How Do I Stop Getting Attached So Fast?
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
I got a meeting at 3.
So do I. So do you.
Okay, let's move.
We all got a meeting at 3. Let's do it. Everyone, I got a meeting at 3 too.
Sammy once said this on a podcast. I have a hard stop at some point. And they were like, what do you mean? She said, I have a hard stop at some point. We're like, you can't just say that. You need to say the time. You can't just be like, when I feel like pulling the trigger. At some point.
Once this gets boring, I'm out.
Hello and welcome back to the You Up Podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? How you feeling? What's going on?
I'm good. I'm good. I didn't get a ticket yesterday. No ticket. No ticket. If you listened last week, I was worried about getting a ticket. I was by, I had a question for you today. I'm jumping right in. Jump right in.
Hit me.
I feel like, okay, my sister had, like, she won an award yesterday. I was at, like, an event thing.
How do sports foster community and connection?
I know this is a week later.
Sure.
I want to make sure. I didn't really say congratulations to your sister. I was like, an award? Yeah, she's teacher of the year. I thought about it afterwards. I was like, I think I was insultingly shocked. Listen. I don't care. Well, no, I love Shira, and I think she's great. I'm not shocked that she would win any award. It's more that, like, Teacher of the Year is, like, this, like... They've been there a hundred years, and I just hope I didn't come off insulting.
No, not insulting, but it was funny because I posted about it, and someone replied, like, teacher of the year sounds like Jared's arch nemesis or something. Like, Jared versus teacher of the year.
Oh, the teacher of the year. Oh, how unfuckable.
But it was funny because I was walking from the office to this event.
And it looked like, sorry to interrupt, huge event. Big event, yeah. Yeah, I mean, this was a huge award she won.
What parallels exist between sports fandom and reality TV?
That's why I felt bad.
Yeah, there was a whole video. I was very proud. I was like, well, I don't know. Because it's funny. She's my sister. I'm like, I don't really know what the fuck you do all day, really.
I'm like, there's just...
She could be terrible at it for all I know.
This is the founder of Betches.
Well, it's just funny. Do you know all your friends, they have jobs? You have no idea how they actually do with their jobs. They could be off. You don't know what their vibe is at work. You're not at work with them.
I mean, that was the whole Chandler Bing kind of storyline on Friends.
No one knows what he does. No one knows what he does. But one thing about no one knows what he does, but it's also like, I don't know, like, Are you good at your job? I guess you could know based on how much money someone makes, maybe. But I do feel like there's no real... Your friends could suck at their job and you would never know.
No clue.
And they would never say that.
Never say it. We don't know if they're middle management say-nothings. We have no idea how they operate. For us, we have to perform. So we get judged every time we put out an episode. And we get a lot of...
Public validation and criticism.
That is good and bad. So we get a lot of opportunities to be like, I got this big thing coming up and everyone goes, woo. And it feels like a culmination of a book coming out. You know, that's like, it's a, that's why it's a little embarrassing, you know, like, okay, enough, enough, you know, like I, I'm talking about me for a long time.
Yeah.
So something like this, that's why teacher of the year, you go, they don't do this for everybody.
I don't think so. That's why when I got there, I was like, my brother was there too. And I was like, so like, what does this mean? Right. Like, what do you have to do to be teacher? Did you get money? Like, if I'm a teacher, I want money. No, I mean, I'm sure it's a great resume builder. Is it? I would imagine. If you're working your way up the teacher. You're applying to a different school.
Right. Hey, you won teacher of the year. I'm out of here. I'm leaving you guys. Employee of the month. Right. Like the idea that you win teacher of the year and then you're like, fuck you kids.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–1:06
2
How do sports foster community and connection?
1:06–2:04
3
What parallels exist between sports fandom and reality TV?
2:04–4:42
4
How do you decide if you want kids or prefer a DINK lifestyle?
4:42–9:39
5
What should you consider when facing a dishes-related relationship standoff?
9:39–12:40
6
How do you handle emotional fallout after being ghosted?
12:40–17:02
7
Is an out-of-town wedding invite on a fifth date romantic or a red flag?
17:02–19:18
8
What are the implications of past relationships on future decisions?
19:18–1:15:44
Speakers
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