What We Said
Episodes
COWORKER FROM HELL
17 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Clock in, because this week’s episode is all about coworker drama. The girls jump right into your submissions, with nurses getting on each other’s...
CAUGHT MY HUSBAND WITH MY BFF
12 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
The What We Said girls are March-ing into another month’s advice column, and your submissions delivered! They kick things off with a rogue husband c...
MAJOR DIVORCE TEA
10 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
You’ve all been asking for Jaci and Chelsey’s thoughts on the latest season of The Traitors, and the moment has finally arrived. After kicking thi...
SELF SABOTAGE
03 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no rea...
FEBRUARY FAVORITES
26 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to the second installment of the What We Said Podcast’s monthly favorites. Jaci and Chelsey’s February roundup truly has something for eve...
SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT
24 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all been there — witnessing a painfully awkward moment that wasn’t technically yours, but somehow you still felt the full-body cringe. Thi...
MASSIVE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS
17 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Whether it’s dating, making friends, or stepping into a new workplace, spotting red flags early can save you a lot of future headache. What We Said ...
I HATE MY BEST FRIEND’S BOYFRIEND
12 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What’s not clocking with these men? This week, Jaci and Chelsey are stepping in to help untangle your toughest relationship dilemmas. Should this li...
MY DESPERATE VALENTINE
10 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Cover up — your desperation is showing! This week, the girls are exposing your thirstiest confessions after recapping their very polar-opposite vaca...
YEAR OF THE HORSE
03 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
After a quick catch-up, Jaci and Chelsey dive into the theme, mantra, anthem — whatever you want to call it — for 2026: the Year of the Horse. Kno...
OUR JANUARY ROUNDUP
29 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Introducing the What We Said Podcast’s newest episode theme: Monthly Favorites. Jaci and Chelsey are spilling all the tea on what they’ve been wea...
UNHINGED DATING APP INTERACTIONS
27 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and we’re dropping an episode that might make you want to cancel the holiday altogether. You wrote in ...
FREE 15 MINUTE WALKING ACTIVATION "BECOME YOUR MAGNETIC FUTURE SELF" BY ACTIVATIONS
27 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
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MY FAMILY IS CRAZY
20 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Another week, another piece of TikTok jargon for Chelsey to break down — this time, it’s “being in your essence.” The girls unpack what that e...
2026 RESET + GOALS
13 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
What do toxic mom groups, 2026 to-do lists, and being spiritually chopped have in common? Absolutely nothing — except they’re all on the What We S...
WE’RE BACK
09 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are starting the year real chatty, with a Christmas break recap of Chelsey’s bold — and very accidental — “bricking” from social m...
OFFICIAL 2026 REBRAND
06 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Welcome to 2026 — the happiest, healthiest, funniest, most Valley Girliest year yet. Jaci and Chelsey are kicking things off with a little personal ...
2025 AWARDS
30 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are closing out the year with their very own 2025 awards ceremony, celebrating the moments that brought the most laughs, tears, and confusio...
WE ARE IN A PREDICAMENT
26 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The presents have been opened, the eggnog has been drunk, and the decorations are coming down — but things are only just heating up at the What We S...
FAMILY SCANDALS
23 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are wishing you a very merry Christmas Eve Eve and celebrating with a lineup of festive chaos. They’re diving into your biggest...
HOLIDAY HOT TAKES
16 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Jaci and Chelsey debate your hottest Christmas takes, because the holiday is approaching fast and there is so much to discuss. You sent in ...
THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME
12 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season — the gifts — until they’re not so great anymore. They dive into your submi...
WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?
09 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and qui...
SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA
01 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
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MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME
28 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia...
THE NICEST THING EVER
25 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “...
HE GHOSTED ME
18 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The girls just can’t seem to let Halloween go — but this week’s topic is a different kind of ghosting. 👻 From one-night stands to full-blown ...
MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE 101
14 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are joined by the amazing Mimi Bouchard to chat all things manifestation, mindset, and creating your dream life. Mimi even hooked...
LUCKY GIRL ENERGY
11 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are feeling extra lucky — and they’ve got the stories to prove it. It started earlier this week by scoring some unbelievable ...
UNHINGED TRAVEL STORIES
04 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading off your horrors while traveling — but first, they make some predictions for their 2025 Spotify Wrapped (spoiler: t...
SPOOKY CATCH UP
31 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are recapping their Halloween-themed Los Angeles tour stop — and yes, Jasper and Chester made their grand return, joined by the...
SCARY STORIES!!
28 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Halloween is creeping up, and the girls are out this week — which means Chester and Jasper are back to take over the mic 🎃 .Their mission: to rea...
HOMETOWN SCANDALS
21 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Fall is in full swing, and the girls are celebrating the season with a little thrift shopping for cozy decor — but not without a rant about how chec...
CATFISHED IRL
14 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls dive into Taylor Swift’s new album The Life of a Showgirl and share their unfiltered first impressions before getting into some...
THE DATE I BARELY SURVIVED
10 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are back from their Dallas tour stop and kicking things off with a little travel drama. From the wild emergency that happened mid...
