在我们粤语里，认亲戚叫“上契”，干爹称“契爷”，干妈称“契妈”，其他如契仔、契女、契姐、契哥等，但是干弟弟就不能叫“契弟”，而要说“契细佬”。因为在粤语里面，“契弟”是一个很不好听的骂人话。根据广东文史记载，清代末年，广州西关的光雅里一带，有一种专为红白喜丧主家服务的行业叫“爷门堂倌”，简称“堂倌”。堂倌虽然分男堂和女堂两类，实际上女堂也由三十岁左右的男人充任。男人装扮的女堂倌主要侍候女眷，因此要面施脂粉，油亮的头上卡着镏金镀银的大发夹，出手兰花指，说话细着嗓音，行为举止一如女人。据说长期操此业者即使后来脱离此行当，其举止也带“女性”特点。这些男性“女堂倌”们之间以姊妹相称，甚至有的还与雇主家的纨绔子弟传出丑闻。经过一些小报的夸大渲染，光雅里被视作藏污纳垢之所，并由此产生了一句歇后语：“光雅里出世——正契弟”！光雅里这个地方被蒙上恶名，导致许多住户竞相迁离。不过事过境迁，现在“契弟”的词义在广州话的口语里已经模糊了，人们相互之间打趣时还用此词表示亲热，骂人的意味已经不像最初那么严重了。
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