Two Therapists At A Bar
Episodes
How To Receive Critical Feedback
19 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We’re back — first episode of 2026. In this episode, we catch up on what we’ve been up to during the break before diving into a topic that affec...
REPLAY: When Grief Breaks You (& What Comes After) with Gene Fought
18 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For the month of December, we’re replaying our top 5 episodes of the year—this one comes in at number 3:In this episode, we talk about the kind of...
REPLAY: The Brutal Truth About Marriage
11 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For the month of December, we’re replaying our top 5 episodes of the year—this one comes in at number 4:In this episode, we discuss the unfiltered...
REPLAY: Modern Masculinity: What It Means to Be a Man in the 21st Century
04 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
For the month of December, we’re replaying our top five episodes of the year—this episode one comes in at number five.Is masculinity under attack,...
What the Wild Teaches Men with Chachi Avirett
27 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Chachi Avirett, a wilderness guide and men’s mentor with more than 4,000 days spent leading men through the backco...
Inside Gender Transition Medicine: An Anesthesiologist’s View with Dr. Tim Casias
20 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Tim Casias, an anesthesiologist whose training spans pediatrics, anesthesia, pediatric anesthesia, and pediatric...
Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 2
13 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this follow-up , we continue unpacking the unique relationship between therapist and client—why it can feel so personal, even deeper than friends...
Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 1
06 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dive into one of the most common—and complicated—questions in therapy: Can you be friends with your therapist? We explore the ...
Has AI Broken Education? (feat. Dr. Tron Wilder)
30 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Dale and I sit down with Dale’s former graduate school professor, Dr. Tron Wilder, to explore the intersections of faith, education...
When Does Selfishness Become Narcissism?
23 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we unpack a tricky question: Is it selfishness, or is it narcissism? We explore where narcissism comes from, how it differs from ordi...
Engineering Life Through Brain Cancer with Christopher George
16 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with Chris George—founder and CEO of Sproutly—to trace the arc of his story, from growing up as a homeschooled missio...
Responding to Charlie Kirk’s Death — Part 2
09 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In Part Two of our reflection on Charlie Kirk’s death, we shift to the bigger question of whether we can still agree to disagree—and what it would...
Responding to Charlie Kirk’s Death — Part 1
02 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit with the reactions—our own and others’—to Charlie Kirk’s death. Social media has made it possible for people to share ...
Kenya vs. America: Culture, Leadership & Relationships with Chris Mureithi
25 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, David and Dale sit down with David’s childhood friend, Chris Mureithi, our first international guest, to explore the cultural contr...
"The Body Does NOT Keep The Score" with Dr. Mike Scheeringa
18 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In recent years, a surge of work—from best-selling books like The Body Keeps the Score to documentaries, podcasts, and professional trainings— hav...
The Curse of Knowledge
11 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the curse of knowledge—how knowing something can sometimes hold us back instead of helping us move forward. From the ill...
The Creative Fight Against Sex Trafficking with Sabrina-Dorman Andrew
04 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this powerful episode, we sit with Sabrina Dorman‑Andrew, founder of New Creation VA, to explore how one broken building—a former adult store—...
What Makes an Apology Real?
28 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we unpack why “sorry” so often falls flat after a grievance. We talk how real repair requires more than trying to “pay for your...
ADHD & Parenting as a Therapist with Carrie Landis
22 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this heartfelt conversation, we reconnect with Carrie Landis—an early-career friend of Dale’s and now the founder and director of Riverside Fam...
When “Trying Your Best” Isn’t Enough
14 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
What happens when you’ve poured in all the effort you think you have… but it still doesn’t feel like enough? In this episode, we take inspiratio...
ER Stories, Mental Health & Burnout with Dr. Jon Van Ornam
07 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Jon Van Ornam—an emergency medicine physician. We talk about his experience on the front lines of the ER, how...
Moving Forward After Betrayal
31 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we delve into the experience of betrayal in relationships—what it feels like, why it impacts us so profoundly, and how we can heal....
From The Ground Up: Farming & Mental Health with Philip Wiygul
24 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with our friend Philip Wiygul, a lifelong outdoorsman and agricultural educator, to talk about his journey into farming a...
Porn in A Marriage: What No One Talks About
17 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we finally dive deep into a topic we’ve lightly touched on before—pornography, unwanted sexual behavior, and sex addiction. We fo...
