Abby

They're like, oh, you're going to go to work and I'm going to play with honey or I'm going to go like do this activity.

I'm like, yeah.

And I think it's really cool that my kids also can see me as their mom having this role in providing for the family.

And like also like we talk about the purpose of work and like working hard, too.

And I feel like it's good that they see their mom having this role.

role as well and not that it's only in the career realm but also like within the house but i don't know it's it's helped me just like be more intentional with my work and my role as a mom and like how i talk about it more because i felt like really weird like i had to like be vague about it like i was like i'll be right back like i was now i'm just like oh i'm gonna go work and i don't know i just feel like for some reason that didn't click for me in the beginning totally

yeah i don't know i just feel sad for women that it is like a hard choice yeah it's super hard well i think on the flip side of it too is that i think like people waiting to have kids or people are also waiting to get married which we obviously didn't and i like have just been that also started the conversation of like young marriage like where it was like okay because also she's not married anymore and like when she says like god damn it he loves her i feel like there's like this like

to like... What was the quote?

There was some podcast that Matt and I always talk about where someone's like... Marriage is like choosing someone to be a witness to your life.

And I just like think about that a lot.

I'm like that's...

how do i say this it would just it'd be hard for you to imagine it'd be hard for me to imagine like going through life without someone intimately knowing everything that's happening my thoughts like what i'm going about my day gosh like what my one-stop shake order is like it's like someone that just like knows you so intimately like one person that like that would probably feel i can imagine that where that could feel lonely where it's like it's not even the fact that he like

like this family she's looking at that he loves her, but that like he knows her and that they're like in each other's lives.

I don't know.

And so, I don't know where I'm going with this, but just thinking about like life, how it looks so differently depending on when you enter into marriage.

Because I mean, we're very, I got married at 20, which is crazy now saying that.

But just thinking about how,

Matt and I were actually just talking about this.

I was like, Matt, I literally know you so well.

I was like, I literally remember when you were a kid and I saw you become a man and you saw me go from like become a woman.