Abby Wambach

If you say the thing and claim the thing, it defangs the thing.

Okay, the next question is, Amanda, you've shared a lot about control, handling it all and feeling overwhelmed.

Where are you with that right now?

Have you found anything that is helpful?

Just an easy one.

Yeah, help the people.

Help the people.

I'm thinking.

So I had I shared a little bit about this on the tour.

But I what happened was I went through, you know, the year long cancer situation and

And someone texted me about, oh, no, it was, like, the day of the year anniversary of my diagnosis and was like, holy shit, it's been a year.

Like, congratulations.

I'm sure you're a different person now.

I was so sad.

Like, I hadn't been sad about the whole thing.

But when I got that text and, like, sat with it for a minute, I –

felt really legitimately gross and depressed and sad.

And I think it's because I realized that I kind of thought that a magical thing would happen with the cancer, where it was like kind of this

God imposed speed bump where it would be like, okay, shitty news about that.

But the good news is that inevitably there will be some transformation of me where I will stop going from like a stressed out, super anxious, feeling like I need to get everything done person.