How Veterans And Partners Can Communicate, Reconnect, And Thrive At Home

Send us a textA homecoming can feel like a finish line, but for many veterans and partners it’s the moment everything shifts. Roles change, routines collide, and good intentions get lost in translation. We brought in David and Alexis “Kiwi” to share the tools that helped them turn a painful communication breakdown—yes, including a hard‑boiled egg in a birthday lasagna—into a marriage that’s resilient, connected, and aligned.We explore how unspoken expectations sabotage closeness and why building a common language is the fastest way to sync meaning with message. You’ll learn the “three businesses” framework that lowers anxiety on the spot: own what you think, feel, do, and create; influence but don’t control others; trust the timing and outcomes you can’t manage. We dig into mindset science too—how your reticular activating system filters reality to match your focus—and how a simple physiology reset can break the spin cycle of stress in seconds. Instead of command-and-control habits that backfire at home, we model curiosity, clear requests, and practical rituals.Expect concrete steps you can use tonight: five to ten minutes of daily couch time with three prompts (best part, hardest part, how can I support you), the “what’s in your cup” check to upgrade your inputs, and the same-team mindset that turns arguments into joint problem-solving. Whether you’re navigating reintegration, launching a business together, or simply trying to feel close again, these tools help you reclaim presence and rebuild trust without guesswork.If this conversation gave you a new way to show up for your partner, share it with someone who needs it, subscribe for more veteran-focused tools, and leave a review telling us your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps more families find the habits that heal.PLATE & PONDER: EMPTY NESTING w/ Jen & Chris FentonWith a wine buzz, an empty-nesting married couple tackles a full plate of global issues.Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the show

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