有些人所謂的愛，是佔有、是征服，希望對方諒解自己，要求對方屬於自己。好比時下年輕人有一句話說「有一種冷，是媽媽覺得你冷」，大多數的媽媽會用自己對溫度的感覺，要孩子多穿衣服，而忘了孩子也是有他自己的覺知能力。 在這一集節目中，聖嚴法師認為「不想進入對方的內心世界，而是強迫別人來接受自己的想法，這不是智慧、不是慈悲。不同的立場或身分，會有不同的體驗表現，能夠使自己不產生矛盾、衝突、不愉快，這叫作智慧。」也提醒大家，大丈夫能屈能伸，得意的時候不會狂妄，倒楣的時候更不需要自卑。有智慧的人，不論在任何時間、任何立場、任何情況下，心裡都是坦蕩蕩的，都是自在的，無牽、無掛、無礙的。 聲音／陳品文 ※《聖嚴法師自在語》聽嘸台語也沒關係！歡迎同步收聽國語版 https://sndn.link/DDM/RzCaer ※ 《聖嚴法師自在語》單元台語版 https://www.ddm.org.tw/xmnews?xsmsid=0L207419114119814182&qcat=0M132555393739788126#PageListContainer ※ 法鼓山全球資訊網 https://www.ddm.org.tw/ -- Hosting provided by SoundOn
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