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Abby Wambach

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911 total appearances

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We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

And that gives us a reason to not compensate that work and to assign it to them.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

They super want it, therefore it has no value.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

Okay, outs here in the exterior world, in the public spaces are where we are going to give prestige and money.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

and value, okay?

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

And then you look at even the things that happen in the domestic sphere.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

Like, why is it you punch somebody in the face on the street, it's assault.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

You punch somebody in the face in a home, suddenly there is

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

That is now a domestic situation.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

It is treated differently than if it happened outside the home.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

In the writing, even the value of saying, okay, this is an analysis of internal interior worlds changes.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

is by definition, that's a cute self-help thing.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

That is not something that is valuable to the world inherently and to people.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

And it's just like, it isn't interior.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

Because it's interior, everything that you talk about has structural and societal and political implications.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

It is called interior because it is a woman exploring it.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

Like, I always think of the Audre Lorde quote, like, anything that I accept about myself cannot be used against me.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

And so this idea that you are naming all of the things about yourself, which then other women can see in themselves and name for themselves and claim for themselves, it stops being a weapon used against us if it's something that we see and claim on our own.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

And that is...

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

Hugely important because everyone's scared to say the thing because they know it's weaponized.

We Can Do Hard Things
Amanda’s Breakthrough: Finally Letting Go

But here's the truth.