年轻男女结婚举办婚礼的时候，通常新郎新娘都要各找一个人全程陪伴，男方成为伴郎，女方称为伴娘。不过伴郎伴娘是比较现代的讲法，在粤语里面，伴娘通常称为姊妹，而伴郎则称为戥穿石。为什么伴郎称为戥穿石呢？关于这个词的出处有两个说法。第一个，是来源于水上人家。话说渔船出海的时候，因为还没有渔获船身比较轻，所以通常会放一些石头用来稳定船身，这些石头叫做“艠砖石”。因为这些石头与伴郎在迎亲队伍中起的作用有些相似，所以口口相传之下，伴郎就被称为戥穿石。而另一个说法，则是说以前有个名叫邓穿的人，有次他要挑一头猪到市集上卖，但只有一头猪没办法平衡，挑起来很困难，于是他在扁担的另一头挂了一块大石头用来平衡。大家觉得他这个做法很傻，就叫他做“邓穿石”。因为这块石头起陪衬作用，与伴郎相似，而戥字在粤语里有平衡、对称的意思，所以后来大家就把伴郎称为“戥穿石”了。
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