In the 1970s and 80s, Shere Hite believed that understanding sexuality meant listening—really listening—to people’s experiences. Her anonymous surveys offered women a rare space for honesty and transformed the conversations around sex at the time. In this episode, we explore Shere’s quiet revolution, the controversy it sparked, and her lasting impact on how we think about intimacy and identity today. Follow us on Instagram @watchhercookpodcast Sources: Hite, S. (1976). The Hite report: A nationwide study on female sexuality. Macmillan. The Disappearance of Shere Hite. [San Francisco, California, USA]:IFC Films, 2023., Kanopy Streaming, 2024. In ‘The Disappearance of Shere Hite,’ a canceled sex researcher is reclaimed The Hite Report: Summary She Changed the Way Women Thought About Their Sexuality. Now She’s Finally Getting Her Due My Life With Shere Hite: the forgotten feminist who changed sex forever Hite, Shere 1942– New York Times- The Hite Report Shere Hite revolutionalised female pleasure – so why did the world forget about her? Orgasms Are Marvellous Happiness Ecofemonism Women’s History- Betty Friedan AIDS, Sexual Behavior, and Intravenous Drug Use. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Chapter 1: What is the quiet revolution in women's sexuality?
Sex. It's on our screens, in our ads, in the music we hear and the movies we watch. It's on the billboards we pass when we drive through the city, in the memes that go viral, in the small talk during happy hour, and in the deep conversations after midnight. It's everywhere. Yet for women, it can feel like our biggest secret.
For centuries, conversations about women's sexuality have been filtered through what society has deemed as acceptable. We've been told to be desirable, but not too desiring. To please, but not to ask for pleasure. And to fit into expectations, but never to expect. But what happens when we rewrite the narrative, start owning our desires, our bodies, and our stories?
It's time to get out of our comfort zones. This is Watcher Cook. I'm Cassie. And I'm Danielle. Welcome back to Watcher Cook, a podcast dedicated to sharing the incredible lives of women who have taken their power back throughout history. I will just say this.
It's bold. But this is definitely my favorite episode of the show that we have done so far. and likely will do for quite a while and i say that's a bold statement because every single woman that we include in our show is for a reason because they're incredible but i love this woman
You're just drawn to her story. I mean, episode four, starting off strong to say this is your favorite. But I agree. I really love her. And I'm really excited to talk about her because I just feel like, one, before this research, I didn't know about her. And two, I just think that this is a relevant conversation for today and in the past and for all women who are listening.
And it's a really empowering, insightful episode.
Yeah, so we'll get into it. Let's introduce her because as you alluded to in the introduction, it is all about sex. Well, not all about sex, but mostly about sex. And what I love about, one of the things I love about Watcher Cook is the opportunity to have different discussions that We aren't able to have on National Park After Dark our other podcast.
And it's crazy because, you know, we've been podcasting for over four years and there's going to be a lot of subjects that we're going to have conversations about that we've never...
had on in this way you know on a show and they're so worthy of having and people are going to get to know us in a different way and we haven't talked about sex like this before but i don't know if we've talked about sex really ever well get ready but we are not shying away today because today is all about women embracing their sexuality and being able to talk about sex openly without embarrassment or shame so we're here to talk about it all
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Chapter 2: Who is Shere Hite and what did she contribute?
Me now, yes, definitely. And I have filled out surveys similar just in college. But back then, I don't know, just because there was a lot of there is a lot of shame around it and people didn't talk about it. And I don't know. I don't know if I would have been comfortable. What about you? Do you think you would have filled it out?
Well, it's almost impossible to say, you know, we weren't. women in the 60s but I would like to say yes I mean I remember in growing up you know in our teenage years when Cosmo and all these other magazines were kind of all the rage there were so many different quizzes in there and surveys and stuff like that everything from you know, like horoscope stuff to personality traits to sexual things.
That's such a throwback that you're bringing up. Cosmo polls and questionnaires.
But yeah, I loved it. I thought, I mean, I love anything that really, I mean, this survey is a little bit different because it doesn't reveal anything about you. Like here's this questionnaire, fill it out and there's results and we'll tell you something about you. It's not really like that, but I do, I enjoy filling things out like this.
And I really enjoy the subject of female pleasure and standing up for and expressing and being transparent and having open conversations about what you desire, what you need, and vice versa from your partner and things like that.
So some of the questions that were included in the survey that Cher put out included everything from, I think she kind of started off with some softballs, you know, warmed people up. How often do you have sex? How often do you have sex? Who are you having sex with? You know, is it a partner? Is it a spouse? What gender are they?
You know, just kind of she just really mounted up and started to get more in-depth. and maybe more into territory that people are kind of like, oh my gosh, I can't even believe that she's asking this. Everything up to how often do you masturbate? Or do you masturbate? How often do you masturbate? In which ways do you masturbate? And all the way up to like, is it clitoral? Is it intercourse?
Is it anal? Is it a combination? Are you by yourself? Do you have
outside help do you do it with a partner all the way up to like when you orgasm what does it feel like can you describe it have you ever had an orgasm what was the first time you had an orgasm at what age like do you talk about this with your partner how often do you orgasm with a partner just like so many different questions that really I think made a lot of women pause and
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