ULTIMATE COZY GUIDE w/ Kristin & Jon
07 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are officially welcoming fall with special guests Kristin Johns and Jon Volk, hosts of That’s The Point Podcast! Together they ...
COWORKER DRAMA
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are reading all your stories about your workplace drama. They talk about unhinged teachers, irresponsible daycare workers, toxic boss...
HOW TO AVOID WEDDING REGRET
26 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are dishing out their best advice! They talk about differing religious views within a family, finding THE wedding dress, hosting fami...
POP CULTURE HOT TOPICS (DWTS, TSITP, NFL, & more!)
23 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are having a chatty episode today! They are catching you up on tour updates, pop culture hot topics, & more! PHX October 17,...
I CAN’T BELIEVE I DATED HIM
16 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are reading your worst relationship stories about staying with a red flag for too long. They talk about moving your life around for h...
IRRATIONAL ANNOYANCES
12 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are ready to complain but ~tastefully~ ! They chat about being annoyed about other people’s ailments, walking etiquette, closed bli...
GOSSIP IS GOOD FOR YOU
09 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are having a chatty catch up episode! They talk about Disneyland, the benefits(?) of gossip, home renovations & more! OR...
THE PARTY I’LL NEVER FORGET!
02 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading stories about the most memorable party listeners have ever been to! They talk about parties past capacity, Super...
OVERCOMING JEALOUSY
29 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are giving out their best life advice! They talk about talking your friends out of toxic relationships, how to overcome jealousy,...
HOOKUP HORROR STORIES
26 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
**DISCLAIMER: This episode is rated PG-13 not suitable for all ages** This week the girls are reading your craziest hookup stories! They get alllll th...
DATING APP NIGHTMARES!
19 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are reading your stories about your WORST dating app experiences! They talk about scary tantrums, sneaky thieves, & ways to make ...
What Do You ACTUALLY Value?
12 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are chatting about their value quiz results & discuss why knowing your top values is actually important. They also talk about how...
THAT’S EMBARRASSING
08 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are chatting about things that are embarrassing but shouldn’t be! They talk about neglecting your own needs for the comfort of othe...
MY FORBIDDEN CRUSH
05 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are reading stories about the crush they shouldn’t have! They read about older family friends, college professors, & firs...
THE ART OF SMALL TALK
29 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are chatting about chatting! They talk about the importance of small talk, how to get better at it, & why you might want to isola...
HELP! My Boyfriend is CHEAP!
25 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are reading your submissions & giving you their best advice! They chat about the dangers of trios, dating a cheap man, how to bre...
THINGS I DON’T UNDERSTAND (PT. 3)
22 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
School is in session, valley girls! This week the girls are researching things they just don’t get… & then teaching it! They talk about buildi...
SUMMER VACATION DISASTERS
15 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading all about worst summer vacation memories … they read stories about Snapchat discoveries, foreign dates gone wrong, ...
MY VILLAIN ORIGIN STORY
11 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading all about your villain origin stories! They talk about bullies they never forgot about, offensive nicknames, cheating...
BIG *little* LIES
08 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your stories about a little white lie that snowballed into something bigger. They laugh about how an innocent little ...
UNHINGED CHILDHOOD BEHAVIOR
01 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your stories all about the unhinged things you did as a kid. They read stories about acting on intrusive thoughts, ch...
I Hate My Husband’s Name…
27 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are giving you their best advice! They chat about deflecting negative comments about your appearance & how to set boundaries ...
SUMMER RESET
24 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are talking about all of their summer plans for self-care, relaxing, & elevating their routines! They talk about their favori...
We finally have all the answers!
17 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are doing a part TWO of helping listeners with their light hearted problems! They brainstorm everything from how to have balanced...
SOLVING ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
13 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are brainstorming ways to solve all your lighthearted problems! They talk about how to find your interior style, how to thrift, m...
PLOT TWIST you didn’t see coming!
10 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your stories about a plot twist you definitely didn’t see coming! They talk about airplane drama, BFF origin storie...
SEVEN YEARS and we STILL have more to say!
03 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are unlocking the WWS vault & sharing it all! They reminisce on the last seven years of the podcast & talk about parts th...
HAS WEDDING CULTURE GONE TOO FAR?
30 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are giving you their best advice! They discuss when to have an another baby, expensive weddings, suspicious hard drive files, nos...
SUMMER ITINERARY
27 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are scheming & planning their summer! They talk about recipes they want to try, books to read, wellness routines, & more....
PETTY CONFESSIONS
20 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading about the pettiest thing you’ve ever done. They talk about roommate revenge, harmless pranks, & getting back at...
HR WASN’T READY FOR THIS
13 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your workplace HORROR stories. They talk about inappropriate bosses, afterwork party activities, obsessed co-workers,...
GETTING OUR LIFE TOGETHER
09 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are recapping Chelsey’s half-marathon & talking about the ups & downs of their individual fitness journeys. They also t...
