Abbie Chatfield

There's lots of sex workers who are also therapists.

Like there are a lot of ones out there, you know.

Just go and find one that will do a little deal.

So he says, well, here's the thing.

You're operating on a false assumption.

Money spent doesn't necessarily equal legs opening.

Whoa.

When I read that, Amy, I went, whoa, whoa, whoa, what's he talking about?

Then what does equal legs open?

The problem with lavishing money on a woman who hasn't earned it is what it communicates.

What it communicates to her loud and clear is that her value is higher than yours.

So you need to earn her approval by purchasing it.

It's like you're saying, okay, I know my value is less than yours.

So how's about I throw a dozen roses and expensive dinner and I get some really nice diamond earrings for you.

So, again, he's not saying, you know, don't spend all this money because realistically what should be the reason why someone sleeps with you is because they like you as a person or because things are going well or because you're attractive.

He's saying never buy them anything because it communicates that you are of lower status, right?

He says the bottom line here is that there are three unbreakable rules of spending money on women.

Screw these up and not only will you go home broke –

but with blue balls too.

I know.