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Chapter 1: What feedback did Jared receive from his book tour?
We're going to do some TikToks first before you guys get into it.
Hello and welcome back to the You Up Podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on? How you feeling?
I'm feeling good.
Yeah?
Yeah. It's summer. We're back. I'm here.
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Chapter 2: What happened with the woman and her fiancé using the Notes app?
We're ready. We're in studio.
We love in studio. I am on the press tour for the book, and I am done with the sound of my own voice.
You are the hardest working man in America.
I do them all. I do all these podcasts. But then, like, when you're doing a dating book, it becomes... Like, I'm, like, sick of myself.
Do people ask... Are people just keep asking you about your dating life on... They're asking about your dating life.
Well, then you get into, like, discussions with people about dating that, like... Are they asking about your relationship status on these things?
That's fine.
Yeah, they ask about your relationship status. And I talk about, you know, having a girlfriend and... Do you feel like...
better that you have a girlfriend for this press tour than like you don't because it's like keeps coming up like it's easier I think I would have a canned answer if I was single doing this I would have an answer that brought it back to the book like yes I'm single and that's why I'm the best person to buy a book from and now it's I'm in a relationship so I know everything I know everything
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Chapter 3: Is an open phone policy a good sign in a relationship?
Those people don't know as much as people who have been single.
And then our relationships, there's not a lot of empathy generally from people in relationships to the plight of being single. Cause they're like, well, it's, you know, Because once you're in it, you go, oh, once I gave into this whole thing. I could say that right now. But you have to take a... You don't remember what it's like to feel upset by it or sad by it. I think that's anything, right?
Right. It's anything. And if you don't give that, I don't know. I don't think me being in a relationship... It's funny when you talk about, oh, I have a dating advice book. I can see when people react to it in the same way people react to me. Oh, I'm a comedian. Oh, you think you're funny? I'm like, oh, that's a very insecure person. You know, like, oh, what makes you an expert on dating?
Oh, that's a person who's very insecure. Like, I can always, I, you know, my dad has a saying, fat people have the best hearing.
What does that even mean? I don't know.
That's what my dad is saying. What does that mean? It means they're sensitive.
It sounds like something he yelled at someone on the playground.
You got great hearing. I say that as someone with weight issues.
Like they're sensitive.
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Chapter 4: What are the implications of wanting to have dinner with parents frequently?
They start off with their spiel, next.
Why am I not getting a real person here? Next.
That show was so mean.
It's a pretty mean show.
That was pretty mean. They used to have really mean dating. They wouldn't be able to do that anymore.
Well, there's a lot of mean dating.
Parental control.
All the shows were mean. Room readers. They would sit you next to their parents while they would talk shit to the parents.
They'd make the boyfriend watch you on a date with someone else.
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Chapter 5: How can one address feelings of discomfort in a relationship?
Keep sending in your emails. Um, Here's how we feel. Here's how you get out of it. Here's your next move. Here's what I would do, you know?
Uncomfortable conversations had comfortable.
That's the rule here. That's it. I'm also, listen, if you're listening, the book is out. It's out. It's out. You can see it here. If you haven't bought it by now. Buy the book. Buy the book. I don't even know what promoting it does at this point. The book is now out there and it's in your hands. If you have a friend who's single- or newly single Well, I'm positive.
I'm like, I don't even know what I want from the book anymore. Like, I'm like, it's out.
You want it to sell, yeah.
Right, I would like for it to sell. Like, I kind of have to move on at a certain point. It hasn't even come out yet. It's week two, but this is the way life works. This is it. This is the way of the world.
Well, it's also like, now you've been promoting it for like months, right? Right, I think it's good.
Promotion fatigue. I'm a little fatigued, but I'm like, there's laughs every, like, do you want to laugh every page? Of a book? Yeah. Okay, that was the attempt I made. I don't know who else is doing that for you. No one. Now I'm getting mad at someone who doesn't even exist. You're like Kelly Clarkson from last week. What the fuck is wrong with you? Buy the book. You can have it right now.
I don't know. I'd love for people to buy. The feedback's already, before it even came out, amazing.
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Chapter 6: What should you do if you suspect your partner is cheating?
I've done these things before, but I'm starting to move into new territory, new levels.
Deeper levels, yeah. Right. Some of them are not as fun.
Some of them are more fun. No, we had a conversation the other night. We had this conversation about, and I'm just not, the things that I'm not good at, Like, those are what I was avoiding when it came to, like, getting in a relationship.
Well, that's what a relationship does, like, more than almost, like, exposing you to, I think, what's wrong with the person you're dating. The deeper you get into it, it also exposes what you're not good at. Because when you live alone, everything you do is great. Right. There's only one person voting. Right. And you love what you do.
I love everything I do.
And then you're in a relationship, and, like, that's how you see what, like... Maybe your flaws are.
So yesterday I could feel something was off. She heard me on another podcast talking about our relationship. I was like, are you OK? What's going on? She's like, well, listen to this.
Oh, it wasn't that you told her not to come. It was something else.
Well, then it wasn't that I told her not to come. It was I and I heard you on this podcast. You may mention I feel like we're going to have to have a talk about it later. Again, I'm on this.
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Chapter 7: How does emotional cheating differ from physical cheating?
And I'm game for the conversation. What did you say? I think the first time we dated that I was dating around and it wasn't generally exclusive when we were dating the first time around, which I always felt was known. Um, but maybe just not said, right. You know, as you do, I, I don't, but also I don't know, but that's upset.
I could see that being like, that's one of those things where like, You kind of feel like you don't have a right to be upset, but you're still upset. I think I talked about this with Mike. I had a similar thing.
That was the vibe I got. That's exactly the vibe.
I don't think I'm entitled to be upset, but I kind of am upset.
I'm upset, but I'm not mad at you. I'm not mad, I'm disappointed. It was that, and I hate I'm not mad, I'm disappointed. I think that is the worst version of a fight ever. I'd rather you be fucking mad and it's done and now you love me more than anyone in the entire world.
Like, I don't want... Like a weirdness, yeah.
I don't want, I guess this is who you are. And I'm like, yeah, it was me the whole time.
I mean, that's sort of the perfect scenario for that.
Well, I think that's also why men avoid relationships. So they don't have to have this conversation? Well, men get a lot of mileage out of potential. When women date them, they date them, okay, he checks a lot of boxes. So potential is kind of the sexiness of a man. I don't think men date women on potential at all.
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Chapter 8: What are the consequences of not being open in a relationship?
Well, you thought they would change.
You thought they would change or you thought they were on a trajectory.
Mm-hmm.
And then you go, I'm not mad, I'm disappointed because you're like, oh, this is who you are. That's part of dating. That's part of dating. This is what you got.
Or that's part of relationships. Right.
So, yeah, that's kind of when.
But that's all relationships.
Right. I think so. But I think this is also like us being apart. I do feel like I do for the first time. I do feel like I'm like I need to like be around her in a way that I never felt that way with anyone else. Like I do feel like I am missing something.
Right. Well, it's happening. So that's exciting. Like you're working. You're like moving in together.
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