Where Physics Meets Our Inner Worlds with Dr. Klebert Feitosa
10 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Curious about how cutting-edge physics relates to consciousness, spirituality, and mental health? In this episode, we nerd out with Dr. Klebert Feit...
Surviving Your Boss
03 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we dig into one of the trickiest parts of work life: navigating your relationship with your boss. Whether you have a supportive super...
Mental Health in Law Enforcement with Matthew Hand
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we sit down with First Sergeant Matt Hand of the Virginia State Police to talk about the human side of law enforcement. Matt shares s...
Lessons from Fatherhood
19 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this Father’s Day episode, David interviews Dale about his journey into fatherhood. Was being a dad always part of the plan? What shaped his desi...
Making Sense of Mental Illness & Faith with Reed Richardi
12 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we’re joined by Reed Richardi to explore the complex and deeply personal intersection of mental health, faith, and religion. Reed s...
Letting Go of People-Pleasing
05 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we people please? In this episode, we get personal about our experiences with people pleasing, both growing up and more recently. We unpack the...
When Grief Breaks You (& What Comes After) with Gene Fought
29 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we talk about the kind of grief that shatters a life—and what comes after. We’re joined by our very first guest, Gene Fought, who...
Privacy vs. Secrecy In A Relationship
22 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
NOTE: A brief section of the episode around 03:46 was lost, where we began discussing how privacy is viewed in different cultures. Thanks for your und...
Why We're All Medicated
15 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we go deeper into the conversation that started with ADHD, this time focusing on medication. What actually counts as medication? Is i...
Does Everyone Have ADHD Now?
08 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It seems like everyone is talking about ADHD lately but does that mean everyone actually has it? In this episode, we explore the growing conversation ...
Is This Abuse Or Is This Just Conflict?
01 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore a tough but important question: Am I being abused, or is this just conflict? We unpack where the line is between healthy d...
Addiction & Relationships: How Do You Know If They’ll Really Change?
24 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve heard the promises: “I’ll change.” “This was the last time.” But nothing’s different. In this episode, we speak to those loving s...
Can Therapists Be Truly Objective? & Other Therapy Myths Exposed
17 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we ask each other a simple question: Why do we do what we do? That sparks a deeper conversation about the heart of therapy. Is it jus...
Mom, Wife or Daughter: Who Gets Top Priority?
10 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Who comes first in a man's life, his mother, his wife, or his daughter? In this episode, we explore this trending dilemma, the most common answers...
So...You Failed. Now What?
03 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Failure is inevitable but what do you do after it happens? In this episode, we talk about what failure really is, the different levels of failure (fro...
How to Have Hard Conversations with Friends
27 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why is it so hard to have honest conversations with friends? In this episode, we unpack the unique dynamics of friendship that make difficult conversa...
Is Self-Care Overrated?
20 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Is self-care overrated or are we just doing it wrong? In this episode, we break down common myths about self-care, the ways we often sabotage our own ...
Ask A Therapist: BetterHelp, Calming Anxiety, Self-Diagnosing & More
13 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this special Q&A episode, we’re diving into your questions! We discuss online therapy vs. in-person therapy, how therapists decide when to li...
Is Sex A Want Or A Need?
06 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get 15% off your OLIPOP order using this link and enter the promo code SODALOVE at checkout. In this episode, we explore the unique fulfillment sex...
Modern Masculinity: What It Means to Be a Man in the 21st Century
28 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get 15% off your OLIPOP order using this link and enter the promo code SODALOVE at checkout. Is masculinity under attack, evolving, or just misunderst...
How to Find the Right Therapist
21 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming—but it’s one of the most important decisions you can make for your mental health. In this episod...
Why Modern Dating Sucks (And What To Do Next)
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this Valentine’s Day special, we’re tackling why dating feels harder than ever—and what to do about it. With apps, social media, shifting exp...
Why Your Life Feels Boring (And How to Fix It)
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Why do we feel restless in our own lives, like we should be somewhere else, doing something more? In this episode, we break down the feeling of boredo...
The Brutal Truth About Marriage
30 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we discuss the unfiltered truth about marriage and why it’s not for the faint of heart. We challenge the fairy tale narratives, exp...
The Upside of Self-Judgment
23 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we're tackling the voice in your head that's never quite satisfied. We challenge common beliefs about self-criticism, reveal ...
Is Modern Therapy Overrated?
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In the debut episode of "Two Therapists At A Bar," we're exploring the question: Is modern therapy overrated? Join us as we dive into th...