grown Man. And I Wear Nappies - Inside ABDL with DaddaG

21 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined once again by the incredible DaddaG—event organiser behind KangaCon and long-...

#87: The Love Language of Rope — with Deadmaxis and Aura Grey

14 May 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by Deadmaxis and Aura Grey—partners in life, kink, and the art of rope. Known...

#86: How Old Do You Feel in the Bedroom?

23 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s...

#85: I’m Not Ashamed to Love Masculine Men

16 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attra...

#84: What Turns You On—and What Turns You Off! Understanding Your Sexual Brakes and Accelerators

02 Apr 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textDo you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned...

#83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas

19 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEver felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your h...

#82: Sub or Bottom? Exploring the Many Flavours of Submission

12 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhen you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you ...

#81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from Stereotypes

05 Mar 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHave you ever wondered if you're kinky enough to belong in the kink community? Maybe you feel like you don’t fit the stereotypica...

#80: Rope Mastery & Mind Games: A Shibari Masterclass – with Miss Gen

19 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Miss Gen—Shibari educator, performer, and rope sadist. As h...

#79: How to Play with Gender in BDSM

12 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost people don’t realise just how much gender shapes the way we play in BDSM. Whether we’re leaning into traditional roles—like m...

#78: Religious Shame, BDSM, and the Psychology of Power – With Shelby Devlin

05 Feb 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, I’m joined by the incredible Shelby Devlin, a sex and intimacy coach with nearly a decade ...

#77: How to Tell Your Partner What You're Really Into... (Even If It Feels Super Scary)

29 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSharing your sexual fantasies with a partner can feel incredibly vulnerable... maybe even terrifying! In this episode, Harley Rabbit div...

#76: Are my Sexual Fantasies Normal? Here's What Science Says

15 Jan 2025

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textEpisode Summary:In this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit dives deep into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies, exp...

#75: Santa's Little Helpers: Naughty Sex Toy Secrets Revealed - with Wendy Setless

18 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt’s time to add a little extra joy to your holiday season! In this special Christmas episode, I’m joined by the fabulous Wendy Setl...

#74: My Secret "Cock Worship" Fantasy: How Fantasies Unlock Better Sex

11 Dec 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this week’s episode, Harley Rabbit takes a deep dive into the world of sexual fantasies and reveals one of her most provocative one...

#73: 4 Common Beliefs About Women’s Sexuality You’re Probably Getting Wrong

27 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode of Turns Out I’m Into It, Harley Rabbit takes on some of the most stubborn myths and misconceptions about women’s se...

#72: Permission to be Sexy! Lessons from a Burlesque Class

20 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this empowering episode, Harley Rabbit dives into the topic of sex positivity and overcoming shame around sexuality. Sharing personal...

#71: Overcoming Old Stories - How Kink Helped me get my First Tattoo!

13 Nov 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit opens up about finally getting her first tattoo—a significant milestone that stirred up childhood memor...

#70: Harley Ruins Your Favorite Love Songs - Teddy Swims, Sia, Bruno Mars

30 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley dives into a fun yet insightful analysis of three popular love songs that might make you rethink your playlist: ...

#69: How Men Can Start Exploring CNC- Interview with Dotch

16 Oct 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textCNC (Consensual Non-Consent) is often discussed from a woman’s perspective, but what about men? In this episode, I’m joined by Dotch...

#68: Romance vs BDSM - Which is More Intimate?

25 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, Harley Rabbit delves into the concept of intimacy within the kink and BDSM communities, challenging common misconceptio...

#67: My Schoolgirl Fantasy - Exploring Middlespace

11 Sep 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI got up to some exciting kinky shenanigans this weekend and I can’t wait to share! Slade and I did our most elaborate roleplay yet, w...

#66: Dipping Your Toe Into BDSM: Ideas for Beginners - with Jeanne Baade

28 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I talk with Jeanne Baade, a sex and relationship coach who discovered her sexuality later in life after growing up in a...

#65: The STI Questions You’re Too Afraid to Ask – With Dr Sara

21 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, we’re diving into a topic that might not be the sexiest, but it’s crucial for anyone exploring their sexuality, esp...

