想说的话最近看到青年朋友中有这样一种心情：他们说，谈恋爱就像吃泡面，看别人吃的时候很香很诱人，自己也想恋爱，等到自己有机会真的谈恋爱的时候，却觉得有些反胃，不想谈。不知道大家有没有这样的心情。我觉得这个现象很有意思，所以今天我想和大家聊一聊，这种“谈恋爱就像吃泡面”的心态是怎样形成的，也和大家探讨一下，怎样走出这个迷思的一些解法。One More Thing我与新世相「光之来处」合作了一门《工作之苦》课程，聚焦这个时代的工作新问题，希望能和大家一起，寻找重建生活的答案。课程有30节，如果大家对课程感兴趣，可以搜索「光之来处」公众号去看看。内容提要01:13谈恋爱就像吃泡面？04:08拥有了更多选择的我们，生命的复杂程度翻倍，恋爱的复杂性也翻倍了15:50当代的爱情逻辑正在发生转换：获得与确定的逻辑——>过程逻辑28:42一个好的爱情，往往是对“难度”的准备比较充分39:17生命的本质是孤独，而爱情并不是孤独的解药送你一首歌47:30《槐安路的咖啡馆》-杨东煜
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