Abbie Chatfield

No, no, no, no, no.

Just pretend that you don't care that she's giving it up easy.

Just let her be a slut around you.

You can be her safe slut space.

Yes.

What you should avoid doing at all costs, however, is verbalising your intentions to have sex, okay?

You do not want to say anything about sex or your intent to have it to the woman.

Whenever you reveal your sexual intentions to a woman by saying something about it, you engage the logical portion of her mind, which causes her societal conditioning to kick in.

Uh-oh, she thinks.

God, I wish I could turn off the logical portion of my mind.

As though we're walking around, not ever thinking logically.

This is, again, just classic misogyny.

Like this misogynistic idea that we would have no logic.

But as soon as a man mentions sex, we –

Wait a minute.

Uh-oh.

Well, I actually have read almost this whole book and I don't think there's ever any time that you're allowed to say anything, though there are times later on in terms of where to pick up women that you will –

Just hold on for that, guys.

It's my favourite part of the book.

So she'll think, uh-oh, this guy is tacky, gross and creepy and I could end up being a slut here.