#64: Igniting Libido - Bringing Desire Outside of the Bedroom

14 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textOne of the most common challenges people experience in their sex life is issues with libido. Whether it's a mismatch with their par...

#63: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 2)

07 Aug 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textGet ready for part 2 of our conversation about men’s profiles on Fetlife. If you're a man on Fetlife struggling to represent your...

#62: Mastering Fetlife Profiles for Men - with Slade (Part 1)

31 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textOk guys, if you're on Fetlife and not having much luck with the ladies… How much effort have you really put into your profile? Be...

#61: The Art and Connection of Rope Bondage - with Ravel

24 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIf you are interested in rope bondage, you need to listen to this episode! Ravel is an experienced rigger from Brisbane Australia, who u...

#60: Slade and I had our First FMF Threesome!

10 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI know this is an experience on a lot of people’s ‘Fuckit lists’ so I thought I’d share some details that might help you in orga...

#59: The Dynamic Mind of a Pleasure Sub - with Chained Valkyrie

03 Jul 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI am super excited to have the incredible Chained Valkyrie on the show today. Valkyrie identifies as a pleasure sub, and as you’ll fin...

#58: Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn? People Pleasing in Kink

26 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat the hell is “fawning” and what does it have to do with kink? Well, that’s exactly what we are talking about on today’s epis...

#57: Empowerment through Dominance - Interview with Jessica Langley

19 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI have an exciting guest for you today. She is another friend from my Somatica course and her name is Jessica Langley. Jessica is a soma...

#56: Reflections on Speaking Out, and Cultivating Your Feed

12 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this week's episode I reflect on the responses I got from speaking out in episode #54. I am so grateful to everyone who has reac...

#55: Saying No - The Power of Setting Boundaries

05 Jun 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSetting boundaries might seem straightforward, but it’s often challenging to recognise and communicate them, especially in the context...

#54: I had a Bad Experience - This is What Happened

29 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week’s podcast was the hardest I’ve ever recorded. It’s easy to share the positive aspects of kink—the great experiences an...

#53: Surprising Lessons from Floor Ropes!

15 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIn this episode, I dive into a recent adventure that took me to Brisbane, where I explored rope suspension for the first time. While I s...

#52: Fire, Sensation Play and Somatic Therapy - with Alisa Millard

08 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWelcome to the next instalment of our Everyday Kinkster series. In today’s episode I have a chat with Alisa Milard. Alisa is studying ...

#49: How to Give INSANE Blowjobs - Even if you Can’t Deepthroat

17 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI am so excited to dive into this topic today! Most of us learn about blowjobs from porn, which usually shows some very talented actress...

#48: I Booked a Rope Trip! - Planning an Experience Safely

10 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHey friends! Today I am spilling the beads about my plans for a rope trip in Brisbane! Woop Woop! I am doing a rope class with Slade, vi...

#47: Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! - Interview with DaddaG

03 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMeet the man behind Kangacon - Australia's first Ageplay convention. I had so much fun chatting to DaddaG about his journey as an A...

#46: Strength in Darkness - Soothing Trauma with BDSM

27 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSummary:In this episode, Harley Rabbit concludes the mini-series on degradation play, pain play, and taboo kinks by discussing trauma an...

#45: The Truth About Turn-Ons

20 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the concept of arousal beyond romance and challenges the idea that love is the sole sourc...

#44: When bad feels really good - kink is NOT abuse

13 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textSummaryIn this episode, Harley Rabbit explores the difference between abuse and kink. She shares personal stories and examples to illust...

#43: Live Sex Shows, Pole Dancing and Help for Veterans - with Will Denison

06 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textToday I am starting a new series called Every Day Kinksters. The idea is to interview regular, everyday people, either from Fetlife or w...

#42: Advice for new submissives (don't make these mistakes!)

28 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textRecently I’ve had quite a few DM’s from subs who are new to kink, but are unsure on how to find a good Dominant partner, and how to ...