I MARRIED THE RED FLAG
06 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your stories about dating a walking red flag… knowingly. They talk about mama’s boys, “crazy” exes, & mor...
BOYS WILL BE BOYS *advice*
29 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are doing their monthly advice column & discuss catching your husband on Reddit, dealing with immature in-laws, & snarky ...
HORSE GIRLS + TRAD WIVES
25 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are recapping their weekend in the mountains celebrating Chelsey’s 30th birthday! They talk about their treacherous horse ridin...
BRIDESMAID FROM HELL
22 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your stories about their worst maid-of-honor or bridesmaid experiences! They read stories about friendship fall-outs,...
WHAT WE’RE LEAVING IN OUR 20’s!
15 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are celebrating as Chelsey’s 30th birthday approaches! They chat about her favorite birthday memories, what lessons she learned...
THE REPORTS ARE IN
11 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are sharing their current REPORT. They talk about their recent obsessions, favorite new books, skincare recommendations, baths, j...
SPRING REFRESH
08 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are celebrating the spring season & chatting all things cleaning, organizing, & closet refreshes. They also talk abo...
THE FEMININE URGE TO TRY EVERYTHING
01 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are joined by the serial hobbyist herself, Kenzie Elizabeth! They chat about starting hobbies to enrich your life, making a livin...
RELATIONSHIP MAKE-OR-BREAKS
28 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your submissions asking for advice! They talk about differing religious views, picky eaters, Jaci’s new haircut &am...
MY PARTNER GOT IT WRONG
25 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your funny submissions about when your partner got it wrong! They talk about gifts that miss the mark, acts of servic...
UNHINGED WELLNESS HABITS
18 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are discussing the craziest health & wellness they’ve participated in. They talk about egg yolk hair masks, fad diets, craz...
Biggest Money REGRETS
14 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are talking about all their biggest money regrets! They also read submissions from listeners about things they regret spending th...
MOMMY CONFESSIONS
11 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your anonymous confessions about motherhood! They talk about the postpartum trenches, the ick, waxing adventures, &am...
UNSPOKEN SISTERHOOD
04 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading your sweet stories all about the unspoken bond of sisterhood! They read stories of women helping other women whether ...
Rude Neighbors, Baby Name Drama, & MORE!
28 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are giving you their best advice about ultimatums, rude neighbors, family food dynamics, baby name drama & so much more! They...
My Partner Doesn’t Know…
25 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are reading anonymous confessions about things you do that your partner has no idea about! They also talk about a cycling class g...
WOMANHOOD + SELF CARE MUST-HAVE w/ Ashley Graham!
24 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are talking with supermodel, entrepreneur, & cultural icon, Ashley Graham! They chat about all the different facets of womanh...
Motherhood Catch-up
18 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are having a chatty catch-up episode! They talk about the highs & lows of being a new parent, balancing work & family, an...
WEDDING BELLS
14 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are recapping the royal wedding (Abbey + Keaton) & talking about their POV of the day. They also read submissions from listen...
He loves me, he loves me not…
11 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are dissecting your situationships! They read submissions from listeners asking for advice about their sticky situations & if...
Love ME! Pick ME!
04 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are exposing their most pick-me qualities & past actions & read submissions from listeners as well! What we are wear...
He’s Not Your Husband
31 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are giving you their best advice! First, they recap Abbey’s bachelorette weekend & then read listener submissions about lik...
The Year of Realizing Things
28 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are deep diving into their recent self-care & mental health journeys. Jaci recaps her incredible solo stay at Mii amo spa &am...
Who is RIGHT!?
21 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are recapping Jaci’s 30th birthday bash! Then they read your submissions about sticky situations & discuss WHO IS IN THE RI...
VULNERABILITY HANGOVER
14 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are catching up on their new year vibes & doing a little mental health check in. They talk about having vulnerability hangove...
JACI TURNS 30!!
10 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Today is Jaci’s 30th birthday! The girls are talking about the last three decades & Jaci reflects on what she’s learned in her 20’s, her fai...
NATURE IS CALLING
07 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are back in the studio after their winter break & ready to catch up! They talk about flight delays, airport interactions, unwelcome gues...
2025 VISION BOARD
31 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are welcoming in the new year with some inspiration & manifestation! They talk about why they focus on manifestation & why it’s so...
How to dodge THAT question…
27 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
The girls are interrupting your limbo week between Christmas & New Year’s with an advice column! They talk about the “grey area” of cheating...
MERRY TRISHMAS
24 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Chelsey & Jaci are wishing you & yours a merry Christmas! They debut their new WWS pj’s dropping in January on YouTube & talk about Tris...
HOLIDAY TRADITIONS!
17 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are chatting all about making your holiday season special by creating fun, cozy, & sometimes quirky holiday traditions! What...
People pleasing is OUT!!
13 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today, the girls are chatting about traveling with kids, the “Buy Now” documentary, family vacations, & more! They also talk about living your...
TINSEL & TENSION: Holiday drama stories!
10 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, the girls are listener stories about holiday drama! They talk about getting lectured by your FIL, best friend betrayals, & insufferable...