#41: The Art of Erotic Photography - Interview with KinkyLens

21 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week it was my absolute pleasure to speak with artist, kinkster and fet!sh photographer KinkyLens! I know many of you enjoy taking ...

#40: Is it ok to Fantasize About Someone Else?

14 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis question brings up a lot of feelings for the best of us. Maybe the thought of your partner fantasising about someone else feels rea...

#39: Life in the Fast Lane - Talking About Premature Ejaculation

07 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere are many things in life we’d like to happen quickly. The 3 minute planking part of your workout, waiting for the microwave count...

#38: Why I Told my Mum I was Kinky…

31 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere are lots of reasons we keep our kinky lives a secret. For some of us, secrecy is part of the fun! For others, it might be about pr...

#37: Outsourcing Sex: Advice for Opening a Relationship

24 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textNot everyone is super well matched in the bedroom. You might be an amazing couple, but when it comes to sex you’re just not really com...

#36: Are Open Relationships Committed?

17 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost of us have grown up in a culture where monogamy is the norm. If you enter a relationship it is pretty much expected that you will b...

#35: Top 10 Vetting Questions for new Play Partners

10 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHappy new year! If you are wanting to have an exciting year of kinky experiences, it’s likely you might need to do some vetting. So w...

#34: Embracing Your Inner Child - Age Play with Bear

20 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textToday we are doing a deep dive into Age Play! I was lucky enough to sit down with Bear, a kinkster from Perth, Western Australia, who is...

#33: Tied up in a Pool - Not What I Expected!

13 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textLast night I got to experience something I’ve been wanting to try for a long time - I got to go into my friend's pool and be tied...

#32: Extreme Scenes: Understanding Abduction Play with Cruciator

06 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textAre you curious about the darker, more extreme or taboo side of kink? I know I certainly am! In this episode we are taking a deep dive i...

#31: Kinks vs Values: Exploring your shadow self

29 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textMost kinksters (myself included) struggle with shame. One of the reasons for experiencing shame is because what turns us on is often in ...

#30: The 3 Dimensions of Sex

22 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt’s all well and good if you are into romance and passion - you know, the kind of sex you see in the movies - but what if you're...

#29: You're so perfect, I'm so proud of you! (did I just turn you on?)

08 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textYou are such a good girl / boy. Well done for clicking on this podcast. I’m so proud of you for being curious and wanting to explore k...

#28: Sleep Play - The Gateway Kink to CNC?

01 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textWhat is Sleep Play? Well, Sleep Play is a kink where one person is asleep (or pretending to be asleep) while the other person engages in...

#27: Do you Find it Hard to say "no"?

25 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textHave you ever found it challenging to utter that two-letter word, "no"? In this episode, I discuss the reasons why saying &qu...

#26: Collar me, own me

18 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textCollars carry a lot of meaning within the BDSM community, and that meaning can be very different depending on the person.I asked the com...

#25: The Many Faces of 'Free Use'

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a text‘Free use’ is a kink that has been getting a fair bit of attention on TikTok lately - which is causing a lot of people to feel curio...

#24: What's so Good About a Threesome? Let me tell you...

03 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textDid you know, the threesome is the most common sexual fantasy, across different genders and sexual orientations? Rarely is anything to d...

#23 Answering Your Kinky Questions - Establishing Boundaries, Communicating Your Desires, Always Learning

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textI get a lot of great questions in my inbox, so I thought it was about time I did a Q&A episode on this podcast. Today I discuss some...

#22: Female Submission and Feminism - Are They Compatible?

19 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThere are a lot of misconceptions around D/s relationships, which on the surface can look as though they are perpetuating a culture of m...

#21: I Tried Being a Camgirl - This is What it was Like…

12 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week I tried being a cam girl! If you’re curious to know what it’s like to get naked on a livestream then you will love this ep...

#20: Making Your Kink Fantasies a Reality!

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textThis week's episode is all about making things happen! No more “someday” goals people, I want you to pick a date, make a plan, ...

#19: The Confidence Myth, FoMo and Comparing Yourself to Others

30 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Send us a textIt might all look happy and confident on the surface, but the reality is, social media (including Fetlife!) isn’t the best place for o...